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I've decided not to have kids


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2014 Jul 10, 12:10am   62,730 views  249 comments

by Rin   ➕follow (10)   💰tip   ignore  

Ok, it's been said before but I'll say it again.

I see myself as a creative and intelligent person who, if born rich, would be a Renaissance man doing my own research, engaging in numerous activities.

Thus, my goal in life is to become independently wealthy and do the above.

Now, since many of my pals have had children and so forth, I'm absolutely astonished at how lame and boring these kids are. At best, they parrot TV shows and break toys, to the best of their abilities. In contrast, when I was a kid, I was dreaming of writing screenplays, inventing a lightsaber, and so forth.

Yes, my parents squashed my dreams and made me think of engineering, accounting, and so on but at least when I got started, I had bigger dreams.

But now, I've come to accept these facts. Yes, for the most part, children are lame and at best, one can hope that they don't get in trouble with the law or sleep in your basement for life. Those parents, whose kids are the next Alexander Hamilton or Buckminster Fuller, are the fortunate ones.

With that said, I have no incentive nor motivation to have my own. When I'm an old man, I'll be like Frank Lloyd Wright, constantly writing down ideas and working on things of interest without having a lifelong kid/adult sleeping near my study spaces.

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237   Rin   2014 Jul 13, 11:30am  

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jazz music says

convenient as willing pawns in conquering the men. TV shows frequently exhibit men in powerless and self demeaning roles.

Ok, so if all of your points are spot on, then why were there these ppl, criticizing me for not wanting kids?

238   Y   2014 Jul 13, 12:51pm  

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239   Rin   2014 Jul 13, 12:55pm  

SoftShell says

They would not criticize you if you just came clean and admitted to the forum that you are sterile....

Rin says

Ok, so if all of your points are spot on, then why were there these ppl, criticizing me for not wanting kids?

Looks, it's hard to get someone pregnant, just by getting some oral.

240   Reality   2014 Jul 13, 2:04pm  

jazz music says

The government is you're tool, your only tool. You own it.

Even if oligarchy convinces you that all government can do is to serve their needs, you still own the government, you are just persuaded from exercising your ownership control.

It's like saying:

Coercion, Robbery and Murder are your tools, and your only tools; you own them.

No I don't own the government. If I own it, can I have my slice of it? I want to sell it. Where is the buyer?

Only individuals can come up with solutions to world's problems. "Government" is just coercion, robbery and murder that some people carry out in the name of others.

241   Reality   2014 Jul 13, 2:06pm  

Rin says

Looks, it's hard to get someone pregnant, just by getting some oral.

Sounds like you need some sex therapy ;-) Go have fun at it.

242   Peter P   2014 Jul 15, 3:43am  

There are 69 ways to avoid pregnancy. You don't have to be specific.

243   Heraclitusstudent   2014 Jul 15, 3:52am  

Reality says

"Government" is just coercion, robbery and murder that some people carry out in the name of others.

If Hebrews had been like tea-baggers, they would hated the idea of following a leader, Moses, to the promised land.

Instead would just spread in all directions as each individual would have had it.

Because it's a fact that individuals always know better than the government.

244   Rin   2014 Jul 15, 3:55am  

Heraclitusstudent says

Instead would just spread in all directions

The other direction was Libya, they might as well have followed Charlton Heston, than Qaddafi :-)

245   NDrLoR   2014 Jul 15, 1:54pm  

Rin says

I see myself as a creative and intelligent person

And self-absorbed.

246   Reality   2014 Jul 16, 2:01am  

Heraclitusstudent says

Reality says

"Government" is just coercion, robbery and murder that some people carry out in the name of others.

If Hebrews had been like tea-baggers, they would hated the idea of following a leader, Moses, to the promised land.

Instead would just spread in all directions as each individual would have had it.

Because it's a fact that individuals always know better than the government.

I hope you do realize, at the time of Moses, the "government" was the Pharoah. Moses was the individual who led a bunch of individuals in a different direction from where the Pharoah wanted to enslave them.

247   corntrollio   2014 Jul 16, 3:24am  

Peter P says

There are 69 ways to avoid pregnancy. You don't have to be specific.

I was talking about "everything but" girls, i.e. they want to keep their technical virginity. Some people may call them "everything butt."

248   Peter P   2014 Jul 16, 3:30am  

corntrollio says

Peter P says

There are 69 ways to avoid pregnancy. You don't have to be specific.

I was talking about "everything but" girls, i.e. they want to keep their technical virginity. Some people may call them "everything butt."

What about 69 ways to have sex and keep your virginity?

Ooh, sounds like a great book title. :-)

249   Heraclitusstudent   2014 Jul 16, 3:42am  

Reality says

I hope you do realize, at the time of Moses, the "government" was the Pharoah.

Nope, Moses was the leader (and so "government") of the Hebrews the minute they fled Egypt.

Since you are against any central leadership, you should relate to that.

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