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Men check out women too. -- Especially their boobs, and talk about them at "happy hours"

Yes, as Executive Officer at an ammunition plant I received (unsolicited) input into the hiring of the security chief and chief engineer from female staff such as 'he is too good looking not to hire."
During a wilder stage of life I had a young bisexual nymphomaniac stripper girlfriend. It was a change to be walking down a street and realize your girlfriend was eyeing boobs more than you, and for similar reason.
Despite the femanazi rhetoric and boiler plate, women are sexual beings also. Around 30, especially after a divorce, even though most still look good, they figure out that they will not have loads of male attention just by possessing a set of decent tits and and ass. (Well, some don't have to, but most). That BTW is why women this age are ideal partners, FWB, even for younger males).

resistance says

An unlikely number of new random women just happen to walk by and look into the room where I'm being interviewed, no doubt informed explicitly or implicitly by the other women that there is a new man to evaluate. They cannot let the competition get there first! They smile and say hello, as if that were normal on the street. But it's not.

The receptionists and HR women clearly have those jobs partly because it's a way to check out a continuous stream of men for short- or long-term mating potential

Don't rock the boat. This is how I got every job I've ever had.

georgeliberte says

I had a young bisexual nymphomaniac stripper girlfriend

Add in daddy issues and bi-polar disorder, and you have my dating search profile.

resistance says

there's a feeling I'm being watched, judged, and talked about.

Unless you are spectacularly good looking or potentially the new head of their department, I doubt it.

Why do you think I'd rather bang whores?

A lot of this stuff is a bunch of crap, just cannon fodder for a future lawsuit.

Rin says

Why do you think I'd rather bang whores?

Because a woman might be looking at you through a window? Here's a tip... Just be flattered. A girl noticed you. What's the big deal? Does it have to mean something scary?

Ironman says

Rin says

Why do you think I'd rather bang whores?

Because you can't find a regular girlfriend, so your only other choice is to pay for companionship...

So sad...

Says the guy who finds his companionship at the petting zoo and cemeteries.

turtledove says

Unless you are spectacularly good looking

That's me.

turtledove says

Here's a tip... Just be flattered.

TD and others, you don't get it ... I don't pay for companionship. I have plenty of companions.

I pay for a boink, and a boink only, no false rape charges there.

turtledove says

Does it have to mean something scary?

Women are scary. Children are even scarier.

Ceffer says

Women are scary. Children are even scarier.

Boo!

Cute scary is still scary.

turtledove says

resistance says

there's a feeling I'm being watched, judged, and talked about.

Unless you are spectacularly good looking or potentially the new head of their department, I doubt it.

Please note that well, resistance: Only women are allowed to imagine and pretend out loud that men find them irresistible (!) even when said women are far from spectacularly good looking.

Don't judge me
Don't rape me
I owe you nothing
Women are individuals
No more violence against women...

You're right. These are foolish ideas. I can see why you find it so offensive.

As for looking at an attractive guy, give me a break. How many women have you drooled over in your lifetime (or men, if that's your thing)? How many women have caused you to go temporarily brain dead? We're not all that different. We make stupid choices over hotties just like you do. It's really not a mystery. We've all lost our trains-of-thought after a hit from cupid's arrow. I like to think I'm above all that at this point in my life... and for the most part, I would say that's the case. Then just yesterday, my gardener was putting down new sod in my backyard. His 27-year-old son was helping him out. He is so unbelievably cute! OMgoodness! Makes me want to go out there and mess up my new lawn.

justme says

Only women are allowed to imagine and pretend out loud that men find them irresistible

Pretend away!... No one is stopping you. No one cares. He can pretend all those women are really drooling over him... In my opinion if he isn't really good looking or about to be hired for a position that could impact their lives then it's probably in his head. I'm not judging him. I'm stating what I believe to be the most likely reality. What's more likely:

Everyone wants him?

or

He's imagining a "hunt" when in reality, at best, it's more like spectators at a zoo who naturally look up when the tiger comes into view through the window?

I have known a lot of macho men who thump their chest and talk about how dominant they are. When their wives walk in, they turn into quivering, whimpering honey-do jellies.

It's pretty strange to see the posturing vs. the reality.

turtledove says

justme says

Only women are allowed to imagine and pretend out loud that men find them irresistible

Pretend away!... No one is stopping you. No one cares.

Maybe you don't care, but I can assure you that society as a whole does to a large extent. When is the last time you saw a bunch of guys on facebook making fake compliments to each other about how Hott! they are, like women do to each other all the time? What might be the reason it does not happen?

I can assure you, if guys started doing that, women would care. A lot.

turtledove says

resistance says

there's a feeling I'm being watched, judged, and talked about.

Unless you are spectacularly good looking or potentially the new head of their department, I doubt it.

Please note that well, resistance: Only women are allowed to imagine and pretend out loud that men find them irresistible (!) even when said women are far from spectacularly good looking.

turtledove says

His 27-year-old son was helping him out. He is so unbelievably cute! OMgoodness! Makes me want to go out there and mess up my new lawn.

turtledove says

He's (ED: Resistance) imagining a "hunt" when in reality, at best, it's more like spectators at a zoo who naturally look up when the tiger comes into view through the window?

Okay, so you have decided that Resistance, the man, can't possibly be anything like Sod27, the sod-boy from your back yard. I wonder if Sod27 felt like he was just the new animal in the zoo or a bona-fide sex object?

justme says

Okay, so you have decided that Resistance, the man, can't possibly be anything like Sod27, the sod-boy from your back yard. I wonder if Sod27 felt like he was just the new animal in the zoo or a bona-fide sex object?

Well, he came back today to double check his work, so I guess he wasn't too scarred by the experience of a passing appreciative glance.

On a more general note, notice how turtledove is using generic shaming tactics on this thread. When Resistance says something she does not want to be true, she starts shaming him and saying that it is unlikely that he is hot enough to be an ogle-object of the female employees.

Nowhere does she acknowledge the double standard of allowing HR women ogling the new male interviewees without complaint, saying that basically "it is all in your head". The "it's all in your head" by the way, is known as "gaslighting", and is a favorite term of feminists. Except they never apply the term when men are the victims, which happens all the time.

turtledove says

Well, he came back today to double check his work, so I guess he wasn't too scarred by the experience of a passing appreciative glance.

Either that, or perhaps he needed the money. Did you make sure to double-check his ass while he was working the sod?

justme says

Nowhere does she acknowledge the double standard of allowing HR women ogling the new male interviewees without complaint, saying that basically "it is all in your head". The "it's all in your head" by the way, is known as "gaslighting", and is a favorite term of feminists. Except they never apply the term when men are the victims, which happens all the time.

I would have said the same thing if a woman came on here talking about how all the men were "on the hunt" and bemoaning how all the men want her. It's delusional no matter who says it.

justme says

Either that, or perhaps he needed the money. Did you make sure to double-check his ass while he was working the sod?

Nah... I paid them yesterday when the work was done. It was a quick visit. He just checked his work, asked me if I had any concerns about any of it, and left. Sorry to disappoint you. All I said was that he's cute. I'm not sure how that translates into groping him with my eyes. There are a lot of looks that fall between passing acknowledgment and an obsessive comatose stare. What I think is interesting is that you don't seem to see a difference. You think that any woman who glances your way is obsessed with you. That's beyond absurd. Everyone who looks your way isn't trying to figure out how she can marry you... or take advantage of you in any way. Anyone, male or female, who thinks that everyone is trying to get into their pants and take advantage of them is suffering from serious delusions. Even the really good looking ones. The self centeredness it requires in order to believe that everyone is in love with you is an unattractive quality no matter what a person looks like. Most normal people would find that pretty repellent in very short order.

turtledove says

What I think is interesting is that you don't seem to see a difference. You think that any woman who glances your way is obsessed with you. That's beyond absurd

Exactly. That is what us have been saying for decades. Just because a man looks at you and thinks you are hot-he did not rape you mentally or magically turn you into a sex doll/object. It is nature-you enjoy the sunset, flowers or a breathtaking women or some jiggling bouncy boobs.

Men never cared either, but then since this was made PC and men called rapists for the said act, men are just saying hey-women indulge in the same too. That if it is mental rape for one gender, then should it not be mental rape for the other gender too?

Remember we live in a world where a woman got a restraining order against david letterman, because she claimed in court docs that he was harassing her through his TV show and sending coded signals through TV or some such. Some judge actually gave her the restraining order. That is the world feminazis have created and men are saying -hey all these things you accuse us of-you do it yourselves-so what is the big deal? or does it matter only if men do it???

I don't believe that everyone is in love with me. I do believe that most people have inherent sex drive, and desires, much more aligned with mine. For whatever reason, society embraced dumb ass puritanical nonsense that one should be ashamed of it. And from that, all of this suffering abounds