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What becomes of the unfuckable? A shorter guide to the incel community.

By MisterLefty following x   2018 Nov 4, 10:44am 451 views   22 comments   watch   sfw   quote     share    


“Know your enemy well enough and you will pity them instead” — TISM
In the wake of the Toronto tragedy, there has been a huge spike of interest in the incel community. Incel is a contraction for ‘involuntary celibate’ and is basically a group of men that see themselves as somehow undesirable enough to never find love. And likely struggle even with friends. They are probably the types that you tried to avoid in high school. Likely got teased a bit in the playground. They are strange. They are ugly. They don’t fit in. And they really don’t like women. Or anyone, really.

According to Elle magazine, the term incel was created by a woman about twenty years ago to describe her struggles with dating. She was overweight, a bit splotchy and felt like she wasn’t quite invited to the party when it came to young love. So she coined the term incel to discuss the difficulties of the ‘less than perfect’ type and the struggle to find love and affection. Incels absolutely detest the idea that the term was created by a woman and often refute it. This seems to be based on nothing but their disdain toward women, though. They strongly believe women cannot be incels, and always have access to sex and validation, but refuse to accept men of lower status. Like the guys that hang out in incel forums.

This uniquely male phenomenon appears to have come straight from the internet. Before this, loners used to keep to themselves and maybe eventually shoot up a post office. Now they have a place to congregate and discuss shooting up post offices. They have created an entire world. They have created a vast array of terminology and phrasing unique to the incel community which truly defines them as a fringe group like no other. They are harsh on each other in ways that may seem to be cruel and unusual, but always bond together in solidarity when they feel they are being bullied by outsiders.

Looks are what fundamentally makes an incel an incel. A fixation on face and height. Incel forums are bursting with technical medical terms for attractiveness. Canthal tilt? Maxilla? A recessed chin or bad jawline and it’s over. While these things can be fixed by surgery, this is a coping mechanism (cope) as there is undoubtedly something else wrong with you (I mean, why else would you be an incel if there wasn’t). This usually refers to a mental issue, such as anxiety, the autism spectrum and a general lack of intelligence. Even the gym won’t help, as they will say ‘there is no gym for your face’.

Height is a huge issue, with incels posting pictures of women demanding men to be six feet or taller in order to date them on internet dating services. This drives them crazy. They call short men ‘manlets’ and incels often battle to declare whether face or height is the real source of true inceldom. If you are short and ugly, you are doomed.
Incels have one main point of solidarity — wanting to kill themselves. There is a widely held belief that the only way out of the dark existence of inceldom is suicide or death (the rope). Threads about dying are probably the most common in the incel community. Suicide and depression is rampant. It is the thing that takes this group from being detestable to pitiful. When you see what they say, it’s horrifying. But it comes from such a place of profound sadness. Lashing out in an echo chamber of like minded people just ends up escalating to the point where they will openly talk about committing acid attacks on the faces of random women in public like it’s just a normal thing to chat about. Their sadness and social exclusion has turned to hate in a extreme form. Almost entirely against women.
This is the thing that makes incels terrifying. Their toxic and venomous approach to women. Women are called ‘femoids’ (to dehumanise them) and attractive women are called ‘Stacies’. Men are called ‘normies’ and attractive white men are called ‘Chads’.

The most harrowing thing they do is discuss freely about what they would like to do to Stacies and normies. Conversations about rape and extreme violence are normal. Public shootings (going ER — after Elliot Rodgers, the incel that killed six people in 2014) are commonly discussed and joked about. Talking about ‘taking people with them’ is quite common in their frequent discussions on suicide (referred to as ‘the rope’). A lot of incels don’t identify with this kind of behaviour, but open condemnation is rare. In the aftermath of the Toronto tragedy and the spike of public attention, moderators on forums are cracking down on violent posts. This is clearly just self preservation. I’ve read some things I can’t unread, but they are constantly trying not to be banned from their online platforms and hosts.

A huge misconception about the incel community is that they are mostly whites. Many incels will argue that white people can’t even be incels as they are ‘too attractive’. This is usually met with a bitter response from whites that are very far from being ‘too attractive’. I have seen some photos. They have a pretty fair point. People tend to think that incels should just go see a prostitute. This drives them nuts. While some of them do resort to this for physical satisfaction, sex is often seen as a high form of validation. A validation they will never feel, as they are not valid. Paying for it does the opposite of this — it confirms their lack of sexual validity.

Incels can be quite openly racist. Uniquely, their racism tends to manifest as a form of self-hatred. It’s not that they hate other races — they hate their own. And they take pity on other races they deem more prone to inceldom. Indians and Asians will often battle for the crown as to who is less attractive to women. Whites are put on a pedestal, being deemed the most attractive race. Studies that breakdown racial preference in online dating spaces are often referenced to back up their claim to be ‘the ugliest race’. Incel forums are a constant race to the bottom through means of self hatred.

Incels are arguably the most venomous community on the internet. They beat out a lot of the ‘manosphere’ because of the way they openly discuss extreme violence. But while men’s groups like ‘TheRedPill’ (misogynistic pick up artists) and ‘MGTOW’ (Men Going Their Own Way — bitter, disillusioned men that have given up on romance with women) are viciously misogynistic, it comes from a place of power. Incels project their anger from a place of sadness. They are ‘low status’ men that feel like the world hates them. And arguably, they are right. In turn, they hate the world back. Especially women, the ones they desire approval from the most. They feel entitled to women in a way that we have seen countless times before — this is not unique to incels. But like a child yearning for the lollipop in their friend’s hand — they just want what we are having. This feeling of missing out on an essential part of life does not manifest in the desire to seek self-improvement or to connect with the world. It drives them further into their bubble of isolation. The result is anger. And potentially real world violence.

https://medium.com/@joelhill/what-becomes-of-the-unfuckable-a-shorter-guide-to-the-incel-community-3d415cc81c53

1   DASKAA   ignore (3)   2018 Nov 4, 10:46am   ↑ like (1)   ↓ dislike (0)   quote   flag        

Mental illness, plain and simple.
2   Ceffer   ignore (1)   2018 Nov 4, 10:53am   ↑ like (1)   ↓ dislike (0)   quote   flag        

A good IHL can take out a hundred pathetic incels with a few swings of a knobby strap on. Samson swung the jawbone of an ass, IHLs swing the knobby strap on AND their sloshing ass.

Smothering incel insects with cellulite until they choke and vomit is great sport! How's that for canthal tilt, incel scum! Put that on your plywood pillory, wannabe rape boy!
3   CovfefeButDeadly   ignore (4)   2018 Nov 4, 10:56am   ↑ like (0)   ↓ dislike (0)   quote   flag        

Are there not female physical equivalent counterparts?
4   Malcolm   ignore (1)   2018 Nov 4, 10:57am   ↑ like (0)   ↓ dislike (0)   quote   flag        

Isn't rejection part of self improvement?
5   Malcolm   ignore (1)   2018 Nov 4, 11:01am   ↑ like (0)   ↓ dislike (0)   quote   flag        

CovfefeButDeadly says
Are there not female physical equivalent counterparts?


Yes, but women make up being desirable. It is usually unattractive women who are harassed the most, and find social flirting repugnant.
Men are more likely to boast about being undesirable. I don't know why. I recently met someone on a trip who spoke a lot about how women made fun of his weight and then in the next breath was going on about this or that conquest.
6   Ceffer   ignore (1)   2018 Nov 4, 11:05am   ↑ like (1)   ↓ dislike (0)   quote   flag        

Incels are just pussies who can't afford pussy.
7   CovfefeButDeadly   ignore (4)   2018 Nov 4, 12:20pm   ↑ like (2)   ↓ dislike (0)   quote   flag        

Malcolm says
CovfefeButDeadly says
Are there not female physical equivalent counterparts?


Yes, but women make up being desirable. It is usually unattractive women who are harassed the most, and find social flirting repugnant.
Men are more likely to boast about being undesirable. I don't know why. I recently met someone on a trip who spoke a lot about how women made fun of his weight and then in the next breath was going on about this or that conquest.


These guys are idiots. They need to work at making money. Then they can date woman 1-3 grades higher than them on a physical scale. Plus it would do wonders for their self esteem.

Same as anything else in life. Work hard, improve oneself, things fall into place.
8   Ceffer   ignore (1)   2018 Nov 4, 12:40pm   ↑ like (1)   ↓ dislike (0)   quote   flag        

Incels are mostly pasty, cellar dwelling, millennial cave rats. They sit in their Mom's basement, obsessed with internet screen and video images of sploog hungry, nymphomaniacal porno nymphettes begging for cock, only to emerge from their mossy hobbit hutches to find that the women in the real world are shit testing, evasive, shrinking violets shopping for lucrative divorces, or nasty, ball busting feminists. Nonetheless, all the camel toe advertising and teasing drives the unfortunate, deluded incels insane.

The disconnect makes them psychotic with pent up testosterone rage.

Nothing cures a pot belly on a man in the eyes of a woman like an even fatter wallet.
9   WineHorror1   ignore (0)   2018 Nov 4, 12:42pm   ↑ like (2)   ↓ dislike (0)   quote   flag        

Plenty of unfuckable women are good at giving blowjobs. In fact, they're some of the best.
10   HEYYOU   ignore (20)   2018 Nov 4, 1:54pm   ↑ like (0)   ↓ dislike (0)   quote   flag        

Republicans & Democrats have perfected fucking America.
11   mell   ignore (2)   2018 Nov 4, 2:07pm   ↑ like (3)   ↓ dislike (0)   quote   flag        

The solution is simple. Back to the solid and functioning patriarchy.
12   PrivilegedtobeWhite   ignore (1)   2018 Nov 4, 2:25pm   ↑ like (1)   ↓ dislike (0)   quote   flag        

This is really sad. Under the guise of empathy and caring, we have perpetuated the weak within the human species as we see with socialistic ideals. Survival of the fittest no longer really exists, which is what used to cause the weak to die off or at least not procreate. So, this is all the result of our "charity", so now we must deal with it. Unnatural decisions have unnatural consequences.
13   mell   ignore (2)   2018 Nov 4, 6:47pm   ↑ like (0)   ↓ dislike (0)   quote   flag        

PrivilegedtobeWhite says
This is really sad. Under the guise of empathy and caring, we have perpetuated the weak within the human species as we see with socialistic ideals. Survival of the fittest no longer really exists, which is what used to cause the weak to die off or at least not procreate. So, this is all the result of our "charity", so now we must deal with it. Unnatural decisions have unnatural consequences.


Yeah but it wouldn't nearly be as bad if women would assess their smv rationally and swoop up a significant amount of decent men before they become incels. With many there's nothing wrong in the beginning but too many western womyn decide to ride the cock carousel instead and then die off as crazy harpie men hating cat ladies. Eventually a lose for both and the society as a whole. The solution is going back to a Christian patriarchy. The West would blossom again.
14   marcus   ignore (3)   2018 Nov 4, 6:54pm   ↑ like (0)   ↓ dislike (0)   quote   flag        

Why don't they just do what Rin does ?
15   mell   ignore (2)   2018 Nov 4, 6:56pm   ↑ like (0)   ↓ dislike (0)   quote   flag        

marcus says
Why don't they just do what Rin does ?


It requires a fairly big amount of money (in the western world) and maybe some balls.
16   marcus   ignore (3)   2018 Nov 4, 7:06pm   ↑ like (0)   ↓ dislike (0)   quote   flag        

THe title calls it "The bitter fruit of the Sexual revolution." Sounds like it's more about narcissism and excessive self involvement. Not that that isn't in part the fruit of the sexual revolution, or the me generation, or technology and social media or all of the above.

If people are busy enough, and find engaging pursuits other than love, they can find fulfillment even without the most awesome sexual love. Although I get it, that at a certain age, everyone wants it and thinks about it a lot, if not constantly.

Back in the day, there were plenty of people (even married people) with pretty bad love lives. Our culture is definitely in the midst of some growing pains. We won't always reproduce like we did 65 years ago. And the family unit is changing even if it weren't for this. Meanwhile all these new identity groups, which in large part are about alternate non-traditional ways of finding love, are springing up probably in large part becasue some people feel less normally attractive or fuckable,.

I've been lucky in so many ways, and yet I totally get it. OR at least I think I do.
17   PrivilegedtobeWhite   ignore (1)   2018 Nov 4, 8:39pm   ↑ like (3)   ↓ dislike (0)   quote   flag        

mell says
The solution is going back to a Christian patriarchy. The West would blossom again.
Perhaps. Women trying to be men has been quite the social experiment yielding disappointing results. What women need to realize is that while they may desire sexually experienced men, men don't desire women who have ridden the cock carousel. It puts way too much mileage on their lady bits and stretches them out, and then they continually seek out more endowed men so that they're vaginas don't feel quite as loose and floppy during sex. Men desire young, tight, clean women, but that goes against the feminist movement.
18   Rin   ignore (3)   2018 Nov 5, 5:42am   ↑ like (1)   ↓ dislike (0)   quote   flag        

mell says
marcus says
Why don't they just do what Rin does ?


It requires a fairly big amount of money (in the western world) and maybe some balls.


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19   APOCALYPSEFUCKisShostikovitch   ignore (34)   2018 Nov 5, 5:45am   ↑ like (0)   ↓ dislike (0)   quote   flag        

Where are these sites? They sound almost as funny as Patrick.Net.

We can log on and describe the sensation of the wife's tongue-on-taint provocations in the morning.
20   APHAman   ignore (8)   2018 Nov 5, 7:44am   ↑ like (0)   ↓ dislike (0)   quote   flag        

What happens to the unfuckable? Is something going to change for them?

I’d assume they put on their silly Red hats like any other day, pop all their pills and then get on the cpu to whinge about whatever their media masters have instructed them to whinge about CNN and the liberals du jour
21   mell   ignore (2)   2018 Nov 5, 11:55am   ↑ like (0)   ↓ dislike (0)   quote   flag        

PrivilegedtobeWhite says
mell says
The solution is going back to a Christian patriarchy. The West would blossom again.
Perhaps. Women trying to be men has been quite the social experiment yielding disappointing results. What women need to realize is that while they may desire sexually experienced men, men don't desire women who have ridden the cock carousel. It puts way too much mileage on their lady bits and stretches them out, and then they continually seek out more endowed men so that they're vaginas don't feel quite as loose and floppy during sex. Men desire young, tight, clean women, but that goes against the feminist movement.


Right. Also it is a snowball effect. The old bitter hag cat ladies will rile up their still fertile friends against whomever they are dating because they don't want them to have a happy marriage and kids, but the same miserable outcome. The more bitter cat ladies the more incels and the more pressure on the remaining few womyn to conform to modern feminism. I will say that - if not stopped - will be the downfall of the western hemisphere - step by step their invaders will replace them. The natural desire for kids in western womyn is quite suppressed these days by a media and government onslaught on the nuclear family.
22   Automan Empire   ignore (2)   2018 Nov 5, 11:58am   ↑ like (0)   ↓ dislike (0)   quote   flag        

Now for a brief musical interlude, with Nat King Cole.

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