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By jazz_music following x   2019 Apr 12, 12:23pm 406 views   5 comments   watch   nsfw   quote     share    

What In the World Has Happened To The America We Grew Up In?

Today, we seemingly have so much going for us, and yet people are lonelier, more disconnected and more depressed than ever before. The suicide rate in the United States is up 34 percent since the year 2000, approximately 40 million American adults have an anxiety disorder, and overdosing on drugs is now the leading cause of death for Americans under the age of 50. Clearly our society is not heading in the right direction.

I can never go back to my early days growing up on the farm. Had time to enjoy each day, the warm sun the hay in the barn. Even with all the work there was to be done. Eating an apple off the tree, taking a long drink from the cool spring. Working the garden…..What the hell happened.

In just five sentences, this individual captured what so many of us have been feeling.

Of course most of us didn’t grow up on a farm. I certainly didn’t. But without a doubt there are lots of people out there that are saddened by the contrast between what America used to be and what America is today.

Another person that grew up near Boston also shared memories of simpler days…

me too..

only it was just suburbs Boston.

actually, just sitting and talking with neighbors, drinking lemonade in summer as Boston is insanely humid then..

or even more recently, in Wisconsin.. listening to thunderstorms roll in.. the state is so flat you can see these beautiful storms for miles…

Once upon a time in America, people actually sat on their porches and talked with their neighbors. I know that may sound quite strange to many of you, but it is true.

Sadly, most houses that are being built today don’t even have real front porches because they are considered to be a waste of space.

So what has caused such a dramatic shift in our country?

Well, the truth is that there are a lot of factors, but one that kept coming up over and over in the thread was social media. Here is what one astute poster had to say…

Social media made people cold, uncaring and combative.

People have lost their connection to one another. They’ve lost the drive to socialize and have friends and form solid connections. Instead they opt to argue, fight and divide themselves.

This has made society negative, bitter, and have no hope or joy for the future.

You aren't sad because you look back into the past, you are sad because you are looking into the present and future and you realize the path humanity is currently on is a very bad one. A path that is very different than the path humanity was on not that long ago.

You don’t have to spend much time on social media to realize that a lot of people are downright nasty, mean and cruel.

It isn’t healthy to spend much time mentally immersed in that type of environment, but many of our young people are online almost constantly, and as a result they are developing all sorts of problems…

Teens and young adults are in the midst of a unique mental health crisis, suggests a new study out Thursday. It found that rates of depressive episodes and serious psychological distress have dramatically risen among these age groups in recent years, while hardly budging or even declining for older age groups.

Lead author Jean Twenge, a 47-year-old professor of psychology at San Diego State University, has spent much of her career studying the attitudes and beliefs of younger generations. Most recently, in 2017, Twenge published a pop-science book laying out her central argument that teens and young adults coming of age are especially lonely and disconnected, thanks in part to the growing abundance of social media and devices like smartphones. Her book is titled iGen: Why Today’s Super-Connected Kids Are Growing Up Less Rebellious, More Tolerant, Less Happy—and Completely Unprepared for Adulthood.

And one shocking study that was conducted not too long ago found a direct link between social media use and levels of depression and loneliness…

A new study concludes that there is in fact a causal link between the use of social media and negative effects on well-being, primarily depression and loneliness. The study was published in the Journal of Social and Clinical Psychology.

“What we found overall is that if you use less social media, you are actually less depressed and less lonely, meaning that the decreased social media use is what causes that qualitative shift in your well-being,” said Jordyn Young, a co-author of the paper and a senior at the University of Pennsylvania.

The implications of this are staggering. As Americans become more and more immersed in the online world, we are likely to become increasingly unhappy.

So is there anything that can be done?

Well, some are suggesting that the social media giants should change their algorithms…

The solution is obvious: change the algorithms. Which is to say: make less money. Ha.They could even remove the algorithms entirely, switch back to Strict Chronological, and still make money — Twitter was profitable before stock options before it switched to an algorithmic feed, and its ad offerings were way less sophisticated back then — but it’s not about making money, it’s about making the most money possible, and that means algorithmically curated, engagement-driven, misery-inducing feeds.

Of course that isn’t likely to happen, and it would probably only have a marginal impact anyway.

In the end, the reality of the matter is that technology is always going to be a part of our lives, but we need to strive to find proper balance.

Because those that spend too much time on the hate-filled Internet are in danger of turning out like this crazed woman…

A crazed leftist with a mohawk attacked an elderly gentleman minding his own business inside of a Starbucks in Palo Alto, CA because he was wearing a red MAGA hat.

A ‘woman’ who goes by the name Parker Mankey, posted photos of the elderly Trump supporter to her Facebook page Monday and called on her Facebook friends to find out who the “freak” is and “confront him.”

Parker Mankey, who declared her support for Bernie Sanders, says screaming at him, stalking him and doxxing him is a way to fight back against Fascism.

Do you think that this woman would have turned out this way if she had been raised on a farm with no access to the Internet, television or the mainstream media?

Of course not.

What we regularly feed our minds determines what we will become.

The Internet can be used for great good, but there is also much online that is highly toxic. And the more toxic the Internet becomes, the more toxic our nation as a whole will become.

About the author: Michael Snyder is a nationally-syndicated writer, media personality and political activist. He is the author of four books including Get Prepared Now, The Beginning Of The End and Living A Life That Really Matters. His articles are originally published on The Economic Collapse Blog, End Of The American Dream and The Most Important News. From there, his articles are republished on dozens of other prominent websites.

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1   HonkpilledMaster   ignore (5)   2019 Apr 12, 12:29pm   ↑ like (1)   ↓ dislike (0)   quote   flag        

jazz_music says
What In the World Has Happened To The America We Grew Up In?

3   jazz_music   ignore (12)   2019 Apr 12, 12:47pm   ↑ like (0)   ↓ dislike (0)   quote   flag        

It’s not worth winning a position in traffic, people need to see that more often, but instead they risk lives of everyone around with a sick passion.

Many things in our world are not worth competing for yet we get suckered into caring too much.

Don’t care too much.
4   HonkpilledMaster   ignore (5)   2019 Apr 12, 12:49pm   ↑ like (0)   ↓ dislike (0)   quote   flag        

John Birch, 1950s: If you don't listen to us about these PoMo Homos taking over education, in 50 years Transexual Perverts will be reading stories to kids in Schools and Libraries!

Liberals, 1950s: Pssshaw, hahahahaha, that's never going to happen. Hofstader talks about the Paranoid Style in American Politics...
5   P N Dr Lo R   ignore (0)   2019 Apr 12, 3:07pm   ↑ like (1)   ↓ dislike (0)   quote   flag        

jazz_music says
People have lost their connection to one another
Beginning with the Baby Boomers, many people in their 60's and early 70's today abandoned when they were in their late teens or early 20's the Protestant, Catholic or Jewish faiths in which they had been reared. Also, the nuclear family began falling apart. It was through children that these faiths were propagated from generation from generation, but with so many people remaining single or not having children at all, church attendance dried up. If I heard it one time from a Boomer, I heard it a million times as almost a rite of passage: I was raised in fill-in-the-blank church, but as soon as I reached my late teens or entered college I abandoned all that stuff. Such was the template of a lady in her early 60's several years ago who died of an overdose. Her fame was that when she was young she was the first to do whatever it was she did in the pornographic movie industry that had never been done before, I forget what it was. She was lovely, then, and it was mentioned that she had been raised in a religious atmosphere but abandoned it soon after arriving at young adulthood. It also went on to explain how through her life she had struggled with depression and addiction. I think the chickens are coming home to roost for all these older boomers who abandoned the communities of faith that kept older generations sane and secure during life's inevitable losses and heartbreaks. These same people abandoned spouses or significant others and children right and left upon the advent of No Fault Divorce and probably wonder today why they aren't surrounded by a loving extended family who dotes on them. The 70's were filled with false prophets of est, Rolfing, Scientology, primal scream, sweat lodges to attract these lost souls.

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