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Ok, rentafriend.com's first failure for Rin


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2019 May 8, 5:55pm   3,150 views  48 comments

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All right, I've been using rentafriend.com to meet up with women at higher end Boston restaurants with the idea that there would be no followup 'relationship'.

Well today, I was betrayed. A rentafriend wanted to meet up, outside of the web site. I made a resounding 'no' and that was that. She's no longer a person I will be doing business with in the future.

I think it's clear, when women know that you have bank, they'll come after you, after hours.

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1   Tenpoundbass   2019 May 8, 6:01pm  

I know I hate when I rent a friend and they try to extend human contact after I'm done using them up. I mean don't they get it, you just rented them for the night so you wouldn't have to go to the Thing alone. Man some people have some real Social issues.
2   Rin   2019 May 8, 6:08pm  

It sucks because I have free livery service so it's kinda obvious when there's a limo out in the corner near the restaurant, waiting for me, that women know that I'm loaded.

I mean if I were a typical middle class loser, I'd take the T (Mass Transit) back home but seriously, I haven't done that stuff in years.
3   Rin   2019 May 8, 6:10pm  

I guess next time, I'll have the driver park/stand about 2 blocks away so that the rentafriend gets into her Uber first, and then, I can walk the block & half, to get to my driver.
4   Tenpoundbass   2019 May 8, 6:12pm  

Well if you got the vibe She was a shallow Gold digger that would be impressed by that stuff to hunt you down on her off hours. I wouldn't want her services as a rented friend, if She's... all... about... the... Money. Hey wait a minute, She was always about the Dollar and was just playing you. You made the right choice.
5   Rin   2019 May 8, 6:18pm  

Tenpoundbass says
She was a shallow Gold digger that would be impressed by that stuff to hunt you down on her off hours. I wouldn't want her services as a rented friend, if She's... all... about... the... Money. Hey wait a minute, She was always about the Dollar and was just playing you.


Many women, esp in cities like Boston, where men are pussywhipped (no real cowboys in a college town/city) and kowtow to feminist demands, are basically golddiggers with a hint of urban sophistication. But I'm sorry, those gender studies adherents at Simmons, Tufts, and even the vaunted Harvard don't do anything for me.
6   Ceffer   2019 May 8, 6:34pm  

Maybe you accidentally called "Rent-A-Leech" instead of "Rent-A-Friend".
7   HeadSet   2019 May 8, 7:09pm  

A rentafriend wanted to meet up, outside of the web site.

Maybe, just maybe, she was attracted to you as a man. You know, looks, confidence, intelligence. "Money" may just have been gravy.
8   Rin   2019 May 8, 7:24pm  

HeadSet says
Maybe, just maybe, she was attracted to you as a man. You know, looks, confidence, intelligence. "Money" may just have been gravy.


If you recall from my Tufts University postings ...

http://patrick.net/post/1323018/2019-03-11-rin-took-a-tufts-university-co-ed-for-sushi
http://patrick.net/post/1323213/2019-03-18-rin-s-8-year-post-dating-anniversary-society-fails-again

Because she was not from rentafriend, I had to then avoid her and stop answering her texts, as she was trying to push it beyond a dinner meeting.

So the idea of whether or not a woman is interested or just being a stereotypical gold digger doesn't matter. The thing here is that I boink up in Montreal but need to maintain some sort of 'normal' existence here in Boston where 80% of my friends have kids and can't get together at "the pub", like only a few years ago.

In addition, one doesn't take guy friends to high end places outside of business venues as that's the gaydar for South Enders (Boston's gay enclave).
9   HeadSet   2019 May 8, 7:43pm  

So the idea of whether or not a woman is interested or just being a stereotypical gold digger doesn't matter.

I was was not saying you should take her up on it, just pointing out she may not be the gold digger many posts in this thread indicated.

Maybe you discourage the women's interest by treating them abysmally. Be a total, self centered jerk. But then again, that may actually backfire and compound the clinging problem.
10   Rin   2019 May 8, 7:48pm  

HeadSet says
Maybe you discourage the women's interest by treating them abysmally. Be a total, self centered jerk. But then again, that may actually backfire and compound the clinging problem.


When one is actually successful and not some guy, renting a Porsche just to impress others, it's the Kobayashi Maru (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kobayashi_Maru) where there's no way to win.

A confident, educated Yankee gentleman with cash is an automatic chick magnet but then, if he's an arrogant dirtbag who treats women like crap, he's also in demand provided he can pay his bills.
11   Ceffer   2019 May 8, 8:11pm  

Women are great at strategic masochism, as long as the quarry is corralled. They have confidence that they can manage the assholic-ness later.
12   Tenpoundbass   2019 May 8, 8:18pm  

HeadSet says
she may not be the gold digger many posts in this thread indicated.


If you thought the intent of my comment was to call her a gold digger, then satire goes your head.
I think a lonely rent a friend client, and a lonely rent a friend. Getting caught up in springtime relationship jitters, has some nice Irony to it.

This is Hugh Grant and Renée Zellweger shit here.
13   Y   2019 May 8, 8:42pm  

Looks like you and the boston strangler have a lot in common. .
Rin says
All right, I've been using rentafriend.com to meet up with women at higher end Boston restaurants with the idea that there would be no followup 'relationship'.
14   Rin   2019 May 8, 8:49pm  

BlueSardine says
Looks like you and the boston strangler have a lot in common. .
Rin says
All right, I've been using rentafriend.com to meet up with women at higher end Boston restaurants with the idea that there would be no followup 'relationship'.


DeSalvo was a cheap bastard. He's a Chelsea MA loser wannabe.

If you want to make a comparison, use Christian Bale from 'American Psycho', for he's got the expense account and a limo driver.
16   zzyzzx   2019 May 9, 7:52am  

Rin says
The thing here is that I boink up in Montreal but need to maintain some sort of 'normal' existence here in Boston where 80% of my friends have kids and can't get together at "the pub", like only a few years ago.


Then you need to make some new real friends.
17   Ceffer   2019 May 9, 8:47am  

Rin is being stalked! The irresistible odor of money and status is the only perfume the credit card hungry sex really knows! The dumb stick snares and nets are being laid! Rin will be in the pot, soon!
18   just_passing_through   2019 May 9, 8:50am  

That doll looks like a plecostomus.
19   Rin   2019 May 9, 10:41am  

Ceffer says
Rin is being stalked! The irresistible odor of money and status is the only perfume the credit card hungry sex really knows! The dumb stick snares and nets are being laid! Rin will be in the pot, soon!


This is the life of a straight and successful guy in America these days ...



And no, all is not quiet on the western front.
20   Rin   2019 May 9, 10:59am  

zzyzzx says
Then you need to make some new real friends.


It's not the same as yesteryear. Nowadays, there are a lot of business meeting dinners during the weekdays and then yes, when one hits 40, his pals are more or less hamstrung.

Even the guys at the dojo, some ten years younger than me, also report not having enough free time. The up and coming generation is pretty much ... pussy-whipped. It's like if you want to make a chart, it goes like this ...



Remember, only a healthy dosage of the Duke, can keep Beckham and Keanu in check.
21   rocketjoe79   2019 May 9, 11:36am  

just_dregalicious says
That doll looks like a plecostomus.


Challenge accepted! Had to look up plecostomus - AKA the Suckermouth Catfish. Fair description of the doll.

Always learning at this site!!
22   Goran_K   2019 May 9, 11:41am  

Rin says
I think it's clear, when women know that you have bank, they'll come after you, after hours.


Facts. They'll even let you grab them.
23   Heraclitusstudent   2019 May 9, 11:43am  

The poor wretch must have felt that the real thing for free was a more generous offering than appearance for money.
24   clambo   2019 May 9, 11:47am  

What is the problem if a female wants to date? As long as you choose the place you go to it can be fun.
25   Rin   2019 May 9, 11:57am  

clambo says
What is the problem if a female wants to date? As long as you choose the place you go to it can be fun.


Read my Tufts University thread. The last thing I want is a clinger. Remember, I have Montreal only a short half-hour (not including taxi-ing) flight for the good times.
26   Rin   2019 May 9, 12:02pm  

Rin says
I have Montreal only a short half-hour (not including taxi-ing) flight for the good times.


And Montreal hoes do not bother clients 'after work'. That's pretty much a written rule in the Standard Operating Procedures.

That would then be a 'Sugar Daddy' arrangement which is a totally different set of circumstances.
27   Ceffer   2019 May 9, 12:04pm  

Rin will be dragging desperate, leg clinging Boston female economic vampire pests through the whorehouse doors in Montreal, trying to shake them off before the bouncing hooker lineup emerges! They will scream "My eggs, my eggs! Credit cards, a lifetime sabbatical, and a shot at court proceedings for my eggs! Let no credit card go to waste! RinMegaBucks for my eggs!"
28   Rin   2019 May 9, 12:07pm  

Ceffer says
Rin will be dragging desperate, leg clinging Boston female economic vampire pests through the whorehouse doors in Montreal, trying to shake them off before the bouncing hooker lineup emerges! They will scream "My eggs, my eggs! Credit cards, a lifetime sabbatical, and a shot at court proceedings for my eggs! Let no credit card go to waste! RinMegaBucks for my eggs!"


Though it sounds like some anime comedy, it's not too far from our current reality.

I guess I'll rent a jacked up muscle car for my next road trip to shake 'em off. I can easily lose 'em somewhere up in the Green Mountains.

I know that they can easily break through security at the airport so that's not safe.
29   Ceffer   2019 May 9, 12:11pm  

Rin says
I know that they can easily break through security at the airport so that's not safe.

A C-note to the TSA, and they'll drag them off howling for a few extra sessions of fisting never to be heard from again.
30   mell   2019 May 9, 2:18pm  

Goran_K says
Rin says
I think it's clear, when women know that you have bank, they'll come after you, after hours.


Facts. They'll even let you grab them.


By the pussy that is. Trump was right again.
31   clambo   2019 May 9, 3:22pm  

You can have a date and not get stuck with her; you can sort of hint that you aren't seeking a "girlfriend".

If you don't wish the entanglements of going to see a French sex farce at the art movie house or some modern dancing or museum etc. you can say your free time is limited.

I actually miss the cute gold diggers in Florida; they went for the "short con" only with me, nothing really expensive and nothing more than I would have spent at The Woods restaurant if we had gone there to eat.

Check out bumble app sometime; my friend back in Jupiter is having a lot of fun and they don't expect to be wined and dined.
32   Ceffer   2019 May 9, 4:45pm  

Rin trying to escape money hungry Rent-A-Friends to hoof it up to Montreal:

33   rdm   2019 May 9, 8:30pm  

I think Burt said it right (at the end of the clip)

www.youtube.com/embed/b8IqSIw1P0I
34   just_passing_through   2019 May 9, 9:12pm  

rocketjoe79 says
Challenge accepted! Had to look up plecostomus - AKA the Suckermouth Catfish. Fair description of the doll.

Always learning at this site!!


She'd keep my fish tank clean.
35   Rin   2019 May 9, 9:14pm  

Sounds like I need to get out of Dodge (Boston MA), and take the summer off in Montreal ...



Now that's more like it!
36   Rin   2019 May 9, 9:35pm  

I'll also stop hanging out at Boston's top tier restaurants and spend my time at the local diners alone, so that I can have a quiet but well prepared meal w/o getting the 'gaydar' placed on my head.
37   clambo   2019 May 9, 9:53pm  

I only go to fancy restaurants as a method of impressing females for seduction. Going on a regular basis alone is too weird for me.

I was looking at the Plenty of Fish profiles for amusement once and many or most of the females said "not seeking any kind of relationship".

My friend who found good results using the Bumble app gets invited over to a female's place where she cooks for him and then he has fun then can stay or leave as he wishes.

I don't know what gaydar on your head means, but it must not be good.
38   Rin   2019 May 9, 10:03pm  

clambo says
I only go to fancy restaurants as a method of impressing females for seduction. Going on a regular basis alone is too weird for me.

I don't know what gaydar on your head means, but it must not be good.


Ok, let me make myself clear. I'd come from a working class environment. My parents were not Boston Brahmin aristocrats in banking, insurance, etc, with Ivy League (plus Stanford, Oxbridge, etc) pedigrees.

Now, here I am, many years later, having made it. I can eat out at just about every top tier venue in Boston and half the time, it's even expensible esp if it's a client. So I take advantage of it. I'm now perceived as a person who's granddad (or perhaps even great granddad) was one of the founders of Polaroid or some other big corporation and now, the scion is working in financial services, making dough just like his ancestors.

This gets me preferential treatment everywhere and when there's a woman around, it makes me look happening and not some gay guy from the South End, trying to impress some "gym rat buff" guy.
39   clambo   2019 May 10, 6:42am  

At least if you are eating at fancy joints you have company. I can't enjoy having dinner alone in a place where the waiters are in suits.

I'm hungriest at lunchtime so some restaurants aren't available to me for this. Dinner in a nice restaurant is what I did for the benefit of a girl as a treat.

I had a place I frequented in Jupiter which I ate at often so I guess my treatment was a little better there.
40   Reality   2019 May 10, 6:56am  

Dear Rin,

What proof do you have that when you were in Montreal having sex with the hooker, you didn't over-ride her objection after she said "no"?

Sincerely,

The girl's lawyer
with her psychiatrist here telling me disturbing reconstructed memories about you

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