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What your pansexual friend wishes you knew: 'It’s a very fluid thing'


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2021 Jun 15, 8:49am   351 views  12 comments

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1   NDrLoR   2021 Jun 15, 8:51am  

NDrLoR says
'It’s a very fluid thing'
That's how the STD's are transmitted.

Vanessa Carlisle
Age: 41
Occupation: Writer and activist

That's pretty much what they all are, nothing really productive.
2   FuckTheMainstreamMedia   2021 Jun 15, 9:00am  

So something I don’t get. I was single for a long time. I dated a lot but didn’t have relationships. Unlike some assholes, I really didn’t string women along..I was very upfront that I enjoyed my freedom and wasn’t looking for a relationship nor was I open to one, at least until my mid 30’s.

And it was none of anybody’s business. Yeah I shared war stories with my single friends. But I never brought these women around my family. I felt no compulsion or pressure whatsoever to introduce anyone to my dating life. I didn’t bring plus ones to weddings and other social functions because…why the hell would you? Just ruins opportunities to meet other single or otherwise available women.

I don’t understand the need to announce out loud ones sexuality unless it’s for the express need to introduce a long term relationship to family and social circle. It’s not about keeping something buried. It’s about no one needs to know everyone you fuck.

I’m thinking all of these pronouncements are just more attention seeking behavior. It’s not rooted in sexual orientation, discrimination, or anything of the sort. Rather, it’s the “look at me” mental illness.
3   NDrLoR   2021 Jun 15, 9:05am  

FuckTheMainstreamMedia says
Rather, it’s the “look at me” mental illness.
That's exactly what it is. They have to prove their bona fides as hipsters and jump on the bandwagon. And a lot of mental illness, too. Normal people don't act that way or crave the attention.
4   Patrick   2021 Jun 15, 1:36pm  

Agreed.

"Look at me and how virtuous I am! I'm not really a loser in life no matter how obvious that seems..."
5   AmericanKulak   2021 Jun 15, 2:06pm  

Pansexual = Bisexual? I can't see the OP
6   HeadSet   2021 Jun 15, 2:30pm  

MisdemeanorRebellionNoCoupForYou says
Pansexual = Bisexual? I can't see the OP

According to my college daughter, bisexuals are attracted and aroused by the physical aspects of men and women's bodies, while a pansexual is attracted to and aroused by the personalities of men and women.

I have kinda seen such "pansexual" activity in a bar. A guy gets drunk enough to go home with an ugly girl, just because she has a loose personality.
7   Ceffer   2021 Jun 15, 2:33pm  

If it's not a fluid thing, parts can get badly chafed.
8   HeadSet   2021 Jun 15, 3:02pm  

Ceffer says
If it's not a fluid thing, parts can get badly chafed.

Sorry about your palm...
9   Ceffer   2021 Jun 15, 4:46pm  

HeadSet says
Sorry about your palm...

No problem. All the hair works just as well.
10   MAGA   2021 Jun 15, 5:50pm  

I'm getting old. My "fluid" is starting to peter out.
11   porkchopXpress   2021 Jun 15, 6:33pm  

"Can I use your bathroom?"

"Gender fluid?"

"Yes, there will be lots of that."
12   Ceffer   2021 Jun 15, 6:50pm  

MAGA says
My "fluid" is starting to peter out.


Isn't that what it's supposed to do?

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