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porkchopexpress saysRWSGFY saysFile for a religious exemption. I think it's the best path forward.I've thought about that. I did it for my new job and avoided the jab, but I'm not sure how CA schools would take an exemption, but it's definitely an option.
Are private schools also subject to this new requirement? Or is it only the public schools?
with the eviction moratorium available apartments are scarce a well.
Plus after living in a house it's difficult to go to an apartment
I"m in a pretty similar situation as the OP. The wife just refuses to admit reality and is clinging to some hope that the gene therapy shots wont be enforced. My kids are still in elementary and no way in hell will they be getting them, so homeschooling them would be the only option, but I work 60 hours a week and don't have the time or mental energy to home school. Wife recently started working after we put them in private school. We bought a small house in Idaho already, that we are renting out right now because she refuses to leave her stupid social circle and immediate family. If we sold and got out she would never have to work again but that doesn't sway her.Thanks for sharing. I hate being in this situation with the fucking vaccine mandate. It used to be we just had to deal with rental leases, purchase agreements, leaving family and friends, etc. Now add medical tyranny to the list.
Id try to hold out and rent for another year or so until the economy really takes a shit in and maybe prices drop. But its the Californian exodus that is creating the inflated prices in these select states, and I'm not sure that will stop even if the economy crashes.Exactly! People have to flock somewhere and there's a lot of rich people who want such a small, desirable place to live. Fucking sucks that we couldn't have moved there 5 years ago. Oh well.
WineHorror1 sayszzyzzx saysShaman saysBut my philosophy with these mandates has always been to stall for time. The more time that goes by, the more likely it is that the mandates:
1)will be declared illegal by a judge
2)will be dropped as an adherence to Narrative 2.0 and the Democrats wanting to win future elections
3)will cease as people recoil in HORROR to the increasingly bad prognosis of the vaxxed.
Already worked for federal workers.
There is no mandate for federal workers any more?
GOOOOD MOOOOOORNING!
Although a high school might be very highly rated, it might not be great for your kids. Specific school programs, the friends they make, and the vibe of a school are more important than the school's reputation or goal-seeking on arbitrary benchmarks. In today's woke college admissions, going to a highly-rated school means your kids will be penalized in the college admissions process.We're not picking this high school simply because of its rating, but because of its strong music programs which both of my sons are HUGE into. It's their social circle.
Given the Zillow search you specified above, it looks like Brentwood is a "fortress" area, as we call it in the Bay Area. These are places where there are lifelong owners who paid off the mortgage decades ago and won't move until it's feet-first in an ambulance. Others are dual-income professional couples who just bought and will hold on tenaciously. A third category is the already wealthy who can easily afford to stay in a downturn. In addition to not being forced out by a crash, the 2nd and 3rd category will actively buy is the prices dip by even 20%. The last category will buy with cash if interest rates go year 1980 on us.I know. This is a reason why my wife thinks we should just buy something in that area and hold on for dear life, which does make sense. I just want to put a stake in the ground somewhere and not have to rent again, buy and sell again, and just live life in the place we want to be, which we believe to be this area. So, perhaps it makes sense to just bite the bullet and buy some over-priced place that we know we could stay in for 10 years.
RedStar saysId try to hold out and rent for another year or so until the economy really takes a shit in and maybe prices drop. But its the Californian exodus that is creating the inflated prices in these select states, and I'm not sure that will stop even if the economy crashes.Exactly! People have to flock somewhere and there's a lot of rich people who want such a small, desirable place to live. Fucking sucks that we couldn't have moved there 5 years ago. Oh well.
Have you tried living outside California during the summer? The heat, humidity, and the never-ending swarm of insects might be worth the problems of California. In the last two years, I've vacationed (scouted) Florida in January. Weather was great! Very few bugs! My feeling is that I need to visit in June through September — I'll probably never want to go back again!
I make the money and she lives in her bubble world as a housewife and mother.
Have you tried living outside California during the summer? The heat, humidity, and the never-ending swarm of insects might be worth the problems of California. In the last two years, I've vacationed (scouted) Florida in January. Weather was great! Very few bugs! My feeling is that I need to visit in June through September — I'll probably never want to go back again!I've lived in the PNW, East Coast and Rocky Mountain states. I've visited Atlanta, Charlotte and Orland in August before, so I know what it's like. Nashville won't be quite as bad, but still hot and humid of course but for a shorter period of time than locations farther south. I know there will be more bugs and probably allergies, but those things pale in comparison with the authoritarianism happening in CA.
Have you looked into Eastern Idaho? Its still affordable but cold. We bought in Twin Falls and the current renters are waiting for their home to be built this summer.Too cold, snowy and remote. Not our jam even though I like Idaho as a state.
Have you tried living outside California during the summer? The heat, humidity, and the never-ending swarm of insects might be worth the problems of California
We're not picking this high school simply because of its rating, but because of its strong music programs
Although a high school might be very highly rated, it might not be great for your kids. Specific school programs, the friends they make, and the vibe of a school are more important than the school's reputation or goal-seeking on arbitrary benchmarks. In today's woke college admissions, going to a highly-rated school means your kids will be penalized in the college admissions process.
porkchopexpress saysThanks. So many factors can play into someone missing Cali and wanting to move back, but the #1 reason I've heard of is family. The wife misses her family back in CA and is homesick. I don't have that problem...zero family here and we've never lived near family. The ONLY thing we'll miss is the weather.I make the money and she lives in her bubble world as a housewife and mother.
Then wait before buying. Even if its just six to twelve months to know the lay of the land. I know a guy came out east for a job, similar situation... he was breadwinner, etc., wife started missing Cali after about six months and wanted to move back west... It happens.
Besides you've implied your kids are high school aged. 4 years +/- and schools will no longer be a major determining factor.
Good luck with this one.
Yes. Local knowledge that can only be had from local experience, will be acquired by renting for a couple of years. Such knowledge will be invaluable when it comes to a making a decision to lock-in on a long term commitment.Yep, can't argue with that. As another poster said, one way to ease the pain of moving into a rental and then moving again into a purchased house is to whittle down your belongings so that moving isn't such a bitch. I like that idea. Or if I could find this option, rent a furnished home.
So, I'm stuck between stretching ourselves a bit to buy a $1.4M home in Nashville area,
I have about 3 options for you:Good options/ideas. I hadn't though about the lease to own option, so that's worth exploring with the benefit of walking away.
Under normal conditions I would say renting is better when moving somewhere totally new. With that said in current crazy market if I'd had rented when moving to ID I would have gotten fucked with how hot market is, my CA equity seriously devalued by hot market and inflation.
You have some really tough decisions to make.
Yeah, but the housing market has got to be pretty close to it's peak right now.
As far as the $1.4M, it wasn't some magic # but just based on what I've been seeing.
Now, this might be no big deal.. Maybe you are making $400k/year instead of $200k/yr. But if that's the case.. I don't think you would be on here saying 1.4M is a stretch, and you need to limit to 1.2M... and Patnet.. what do you think I should do...I'm more in this category. I'm very conservative financially, so I'm being a little dramatic when I say that $1.4M would be a stretch for me. In all honesty, it would be fine by normal people's standards, and I have the 20% down and closing costs to cover it.
I'm very conservative financially, so I'm being dramatic when I say that $1.4M would be a stretch for me.
porkchopexpress saysI have high school kids who need to set themselves up for a future in the US. If I were older and just me and my wife, perhaps.I'm very conservative financially, so I'm being dramatic when I say that $1.4M would be a stretch for me.
If you're making 400k per year, then why do you want to move to Tennesse and set up roots? I get escaping vax mandate in school, but why don't you try moving to puerto rico and then italy and then Bali and doing some remote work there.. Doubt the wife would mind , especially if you have no house to tie you down here in CA...
Puerto Rico is a no visa move... US territory, AND you are EXEMPT from US income tax. The tax rate is set up as below:
https://taxsummaries.pwc.com/puerto-rico/individual/taxes-on-personal-income?source=patrick.net
So if you can claim self-employed providing services, you are golden!
I've been pretty happy renting the whole time I've had this site, and the savings from renting in CA allowed me to retire 10 years early.
So I'm getting a 3x increase on the full purchase price of the house minus the interest I paid on the mortgage verses the S&P 500 gain I would realize by dollar-cost-averaging stock purchase over the last 20 years.
Yeah, but the housing market has got to be pretty close to it's peak right now.
Save_Ukraine saysWOW. I am sry. My house bought in 2020 appreciated by 400K already. Imagine the equity gain if you'd bought in 2011 in the greater SD area.
I don't consider bubbles investments. And I adjust for inflation.
Did you sell and collect the $400k?
When will you admit you're Logan?
As long as it's cheaper. My rent was $1375 back then, and it's $1600 now. If I bought would have been around $1900 plus maintenance.
Are you jealous that I've saved money and been able to enjoy my life without committing to a huge debt? Or maybe stories like mine are bad for your bottom line... Logan.
(*) Patrick and others have pointed out on this thread and others about the massive "ownership premium" folks will pay who buy now, for the "privilege" of owning a crapshack in our region. It's insane. I see it on the real estate websites like Zillow all the time. The monthly cost for buying a 50-60 year old crap shack at present will be nearly 2x what they say it would collect for rent. This is insane.
Zillow just increased the 'value' of my crap shack by $200K in the past month
I kinda suspected NuttBoxer wont give us any cogent answers :)
(*) Patrick and others have pointed out on this thread and others about the massive "ownership premium" folks will pay who buy now, for the "privilege" of owning a crapshack in our region. It's insane. I see it on the real estate websites like Zillow all the time. The monthly cost for buying a 50-60 year old crap shack at present will be nearly 2x what they say it would collect for rent. This is insane.
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We all decided that the Nashville area (i.e., Franklin/Brentwood) is where we'd all agree to move this Summer, but the house prices are INSANE. We've only ever rented and she will NOT agree to moving to another rental; she wants to buy. So, I'm stuck between stretching ourselves a bit to buy a $1.4M home in Nashville area, or staying in our current rental but making our boys get the vaccine to stay in school. My boys are already bummed about the thought of switching high schools, so they'd be willing to get the vaccine to stay in their current school. I feel like I'm alone in fighting against the easier path, which is clearly staying put in our current place until they finish school.
What would you guys do?
P.S. Given the no state income tax and the down payment I've saved up, I could theoretically make a $1.4M work but it's beyond what I'd prefer to pay. I'm also scared shitless that housing is going to crash, but what if it doesn't?