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12-year-old girl kills herself because of the lie of an afterlife


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2014 Jan 9, 4:42am   91,359 views  428 comments

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A 12-year-old girl whose father died, takes her own life in order to see her father again. Of course, she does not get to see her father again because there is no afterlife. Sure, the lie of the afterlife might numb the pain of loss for a child, but if that child actually believes the lie, she might act on it as this poor girl did.

Now, this isn't about blame. It's about not repeating the same mistake. Stop telling children the lie about there being an afterlife. The lie does far more damage than good.

The Young Turks discuss this issue including the clause about suicide written to discourage people from offing themselves during their productive and taxable years to get to paradise sooner.

http://www.youtube.com/embed/_uWMOZ0vaCY

All the false comfort in all of history that the lie of an afterlife offered is outweighed by this one girl's death. The tally is negative for this alone, and I doubt very much that this is the first time in history someone has wasted his or her life because of the afterlife lie. It's just the first indisputable proof we've seen.

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1   Dan8267   2014 Jan 9, 8:11am  

What? No one wants to come to the defense of religion? Not even Marcus?

2   Heraclitusstudent   2014 Jan 9, 9:12am  

Look at the bright side: there's a lot of Darwin Awards who remove themselves from the gene pool in search for the afterlife.

Some become monks.
Some blow themselves up.
Some go to war with other Darwin Awards.

3   Y   2014 Jan 9, 9:44am  

is your avatar wearing a bra??

Heraclitusstudent says

Look at the bright side: there's a lot of Darwin Awards who remove themselves from the gene pool in search for the afterlife.

Some become monks.

Some blow themselves up.

Some go to war with other Darwin Awards.

4   Strategist   2014 Jan 9, 9:47am  

Dan8267 says

What? No one wants to come to the defense of religion? Not even Marcus?

Science vs myths. They will lose every time.

5   JodyChunder   2014 Jan 9, 10:30am  

Maybe Dylan got it right; maybe death is not the end. Consciousness, after all, is really only a stratified predicate.

6   Dan8267   2014 Jan 10, 5:27am  

JodyChunder says

Maybe Dylan got it right; maybe death is not the end. Consciousness, after all, is really only a stratified predicate.

No. Your consciousness continues to run after death the same way your spreadsheet continues to run after you power down your desktop.

You as a person are your mind. Your mind is entirely coexistent with your brain. When your brain stops, your mind stops, your consciousness stops, you stop. It's that simple and it's that obvious.

7   Strategist   2014 Jan 10, 6:00am  

Dan8267 says

JodyChunder says

Maybe Dylan got it right; maybe death is not the end. Consciousness, after all, is really only a stratified predicate.

No. Your consciousness continues to run after death the same way your spreadsheet continues to run after you power down your desktop.

You as a person are your mind. Your mind is entirely coexistent with your brain. When your brain stops, your mind stops, your consciousness stops, you stop. It's that simple and it's that obvious.

In other words, lights out means just that....lights out.
Just enjoy your life and don't worry about anything.

8   marcus   2014 Jan 10, 6:09am  

IT's extremely sad, whatever her reasons were. But there are many possibilities.. Maybe she was smart and doubted the existence of an afterlife(which loved ones assured her existed), but was extremely depressed and going through all the other difficulties of being a girl that age, and killed herself for a number of reasons (some chemical perhaps? That's usually the case).

If you've ever thought about it, what is the toughest thing about killing oneself ? Answer: Caring about the impact it will have on others.

So her putting in to a note (if that's how we magically know what her exact state of mind and thinking was that led her to this) that she is now with her dad, may very likely have been written for the benefit of those who will miss her.

Actually, her note::

"Maria, from Leszno in Poland, had left a short note, which read: "Dear Mum. Please don't be sad. I just miss daddy so much, I want to see him again."

http://www.mirror.co.uk/news/world-news/maria-kislo-schoolgirl-found-hanged-2530189#ixzz2q2K0yKM4

Then again, maybe she is (was) an avid atheist and the knew this would make some great propaganda for some of the most simple minded radical atheists out there.

http://www.patheos.com/blogs/friendlyatheist/2013/10/27/to-be-with-her-father-in-heaven-girl-12-commits-suicide/

9   marcus   2014 Jan 10, 6:37am  

marcus says

So her putting in to a note (if that's how we magically know what her exact state of mind and thinking was that led her to this) that she is now with her dad, may very likely have been written for the benefit of those who will miss her.

Actually, her note::

"Maria, from Leszno in Poland, had left a short note, which read: "Dear Mum. Please don't be sad. I just miss daddy so much, I want to see him again."

Here allow me to save you the trouble.

IT would still be true that without this religious *lie she would not have been able to leave it as a comforting message for her mother, and then she would have been more aware of the impact it would have, probably preventing her from doing it.

Could be.

*Regarding that "lie." Who knows how many people otherwise may have been too grief sticken by a loved ones death (eg people used to lose a lot of young children to sickness) to even go on living, that is without that "lie."

How do priests who know better tell that lie ? Probably because they believe it, in a way. It's symbolic. We return to where we came from. This may be back to nothing or it might be something else, I don't know. They romatacize something that's a mystery.

That is, it's a mystery to me and most other people. I do not have to have the answers like some egos do. I certainly do not think we retain our human mind or ego, but I'm not going to say that I know there is nothing. It's too simple too definitive, and yes I'm the kind of person that's happy to say I DON't KNOW.

IF you want me to assign probabilities, sure, the nothing hypotheses is more likely. But still, I am quite comfortable with 'I don't know.'

Out of curiosity Dan, how many of your all time most beloved people in your life have you lost ? Just curious.

10   Dan8267   2014 Jan 10, 7:07am  

marcus says

IT's extremely sad, whatever her reasons were.

Her reasons aren't in question. We know what they were. She believed in heaven. She thought her dad was in heaven. She thought she would see her dad in heaven if she died. She was wrong about all three things.

Don't try to change the facts. There is no doubt that she ended her life because of her false belief in an afterlife.

More importantly, it's extremely sad precisely because there is no afterlife. If heaven did exist, this story would be a happy one, not a tragic one. It's only tragic if the afterlife is a lie. How could 80 years of pain and hardship be worth delaying an eternality of bliss? It isn't. If the afterlife were real, then the girl did the right thing and we should rejoice. The fact that no one is rejoicing over this proves that none of us really believe in that shit when it comes down to it.

marcus says

Then again, maybe she is (was) an avid atheist and the knew this would make some great propaganda for some of the most simple minded radical atheists out there.

You are going way out of your way inventing falsehoods in order to defend another falsehood that cannot stand up to direct scrutiny. This is a disingenuous lie, and even advocating it cheapens the girl's life. If her dead is to have any positive influence on the world, that is, if her life isn't too be completely wasted, then at least we should learn something from her tragic demise. To undermine that is as crass as pissing on the poor girl's grave.

marcus says

Regarding that "lie."

Putting the word "lie" in quotes does not make a lie any less of a lie. There had to be at least one first person who invented the lie of an afterlife. Each of those first persons made up the lie, no different than if I were to tell you that Napoleon freed the American slaves from Ming the Merciless.

The fact that a lie has persisted over millennia does not change the fact that it is a lie, has always been a lie, and will always be a lie. Nor does social acceptance of a lie make it any less of a lie. If anything, social acceptance makes a lie more dangerous.

marcus says

WHo knows how many people otherwise may have been too grief sticken by a loved ones death (eg people used to lose a lot of young children to sickness) too even go on living, that is without that "lie."

Oh, so now the lie is justified because, without doing any scientific study, you assert that maybe the number of people who off themselves because of the lie is less than the number of people who would off themselves from grief without the lie. Well, that's a big IF. And suicide is hardly the only negative consequence of this lie and all the other lies with which it's bundled.

Even in the best scenario, the lie merely adverts people from dealing with their grief and handling it. By that philosophy, you should just get piss drunk of high to deal with grief. Even those things are less dangerous than religion. At least no one wages wars across the centuries over the issue of ale or lager.

marcus says

I do not have to have the answers like some egos do.

It's not egotistical to recognize that human beings can obtain knowledge about the universe. Anyone who says, "I know nothing", is a liar. Every person is born with a certain level of knowledge and understanding hardwired into our brains through the arduous process of evolution. Then throughout our lives we learn at the edges of our knowledge, continually expanding those boundaries. To recognize what lies within those boundaries no more egotistical than recognizing that one knows how to drive properly and stop at traffic lights is egotistical.

Ironically, the most egotistical statement ever made was The only true wisdom is in knowing you know nothing. That's bullshit. I know the square root of two is irrational. I can build on that. Touting willful ignorance as humility is egotistical.

marcus says

IF you want me to assign probabilities, sure, the nothing hypotheses is more likely.

There is as much reason to believe in a heaven after death as there is to believe that you will go to a smurf orgy after you die. As such, it is sensible to assign these two events the same probability.

marcus says

Out of curiosity Dan, how many of your all time most beloved people in your life have you lost ?

More than zero, and I would not cheapen their memories by pretending they are playing shuffle board with angels.

More importantly, my parents are seniors and still alive. If I believed in an afterlife, there would be no reason to spend time with them on Earth since I'll have all the time in eternity to catch up with them after death. Luckily, I'm not that stupid. I know the time I have with them is a limited and precious commodity, and I do not waste it.

Belief in an afterlife is the primary motivation for wasting real life and the limited time your consciousness has.

11   marcus   2014 Jan 10, 7:17am  

Wow. All this because a girl kills herself and in her note to her Mother she says:

"Dear Mum. Please don't be sad. I just miss daddy so much, I want to see him again."

I actually do not believe that is the reason. That is my opinion. You know what an opinion is, and how that's different than a fact ? Usually a severe chemical imbalance is what causes a 12 year old to end their own life.

Yes, she tried to comfort her mother in the note. Maybe your OPINION is correct that her saying that meant more than just an attempt to comfort her mother. Maybe not.

Dan8267 says

marcus says

Then again, maybe she is (was) an avid atheist and the knew this would make some great propaganda for some of the most simple minded radical atheists out there.

You are going way out of your way inventing falsehoods in order to defend another falsehood that cannot stand up to direct scrutiny

It was a joke. Sort of a troll, but I thought you would recognize it as such.

12   Y   2014 Jan 10, 7:41am  

Would you consider billards with Al Pacino??

Dan8267 says

marcus says

Out of curiosity Dan, how many of your all time most beloved people in your life have you lost ?

More than zero, and I would not cheapen their memories by pretending they are playing shuffle board with angels.

13   Shaman   2014 Jan 10, 7:44am  

If Dan is right, and the mind is simply an electrochemical phenomenon within a piece of organic jelly that ceases upon death, then why is this sad? What, if anything, is sad? And why? How could anything be sad if nothing matters because our existence is a pointless accident of chemistry? Go live your life. Any way you want to! Do what you like, who cares how it affects other pointless chemical accidents! It's not like anything really matters.
Grats, Dan, you've converted me to an atheist.
I've always had a hankering for face ...

14   Ceffer   2014 Jan 10, 7:54am  

Dummass little girl is going to burn in the fires of eternal perdition. Suicide is self murder, a mortal sin.

Should have hooked her carriage to a different psychosis.

15   Y   2014 Jan 10, 7:55am  

There's a lot of contradiction in this paragraph....

Dan8267 says

More importantly, my parents are seniors and still alive. If I believed in an afterlife, there would be no reason to spend time with them on Earth since I'll have all the time in eternity to catch up with them after death. Luckily, I'm not that stupid. I know the time I have with them is a limited and precious commodity, and I do not waste it.

16   JodyChunder   2014 Jan 10, 8:06am  

Nobody knows enough about human consciousness and how it has evolved to make such definitive proclamations. To even bullshit about it with any level of authority would require better than a shade tree neuroscientist's understanding of the entire human nervous system. A general understanding of psychology might not hurt, either. A sprig of humility, maybe...

Me -- I used to go around thinking the human brain was the most amazing thing; then it dawned on me what part of my body was telling me that!

Even still, boiling down the complexities of human conciousness so as to compare it to that of a computer operating system is a little too facile.

17   marcus   2014 Jan 10, 8:38am  

Quigley says

If Dan is right, and the mind is simply an electrochemical phenomenon within a piece of organic jelly that ceases upon death, then why is this sad?

I understand his view. He respects life, and he believes that when someone dies, all of their accumulated knowledge and experience and all of the love that they held all that they are goes to nothing. It's pretty tragic. Also imagine the tragedy back in the day when beautiful young children were lost to illness. Sometimes one family would lose several.

In his infinite arrogance, Dan knows that the way humans deal with unimaginable loss of loved ones is folly. He knows this. And he hates the way that the silly humans are. He knows better, and wishes to share his wisdom with us.

Gee, thanks Dan.

Get past the first part of this excellent song. It doesn't stay so psychedelic. Good video too.

http://www.youtube.com/embed/CZ5xsH2HEgE&list=PL5852C1F6C02FAB4A

Another from the same album

http://www.youtube.com/embed/-JVrjBKCWgs&list=PL5852C1F6C02FAB4A

18   bdrasin   2014 Jan 10, 9:06am  

marcus says

"Dear Mum. Please don't be sad. I just miss daddy so much, I want to see him again."

I actually do not believe that is the reason. That is my opinion. You know what an opinion is, and how that's different than a fact ? Usually a severe chemical imbalance is what causes a 12 year old to end their own life.

I'm sorry, but I think you are dodging the question. Maybe you are right (and I can see how that can help you reduce cognitive dissonance), but I think you have to at least address the chance (indeed, the likelihood) that the reason was exactly what she said it was.

19   JodyChunder   2014 Jan 10, 9:12am  

It might have been her reason, but I think what Marcus is saying is that there must have been an underlying condition (a gland firing too much or not enough of something) which predisposed the child to such thoughts in the first place.

20   marcus   2014 Jan 10, 9:16am  

bdrasin says

but I think you have to at least address the chance (indeed, the likelihood) that the reason was exactly what she said it was.

I did address it. marcus says

Yes, she tried to comfort her mother in the note. Maybe your OPINION is correct that her saying that meant more than just an attempt to comfort her mother. Maybe not.

Even with my pov, you can blame religion for giving her such a way to comfort her mother (as I said).

Okay, let's say that was her thinking. Still she was deeply depressed to a point of killing herself. We don't know that without the concept of heaven she would not have chosen "to join" her father anyway.

It still boils down to a severely sick state she was in at that moment. And this is all ridiculous over analysis.

21   Heraclitusstudent   2014 Jan 10, 9:21am  

Quigley says

If Dan is right, and the mind is simply an electrochemical phenomenon within a piece of organic jelly that ceases upon death, then why is this sad? What, if anything, is sad? And why? How could anything be sad if nothing matters because our existence is a pointless accident of chemistry?

I was going to make a similar point but you are saying it wrong.

The fact that life 'appears' pointless is not relevant, because people have emotions, joys, pains, and that life itself as we perceive it is valuable.

Dan's obvious answer to that would be that afterlife doesn't add any meaning. Life with afterlife is still be pointless, maybe even more (why have part life and part afterlife?).

22   Heraclitusstudent   2014 Jan 10, 9:32am  

The question to Dan is that if belief in afterlife is worthless because there is no such thing in the physical world, then the implication is that things are only worthy of consideration if they exist in the outside physical world. In other words only pure physical facts matter.

Since pain and sadness are just feelings created by the brain, and are not observed physical facts, they are therefore just idiosyncrasies of the brain to be discarded as irrelevant.

Pain and sadness were created by evolution to lead us to act a certain way and we can now advantageously replace this by knowledge and logic about the way we act.

23   New Renter   2014 Jan 10, 9:38am  

Dan8267 says

I doubt very much that this is the first time in history someone has wasted his or her life because of the afterlife lie. It's just the first indisputable proof we've seen.

You seem to be forgetting every single suicide bomber and kamikaze pilot in history.

24   marcus   2014 Jan 10, 9:39am  

Heraclitusstudent says

Pain and sadness were created by evolution to lead us to act a certain way

Interesting.

What is the evolutionary function of emotional pain that is so deep that it virtually paralyzes a person ?

25   Heraclitusstudent   2014 Jan 10, 9:47am  

marcus says

Heraclitusstudent says

Pain and sadness were created by evolution to lead us to act a certain way

Interesting.

What is the evolutionary function of emotional pain that is so deep that it virtually paralyzes a person ?

Attachment to loved ones is required for families and tribes to hold together and social organization in groups is an evolution outcome that has obvious advantages for survival.

The other side of this attachment: pain at separation. It is the necessary motivation to make you stick together.

26   marcus   2014 Jan 10, 9:48am  

Good answer.

Although, why not do it with just a positive emotional aspect to the connection(s), without such pain at loss, is one impossible without the other ? Seems to be a negative for evolution. How many times have people literally died from grief ? IF not directly, then indirectly.

Getting over it should be in our programming too, and I think it is. But it takes a fair amount of time (regardless of superficial beliefs). I think sometimes several years. Actually, I don't know that I see all of this as being in "our programming."

27   Heraclitusstudent   2014 Jan 10, 10:08am  

I was just trying to show that life is more than pure logic and trying to restrict it to pure logic removes the most interesting aspects of life.

Yes pain and joy go together, and both should be embraced as part of life and as purely 'good'. Life wouldn't be life without pain. While as humans, it's natural to avoid pain, we ought to recognize it as a necessary counter balance. A life without pain, just going from pleasure to pleasure, would be hugely boring and would leave us completely undeveloped as human beings.

Pain or more generally adversity is what shapes as who we are.

As for the girl, yes this is sad, but an other feeling here is: such a waste.

28   JodyChunder   2014 Jan 10, 10:29am  

Heraclitusstudent says

It is the necessary motivation to make you stick together.

Despite monogamy being wholly unnatural.

29   Dan8267   2014 Jan 10, 1:01pm  

marcus says

I actually do not believe that is the reason.

Refusing to accept a truth because it contradicts your beliefs is, by definition, self-delusion.

Stating that you refuse to accept the girls note as being honest is nothing more than a dishonest dodge of the issue: true belief in an afterlife causes people to make foolish and even tragic decisions.

Quigley says

If Dan is right, and the mind is simply an electrochemical phenomenon within a piece of organic jelly that ceases upon death, then why is this sad

The fact that consciousnesses arises from physical components instead of make-believe fairy mystical components doesn't mean it is simple or worthless. The loss of a sentient mind is sad because such a mind has value. Sentience is itself valuable. If you don't believe me, feel free to off yourself. If you don't, you are confirming that you value your self conscientiousness and that my words are true.

To believe that life only has value because some magic sky daddy created it is to believe that life itself is cheap. It is belittling to this spectacular universe.

SoftShell says

There's a lot of contradiction in this paragraph....

Feel free to point out what you erroneously believe to be a contradiction and explain why. I'll then explain why you are wrong.

marcus says

In his infinite arrogance, Dan knows that the way humans deal with unimaginable loss of loved ones is folly. He knows this. And he hates the way that the silly humans are. He knows better, and wishes to share his wisdom with us.

Only a fool believes it is infinite arrogance to oppose delusions, especially dangerous ones. And since when is the desire to share wisdom and understanding a bad thing? Wisdom is one of the greatest gifts one can give. Although, as you have demonstrated, it is also one of those most likely to be rejected.

JodyChunder says

It might have been her reason, but I think what Marcus is saying is that there must have been an underlying condition (a gland firing too much or not enough of something) which predisposed the child to such thoughts in the first place.

The dirty truth is that the girl's logic was impeccable. If the conclusion was absurd, it is only because the premise was equally absurd, for the premise is the only thing contributing to the incorrectness of the conclusion.

If her faith in the afterlife is well-founded, then there is no tragedy here. She is happily in heaven with her father and is far better off than if she had lived. If her faith in the afterlife is wrong, then this is a terrible tragedy. There are no other options. This is a scenario where the premise of an afterlife actually does matter. The truth of that premise is the only thing that is important.

It is perfectly rational to kill oneself if the Christian afterlife myth were true. In fact, if the heaven myth were true, everyone would be morally obligated to kill babies before they had the opportunity to sin and risk losing heaven. Of course, if the myth is false, then it is morally irrepressible to kill babies. The acceptance of this afterlife lie radically alters what is a moral choice and what is a wise choice. It's not an academic question.

marcus says

Still she was deeply depressed to a point of killing herself. We don't know that without the concept of heaven she would not have chosen "to join" her father anyway.

This is utter bullshit. There was nothing in the video to even suggest that the girl was depressed. Her note said

Dear mom, please don't be sad. I just miss daddy so much I want to see him again.

That's not depression; that's hope. The only mental disorder here is the delusion of an afterlife.

Again, if the afterlife were actually real, her actions would be very reasonable.

Heraclitusstudent says

Dan's obvious answer to that would be that afterlife doesn't add any meaning.

It's true that an afterlife would not add meaning to real life. In fact, it would diminish the meaning of real life since the afterlife would be infinitely more important. There would be no point in even trying to make this world a better place if it's just an extremely short layover to the real experience of sentience.

Heraclitusstudent says

The question to Dan is that if belief in afterlife is worthless because there is no such thing in the physical world, then the implication is that things are only worthy of consideration if they exist in the outside physical world. In other words only pure physical facts matter.

Since pain and sadness are just feelings created by the brain, and are not observed physical facts, they are therefore just idiosyncrasies of the brain to be discarded as irrelevant.

No, that's not at all what I think.

1. There is no such thing as outside the physical world. Everything that exists, by definition is physical including emotions.
2. The value of something isn't determined by how mysterious or unexplainable it is.
3. To use the word "just" to diminish the importance of something is not convincing. For example, mind-blowing sex is just mind-blowing. I still want it.
4. Pain, sadness, and everything else your experience are observable physical facts. The fact that sensations and emotions are implemented with these wonderful devices called atoms and molecules and cells does not diminish their significance. Since when did existing in nature become a bad thing? Nature rocks. Non-existent alternatives to nature are lame.
5. Idiosyncrasies is hardly the term to apply to the culmination of 13.8 billion years of physics and 3.8 billion years of evolution.
6. Nature is impressive enough herself. You don't need to steal her glory and give it to some imaginary sky daddy, who quite frankly is far less impressive. There is nothing in the Bible that is as incredible as the nuclear fusion of hydrogen atoms into helium in the furnaces of stars. Far more impressive is the myriad of devices that can be made from a handful of elements using chemistry. And exponentially more impressive than that is the arrangement of these devices to form life and eventually self-aware life. All these things are accomplishments of nature, not your imaginary gods. Belief in a god is disrespect for nature.

New Renter says

Dan8267 says

I doubt very much that this is the first time in history someone has wasted his or her life because of the afterlife lie. It's just the first indisputable proof we've seen.

You seem to be forgetting every single suicide bomber and kamikaze pilot in history.

I stand corrected. You are right.

30   Heraclitusstudent   2014 Jan 10, 2:24pm  

Dan8267 says

5. Idiosyncrasies is hardly the term to apply to the culmination of 13.8 billion years of physics and 3.8 billion years of evolution.

13.8 billions years of evolution produced a brain that you say too often believes in afterlife.

Dan8267 says

4. Pain, sadness, and everything else your experience are observable physical facts. The fact that sensations and emotions are implemented with these wonderful devices called atoms and molecules and cells does not diminish their significance. Since when did existing in nature become a bad thing? Nature rocks. Non-existent alternatives to nature are lame.

So do rocks and trees exist and are implemented in atoms and molecules. Do they have the same significance as emotions?

The point is the value of emotions is precisely NOT the fact that they are implemented physically. It's not either the fact that they are mysterious. Rather it's the simple fact that we experience them as emotions.

I.e. As human beings, we live in a world made of emotions. And emotions are not rational. What's most precious about life is something that cannot be reduced to logic.

31   marcus   2014 Jan 10, 2:39pm  

Btw, this is the story:
http://www.theblaze.com/stories/2013/10/30/religion-kills-atheists-claim-childs-suicide-proves-teaching-kids-about-god-and-heaven-can-be-deadly/

Little is known about Maria’s religious education or other circumstances she was facing, so it’s not possible to state definitely either way what role faith played in her decision to take her life. Still, that hasn’t stopped some from using tragedy to chime in about the harm they say religion does.

Normally I give atheists credit for on average being fairly intelligent, even if I do take issue with the radical, arrogant or adolescent ones who think they have had some earth shattering break throughs that they need to teach everyone (the prosthelytizers).

But this story shows that sometimes they can be just really stupid.

Dan8267 says

There was nothing in the video to even suggest that the girl was depressed. Her note said

Dear mom, please don't be sad. I just miss daddy so much I want to see him again.

You're amazing. She killed herself ! That's evidence of a very sick state of mind.

Most normal Christians (including 12 year old children) even if they wish there is an afterlife and sort of believe in it, know that it may well not exist.

Between the following two choices which is more likely?

1) The girl was in a very sick state of mind and chose to kill herself, writing in her note that she wanted to join her father, which was easily a very real feeling that she could have even without believing there is an afterlife. And that her desire for her mom to "please don't be sad" was a big part of the purpose for her note. Although again yes, the desire to join her father, basically a suicidal feeling, makes sense as a (sick) suicidal feeling she had, even without knowledge, certainty or even any belief in an afterlife.

2) She was in a rational and healthy state of mind, and knew with such certainty that there is an afterlife (that is good and something that is worth giving up her entire future in this world for - just to see dad again - which she would eventually anyway if heaven exists), that she made the rational choice to be with her father (now) in heaven.

You say #2 is obviously true and that I'm delusional for thinking #1 is more likely.

I'm perfectly okay with you thinking that, and have nothing else to say on this.

32   New Renter   2014 Jan 11, 3:48am  

Dan8267 says

JodyChunder says

Maybe Dylan got it right; maybe death is not the end. Consciousness, after all, is really only a stratified predicate.

No. Your consciousness continues to run after death the same way your spreadsheet continues to run after you power down your desktop.

Not your spreadsheet. Your email and patnet posts. Even when you hit delete they live on forever in NSA server heaven.

33   Dan8267   2014 Jan 13, 6:52am  

Heraclitusstudent says

So do rocks and trees exist and are implemented in atoms and molecules. Do they have the same significance as emotions?

The rocks and trees that have large neural networks do.

Heraclitusstudent says

Rather it's the simple fact that we experience them as emotions.

Which is due entirely to the functioning of a physical brain composed of a handful of elements.

Heraclitusstudent says

And emotions are not rational. What's most precious about life is something that cannot be reduced to logic.

That's arguing semantics.

The fact is that all of the emotional experiences of mankind, and other animals, can and is explained beautifully by the Theory of Evolution. Various biologists who study animals in social groups can point to the reasons why emotions exist and how they work. One needs only to watch Animal Planet for the proof or read just about any book by Matt Ridley.

34   Dan8267   2014 Jan 13, 6:57am  

marcus says

Little is known about Maria’s religious education or other circumstances she was facing, so it’s not possible to state definitely either way what role faith played in her decision to take her life. Still, that hasn’t stopped some from using tragedy to chime in about the harm they say religion does.

Normally I give atheists credit for on average being fairly intelligent, even if I do take issue with the radical, arrogant or adolescent ones who think they have had some earth shattering break throughs that they need to teach everyone (the prosthelytizers).

But this story shows that sometimes they can be just really stupid.

Oh honey, when it came out that smoking causes cancer, the entire tobacco industry launched a PR campaign to convince the public that there was uncertainty about that fact when there wasn't.

When it came out that burning fossil fuels causes climate change, the entire energy industry launched a PR campaign to convince the public that there was uncertainty about that fact when there wasn't.

When it came out that belief in the afterlife caused a girl to commit suicide, the entire religion industry launched a PR campaign to convince the public that there was uncertainty about that fact when there wasn't.

Those in favor of religion will deny any fact that shows fundamental religious beliefs are inherently dangerous. Sowing doubt when there is none about well-established facts is a go-to tactic for the losing side. Unfortunately that tactic works on the dumb, who make up the majority of the population.

If you believe that we cannot tell why this girl committed suicide, then you are one of the dumb.

35   Dan8267   2014 Jan 13, 7:08am  

marcus says

You're amazing. She killed herself ! That's evidence of a very sick state of mind.

That statement is true if and only if there is no afterlife.

If there is an afterlife, there is nothing irrational or "sick" about suicide. For example, in WWII Japanese pilots crashed their planes into U.S. warships because the Japanese pilots believed they would be rewarded by their emperor god in the afterlife.

The "sickness" isn't the logic that concludes that suicide is noble and good, but rather the assumption that there is an afterlife in which you will be rewarded.

marcus says

Most normal Christians (including 12 year old children) even if they wish there is an afterlife and sort of believe in it, know that it may well not exist.

Faith and doubt are antithetical. Faith is the belief in something without proof, and it is the cornerstone of every religion including Christianity. A good Christian has faith that
- God created the universe
- Jesus rose from the dead
- You have a soul that will be judged in the afterlife, and you'll go to either heaven or hell

These are dogmas of Christianity. Need I remind you of the Nicene Creed

I look for the resurrection of the dead,
and the life of the world to come.

If you don't believe in the Christian afterlife and Jesus rising from the dead and ascending into heaven, you're not a Christian; you're auditing.

And yes, 12-year-old Christians are expected to believe in the afterlife wholeheartedly. I went to a parochial school. It's not symbolic.

marcus says

You say #2 is obviously true and that I'm delusional for thinking #1 is more likely.

Once again, you miss the point. Neither is the case.

She was delusional precisely because she believed in the afterlife. That belief was the mental sickness that caused her death. Everything else about her was normal. I know you don't like the fact that religion has killed this girl, but it is a fact. Perhaps instead of covering for religion, you should be more concern that religion doesn't kill another girl like this.

36   Dan8267   2014 Jan 13, 7:10am  

New Renter says

Not your spreadsheet. Your email and patnet posts. Even when you hit delete they live on forever in NSA server heaven.

Ah, and there lies the true key to immortality: replacing the organic brain with a virtual neural network that can be backed up and restored, or better yet, ran on multiple platforms simultaneously and periodically synched up with each other.

37   marcus   2014 Jan 13, 9:03am  

Dan8267 says

If you believe that we cannot tell why this girl committed suicide, then you are one of the dumb.

Again, amazing.

Hey, maybe you're right. Maybe I'm the extremist here that's not capable of looking at this is a balanced and relatively unemotional and nuanced way.

For the record, I too went to a Catholic school up to grade 5, and I don't think it was all that many years after learning about Santa Clause and the Easter Bunny, that I had at least some doubt about heaven. The truth is I didn't think about it much, but if you had pressed me, am I sure there is a heaven ? I would have said no. IT was obvious to me that this was something I hope is true, rather than something I know is true.

Age 10, let alone 12 is early enough to comprehend what faith means. And right there if you understand what faith means, it's understood that having faith means you are choosing to believe something, rather than knowing that it's true.

Also If you asked me at a young age, if there is a heaven (that is, given there is), and also a hell and a purgatory, are you 100% certain that if you die now you will go to heaven ? I would have said no.

Also as a good Catholic, I had learned what every good Christian knows, which is that suicide is a terrible sin, you're basically murdering yourself, for which you risk going to hell. In the Catholic faith it is a serious mortal sin.

How does one have an incredibly strong faith that heaven exists, without knowing that there are requirements (saint Peter or whatever) for getting in to heaven ?

THe only thing you convince me of, is that only sometimes do you seem intelligent. In other cases like this, where you get stuck defending some retarded atheists that try to make something out of this ?

I feel only vicarious embarrassment for you on this one.

38   anonymous   2014 Jan 13, 10:00am  

Because an after-life cannot be proved or disproved, the weak-minded will continue to seek it out for the hope and paradise that it offers beyond, what many see, as a mundane and miserable life. Just like Cipher wanted back into the Matrix, many people are too frightened and depressed at the possibility that there is no after-life and choose to believe in fairy tales and fantasy to keep them sane. After all, perception is reality.

39   Vicente   2014 Jan 13, 10:10am  

Dan8267 says

What? No one wants to come to the defense of religion? Not even Marcus?

To be fair, majority of Christian splinters in the USA, consider suicide to be a sin. So Daddy may be in heaven, but she'll never see him from where she lands.

40   FortWayne   2014 Jan 13, 10:11am  

Dan8267 says

there is no afterlife

Just FYI Dan, Christianity unlike Muslimity, strictly prohibits suicide. Either way this is a sad sad story.

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