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I don't begrudge her anything, but the converse isn't true - she'll fight me on "needs" like a desk to work at
I am a researcher, I won't buy anything without months of research. Most of the time I decide it ain't worth it.
Ha. Not spending money is my Super Power. This is one of my core techniques.
Good luck Amigo.
At least you had the balls to give it a go. I'm a few years older than you (still 40s) and have never been married. Fuck that. Interestingly once I hit my 40s co-workers started opening up with me at lunch. I'd say about 90% of guys regret being married.
Then there is the 10% that were lucky.
My hat's off to you.
Thanks, buddy. It's all work and little reward. It's not like my house is clean and my kids squared away when I'm off work. Then the female stuff on top of it all.
My wife paid off the last $4K of my college debt. That's when I knew she was The One.
It's rare that they bring much to the table these days. Mostly just bring debt.
My wife paid off the last $4K of my college debt. That's when I knew she was The One.
I won't even tell ya. Fortunately, unlike Commie Cult Fornia, Florida excludes all property AND all debt initiated before the marriage, unless there was an agreement to the contrary.
Patrick saysMy wife paid off the last $4K of my college debt. That's when I knew she was The One.
Gigolo :-)
Interesting. I'm not sure I'd even risk getting married in Texas these days.
there is no alimony
You are lucky to be making this move now, friend. I have seen the DECADES of misery that can ensue from where you are now, when people “stick it out for the sake of the children”. What the children learn, of course, is that relationships are based on disdain and disrespect.
The older I get the more I observe and understand that *choice of a mate* is probably the most critical decision that we make, you can certainly change jobs easier.
Robert Sproul saysYou are lucky to be making this move now, friend. I have seen the DECADES of misery that can ensue from where you are now, when people “stick it out for the sake of the children”. What the children learn, of course, is that relationships are based on disdain and disrespect.
The older I get the more I observe and understand that *choice of a mate* is probably the most critical decision that we make, you can certainly change jobs easier.
Thank you man, you're right on that score It was "My kids need to see what normalcy and routine looks like." and "Holy shit, at 65 I'll be broke from her spending, and if I manage to hide something, she'll drag me and spend it on a trip to Italy for 3 months." I'm also just fucking tired of gaslighting and hysterics.
MOST women think at least half of men make $100k.
Thank you man, you're right on that score It was "My kids need to see what normalcy and routine looks like." and "Holy shit, at 65 I'll be broke from her spending, and if I manage to hide something, she'll drag me and spend it on a trip to Italy for 3 months." I'm also just fucking tired of gaslighting and hysterics.
6' tall, 8" dick, and 100k a year or don't bother me
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Wife wants the Sephora-Sushi-Ritzy Schnitzy Yuppie land, I deposited some money to pay the bills and she walked in with Ulta and Sally's totes. No more, too the moon, Alice.
She likes to catch as catch can and I want to be a country man, put down some roots, plant some YAMS!
Shit, that all kinda rhymed. Mixed emotions, but mostly relief. I just can't wander from place to place anymore, I'm done.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FA6WNf08VbQ
So today it happened. Gettin' the RV out and looking for a space, worst time of year (snowbird season) for it.