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Thanks! Please keep us updated on how things go.

I feel your pain, I sold my house because the property taxes were nearing 4k, and I only make about 60k pre tax. I'm single, but for one, nothing is really all that affordable anymore, and I even live in the midwest. Instead I rent for a couple thousand more than that with all utilities included. Yes, I decided food was more important. Still, my wages stagnated, and I'm in my 40's, my best earning years are behind me, and I did not even have a decent job until I was 30 anyways. Go live with her folks, save lots of money. Hard to believe how much more everything cost than it did back in the 70's before we had our initial bout with inflation soon after going off the gold standard, I would say, get ready for the ride of your life but I can't tell the future.

varmint says

The last one I bid 22k (5%) over asking and weren't even selected as a backup.

this has been the normal for the past few months.

some of new constructions have a 1 year occupancy requirement meaning investors can't touch them. so that eliminates half of your competitions. it's best to ask them about this before make the offer.

Why would you buy a house with your girl friend? Isn't this something to do after you are married?

everything says

Go live with her folks, save lots of money.

No way, that's awful. I like her folks and all but I've been on my own since I left for college 15 years ago. Doubt they would want us there either.

If that is what people feel like they have to do, it's really sad. I'd like to own a house to have more space, be able to modify my living quarters as I want, have a yard I can do what I want in/to, etc. I'm willing to pay more (within reason) than rental prices to do it and take on the financial risk of the mortgage loan etc. Sacrifices past that are crap and make you wonder what kind system we're running here.

I'm sorry you are going through all this. But the fact is, you are trying to purchase a home in the midst of a very dysfunctional market. Between underwater values, artificially low interest rates, manipulated supply-side economics, Wall Street deciding to become landlords, foreign investors with more money than sense, and desperate realtors... things are pretty messed up to say the least. The question is... Is this temporary? It's hard to imagine that it could last forever.

Land in sfba is in short supply and lots of people want to live there, I mean, its so effing cool and all. It is what it is, there's zero chance of that, or any other highly demanded city for that matter, of having a return to reasonable prices. You pay a premium to own things that everyone else wants that can't be produced en masse.

My advice is either rent, or leave the area. This is a big country and a bigger planet, there's plenty of other opportunity to be had, without sacrificing a quality of life just to hold a mortgage while the bank holds the deed and the local government raises their protection fees into perpetuity.

Get over it and move on with your life

Get a house in Florida for 60k or 70k. Mint. Nice weather. You'll save so much money you can take flights to see the folks as often as you want.

In the east bay, I don't see prices dropping much for houses under 500K as rates are staying so low. By spring time, if rates are this low, year over year change will give buyers perceived buying power. Houses over 750K have peaked at this point. Houses over 1M might actually correct as people realize that higher taxes are here to stay.

This market sucks. I don't think what's going is right, but little good can happen to change what's going on. If something bad happens to drop the prices lower, then we are probably even in bigger trouble in economy.

In 2005 -2006 when I posting on here, I was pretty sure that the market would right itself. At this point my understanding of the "market" has changed. I am no longer sure that the market will do what's :right".