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Moving from San Diego to Phoenix - Buy a house?


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2017 Aug 17, 6:09pm   26,355 views  108 comments

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Well, my family and I are considering leaving San Diego area and moving to Phoenix. We've never owned a home and I have always felt CA is just way too expensive to buy even though I make an executive salary. Now that I'm considering a job in Phoenix making even more money than in San Diego, we're looking at finally buying a big, fine-ass house with a pool for around $800K with 20% down.

Questions:
- Do you think I'm stupid for buying because a recession could be coming? Should I rent instead? Seems like Phoenix house prices haven't come close to recovering from the 2006 peak.
- If I buy a house, what lender should I use? I've considered SoFi because it's easy and online, but is that a mistake?
- Should I get a buyer agent? What if I find the house I want on my own through Redfin?
- Any other tips for a first-time homebuyer?

Thanks everyone.

#housing

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88   BayArea   2017 Sep 21, 6:40am  

WookieMan says
NuttBoxer says
If I was going to compare the rent I started paying this year to a mortgage I could get if I bought this year, I would still be doing better than owning.


Rents are ultimately tied in some form or another to what people would pay for a mortgage.


This is strongly correlated to home price.

In the Bay Area, high end affluent areas can have as low an annual rent:price ratio as 3% and in less affluent areas as high as 10%.
89   anonymous   2017 Sep 21, 8:37am  

Nuttboxer - The correct analysis is what are you paying relative to a mortgage from 16 years ago? I bought in 2003 and for the first 7 to 8 years paid more than rent, but now my mortgage is $5-600 less than current rent.

Again, if you're into the flexibility of long-term renting then that makes sense. Plus owners will always have the cost of maintenance and taxes which never go away. However how much longer do you plan to live? Compare your monthly rent costs for the next 45-50 years relative to a mortgage that would have stayed flat for 14 years, then dropped to $0 for the next 36 and the difference can be staggering.
90   Strategist   2017 Sep 21, 9:32am  

anonymous says
Nuttboxer - The correct analysis is what are you paying relative to a mortgage from 16 years ago? I bought in 2003 and for the first 7 to 8 years paid more than rent, but now my mortgage is $5-600 less than current rent.

Again, if you're into the flexibility of long-term renting then that makes sense. Plus owners will always have the cost of maintenance and taxes which never go away. However how much longer do you plan to live? Compare your monthly rent costs for the next 45-50 years relative to a mortgage that would have stayed flat for 14 years, then dropped to $0 for the next 36 and the difference can be staggering.


I would not want to retire paying rent for the rest of my life. I would rather retire receiving rent for the rest of my life.
91   NuttBoxer   2017 Sep 21, 1:35pm  

joeyjojojunior says
Yes, clearly if you do the calculation incorrectly, renting may appear to be cheaper over any timeframe


I omitted all the additional costs of ownership when I made my statement. So the only thing that could have possibly appeared cheaper was buying.
92   NuttBoxer   2017 Sep 21, 1:43pm  

Strategist says
Renting can never work out better than owning in California over any 10 year period, and never will in our lifetime.


Forgetting all the underwater's from 2008 so soon? I'm not comfortable with a primary residence as an investment for a number of reasons. The biggest being that I'd have to pickup and move at market peak if I want to see any actual profit. Move where? To another house also selling for peak price? Or a rental renting at peak price? Second, you have to make a huge up front investment in the form of debt, and the success of your investment has zero to do with your personal ability to make the investment a success. It's all dependent on market whim. Yes, starting your own business often takes serious up front debt as well, but at least the success of that investment is tied directly to the work you put in. Third, the house itself is a giant money pit, continually depreciating, requiring upkeep. Fourth, there are much better investments outside of housing and stocks, so your view is too narrow.

I have done better, and done so for 17 years.
93   NuttBoxer   2017 Sep 21, 1:49pm  

WookieMan says
Rents are ultimately tied in some form or another to what people would pay for a mortgage.


Rents are based on salary, mortgages are based on salary + government subsidies + interest rates + NRA scams. I never paid anywhere close to $2,000 until the past two years. My story isn't uncommon in any way except that I haven't closed my mind off to renting as a good financial decision. Doesn't sound like you've entertained that possibility for a long time.
94   NuttBoxer   2017 Sep 21, 1:53pm  

anonymous says
The correct analysis is what are you paying relative to a mortgage from 16 years ago?


When I was just out of college, and didn't have a penny to my name. Not a realistic timeline.

anonymous says
Compare your monthly rent costs for the next 45-50 years relative to a mortgage that would have stayed flat for 14 years, then dropped to $0 for the next 36 and the difference can be staggering.


$0 meaning I no longer have to maintain my home, or pay property taxes?
95   joeyjojojunior   2017 Sep 21, 1:54pm  

NuttBoxer says
I omitted all the additional costs of ownership when I made my statement. So the only thing that could have possibly appeared cheaper was buying.


No. Why don't you put the numbers on here and I can run them through the NYT calculator to show you.

For one--not deducting the principal in the payment is a HUGE mistake. Colossal.
96   joeyjojojunior   2017 Sep 21, 1:55pm  

NuttBoxer says
I have done better, and done so for 17 years.


I highly doubt it. You've paid more for the freedom to move which is a personal choice. Completely reasonable.

But it almost certainly wasn't cheaper.
97   anonymous   2017 Sep 21, 2:09pm  

Nuttboxer said...."$0 meaning I no longer have to maintain my home, or pay property taxes?"

Nope - I specifically said "Plus owners will always have The cost of maintenance and taxes which never go away." However, how much longer do you plan to live? Compare your monthly rent costs for the next 45 - 50 years relative to a mortgage that would have stayed flat for 14 years, then dropped to $0 for the next 36 and the difference can be staggering"
98   Blurtman   2017 Sep 21, 4:21pm  

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99   WookieMan   2017 Sep 21, 7:23pm  

NuttBoxer says
$0 meaning I no longer have to maintain my home, or pay property taxes?

Maintenance fine, but it's disingenuous to say you're not paying property taxes as a renter. Property taxes are built into EVERY landlords calculations. You pay them whether you understanding you're lying to yourself or not.

NuttBoxer says
Rents are based on salary, mortgages are based on salary + government subsidies + interest rates + NRA scams. I never paid anywhere close to $2,000 until the past two years. My story isn't uncommon in any way except that I haven't closed my mind off to renting as a good financial decision. Doesn't sound like you've entertained that possibility for a long time

I'm not sure where you live, but I call BS unless you're living in a 1 bedroom apartment or condo rental. And that's fine if you don't want a house. I'm all for living frugally. You apparently didn't read my previous post where I said renting is fine and I've mostly done that. I now have had a mortgage with PITI of $975/mo. Median house price where I'm at is $225k. A renter cannot even come close to what I have on a monthly basis. I beat it by 30% easy and I get the "government subsidies." Even if I move next month after only 4 years, I'm WAY ahead of the renter. Doesn't sound like you've entertained the possibility of owning ever. Or probably can't and seem a little bitter about it.

I've rented and will likely rent in the future. You seem to have a chip on your shoulder about owning a home. I'm not sure why.

NuttBoxer says
It's all dependent on market whim. Yes, starting your own business often takes serious up front debt as well, but at least the success of that investment is tied directly to the work you put in.


What business is completely disconnected from the market? Everything is connected to some market or another. Any business can fail regardless of how much work is put in based on that specific market going down. Working harder does not lead to more success. Working smarter does. I know this will rub some here the wrong way, but if you work more than 60+ hours a week, you're an idiot.

NuttBoxer says
Third, the house itself is a giant money pit, continually depreciating, requiring upkeep.


It sounds like you haven't owned or don't know how to maintain a home. Please tell me what entails a money pit? Furnace? $3k installed, lasts 20-30 years if you treat it well. Only last 5 years if you treat it like a renter. Water heater? $1k installed by licensed plumber. 15 years if you maintain it. Renter 6 years. Roof? 30 years and depending on size of house, probably $20k max out of pocket. Likely closer to $10k for most houses. Most the country has hail, so probably likely $1k deductible to get a roof replaced for 75% of the country. Over a 15 year period these maintenance items, and these are bigger ones, are MAYBE $100/mo. If you know how to maintain a home it's likely closer to $50/mo.

Regarding depreciation. Outside of a ghetto, can you find me one market (mid to major city, 500k plus residents) that for any 10 year period has lower home values at the end of 10 years compared to the beginning. Tip, you won't find it. Again, we're not talking shit holes. Very few places start out nice and 10 years later have turned into a shit hole. It has happened, but I don't think you'll find an example.

NuttBoxer says
Fourth, there are much better investments outside of housing and stocks, so your view is too narrow.

What are these investments that are better? You're literally dismissing the most likely forms of wealth generation for 99% of people and saying there's something better. I'd love to know what I'm missing.
100   just_passing_through   2017 Sep 21, 7:29pm  

It really depends on each person's situation but I did too @nuttboxer.

In 2007 I'd been renting cheaply in the bay area for 10 years. Single with no kids and had paid down debt and made modest gains in the stock market with savings. I had about 150K in savings/etrade and maybe 200-250K in company stock I could sell. I could have bought something on the peninsula after the crash but if I had I'd still be in debt paying down a mortgage in a town I haven't lived in for the past 5 years - assuming I kept the place.

Instead I made over $2 million in the market (mostly from the startup I worked at - didn't take off until 2014) and now have 3 "homes" I rent out of state. Mortgages on 2 of them but I could pay those off with pocket change if I wanted to.

I still have a plenty of cash on the sideline for the market, making loans, buying more rentals, ... whatever other revenue I may find my way to ... and I continue to rent cheaply.

So yeah, there are smart reasons not to buy if you're in certain situations. Glad I held my cards and didn't sell that company stock just to buy a crap shack in the bay area.
101   WookieMan   2017 Sep 21, 7:37pm  

just_passing_through says
So yeah, there are smart reasons not to buy if you're in certain situations. Glad I held my cards and didn't sell that company stock just to buy a crap shack in the bay area.

From my point of view I'd never advocate selling off an investment to buy a primary residence. Ever. So hopefully what I'm saying is not coming across that way. If I had it my way and there was a litmus test for being allowed to own a home, you'd have to have saved 20% down payment all while maxing out a 401k every year in the process. That's an over exaggeration, but if you can't save the 20% down while saving for at least something for retirement, you need to rethink your plan.
102   just_passing_through   2017 Sep 21, 7:46pm  

If I were king I'd implement your litmus test.

Everyone's situation is different. Some people are crappy savers and it's a good way to at least 'get them to save'. Others have wives that might leave if they don't buy. On and on...

I've been pretty lucky but also was very certain that company would take off and do extremely well. I had plenty of co-workers who sold too soon.
103   anonymous   2017 Sep 21, 8:07pm  

NuttBoxer says
joeyjojojunior says
Renting does offer more flexibility, but almost always costs more over longer time frames.


It hasn't caught up to me until year 16. I've only started paying something close to a mortgage this past year.


The correct analysis is what are you paying relative to a mortgage from 16 years ago? I bought 13 years ago, and paid more in rent for the first 7 to 8 years. Now at year 13 my payments are $600 less than current rent.

Again, if you're into the flexibility of long-term renting then that makes sense. And the owners will always have costs of taxes and maintenance which never go away. However, compare your monthly rent costs for the next 50 years relative to a mortgage that would have stayed flat then dropped to $0 in 14 more years and the difference can be staggering.
104   anonymous   2017 Sep 21, 9:38pm  

Yes, everyone should consider avoiding acquisition of an asset that has consistently increased in value over time. Especially in very desirable markets. It makes no sense whatsoever to purchase a home for your family. And no, you are not being overly paranoid about losing your job. Everyone is getting laid off these days. The labor market is absolutely terrible. Unemployment is rising very fast. The new presidential administration does not want to focus on economic nationalism, jobs, growth, or any of that. This admin wants to ship all of the jobs to China, who they have claimed is a very fair trade partner.
105   Hircus   2017 Sep 23, 10:37am  

just any guy says

I feel like I should be living a better lifestyle given where I'm at in my career, but CA just squashes that.

As a rule of thumb, I tend to think that CA = higher cost of living (mostly housing costs), but also usually higher salary. Depending on a person's job, I have this gut feeling that a person who makes decent money (not struggling) might actually accumulate net worth faster in CA than in other states due to the typically higher wages, and that a good portion of the higher living costs go into your home equity, which is still your money if you choose to unlock it one day. CA RE seems to appreciate faster too. I haven't run any numbers to back that up, though. And, I think it's clear that if you currently have a much higher paying job offer there, that it makes sense to take it and at least rent for now.

106   Strategist   2017 Sep 23, 11:23am  

says

Yes, everyone should consider avoiding acquisition of an asset that has consistently increased in value over time. Especially in very desirable markets. It makes no sense whatsoever to purchase a home for your family. And no, you are not being overly paranoid about losing your job. Everyone is getting laid off these days. The labor market is absolutely terrible. Unemployment is rising very fast. The new presidential administration does not want to focus on economic nationalism, jobs, growth, or any of that. This admin wants to ship all of the jobs to China, who they have claimed is a very fair trade partner.

Life Sucks!
What do we do guys? What do we do?

107   WookieMan   2017 Sep 26, 9:12pm  

ThreeBays says


However, in a rising property environment, which is the majority of the time in CA, you are in a race to save 20%. When prices are rising $100k a year, it makes sense to prioritize buying asap, then focus on your other goals.


That's a hard one. Best case you can get mommy and daddy money for help with the down payment. If you're in the price point where it's rising $100k a year, you're going to be chasing for a while unless you've got low cap gain income. If you're a W-2 employee with high wages it makes this even more difficult. Or put another way, are you going to pay the federal government 28, 33, 35 or 39.5 percent to get after tax dollars for the down payment?

If you can't get your 20% down and still max out a 401K, you're chasing the wrong dream then most likely. Just keep saving and renting. Or you could very likely get a comparable salary, likely less of course, in flyover country where you can get way more for your money. Or at least the down payment is affordable. At some point the cap gains on a house gets maxed out. My guess would be a $600k purchase price at age 32 and you sell at 59 with close to $500k in gains, tax free. Once you get over that amount of cap gains for real estate, you can get similar tax rates with stocks or other investments. And I always go back to a house not being a burden on you. The lower the payment the better in my book. So after a certain point, trying for a high appreciating house gets risky.

Most people won't see it the way I do. They want to own a home. I don't have a problem with this to be honest. It's just not that logical in most circumstances. I didn't do it logically to start with myself, so I don't have much of a pulpit to preach from.
108   WookieMan   2017 Sep 28, 10:42am  

ThreeBays says

After buying I built a more aggressive portfolio. Also got a lot more money into Roth retirement accounts and HSA.

That's the way to do it. Forgot about HSA's as well, good point.

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