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12-year-old girl kills herself because of the lie of an afterlife


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2014 Jan 9, 4:42am   91,945 views  428 comments

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A 12-year-old girl whose father died, takes her own life in order to see her father again. Of course, she does not get to see her father again because there is no afterlife. Sure, the lie of the afterlife might numb the pain of loss for a child, but if that child actually believes the lie, she might act on it as this poor girl did.

Now, this isn't about blame. It's about not repeating the same mistake. Stop telling children the lie about there being an afterlife. The lie does far more damage than good.

The Young Turks discuss this issue including the clause about suicide written to discourage people from offing themselves during their productive and taxable years to get to paradise sooner.

http://www.youtube.com/embed/_uWMOZ0vaCY

All the false comfort in all of history that the lie of an afterlife offered is outweighed by this one girl's death. The tally is negative for this alone, and I doubt very much that this is the first time in history someone has wasted his or her life because of the afterlife lie. It's just the first indisputable proof we've seen.

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32   New Renter   2014 Jan 11, 3:48am  

Dan8267 says

JodyChunder says

Maybe Dylan got it right; maybe death is not the end. Consciousness, after all, is really only a stratified predicate.

No. Your consciousness continues to run after death the same way your spreadsheet continues to run after you power down your desktop.

Not your spreadsheet. Your email and patnet posts. Even when you hit delete they live on forever in NSA server heaven.

33   Dan8267   2014 Jan 13, 6:52am  

Heraclitusstudent says

So do rocks and trees exist and are implemented in atoms and molecules. Do they have the same significance as emotions?

The rocks and trees that have large neural networks do.

Heraclitusstudent says

Rather it's the simple fact that we experience them as emotions.

Which is due entirely to the functioning of a physical brain composed of a handful of elements.

Heraclitusstudent says

And emotions are not rational. What's most precious about life is something that cannot be reduced to logic.

That's arguing semantics.

The fact is that all of the emotional experiences of mankind, and other animals, can and is explained beautifully by the Theory of Evolution. Various biologists who study animals in social groups can point to the reasons why emotions exist and how they work. One needs only to watch Animal Planet for the proof or read just about any book by Matt Ridley.

34   Dan8267   2014 Jan 13, 6:57am  

marcus says

Little is known about Maria’s religious education or other circumstances she was facing, so it’s not possible to state definitely either way what role faith played in her decision to take her life. Still, that hasn’t stopped some from using tragedy to chime in about the harm they say religion does.

Normally I give atheists credit for on average being fairly intelligent, even if I do take issue with the radical, arrogant or adolescent ones who think they have had some earth shattering break throughs that they need to teach everyone (the prosthelytizers).

But this story shows that sometimes they can be just really stupid.

Oh honey, when it came out that smoking causes cancer, the entire tobacco industry launched a PR campaign to convince the public that there was uncertainty about that fact when there wasn't.

When it came out that burning fossil fuels causes climate change, the entire energy industry launched a PR campaign to convince the public that there was uncertainty about that fact when there wasn't.

When it came out that belief in the afterlife caused a girl to commit suicide, the entire religion industry launched a PR campaign to convince the public that there was uncertainty about that fact when there wasn't.

Those in favor of religion will deny any fact that shows fundamental religious beliefs are inherently dangerous. Sowing doubt when there is none about well-established facts is a go-to tactic for the losing side. Unfortunately that tactic works on the dumb, who make up the majority of the population.

If you believe that we cannot tell why this girl committed suicide, then you are one of the dumb.

35   Dan8267   2014 Jan 13, 7:08am  

marcus says

You're amazing. She killed herself ! That's evidence of a very sick state of mind.

That statement is true if and only if there is no afterlife.

If there is an afterlife, there is nothing irrational or "sick" about suicide. For example, in WWII Japanese pilots crashed their planes into U.S. warships because the Japanese pilots believed they would be rewarded by their emperor god in the afterlife.

The "sickness" isn't the logic that concludes that suicide is noble and good, but rather the assumption that there is an afterlife in which you will be rewarded.

marcus says

Most normal Christians (including 12 year old children) even if they wish there is an afterlife and sort of believe in it, know that it may well not exist.

Faith and doubt are antithetical. Faith is the belief in something without proof, and it is the cornerstone of every religion including Christianity. A good Christian has faith that
- God created the universe
- Jesus rose from the dead
- You have a soul that will be judged in the afterlife, and you'll go to either heaven or hell

These are dogmas of Christianity. Need I remind you of the Nicene Creed

I look for the resurrection of the dead,
and the life of the world to come.

If you don't believe in the Christian afterlife and Jesus rising from the dead and ascending into heaven, you're not a Christian; you're auditing.

And yes, 12-year-old Christians are expected to believe in the afterlife wholeheartedly. I went to a parochial school. It's not symbolic.

marcus says

You say #2 is obviously true and that I'm delusional for thinking #1 is more likely.

Once again, you miss the point. Neither is the case.

She was delusional precisely because she believed in the afterlife. That belief was the mental sickness that caused her death. Everything else about her was normal. I know you don't like the fact that religion has killed this girl, but it is a fact. Perhaps instead of covering for religion, you should be more concern that religion doesn't kill another girl like this.

36   Dan8267   2014 Jan 13, 7:10am  

New Renter says

Not your spreadsheet. Your email and patnet posts. Even when you hit delete they live on forever in NSA server heaven.

Ah, and there lies the true key to immortality: replacing the organic brain with a virtual neural network that can be backed up and restored, or better yet, ran on multiple platforms simultaneously and periodically synched up with each other.

37   marcus   2014 Jan 13, 9:03am  

Dan8267 says

If you believe that we cannot tell why this girl committed suicide, then you are one of the dumb.

Again, amazing.

Hey, maybe you're right. Maybe I'm the extremist here that's not capable of looking at this is a balanced and relatively unemotional and nuanced way.

For the record, I too went to a Catholic school up to grade 5, and I don't think it was all that many years after learning about Santa Clause and the Easter Bunny, that I had at least some doubt about heaven. The truth is I didn't think about it much, but if you had pressed me, am I sure there is a heaven ? I would have said no. IT was obvious to me that this was something I hope is true, rather than something I know is true.

Age 10, let alone 12 is early enough to comprehend what faith means. And right there if you understand what faith means, it's understood that having faith means you are choosing to believe something, rather than knowing that it's true.

Also If you asked me at a young age, if there is a heaven (that is, given there is), and also a hell and a purgatory, are you 100% certain that if you die now you will go to heaven ? I would have said no.

Also as a good Catholic, I had learned what every good Christian knows, which is that suicide is a terrible sin, you're basically murdering yourself, for which you risk going to hell. In the Catholic faith it is a serious mortal sin.

How does one have an incredibly strong faith that heaven exists, without knowing that there are requirements (saint Peter or whatever) for getting in to heaven ?

THe only thing you convince me of, is that only sometimes do you seem intelligent. In other cases like this, where you get stuck defending some retarded atheists that try to make something out of this ?

I feel only vicarious embarrassment for you on this one.

38   anonymous   2014 Jan 13, 10:00am  

Because an after-life cannot be proved or disproved, the weak-minded will continue to seek it out for the hope and paradise that it offers beyond, what many see, as a mundane and miserable life. Just like Cipher wanted back into the Matrix, many people are too frightened and depressed at the possibility that there is no after-life and choose to believe in fairy tales and fantasy to keep them sane. After all, perception is reality.

39   Vicente   2014 Jan 13, 10:10am  

Dan8267 says

What? No one wants to come to the defense of religion? Not even Marcus?

To be fair, majority of Christian splinters in the USA, consider suicide to be a sin. So Daddy may be in heaven, but she'll never see him from where she lands.

40   FortWayne   2014 Jan 13, 10:11am  

Dan8267 says

there is no afterlife

Just FYI Dan, Christianity unlike Muslimity, strictly prohibits suicide. Either way this is a sad sad story.

41   Dan8267   2014 Jan 13, 11:54am  

marcus says

Age 10, let alone 12 is early enough to comprehend what faith means.

More reason why children should not be exposed to religion. It's far more dangerous to their development than drugs, alcohol, or gay porn.

Yet all religions indoctrinate children.

If a 12-year-old isn't old enough to understand "faith", then no parent should tell their children the lie of the afterlife.

marcus says

Also as a good Catholic, I had learned what every good Christian knows, which is that suicide is a terrible sin, you're basically murdering yourself, for which you risk going to hell.

Of course, any god that would send this 12-year-old child to be tortured hell for all eternity for attempting to see her daddy again and equating that with the vileness of murdering someone is a damn, motherfucking, evil god. And that means everything you learned as a "good Catholic" was a lie.

marcus says

I feel only vicarious embarrassment for you on this one.

When fools think you are wrong, you are on the right track.

The bottom line is that the belief in the false afterlife makes unreasonable decisions perfectly reasonable. For example, suicide bombing, flying planes into buildings, and ending your life to see loved ones. Nothing you've said even remotely address the fact that the girl's suicide would be perfectly reasonable if the afterlife were real.

42   Dan8267   2014 Jan 13, 11:59am  

debyne says

Because an after-life cannot be proved or disproved

That which can be asserted without reason can be dismissed without reason. It makes just as much sense to believe that after you die, smurfs fuck you up the ass for all eternity while Barry Manilow plays in the background. There is just as much reason to believe that as the Christian afterlife story.

As for proof that the supernatural either does not exist or cannot interact with the natural, see my previous threads on the subject. Some things are knowable.

43   Dan8267   2014 Jan 13, 12:02pm  

Vicente says

To be fair, majority of Christian splinters in the USA, consider suicide to be a sin. So Daddy may be in heaven, but she'll never see him from where she lands.

FortWayne says

Just FYI Dan, Christianity unlike Muslimity, strictly prohibits suicide. Either way this is a sad sad story.

Ah, but for any god to place this girl in hell would make that god more evil than Hitler, Stalin, and Mao put together. Any such god would be worse than a pedophile, far, far worse. After all, raping this 12-year-old girl would pale in comparison to the evil of torturing her for all eternity, a torture which would have to include rape itself of something worse to really merit the term hell. Do you really believe in a god that's far worse than all the pedophiles in history put together?

44   Dan8267   2014 Jan 13, 12:03pm  

bgamall4 says

Dan8267 says

because there is no afterlife.

Are you sure?

Yes. And the fact that no one and I mean no one is celebrating this girl's death is proof positive that deep down, everyone else knows there is no afterlife as well, even if they will not admit it to themselves.

45   Dan8267   2014 Jan 13, 12:07pm  

bgamall4 says

You are sure of that? Dan even if die in this unbelief, your statement of the "obvious" won't spare you from eternal judgement.

Any god that would punish a person for not believing in that god without rational evidence would be an evil god. Is that the god you believe in?

And if we are playing dice, then it is equally plausible that the "god" has never revealed itself to mankind and will punish any person who worships false gods, which would include any god worshiped by man since the god has not revealed himself. So why take the chance of worshiping any god?

As for belief, I do not choose what I believe. The evidence chooses. I can no more believe in a god or afterlife than I could believe the world is flat or that the square root of 2 is a rational number. Belief can only be a choice if it is the choice of self-delusion.

46   Y   2014 Jan 13, 12:10pm  

Ahhhh. don'tcha just love these Freudian slips??

Dan8267 says

It makes just as much sense to believe that after you die, smurfs fuck you up the ass for all eternity while Barry Manilow plays in the background.

47   Y   2014 Jan 13, 12:37pm  

bottom line. nobody knows jack shit until consciousness is fully understood, peer reviewed, and accepted by the majority of those in the field.

48   Dan8267   2014 Jan 13, 12:45pm  

SoftShell says

bottom line. nobody knows jack shit until consciousness is fully understood, peer reviewed, and accepted by the majority of those in the field.

You mean like climate change?

49   Dan8267   2014 Jan 13, 12:47pm  

From another thread, but so relevant to this one.

50   Y   2014 Jan 13, 12:49pm  

So tell us how the brain 'creates' consciousness...

Dan8267 says

SoftShell says

bottom line. nobody knows jack shit until consciousness is fully understood, peer reviewed, and accepted by the majority of those in the field.

You mean like climate change?

51   Vicente   2014 Jan 13, 1:41pm  

Dan8267 says

Ah, but for any god to place this girl in hell would make that god more evil than Hitler, Stalin, and Mao put together.

Dunno. God apparently can drop the roof in on a church with worshippers int it, and not be perceived as a murderer. God can help this team or that team win if you pray hard enough, but still give your kid cancer. I can't explain all the convoluted illogic of true believers, but they subject themselves to those rules so they have to live, die, and afterlife with them.

52   Dan8267   2014 Jan 13, 1:43pm  

SoftShell says

So tell us how the brain 'creates' consciousness...

http://bit.ly/1d2zd8R

In any case, how the brain creates consciousness is irrelevant. We know that it does whether or not why understand how it does. Try keeping your consciousness intact after having your brain removed. Sure, you can keep the brain step to keep you vital organs running, but without the rest of the brain, you aren't you. Period.

Please feel free to call me on this by doing a self-lobotomy.

53   JodyChunder   2014 Jan 13, 1:50pm  

Dan8267 says

In any case, how the brain creates consciousness is irrelevant.

No, it isn't.

54   Dan8267   2014 Jan 13, 2:01pm  

JodyChunder says

Dan8267 says

In any case, how the brain creates consciousness is irrelevant.

No, it isn't.

The question of how the brain creates consciousnesses is most certainly irrelevant to the question of does the brain create consciousnesses. Once can clearly know that the brain does create consciousness without knowing how it does this, just like one can know that your computer creates the images on the screen you are currently looking at without knowing how your computer does this.

55   Dan8267   2014 Jan 13, 2:04pm  

bgamall4 says

Look at it this way, Dan.

None of what you say or quote even remotely deals with the indisputable conclusion that any god who would put this girl, who committed suicide to see her daddy, in hell would have to be utterly and despicably evil. It doesn't take a god to see how immoral and unethical that would be.

56   JodyChunder   2014 Jan 13, 2:14pm  

Dan8267 says

just like one can know that your computer creates the images on the screen you are currently looking at without knowing how your computer does this.

I'm sorry, Dan, but I've said before that any comparisons of the human brain to any operating system in existence is simply facile, at best.

57   marcus   2014 Jan 13, 2:15pm  

Dan is sometimes no better than the worst right wing trolls on this site. He is not capable of considering the possibility that when the daughter said to her mother ""I want to see dad" that coming from a sick suicidal person that's really the equivalent of simply saying "I want to die."

If you were capable of being honest, and admitting that you can't really get everything that you want to from that one phrase, in other words if for once you had the humility and integrity to say, "you know what you're right," you would be doing yourself a really big favor, just for allowing yourself to have that experience.

But no.

I still agree with this guy (below). Which doesn't mean that we know for certain you are wrong. The problem is we don't know what her thinking is from that one phrase, and yet you're willing to sell the cause you read from some other radical atheist morons, who jump on this tragic situation to sell their message. It's disgusting, and also very transparent to anyone with real common sense and true intelligence.

http://www.theblaze.com/stories/2013/10/30/religion-kills-atheists-claim-childs-suicide-proves-teaching-kids-about-god-and-heaven-can-be-deadly/

Little is known about Maria’s religious education or other circumstances she was facing, so it’s not possible to state definitely either way what role faith played in her decision to take her life. Still, that hasn’t stopped some from using tragedy to chime in about the harm they say religion does.

58   Dan8267   2014 Jan 13, 2:15pm  

bgamall4 says

If God called you through His gospel, you would have no choice but to believe.

If your fictitious god came to my tea parties, I'd have no choice but to believe. However, he doesn't because he's fictitious. It would be trivial for a god to reveal himself in an unambiguous way. And for a god who had no problems chumming around with humans in the Bronze Age, he sure seems shy today.

Of course, this is besides the point of this thread. If your god and afterlife are real, then the girl's death is not at all tragic. As a contrapositive, if you think the girl's death is tragic, then you do not really believe in the afterlife. So which is it, gbamall4? Are you happy the girl died, or do you disbelieve the afterlife lie?

59   Dan8267   2014 Jan 13, 2:16pm  

bgamall4 says

Again, this is a tragedy. This is hurtful to hear about, even. It doesn't change the truth about election in the least.

So you are saying that the girl is burning in hell right now?

60   marcus   2014 Jan 13, 2:24pm  

Dan8267 says

the fact that the girl's suicide would be perfectly reasonable if the afterlife were real.

61   Dan8267   2014 Jan 13, 2:25pm  

JodyChunder says

I'm sorry, Dan, but I've said before that any comparisons of the human brain to any operating system in existence is simply facile, at best.

Computer, not operating system. Those are two entirely different things.

And yes, the human brain is, by definition, a computer. It's a neural network rather than a Turing Machine, however, the two are functionally equivalent as proved by Alan Turning's work.

And yes, the human brain is the creator of consciousness. Altering the brain is altering the mind. Surgical rewiring of the brain can change memories, personalities, and values. This is a simple, scientific fact. See the interesting case of Phineas Gage. Brain damage dramatically changed his personality. If a crude injury can have such a dramatic affect,image what advanced medical science can do when applied with the precision of computer driven engineering. You could rewire a person to be a murderer, an Islamic terrorist, or an devote lover. Such things would not be possible if consciousness were independent of the brain.

62   Dan8267   2014 Jan 13, 2:32pm  

marcus says

Dan is sometimes no better than the worst right wing trolls on this site.

Ah, typical Marcus bullshit. Dan makes a damn strong case against something I like. I have no idea how to construct a logical counter-argument. I have no evidence to contradict his. Therefore, I'll call him a troll or arrogant and hope that everyone else reading this is stupid enough to fall for a poisoning of the well.

Trolls disrupt conversations. I have stated my thesis clearly and have defended it against all attacks by specifically pointing out the flaws in the various attacks. That's not what trolls do; it's what a good debater does.

I have not misrepresented anyone's argument in this thread, but I have directly attacked those arguments with razor sharp logic pointing out the contradictions inherent in those arguments. Just because you haven't been able to make even a entry-level counter-argument does not make me a troll. You are just being a sore loser as usual.

63   Dan8267   2014 Jan 13, 2:33pm  

marcus says

I still agree with this guy (below).

Much in the same way that Fox News agrees with the "scientists" who say the recent cold spell disproves the myth of global warming.

64   Dan8267   2014 Jan 13, 2:37pm  

marcus says

Dan8267 says

the fact that the girl's suicide would be perfectly reasonable if the afterlife were real.

Yeah, you going to argue with that?

If the afterlife is real and god isn't more evil than all the pedophiles in history, then this girl is in heaven right now with her father. She is literally in paradise experiencing nothing but perfect bliss. There is nothing sad about that. And that is the entire point of the lie.

The only thing that makes her death a tragedy is that the lie is a lie and the girl is not in paradise experiencing perfect bliss. She no longer exists and is experiencing nothing. Sure, she would have died eventually, but without the lie of the afterlife, she could have had a wonderful and fulfilling life.

When you are ready to debate the actual core issue, let me know. So far, you keep pussying out of addressing the central issue.

65   Dan8267   2014 Jan 13, 2:41pm  

bgamall4 says

No, according to Paul, it would be tragic.

Logic trumps Paul. Contradictions in beliefs is not proof of those beliefs.

Here's an example to simplify it even further.

Premise: All dogs are fury.
Fact: Fido is a dog.
Conclusion: Fido is fury.
Paul: But wait. I don't think Fido is fury.
New Conclusion: Although all dogs are fury and Fido is a dog, Fido is not fury. This statement does not contradict itself because Paul said so.

Sorry, but that doesn't work. You get to pick your premises, but not the consequences of those premises.

66   Dan8267   2014 Jan 13, 2:52pm  

marcus says

If you were capable of being honest,

Marcus's fatuous insults, vacuous rants, and pusillanimous attacks reveal what an unctuous clod he is.

67   Dan8267   2014 Jan 13, 2:58pm  

bgamall4 says

Dan8267 says

Contradictions in beliefs is not proof of those beliefs.

There is no contradiction in Paul. He is sorrowful for his lost countrymen. He acknowledges that his countrymen are lost. No contradiction there.

I hate to break this to you, but Paul was a hypocritical asshole who's crimes are so horrendous he had to change his name from Saul to escape them. His opinion on matters should hardly carry any weight, even if you assume he was a real person and not yet another fictitious character from the Bible.

68   marcus   2014 Jan 13, 3:05pm  

Didn't think so.

69   marcus   2014 Jan 13, 3:12pm  

Dan8267 says

If the afterlife is real and god isn't more evil than all the pedophiles in history, then this girl is in heaven right now with her father. She is literally in paradise experiencing nothing but perfect bliss. There is nothing sad about that. And that is the entire point of the lie.

You should have gone in to sales. Although newsflash. Only the most emotionlly challenged radical atheist buys this bullshit. Bill Maher probably isn't even buying this, and like you he is way over invested in his antireligion dogma.

If you were correct then there should be a long history of Christians commiting suicide to be in heaven.

I notice you haven't addressed the obvious contradiction. How can someone have so much faith in the existence of heaven ? And yet never have learned that it's a major sin on a par with murder to kill oneself ? What, was she raised in some special religion where there's just one afterlife, and everyone gets to go, no matter what they do in this world ?

You also have no response for this.

marcus says

He is not capable of considering the possibility that when the daughter said to her mother ""I want to see dad" that coming from a sick suicidal person that's really the equivalent of simply saying "I want to die."

If you were capable of being honest, and admitting that you can't really get everything that you want to from that one phrase

Can't you just be dignified for once ?

JodyChunder says

Which doesn't mean that we know for certain you are wrong. The problem is we don't know what her thinking is from that one phrase, and yet you're willing to sell the cause you read from some other radical atheist morons, who jump on this tragic situation to sell their message. It's disgusting, and also very transparent to anyone with real common sense and true intelligence.

70   marcus   2014 Jan 13, 3:18pm  

Dan8267 says

Much in the same way that Fox News agrees with the "scientists" who say the recent cold spell disproves the myth of global warming.

YOu give proof that you eitrher lack integrty, or you think being an internet troll is just good fun and traits like human decency and honesty are meaningless here.

Dan8267 says

Marcus's fatuous insults, vacuous rants, and pusillanimous attacks reveal what an unctuous clod he is.

Acting like a psuedo intellectual doesn't restore your dignity or your integrity.

71   BobDDstryr   2014 Jan 13, 3:20pm  

You keep saying that if you believe in an afterlife, that suicide is rational and logical; its still not. If there's an afterlife - you'll be able to see your loved ones again eventually, but that doesn't mean that you shouldn't do what you can with this life - make friends, find love; have children; increase your circle of loved ones that you'd be spending your afterlife with.

You also keep saying that the only reason she could possibly have committed suicide is religion, so can't be due to depression. That you're expecting a 12-year-old girl to make a decision based on rational thought and logic, and be 100% truthful in her note. That's not how people work - especially children. And again - even if it was, committing suicide to see her father, also means having to miss her mother and all of her friends who won't be in the afterlife for many years.

The poor girl was depressed. Even as an atheist, when very depressed, suicide could seem rational - ie. I hurt really bad right now, and don't ever believe that things will get better. If I kill myself, I'll cease to be and the pain will stop. But things will get better! There's so much to live for! Losing a loved one hurts for a long time, but eventually you're able to function and enjoy life again! That's all true - but should a depressed 12-year-old be expected to know that, and believe it?

Did religion contribute to her making the decision that she ultimately did? Probably - but it also probably wasn't the only reason - lots of religious kids lose parents at a young age, and most don't decide to kill themselves. And you can't KNOW that that's the reason. Maybe she would have committed suicide anyway, but that made a convenient excuse. Maybe she felt that her mom would appreciate that note more than one saying "It hurts too much to continue living, and just being with you isn't good enough anymore." Maybe she thought she'd actually survive it, and it was an elaborate cry for help.

But you taking her note as 100% gospel seems, well.. rather foolish, for someone not in the habit of believing lies others have written down.

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