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2005 Aug 22, 3:03pm   17,918 views  107 comments

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Here's the thing...
Over the last few weeks or so a lot of threads have gotten a bit heated. For some reason talking about the housing market, and the bubble in particular, seems to get a lot of people really riled up. Why is that?
We've all heard the various rants:

Bubbleheads/bears are jealous renters who are just angry and bitter that they didn't buy.

RE bulls are nervous owners who are over leveraged using NAAVLP's and are too afraid to admit they are soon going to see their finances in ruins when the market crashes.

And so on.
Why do you think people are so emotional beyond the obvious arguments listed above? Is it because of a general nervousness about the market, a belief that the bubble is over-stated or just some sort of strange denial about the whole thing?

Give us your opinion BUT keep it civil. The threadmaster will delete at will.

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33   sfbayqt   2005 Aug 23, 6:49am  

So when I listen to other people who seem to TALK so smart but havent put any chips on the table or wont put any chips on the table (so it seems) because of FEAR, and in return they blame everyone and their dog for causing all these problems…?…that makes me mad.

Amazing. SIM, you haven't been a part of this blog long enough to really know who has or hasn't put chips on the table. It may not have been *at this time* but some of us have, and have shared our experiences here. Many of us learned valuable lessons. We don't have to put our money in the fire this time to see if it's hot. Some folks need to.

Are you saying that the reason you didint get involved in RE is because you knew it was over priced and you didnt want to get involved because you were/are afraid your participation would lead to other individuals getting hurt?

IMO, I don't think that is what SactoQT was alluding to, but she can best explain.

As I have said before, I do NOT begrudge anyone (including you) their good fortune in this RE market. The earlier birds surely caught some nice fat worms. But things are changing. What was discussed on the blog VERY early on (in May or so) is now hitting the media as many people in the industry (RE, Fed, etc) are starting to see the transition in the market. So please stop being so ugly about this. We are DISCUSSING...sharing ideas, positions, and educating each other. Is something really wrong with that?

BayQT~

34   HARM   2005 Aug 23, 7:35am  

Don’t forsake what you did because you couldn’t see the future, and don’t give yourself deity-like abilities because you got lucky either.

Gee, Matt, I wonder who we could use as an example here... Hmmm, this is a tough one... :roll:

You have to embrace what you believe even if no one else does (e.g. P/E fundamentals), and yet be ready to re-evaluate your belief system (e.g. if Asian buyers throw the normal thing out of whack by wanting a home regardless of the price.). That’s a tough but essential balance.

Great point that ties in nicely with Veritas's "conundrum":

We are all “True Believers” in our positions, and have adopted them as a quasi-dogma, for which there can be little if any movement without direct impact that will shift our thoughts one way or the other.

It may be impossible to completely eliminate personal bias and the tendency to overweight evidence that seems to support our desired conclusions, and underweight evidence that conflicts with them. However, I believe you can do the next best thing, and focus instead on things that are NOT so easily distorted by emotion. Things like price-rent (PE) ratios, price-income ratios, mortgage lending standards, historical data on use of "exotic" mortgages, cash-out refis, etc. The fundamentals have always been good fundamental indicators of underlying asset values, and I believe they will continue to be in the future.

It's true that we all wear the emotion filter to some degree, but that doesn't necessarily mean we're enslaved to it. As Matt said, keeping an open mind and the ability to question or change our own assumptions if they prove wrong is the key to good decision making.

35   gabby   2005 Aug 23, 7:41am  

Was it Peter P or HARM who gave October as the date the market crashes? Reading yesterdays article links:
http://tinyurl.com/7ebgq

"The next U.S. recession will start in earnest on October 17. (If it hasn't already.)

That's the day the new bankruptcy law kicks-in, and credit card banks get hit by a double-whammy of their own creation."

36   gabby   2005 Aug 23, 7:51am  

I was speaking to a good friend yesterday who lives in London. He made a fortune (10 million pounds) from RE there - he got out before it started to level off and he was very much in agreement to steer clear of the US RE market at the moment. He was now doing a lot of trading and has also been very successful at it.

He was on the Chicago stock exchange floor a couple of weeks ago visiting with some very successful traders - these are the guys who make 3 mill a year (!). He said it's really interesting watching how they make decisions on trades. Everyone has their own systems but the best seem to not have majorly fancy tools but have a few tried and tested setups and it's really about psychology more than anything. The market is driven by fear and being in the 'Pit' - the trading floor is amazing as you can hear the change in emotions, people even pay for a pit noise feed to get commentary on what's going on and the ebb and flow in the market.

He got home from Chicago and immediately unsubscribed to every publication he belonged to. He said it influenced you to make decisions based on news that was really for entertainment value. I think fear can paralyse you a little too much when making investment decisions. A few years back I wanted to buy another house in LA but my husband, an avid reader of every publication out there was concerned by the predictions of the Economist etc and didn't think things would go up much more. I was far less read but my sense based on other markets I'd invested in overseas showing the same trend as LA (that it was going to rise) said it was a good time. Right now I don't think it's fear, it's now become logical not to invest when the market is so high. Even though we need a larger house we are going to hold off - there is no hurry as I don't think things will go up much more, if they do it won't be much, and if it did go up another 20% then I'd rather rent. I might see an expensive sweater that I really want and it's just that price but it's my decision to buy into that luxury item. Its all about affordability and not being stupid.

37   SQT15   2005 Aug 23, 7:54am  

Are you saying that the reason you didint get involved in RE is because you knew it was over priced and you didnt want to get involved because you were/are afraid your participation would lead to other individuals getting hurt?

I don't know if this is addressed to me or not, but if it is I'll say this; my lack of participation in the market is because of a combination of factors, but other individuals never entered into the equation. Initially my husband and I were unable to get in because we went to one income when we had children. When his earnings had increased and we could start looking, asking prices had started going through the roof and we just didn't think the prices were justified by fundamentals. Now papers like USA today are saying that the Sacramento market is 54% overvalued and very likely to correct in the near future.
http://tinyurl.com/b8dgq
I have been one of the few to admit that yes, at times I wish we could have bought in about 5 years ago, but having said that, I am not sorry I didn't buy in last year or this year. I do think a change is coming. I also don't lie awake at night worrying about the bills because those are covered and we have a good amount saved toward retirement. I don't think I've been a whiner or complainer. We have left some chips on the table but not all and I think we'll be ok in the long run. Like I said before, the ones who are the most strident are the ones I think have the most fear.

38   Peter P   2005 Aug 23, 7:57am  

Everyone has their own systems but the best seem to not have majorly fancy tools but have a few tried and tested setups and it’s really about psychology more than anything.

I can attest to this... fancy tools do nothing but to enrich snake-oil salesmen.

39   Peter P   2005 Aug 23, 8:01am  

I have been one of the few to admit that yes, at times I wish we could have bought in about 5 years ago, but having said that, I am not sorry I didn’t buy in last year or this year.

Well said.

I wish I had done a lot of things... but I would not have done those things given the circumstances and information I had in the past. We can only act according to the present and a reasonable projection of the future, but not the past.

40   gabby   2005 Aug 23, 8:14am  

I like complaining that house prices are too high but I'm not complaining that others are making money. Good on them, they took the risk and they should get the reward. I've done ok on a couple of RE investments which were prudent buys and while I may not have made a ton of money I'm comfortable.

If the market goes south, I can only imagine what real whining and complaining sounds like. I've been on this blog for a while and at times I hear us kick ourselves that maybe we should have bought more years ago - that's normal but not a lot of real whining. I'm more amazed at the people entering into ridiculous mortgages that they can't afford that are really illogical and put them into a very leveraged scary position.

41   Peter P   2005 Aug 23, 8:18am  

Good on them, they took the risk and they should get the reward.

I only complain about people who profit through illegal means. I have no problem with rule-benders but I would hate to compete with law-breakers!

42   gabby   2005 Aug 23, 8:38am  

Peter P - I completely agree. I was actually pretty shocked to read the comments about the predators using scams to get houses at Mish's blog:
http://tinyurl.com/dkbty

To quote some of it:

Foreclosure "rescue" scams fall into three main categories:

• Phantom help: The "rescuer" charges outrageous fees for light-duty phone calls or paperwork that the homeowner could easily do, none of which results in saving the home. This predatory scam gives homeowners a false sense of hope and prevents them from seeking qualified help.

• The bailout: In this scam the homeowner is deceived into signing over title with the belief that they will be able to remain in the house as a renter and eventually buy it back over time. The terms of these scams are so onerous that the buy-back becomes impossible, the homeowner loses possession and the "rescuer" walks off with most or all of the equity.

• The bait-and-switch: In this scam, the homeowners think they are signing documents to bring the mortgage current, but instead actually surrender their ownership. They usually don't even know they've been scammed until they're evicted.

I've seen those late night commercials about how to profit from foreclosures but if this is what people are doing then I'm horrified.

43   HARM   2005 Aug 23, 8:45am  

Gabby, I too don't wish ill on those who have recently sold their primary residence or even a long-term investment property and made money. On the other hand, I personally can't wait to see speculators crash and burn, and I don't think it's wrong for me to feel this way.

These are the people who helped to create/inflate this bubble to ridiculous heights, making many areas (including virtually ALL of California) unaffordable to working class families, who just want a place to live. IMO, they deserve to suffer harsh consequences for their selfishness and greed, and I hope the market obliges.

I guarantee that these same greedy, bragging arrogant jerks who are now flipping condos and insulting everyone else for being too "afraid" or "stupid" to buy now will be the first to DEMAND that the taxpayer bail them out for their reckless behavior.

They will also be first in line to file lawsuits against their Realtors, brokers and appraisers, because when they lose money, it's always "someone else's fault". When they're making money, of course, it's due to their sheer genius and raw courage.

Such is human nature, I guess....

44   Peter P   2005 Aug 23, 8:46am  

Gabby, these people are bad and unethical. I surely hate them. However, apprasial fraud and mortgage fraud are arguably more harmful. At least the above scams are avoidable if one remains sharp and smart. Apprasial/mortgage fraud distorts the entire market.

45   SQT15   2005 Aug 23, 8:57am  

I'm just glad that there are forums like this one that tell people about the scams Gabby mentioned. I'd assume if you are alert and read carefully before you sign anything you'd be ok, but some people are so slick you can't be too careful.

I hope those who are guilty of morgage/appraisal fraud get slapped down hard! That kind of greed hurts everyone.

46   Peter P   2005 Aug 23, 9:00am  

I’d assume if you are alert and read carefully before you sign anything you’d be ok, but some people are so slick you can’t be too careful.

Very true. But generally, if something looks like cheese and smells like cheese, it is probably a mouse trap.

(BTW, they are opening a new mouse trap in Hong Kong, China this year.) :mrgreen:

47   Peter P   2005 Aug 23, 9:00am  

BTW, they are opening a new mouse trap in Hong Kong, China this year.

To clarify, it is a people trap operated by mouse.

48   HARM   2005 Aug 23, 9:01am  

Peter, do you think that most appraisers (at the working stiff level anyway) really have much say in the process? Remember the definition of “Unemployed Real Estate Appraiser": A person who refuses to lie for a fee.

Bottom line is, if you don't appraise the house for the number the buyer/seller/realtors/brokers want, you may not get any more work. The same thing seems to work for lenders --don't qualify people for loans they have no way of repaying, then they go elsewhere.

IMHO, the best way to prevent this type of fraud is to force lenders to hold a large chunk of the NAAVLPs they originate on their books. Then you'll start seeing those "quaint" lending standards reappear REAL fast.

49   Peter P   2005 Aug 23, 9:07am  

Peter, do you think that most appraisers (at the working stiff level anyway) really have much say in the process? Remember the definition of “Unemployed Real Estate Appraiser”: A person who refuses to lie for a fee.

Well I did not say that it is necessarily their fraud. ;)

I think the mortgage industry will be slapped very hard.

50   sfbayqt   2005 Aug 23, 9:54am  

People who are buying today are rational. So many of you believe that buyers today cannot afford what they are buying. So, please explain to me if they cannot afford to buy, how and why are they buying? What governing body dictates an affordable home to one individual or another?

It’s so obvious to me that anybody buying in this market, so long as they didn’t get in a bidding war, are going to be in the money next year and the following.

(throwing up hands) Have you been under a rock??? I can't believe that you have NOT been reading the same stuff we are reading! Sheesh!! UN-fr*&(n - believable. :|

51   Peter P   2005 Aug 23, 10:09am  

People who are buying today are rational.

MP, why do you have so much faith in the market? I refuse to believe that the market is always efficient. That would be that I cannot win speculating in the market. I refuse to believe in that.

So many of you believe that buyers today cannot afford what they are buying. So, please explain to me if they cannot afford to buy, how and why are they buying? What governing body dictates an affordable home to one individual or another?

We have discussed that already and I am bored talking about it. I do not really care anymore. I just want to focus on profiting from market actions.

52   Peter P   2005 Aug 23, 10:10am  

I’m sure everybody will start attacking me and calling me a fool etc. But, that’s exactly the way i like it.

Then you must hate me because I have counted you as my buddy.

53   sfbayqt   2005 Aug 23, 10:15am  

MP,

I own out-of-state (purchased 6 years ago...1999) and rent locally. I started buying in the late 70's. At last count, I've owned 4 pieces of property and I look forward to purchasing at least 1 or 2 more before I retire...hopefully in the next 2 or 3 years. My main objective is to retire comfortably with the proceeds of my property, 401(K), IRA, whatever Uncle Sam gives me from SS, and (as a divorce settlement after 23 years of marriage) the agree upon portion of my ex-husband's pension. As a single woman (children are 27 and 21) I don't think I am doing poorly at all. I do my homework and study all angles before I jump into anything.

The property I own in VA is in the black...over the years of regular rent increases and 1 refinance, I realize $300/month profit, so it pays for itself. If I wanted to, I could take an equity loan to buy an additional piece and still not go in my pocket. But I don't care to do that until the Jaws music stops playing.

I'm doing fine, thanks. 8-)

BayQT~

54   Peter P   2005 Aug 23, 10:15am  

It’s my opinion that if one could make $65-75K/month in the Bay Area, that’s enough for a great lifestyle.

Of course... that would be over 1M per year pre-tax though.

55   Peter P   2005 Aug 23, 10:16am  

Oops, not $65-75k/month.. but a year! Or, roughly $1,500/month is spending money after savings sounds like a good amount of money to me.

Well, depending on what you like to eat though...

Work to live, live to eat!

56   sfbayqt   2005 Aug 23, 10:20am  

I want to clear something up...that I am not retiring in 2-3 years, but would like to buy in 2-3 years. I've already begun paying extra towards my principal which will shorten the life of the loan, as well as saves me money by paying less interest on the balance owed.

BayQT~

57   Peter P   2005 Aug 23, 10:31am  

50% of people’s income isn’t that big of a deal. I do believe i can live on literally 1/3rd the remaining half of my income and be very happy.

But 50% of pre-tax income for a family making less than 100K a year can be a problem...

According to some agents that I talked to, this is not uncommon in the silly valley...

58   Peter P   2005 Aug 23, 10:34am  

Well MarinaPrime, forgot to thank you for the Avocado bacon pasta recipe. I will surely try it out.

59   sfbayqt   2005 Aug 23, 10:37am  

MP,

A multi-unit building would be a wise purchase...but not now! Do it in a few years. (I've thought of that, as well.)

And thank you for the kudos...it was not overlooked. But it would be a good idea to not underestimate the situations of the individuals on this blog. Because many are bears does not mean that they are not happy with what they are doing now. I think SactoQT said something to this affect, too. I am by no means an expert in RE, stocks, etc. I just make very, very careful moves....because I want to enjoy my life and remain as stress-free as possible.

60   sfbayqt   2005 Aug 23, 10:47am  

And yes, I am under a rock… as i focus on my career, my friends, and living life to the fullest, not worry about a notion of a RE bubble.

Nervous,

I believe that MP is in the 20-30's age bracket, and admits he is "under a rock". I'm coming to the conclusion that perhaps he can't help himself.

BayQT~

61   quesera   2005 Aug 23, 10:59am  

@MP: What can we say? You're just plain dead wrong about the demographics of the Bay Area, and of mortgagees.

I believe you are exactly what you say you are. You remind me of several people I have worked with in the last five years. You're a smart kid, and you know a lot of things, but you have a very very false understanding of the population outside of your condo complex, or your walk to work.

Live the dream while you can, dream the life while you can. But don't pretend that your reality can be extrapolated out into real life.

62   quesera   2005 Aug 23, 11:15am  

a favorite quote from the days of USENET...

"I've found it pays to be very, very, sure I'm correct before getting condescending."

Apply to affected areas.

63   KurtS   2005 Aug 23, 11:19am  

Nervous in Oakland:

You nailed it with your post! I've added a few observations of my own

if they cannot afford to buy, how and why are they buying

1) Fear "buy now--before it's too late" Peer pressure from their circle too.
2) Weak lending standards. Let's see--IO/ARM/Neg-am. And this isn't a small fraction of today's mortgages either!
3) Low interest rates--Interest rates designed for flippers, plus the above. Think people will get stung? I do.
4) Stupidity --they do little or no research, and ignore obvious warning signs. What they consider a "great investment" could become a huge liability? Impossible, you say!
5) etc, etc, etc. Their little social club looks down on renting, so they miss out on a great savings opportunity during a rental glut.

64   quesera   2005 Aug 23, 11:22am  

...or, if you prefer, from Bend it Like Beckham (I only saw the previews, I swear!):

Shtop Embarasshin' yo'shelf!

MP, about the time you develop a larger awareness of your surroundings, you might pick up on exactly how banal your self-impressedness is to other (putative) adults.

65   quesera   2005 Aug 23, 11:24am  

@Jack: sorry, that was not directed at you at all. It was he-who-shall-not-be-named.

66   KurtS   2005 Aug 23, 11:28am  

"...I still have a lot of work to do before i can balance some of your doomsday thoughts out, but i think over time, I will be able to make a difference.

Well, MP--thanks for the offer; we wouldn't know what to do without you. ;)
Next time I need to gloat publicly over my Primeâ„¢ location, I'll choose you as my spokesman.

67   KurtS   2005 Aug 23, 12:14pm  

It will be interesting to see if MP will ever show his face again here when prices do correct.

If things do drop, even in Primeâ„¢ locations, I doubt the cheerleaders will ever own up. If they survive the carnage, they'll downplay their losses, just like the dot-bomb. I think it's what keeps the bubble cycle going: cheerleading->denial, repeat. That is, until they're all bankrupt.

68   AntiTroll from Oz   2005 Aug 23, 12:35pm  

MP is most certainly a housing bull (horns ‘n all).

I don't think MP is a housing bull. I think he thinks he is. After all he is not looking to buy more houses right now is he? How do you think he will react IF (and I am not saying they will) Marina prices fall.

If , when, housing falls, then we will see who the real bulls are because they will buy buy buy!

(Not investment or reality advice)

69   sfbayqt   2005 Aug 23, 12:37pm  

quesera,

putative Great word. I had to look that one up to see what kind of adult I was. :-)

Whew! MP *does* make one tired with all the nonsensical talk. I feel like we can relax now. And no (to Nervous), I do not advocate that we pity him. *He* had become very obvious and wasn't worth any more energy. But very hard to ignore when you know you can prove your point to/with him. He's enjoying his "tapas" now with his gf.

Is it time for another topic yet? (picture a Garfield smiley face)

BayQT~

70   AntiTroll from Oz   2005 Aug 23, 12:43pm  

MP,
Tell them you want to raise rents to $3000 / month.

They will obviously complain, but in the process they will try to negotiate and will probably tell you their price point.......

71   Peter P   2005 Aug 23, 12:47pm  

How much increase do you think is enough so that they won’t want to move? I like them as tenants, but i want to maximize my assets.

I was thinking of raising the rent next year to $2,550… only by $100, and enough so that they won’t be bothered to move.

What do you guys think?

Well, MP, as I have said earlier, it is very important to have good tenants even if it means slightly lower rent.

I would keep the rent, but negotiate to have them chip in for certain value-adding home improvement (perhaps some new kitchen parts, new bath fixtures, etc.). They may have something in mind anyway and it can be a win-win. When they become more attached to the place, they will likely to be good long-term tenants.

72   AntiTroll from Oz   2005 Aug 23, 12:48pm  

To us renters,
When your landlord tries to raise the rents, tell them you have been looking and have found cheaper rents and have been offered free rental periods as a teaser.

They may call your bluff, but hey, doesn't hurt trying because they might even drop the rent.

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