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@richwicks, you're not always right but, you're more right (about that which you decide to comment on) than 99% of everyone on Pat.net.

GNL says

richwicks, you're not always right but, you're more right (about that which you decide to comment on) than 99% of everyone on Pat.net.

I want to know when I'm wrong. I know I can be wrong, but what disturbs me is when I get pushback without explanation. I can't improve unless I understand how I've fucked up, and I know I can fuck up and do.

I'm on a fucking ledge and rarely does anybody tell my why to step back. That's all I want. I can't see how I'm wrong, I'm told I'm wrong, but with no reasoning. Nobody explains my error which leads me to believe I'm not in error. This abstracts me from most people, and it's really excruciating, and by that I really mean this is emotionally and intellectually painful for me. I really really want people to explain my errors, if I'm in error, or to agree with me, if I'm not. I just get the middle ground - ignored.

Telling me I'm incorrect just makes me search for how I am possibly wrong, and that's a vast space of searching. Just point me to a star.

I appreciate the compliment by the way. Thank you.