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We finally bought a house.


               
2010 Sep 20, 1:14am   1,752 views  10 comments

by jales   follow (0)  

I love patrick.net. Everything on this website is so true... okay I dont know if everything is true. But I'M SO HAPPY SOMEONE IS TELLING MORE OF THE TRUTH ABOUT HOMEONWERSHIP than the media is. My goodness renting is soooo much better than owning a house. Okay I am still very happy that we bought the house that we did. But the stress is so much more than if you simply rent.

I dont care about wall colors or any other crap like that, tiles or whatever. It makes no difference to me.. and so far that is all I can here people list as a benefit to owning.. the ability to spend money you may not have on making the place look the way you wish it looked. Geez... it is annoying.. who cares how a house looks? It should function... not look pretty.

Okay I came here some months ago when we were looking for a house.. I came across this forum. Because we were considering under bidding, which we did and we didnt get the house because we bid to low. I was feeling so sad... you have no idea how happy I am that we never got that house now. Oh my. My advice to my kids will be NEVER ever borrow money from the bank for a house. It is simply not worth it.

The house we have now we bought it outright, so no bank was involved and it is an okay house.. so it is not terrible what we did. And over all I'm okay with things. It's just if I were to answer genuinely.. I would have to say I preferred renting (if I was asked that question). I may only feel that way as we spent all our savings then a lot of big house related bills came our way and now we are drinking tap water and eating plain pasta lol.. for the next few days... but well.

Renting is good. I love renting. Owning is stressful. I am still very happy that we own but only because if we never did it I would never have known that this is what it was like. I am soooooooooooo happy that we did not go into debt for a house. And now that I know what it feels like to spend so much money I dont think I can ever see loans the same way.

I really cant ever see myself borrowing money for a car or anything like that now. I think its just to risky. I would rather save. Imagine if we had a loan on this house. We could not pay for the repairs we needed if that was the case. We would have been soo screwed.

Anyway thanks thanks thanks for telling the truth about houses. Keep telling it. I hope people LISTEN!!!

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1   SFace   2010 Sep 20, 3:18am  

congrats on buying, but disagree about borrowing money. Let's say the house is 200K and you had 250K saved.

1) Buy the house outright and have 50K left.
2) Borrow 3.875% 15 year mortgage and, pay 50K down and have 200K left? I'm not sure you made the right decision.

Owing is stressful the first 10 years, thereafter that stress becomes security.

2   TechGromit   2010 Sep 20, 3:43am  

SF ace says

congrats on buying, but disagree about borrowing money.

If I'm reading your post right, it looks like your saying to put as small a down payment as you can, in the case of a 250k house 50k, borrow the other 200k then invest the other 200k? Is it just me or isn't that partly how we go into the mess where in now? People putting little or nothing down, borrowing the rest and "investing" the difference. Often there idea of investing was a BMW and a big boat, but even if every Penny was invested in the stock market, we seen what a great idea that can be.

I firmly believe there is two kinds of debt, Bad debt and Worse debt. Neither one is desirable and everyone should strive to minimize bad debt and completely avoid worse debt. Whats bad debt? A mortgage or car loan. Worse debt, credit cards and other high interest loans. People need to get out of this mode of thinking debt is good for them, it's not. Sometimes it's a necessary evil, but you should never consider your deal with the devil as something good.

3   TechGromit   2010 Sep 20, 4:00am  

I would be very interested to see how there figures looked without the massive stimulus package congress pushed though included. I'd wager the numbers wouldn't be so favorable. You can't have a house with a mortgage on it, withdraw a bunch of equity from it, go on a spending spree and claim your doing financially well. The same can be said for the country, you can't borrow billions, throw into the economy and claim things are wonderful again, sooner of later the money has to be paid back, with interest.

I'm not sure how my post ended up here, but this comet was meant for the recession is over topic under housing.

4   pkennedy   2010 Sep 20, 4:44am  

If you paid outright for your house, why are you eating plain pasta? You should have MORE money now. You are no longer paying rent. Other expenses yes, but the big one is interest and principal, which you aren't paying now.

Most repairs are fairly moderate, and you should be able to afford them. Putting away $100-300/month will easily cover all repairs, unless you bought a place requiring significant repairs upfront, in which case you should have factored that in.

5   Â¥   2010 Sep 20, 5:25am  

I would rather save. Imagine if we had a loan on this house. We could not pay for the repairs we needed if that was the case. We would have been soo screwed.

? If you had a loan on the house you'd still have the money you paid to buy the house, no?

3.5% loans with a ~35% kickback from the gov't is ~almost~ free money, 2.27% to be exact.

You can get 2.7% in 10 year treasuries today, 'course structuring your investments to not get hit with annual income tax can be tricky.

Without spreadsheeting the numbers it is difficult to make a good decision.

Of course, spreadsheets can't predict future events like wage inflation/deflation, energy shocks, gov't policy changes.

If history is any guide we'll be seeing another round of wage inflation later this decade.

But I think history is broken now.

6   Done!   2010 Sep 20, 7:47am  

In this Dog Greedy age of every thing has to be gamed, and living takes back seat to unrealistic profit and growth, while demanding what they pay for goods and services go down. So that instant gratification of consumerism, can be a frivolous as going to the sink and pouring a cup of water. It would be unrealistic for you to expect Kudos on your Cash purchase from this Keynesian alternate universe.

Doing what you did, in this era of the Economic Mulligan, where if you get buyers remorse, you cold just walk away from a Financed obligation no worse for the ware, is inexcusable.

Paying Cash, so you can be your own Man, and not have to answer to a Bank, Land Lord, Insurance companies, Loan officers, more complicated Tax codes, and the ability to now retire rent free, (when you choose to do so), is Priceless.

What the price of houses does be damned, you made an excellent choice. The actual values of Houses right now are no more tangible than when they were in Peak bubble prices. (In many areas, excluding Fortress upscale markets) Surely not every Seller, but for the most part, many houses on the Market are at a fair price, if the Economy willing. But it's not, and there will be further ways to drop before this is all over. In most part due to all of the "Economic Stimulus", "Tarp", "HAMP" and a whole litany of others to follow in the near term future, I'm certain.

Take advantage of every penny your price drops, be at the courthouse steps that day petitioning your Tax roll. Ride it down the very last penny. Because the day, will(might) come, when the economy actually will spring back it might be this decade or the next. But for us Long Haulers, when we retire, we will be enjoying paying tax on an assessed value of 99K or less, while others will be paying 225-350K. For comparable houses they will be buying then.

A few hundred bucks a month to the City tax revenuer a month, isn't a bad move at all. Keynesian economics be damned.

I financed through FHA my self, because I was told it was cheap and it was easy, It was neither!

If I had my rathers, I would have waited a little longer and paid cash, or at least put down a bigger DP and wouldn't have $90 a month in MIP, payments, and got the lowest rate available. There's a lot they don't tell you about ONLY putting down the required 3.5%. It's a super huge screw job and a con job.

For a little more than I paid out in Closing costs, not including my initial DP, I could have put down 10 or even 20%, and been a hell of a lot better off. Besides the monthly MIP payment, I was hit with up front up charge of almost 4K for the mortgage insurance.

The loan process was the most undignified experience I ever went though. I'll never buy from a bank again, or use a credit card for that matter.

7   pkennedy   2010 Sep 20, 8:15am  

And that is why SFace said to put down 50K.

8   seaside   2010 Sep 20, 2:12pm  

First, congratulations for you, jales.

Buying it outright and call it a day is the most clean, straight forward way. It is the best decision if you think you're not familiar with financing or don't know how to play it. Remember whatever fancy word you call it, it basically is debt.

If you had to finance, then... Ok, let's cut the all the cheeses make things simple.

Current 15yr fixed rate is about 3.85%, but you're not gonna this rate, unless you and your situation is almost perfect. So, let's assume you borrowed 200K @ 15yrs/3.95% starting Oct 2010. Your monthly payment is $1475, plus BS fee like processing fee they charge. The interest you're paying for the last 3 monthes in 2010 would be $1967, $7700 or so for whole 2011, $7250 or so for 2012. That amount will be decreased over time as you pays your mortage. Total cumulative interest you're gonna pay is about 65.5K. Is this enough incentive for tax purpose? I can't say since I don't know your situation. Refer Troy's math as a grain of salt if you're in CA. If not, you do your math according to your local tax law. It may or may not beat standard deduction depending one your situation.

Now, it comes to opportunity cost comparison. This shit is hyperthetical thing, like should've, would've stuff, just like other financial BS. So, to make things simple, I am assuming you're somehow able to get about 31% (20K) out of 65.5K back thru next 15 yrs from tax return or whatever. That makes your total interest cost 45.5K. Then the question is, do you think you can get 45.5K profit or more by using your 200K in 15yrs?

If you think you can get significantly more than that, you should've taken financing option.
If you say yes and little more, then ask yourself. Does that "little more" in 15yrs worth the hassle?
If you don't think you can, or you don't want to care, your cash decision was right.

Again, congrats for your purchase. Live happy life in there.

9   pkennedy   2010 Sep 21, 5:19am  

Note: $500 or less if the wife doesn't try and turn it into a redesign effort.

10   RayAmerica   2010 Sep 21, 5:32am  

jales .... I think you did the right thing. There is nothing, IMO, like owning your primary home outright. Now that you're a homeowner, try to learn as much as you can about home maintenance. There are a lot of good books, magazines (like This Old House), videos on the web, etc. on home maintenance. If you need any work done by contractors, always get at least 3 estimates and ask for testemonials. If a contractor wants cash before they begin work for any reason, find someone else. Enjoy your home .... you fired your landlord.

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