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Here's a story against optimism on love/marriage/kids

By Rin follow Rin   2019 Nov 13, 4:38pm 1,154 views   56 comments   watch   nsfw   quote   share    

Ok, on a posting on sex/marriage


I said, "What she's basically saying is that ppl need sex robots, with variable software & differing faces and boob/butt sizes, not human relationships with strings attached."

Optimists replied with ...

Quigley says

Rin, I appreciate your point of view, and the struggles involved with maintaining relationships with women. But the unattached single life is not for me. I wanted a wife and kids, and even though those people cost me money and most of my time, I wouldn’t want it any other way. I love my wife and want the best possible relationship with her. When it’s good, it’s very good. I have a companion who is beautiful and intelligent, industrious and caring. She makes this family thing work. It’s worth more than being by myself with all my money. Plus, she tends to temper my bad habits. I’ll probably live a lot longer with her than without her.
So if problems with sex arise, I will fix them. It’s worth it.

E-man says
@Rin, I like you, but I’m with @Quigley 100% on this. You can say we’re two lucky guys who found great mates.

Around the same time, I'd heard from a martial artist friend from mine and he had to completely rearrange his schedule to meet with his trainer, just outside of the city of Boston, on Wednesday, from Mon or Tues, because those were the only two days where his 'Sensei' or 'Sifi' was able to legally see his children.

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41   APOCALYPSEFUCKisShostakovitch   ignore (56)   2019 Nov 15, 4:23pm     ↓ dislike (0)   quote   flag      

If she can't suck you off while she is taking a shit and you can't get hard while she is taking a shit, you don't belong together.
42   APOCALYPSEFUCKisShostakovitch   ignore (56)   2019 Nov 15, 4:23pm     ↓ dislike (0)   quote   flag      

It ought to be a test on the marriage license application.
43   BayArea   ignore (1)   2019 Nov 15, 10:10pm     ↓ dislike (0)   quote   flag      

Goran_K says
and I can take a dump in the same bathroom she's doing her hair and it's not gross to her.
You sick animal you
44   Blue   ignore (0)   2019 Nov 16, 12:22am     ↓ dislike (0)   quote   flag      

Rin says
FYI, I really miss ejaculating in her mouth ...

(hope it is real) what happens to her health. Hope she is alive and doing ok.
45   Ceffer   ignore (5)   2019 Nov 16, 12:25am     ↓ dislike (0)   quote   flag      

Goran_K says
With a new girl, you have to go through the dog and pony show, hiding the reality of your grossness from someone in an attempt to paint a nicer picture of yourself. Man, I'm so glad I don't have to do that anymore. What a hassle.

I know. You have to get arrested nine times to find that one-in-ten diamond.
46   Al_Sharpton_for_President   ignore (6)   2019 Nov 16, 1:32am     ↓ dislike (0)   quote   flag      

Rin says

Well yeah, but if I can at least survive till 85 to 100, at least I'd made natural life span
You’ll have your pick if you make it that far. Of course, it’s a pick of 70-90 year old babes looking for a dude with few years left but beaucoup money. But, toothless hum jobs...
47   mell   ignore (5)   2019 Nov 16, 9:00am     ↓ dislike (0)   quote   flag      

Shaman says
Goran_K says
I can take a dump in the same bathroom she's doing her hair and it's not gross to her.

Yah we don’t do that. Peeing is ok, but neither of us are trying to take a dump in front of the other. A little mystery there is abso-fucking-lutely fine!

I'm 6'7" and 225lbs when I take a dump nobody wants to stay around and I don't want anybody around either. I usually need at least one intermediate flush and a quarter roll of toilet paper.
48   mell   ignore (5)   2019 Nov 16, 9:07am     ↓ dislike (0)   quote   flag      

Goran_K says
clambo says
The only reason for a man to be married is to 1. please someone else 2. please society norms

Females like the idea of marriage; they see the voluntary self-entrapment by the male as an affirmation of her worth beyond all present and future other females.

This if of course untrue; you can divorce her and hang out with the next one if you want to spend the $$$ on the divorce.

If you want to go through your life pleasing others to avoid confrontations or loneliness, then marriage may be for you.

I have female company presently visiting me; it's nice to have company and someone to take meals with, go do chores with, etc.

I see this as an advantage of cohabitation, not marriage however.

I honestly like the familiarity and lack of artificial social niceties. My wife knows that I like a little back rub after working, she knows the kind of food I like, an...

For me another reason is that wommyn get uglier by the day as they are led to self destruction by the cultural Marxists leftists. I look at my solid 8+ and realize through how many dates with photoshopped or 20 year old pictures I'd have to go to even find one that comes close and then there's personality as well. A total crapshoot these days, you end up pumping and dumping the 5-7s with shitty personalities and eventually you may get metooed or contract An STD. There's hardly any marriage material left in the urban areas.
50   HeadSet   ignore (3)   2020 Jan 20, 5:40pm     ↓ dislike (0)   quote   flag      

Had to put on three pair this morning before she was happy!

Maybe she just wants you to put on (grow) the right "pair."
52   Tenpoundbass   ignore (14)   2020 Jan 21, 10:49am     ↓ dislike (0)   quote   flag      

Booger says

The guy knew what he was getting into. I don't think she started the spending spree after they got married.
53   HeadSet   ignore (3)   2020 Jan 21, 1:51pm     ↓ dislike (0)   quote   flag      

Some have more balls than ping pong,tennis & golf ball factories & they are bigger.

Oh, that is a horrible thing to say about your missus!
56   Tenpoundbass   ignore (14)   2020 Feb 12, 3:54pm     ↓ dislike (0)   quote   flag      

Goran_K says
Love marriage and family life. I also loved being a single bachelor.

My friend and Bass player I've known for over 30 years. Is the most happiest when he's with a woman or married. He's had a gal about 12 of the 30 years I've known him.
He's a miserable always broke bachelor, that can barely get out of bed in the morning. When he's shacked up, he's always got money, and less miserable.
He hates bliss, when his relationship is going great, he takes it like someone with a passive aggressive wife takes his spouse.
He will do everything in his power to wreck his relationships, through his own head trip bullshit.
You know a friend will talk to you about his nagging wife. But he always leaves me and his other friends saying. "Sounds like you need to just chill, I think you're reading her wrong."

From what I can tell, he peaked at 17 and has always sought his father's approval. So in any cohabitation situation, he's walking on eggshells waiting to be chastised by the authority figure in the house(He treats roommate and live in landlord situations the same way).

So he prefers to live alone, that way he doesn't feel weird when he's cooking and dirtying pots or if he's smoking a cigarette in the house. He wont feel like someone is going to come give him shit for it. Which from what I can tell no one ever does, and that seems to bother him even more. A complex dude for sure.

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