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What is Rin's real problem?

By Rin following x   2019 May 17, 6:50pm 929 views   30 comments   watch   nsfw   quote     share    


Ok, here it is fellas ...

Some 8 years ago, I'd broken up with this Canadian whack job, who looked almost like Alanis Morissette.



And yes, she was also from Ontario and yes, living with her, at least towards the end, was like a living version of 'Jagged Little Pill'. Art imitates life.

Now, here's the problem. While I clearly don't want her companionship or anything else, I can't get over my most important experience and that was fucking her brains out in a motel in New Hampshire on the way to the White Mountains.

I still remember that warm water from the shower all over our bodies as I was pumping her, while feeling her boobs and ass. And then, it didn't stop. We were on the floor and going at it it, non-stop. There was water everywhere!

Anyways, I think I'd come perhaps seven or more times that day and it's never been like that since. And yeah, while she was screaming, she was beautiful.

It sucks to turn 40 because I can't have something like that ever again. My body isn't an early 30-something and clearly, I'm not going bareback with a woman again in such a manner.
1   Booger   ignore (3)   2019 May 17, 7:07pm   ↑ like (2)   ↓ dislike (0)   quote   flag        

Rin says
My body isn't an early 30-something


2   Rin   ignore (3)   2019 May 17, 7:09pm   ↑ like (1)   ↓ dislike (0)   quote   flag        

Booger says
Rin says
My body isn't an early 30-something




Ok, that's the plumbing side of the equation.

There's also the morphine piece where the brain is flooded with so many endorphins that it can't help but be fixated on that day forever.

Without getting hooked on opioids, is there a solution for that?
3   RC2006   ignore (1)   2019 May 17, 9:16pm   ↑ like (2)   ↓ dislike (0)   quote   flag        

That's the way it is, not like your 18 and can go 4 times in an hour and black out.
4   E-man   ignore (0)   2019 May 17, 9:21pm   ↑ like (5)   ↓ dislike (0)   quote   flag        

Rin,

I’m turning 46 later this year. If you believe me, go to the gym, pump some weights, work hard on your core/abs. Once your body is in shape, I guarantee you will get a strong erection like when you’re in your 20’s.

The guys in my tennis group believe things are going downhill after 40. Some think you need viagra after 45 or 50. You don’t need any of that stuff. The fact is that playing tennis alone as part of exercising won’t do it. Go to the gym, hire a personal trainer, get on a low fat diet, get in shape and you can bang like when you’re in your 20’s.

It takes years/decades to put all of those fat into our body/system. If it only takes 6 to 12 months to shed them off, that’s a great deal wouldn’t you agree?

Good luck.
5   Quigley   ignore (0)   2019 May 17, 9:24pm   ↑ like (2)   ↓ dislike (0)   quote   flag        

Good advice @e-man
Glad you’re still around!
I’ll have to give that a try. 42 here and slowing down a bit. Not fat yet but i haven’t seen my abs in a few years.
6   PeopleUnited   ignore (1)   2019 May 17, 9:48pm   ↑ like (0)   ↓ dislike (0)   quote   flag        

Wooking pa nub in awl da Wong pwaces.

16 Wisdom will save you also from the adulterous woman,
from the wayward woman with her seductive words,
17 who has left the partner of her youth
and ignored the covenant she made before God.[a]
18 Surely her house leads down to death
and her paths to the spirits of the dead.
19 None who go to her return
or attain the paths of life.
Proverbs 2 New International Version (NIV)

1 My son, if you accept my words
and store up my commands within you,
2 turning your ear to wisdom
and applying your heart to understanding—
3 indeed, if you call out for insight
and cry aloud for understanding,
4 and if you look for it as for silver
and search for it as for hidden treasure,
5 then you will understand the fear of the Lord
and find the knowledge of God.
6 For the Lord gives wisdom;
from his mouth come knowledge and understanding.
7 He holds success in store for the upright,
he is a shield to those whose walk is blameless,
8 for he guards the course of the just
and protects the way of his faithful ones.
9 Then you will understand what is right and just
and fair—every good path.
10 For wisdom will enter your heart,
and knowledge will be pleasant to your soul.
11 Discretion will protect you,
and understanding will guard you.
7   BayArea   ignore (1)   2019 May 17, 9:55pm   ↑ like (1)   ↓ dislike (0)   quote   flag        

E-man says
Rin,

I’m turning 46 later this year. If you believe me, go to the gym, pump some weights, work hard on your core/abs. Once your body is in shape, I guarantee you will get a strong erection like when you’re in your 20’s.

The guys in my tennis group believe things are going downhill after 40. Some think you need viagra after 45 or 50. You don’t need any of that stuff. The fact is that playing tennis alone as part of exercising won’t do it. Go to the gym, hire a personal trainer, get on a low fat diet, get in shape and you can bang like when you’re in your 20’s.

It takes years/decades to put all of those fat into our body/system. If it only takes 6 to 12 months to shed them off, that’s a great deal wouldn’t you agree?

Good luck.


Lots of truth to this...

A well thought out weight lifting plan and diet along with long term consistency can keep the body performing at its peak for many years beyond what most people expect.
8   Quigley   ignore (0)   2019 May 17, 10:02pm   ↑ like (1)   ↓ dislike (0)   quote   flag        

PeopleUnited says
For wisdom will enter your heart,


I have come to believe that wisdom is knowing/understanding the correct algorithm to employ against a difficult situation. Past experience may inform your decision and help you eliminate choices, but choosing the right approach may not be intuitive. We make choices every day, always with incomplete knowledge, and these choices have profound effects on our lives and success. Knowing the best way to arrive at these choices is the foundation of wisdom, and it is better than mere intelligence. Intelligence is the ability to comprehend complex logic trees and operations. But these things are able to be easily done with a computer and computers are lousy at making their way through an unknown situation. Only wisdom can inform your choices as you navigate an unknown path. It is truly priceless, and improves with age in most people.
9   clambo   ignore (4)   2019 May 17, 10:09pm   ↑ like (2)   ↓ dislike (0)   quote   flag        

I second BayArea; I was 55 and was still doing OK in this department but I was more physically active than many maybe.

After 60 things change, but it isn't a problem, rather I don't feel as interested in a tryst at 2am. I now have a time preference but that's not a serious issue.
10   Ceffer   ignore (2)   2019 May 17, 11:36pm   ↑ like (0)   ↓ dislike (0)   quote   flag        

After crazed bonobo sex and howling, perspiring orgasms, she is supposed to get knocked up and your dick is supposed to fall off so that you can become a gelded row tilling mule servant to her unholy spawn.

You have upset the natural order, flung her off successfully, and become wealthy, wooly and wise to the female venus fly trap encumbrance. Nature is now playing final destination catch up! Be afraid, very afraid!
11   PeopleUnited   ignore (1)   2019 May 17, 11:56pm   ↑ like (0)   ↓ dislike (0)   quote   flag        

Quigley says
PeopleUnited says
For wisdom will enter your heart,


I have come to believe that wisdom is knowing/understanding the correct algorithm to employ against a difficult situation. Past experience may inform your decision and help you eliminate choices, but choosing the right approach may not be intuitive. We make choices every day, always with incomplete knowledge, and these choices have profound effects on our lives and success. Knowing the best way to arrive at these choices is the foundation of wisdom, and it is better than mere intelligence. Intelligence is the ability to comprehend complex logic trees and operations. But these things are able to be easily done with a computer and computers are lousy at making their way through an unknown situation. Only wisdom can inform your choices as you navigate an unknown path. It is truly priceless, and improves with age in most people.


If by "correct algorithm" you mean the choice to acknowledge and respect your creator (the master mathematician) then I applaud your wisdom.

Proverbs 9:10 10 The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom,
and knowledge of the Holy One is understanding.
12   E-man   ignore (0)   2019 May 18, 12:07am   ↑ like (2)   ↓ dislike (0)   quote   flag        

@Quigly,

Very wise words above.

Your body is slowing down but you can reverse it. That’s the beauty. As I said above, it took years, if not decades, to accumulate the fat in our arteries, which slows our system down. If we can reverse a good chunk of it in 6-12 months, it’s a great deal IMO.

What’s the point of making all the money but doesn’t have the health to enjoy it? The sex can be great again. It will get to the point where you want it every night like when you’re young. My wife thought I had a mistress. 😜

It takes time, effort and commitment. Hire a personal trainer for twice a week. At $50-$60/hour, that’s only $400-$500/mo. How much does your health worth? Do it for 6 months and watch the results. Of course, you have to put in the efforts the other 3-4 days out of the week to make it count. I guarantee it will worth the effort.

Learn about HIIT and/or work out in drop sets. This way, you keep going almost constantly and keep your heart rate high. Make every workout day count.

Diet is essential to get optimal results. However, you get to decide the pace. You don’t have to go extreme. Like anything in life, you get back what you put into it.

The guys at the tennis court asked for my advice, but they don’t take it when I share. I gave the same advice to my biz partner, but he doesn’t listen. He would prefer playing golf. We all make our choices and live with the consequences.

Good luck.
13   BayArea   ignore (1)   2019 May 18, 6:17am   ↑ like (2)   ↓ dislike (0)   quote   flag        

Not only is diet essential, it makes up the majority of the equation.

Ever heard the saying, “you can’t outrun a bad diet”

I also saw a guy with a shirt that said, “nothing tastes as good as skinny feels” lol. He was a skinny guy.

I just noticed that some asshole ignored me lol. Have I ever said anything worth an ignore, or can someone not stand an opinion that differs from theirs? 😁
14   B.A.C.A.H.   ignore (0)   2019 May 20, 10:25am   ↑ like (2)   ↓ dislike (0)   quote   flag        

You asked, in the subject header: Excessive Objectification of Women. To the point of feeling awkward not having a Babe as a Dining Companion.

Anyone worth worrying about, doesn't Give A Sh*t who your dining companion is or what s/he looks like.
15   Tenpoundbass   ignore (14)   2019 May 20, 10:56am   ↑ like (1)   ↓ dislike (0)   quote   flag        

psshaw try being still being married and longing for all of that.

Great rabid sex is for Strangers. Never forget that. You don't have toe curling sex with someone you're familiar with. It's just one of God's many cruel jokes.
16   HonkpilledMaster   ignore (5)   2019 May 20, 11:24am   ↑ like (0)   ↓ dislike (0)   quote   flag        

Everything that E-Man said, except: Get on a HIGH PROTEIN diet. Meat makes you jiggle like a stoat, Pilot. 2/3rd Vegetables for all the trace shit we barely understand other than we know it's good for you. When chosing between Carbs (not Fiber, but Sugar) and Fat, prefer the Fat. Carbs are largely empty calories. The only high Carb items with useful nutrients beyond the Sugar Calories is Fruit.

Bread and Pasta makes you limp as a noodle. Most middle aged fatsos eat Spaghetti, Pizza, Fries, Onion Rings, Chips, Cookies, Cake, and Bagels.

Tenpoundbass says
Great rabid sex is for Strangers. Never forget that. You don't have toe curling sex with someone you're familiar with. It's just one of God's many cruel jokes.



YUP. After you've been married for a year or so, the only super hot sex you're ever going to have is if you swing or bring in Guest Workers.
17   RC2006   ignore (1)   2019 May 20, 12:05pm   ↑ like (0)   ↓ dislike (0)   quote   flag        

Tenpoundbass says
psshaw try being still being married and longing for all of that.

Great rabid sex is for Strangers. Never forget that. You don't have toe curling sex with someone you're familiar with. It's just one of God's many cruel jokes.


I just tell my wife she is like my favorite old pair of shoes, even though they are loose and I don't even tie the laces anymore I still like to slide them on and wear them every day.

Bareback is better all day than wearing a condom and worrying about some std or something.
18   Tenpoundbass   ignore (14)   2019 May 20, 12:31pm   ↑ like (2)   ↓ dislike (0)   quote   flag        

I would rather have a familiar family and all that goes with it, than the once in a while great sex. That you have to spend a fortune of energy and resources to get. Not to mention the bad work performance the next day due to the hang over and lack of sleep that came with chasing it down.

Rin's philosophy would work great for an out of town working husband. Never find a girl friend on the side, it's not worth it.
The drama and bullshit and luggage that all of that entails. I've never been bothered to have a girl on the side and never will.
I would love to hit ho-house but I'm too chicken shit I would get busted.

I was toying with the possibility of finding a good Asian Rub and Tug, but after Kraft got busted in that sting operation. That option is off the table.
19   komputodo   ignore (1)   2019 May 20, 12:58pm   ↑ like (1)   ↓ dislike (0)   quote   flag        

Rin says
Some 8 years ago, I'd broken up with this Canadian whack job, who looked almost like Alanis Morissette.

So she didn't have any makeup and couldn't walk in heels....nice...
20   Ceffer   ignore (2)   2019 May 20, 1:32pm   ↑ like (1)   ↓ dislike (0)   quote   flag        

HonkpilledMaster says

YUP. After you've been married for a year or so, the only super hot sex you're ever going to have is if you swing or bring in Guest Workers.

They'll do it for minimum wage?
21   HEYYOU   ignore (30)   2019 May 20, 2:24pm   ↑ like (0)   ↓ dislike (0)   quote   flag        

Tenpoundbass says
I would love to hit ho-house but I'm too chicken shit I would get busted.


I heard divorces suck! ;-)RC2006 says
I just tell my wife she is like my favorite old pair of shoes, even though they are loose and I don't even tie the laces anymore I still like to slide them on and wear them every day.


Sooner or later an old pair of shoes wear out. Other things don't but they do dry out. ;-)
22   Rin   ignore (3)   2019 May 20, 8:10pm   ↑ like (1)   ↓ dislike (0)   quote   flag        

So the truth is the Rin simply likes to fuck!

Isn't that much more meaningful than Al Gore's "An Inconvenient Truth"?
24   Rin   ignore (3)   2019 May 20, 9:15pm   ↑ like (0)   ↓ dislike (0)   quote   flag        

BlueSardine says
If that ain't the gayest comment since maddow touted her aftershave...


Ah, the gaydar continues ...
25   E-man   ignore (0)   2019 May 20, 9:59pm   ↑ like (0)   ↓ dislike (0)   quote   flag        

Rin says
So the truth is the Rin simply likes to fuck!

Isn't that much more meaningful than Al Gore's "An Inconvenient Truth"?


You’re not the only one who likes to fuck. What’s the point Rin?

It seems like you’re missing a piece of the puzzle in your life. Spend sometime and figure it out rather than keep running around paying for stuff to buy yourself some short-term happiness. Hope you figure it out soon.
26   E-man   ignore (0)   2019 May 20, 10:05pm   ↑ like (0)   ↓ dislike (0)   quote   flag        

HonkpilledMaster says
Everything that E-Man said, except: Get on a HIGH PROTEIN diet. Meat makes you jiggle like a stoat, Pilot. 2/3rd Vegetables for all the trace shit we barely understand other than we know it's good for you. When chosing between Carbs (not Fiber, but Sugar) and Fat, prefer the Fat. Carbs are largely empty calories. The only high Carb items with useful nutrients beyond the Sugar Calories is Fruit.

Bread and Pasta makes you limp as a noodle. Most middle aged fatsos eat Spaghetti, Pizza, Fries, Onion Rings, Chips, Cookies, Cake, and Bagels.

Tenpoundbass says
Great rabid sex is for Strangers. Never forget that. You don't have toe curling sex with someone you're familiar with. It's just one of God's many cruel jokes.



YUP. After you've been married for a year or so, the only super hot sex you're ever going to have is if you swing or bring in Guest Workers.


Well, the truth is my home country food has too much carbs and not enough protein. I just have to reduce my carbs portion while increasing my carbs intake. Also, reducing the fat intake is another key to getting lean and shed body fat.

The main goal is to get Rin to incorporate exercise as part of his daily routine. Then the diet comes next when he starts to see some results.

I exercise twice a day. An hour in the morning in the gym and an hour in the afternoon playing tennis. I get cranky when I don’t get my morning exercise. I’m a 4.5 USTA ranked tennis player, and I’d rather miss tennis than going to the gym. It becomes a lifestyle choice while it doesn’t cost much money. We only have one body in this life. I do what I can to take care of it while looking good too.
27   Rin   ignore (3)   2019 May 20, 10:10pm   ↑ like (1)   ↓ dislike (0)   quote   flag        

E-man says
You’re not the only one who likes to fuck. What’s the point Rin?


Actually no, a lot of ppl think it's about 'romantic relationships', you know the ones which supposedly last.

E-man says
The main goal is to get Rin to incorporate exercise as part of his daily routine. Then the diet comes next when he starts to see some results.


I do exercise regularly, a mix of martial arts, cardio, weight lifting, etc. It's just that I can't get into the mental state which allowed my Canuck Ex and I go on that marathon banging marathon up in New Hampshire.
28   BlueSardine   ignore (2)   2019 May 21, 6:10am   ↑ like (0)   ↓ dislike (0)   quote   flag        

Sure thing fella...
Rin says
BlueSardine says
If that ain't the gayest comment since maddow touted her aftershave...


Ah, the gaydar continues ...
29   clambo   ignore (4)   2019 May 21, 9:15am   ↑ like (0)   ↓ dislike (0)   quote   flag        

I would find it extremely difficult to feel in the mood in a cold dreary climate like the Northeast USA, except in the summer of course.

I really think a warm climate keeps the blood flowing and makes everyone more in the mood.

It's cold and damp still now in N. California and the combination of chubby feminist girls and cold is like a cold shower for me.

Of course in Boston 1. it's colder 2. girls are fatter on average.
30   CBOEtrader   ignore (5)   2019 May 21, 9:37am   ↑ like (0)   ↓ dislike (0)   quote   flag        

Rin says
Without getting hooked on opioids, is there a solution for that?


Stop being a pussy.

Problem solved

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