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toothfairy says

Assuming its close to cash flow neutral and the wife earning potential.

You should assume they're going to win the lottery jackpot every year too. It said up above that that they only have the husband's income.

I dont think their situation sounds so bad.

It only takes one super-naive, spoken opinion such as yours to validate one person's rationale for buying what they can't afford and drowning themselves with debt.

A $400k townhouse in Leesburg is one of the dumbest purchases anybody could make.

Hysteresis says

if they are close to cash flowing on their rental, then a $410k town home with $66k equity means ($344k mortgage debt + car loan + student loans) on $93k/year is far different than $783k debt on $93k/year.

No it's not far different. Look up above at the bottom line. THAT is what they have to pay off. Making the assumption that they have 66k less in a mortgage isn't a silver lining, just that they have 66k more in their other (possibly revolving) debts.

I have no student loans, no car loans, zero children, make more than that, and I wouldn't feel easy about taking on that kind of debt for a house. Tack onto that that they're already bleeding money on a condo, and you're crazy to insinuate that this isn't irresponsible behavior.

if the wife starts working after having the baby (maybe grandparents are close by), then that's a second source of income and their debt-to-income might not be so bad.

Maybe the grandparents are nearby, maybe they're not. A presumption of available slave labor to take care of a child for 12 hours a day for free is asking a lot. Lots of assumptions made by you and tooth_fairy here, yet you still can't make a good case.

If the wife starts working, they're going to pay an astronomical amount for day care. In Northern VA, it runs well upward of $1000 a month to the point that it's not even worth it a lot of the time for some couples.

Later on, Chicago made a bid for the Olympics. We fist bumped with pride, believing that we could sell later for a profit.

Holy shit. Really?

Do you have relatives that work for the water department?

Serious question too. I know suburban developers that were thinking Chicago would land the Olympics too, but they weren't bidding until the votes were counted.

Where is the article? You guys could read the OP.

Money Magazine, September 2011 issue, Page 42.

Do these even end up on their website?

wtfcapinv says

romeotybalt says

Later on, Chicago made a bid for the Olympics. We fist bumped with pride, believing that we could sell later for a profit.

I know suburban developers that were thinking Chicago would land the Olympics too, but they weren't bidding until the votes were counted.

It makes sense for developers to be happy about the Olympics because presumably infrastructure will have to be built, but seems naive for a random homeowner in Chicago to be excited about a 15-day event. There seem to be a few options:
1) you have a house that will be taken by eminent domain = cash out
2) your house will be near the festivities, so maybe you could rent it for a lot of money per day for 15 days 5 years from now; however, in the meantime, you will suffer from construction fatigue for the next five years, and there will be many more housing units to compete against after the Olympic Village is abandoned by the athletes after the closing ceremonies
3) your house is nowhere near the festivities, so who cares?

If you are #1, okay fine, but for #2 or #3, why would you be happy about the Olympics? History shows that not all cities benefit financially from the Olympics, and recent history shows that many recent hosts spend more money than comes in later.

FortWayne says

bubblesitter says

I feel sorry for the couple and sincerely hope that they pull through but as time passes they are moving closer to defaulting on existing debt.

I wouldn't. They've made a conscious choice to join the late night tv watching, retiree abusing land lord crowd.

Seconded, I don't wish anything other than a painful lesson that they'll carry with them their whole lives, and instill in their children. For them to "pull through" would require a significant charitable act, something that would no-doubt be paid for by their neighbors and taxpayers in general.

People won't stop doing this stupid shit so long as idiots like this couple don't have to live with the consequences of their decisions. In this case, they're going to drown in debt to the point that they'll need to walk away, leaving the losses for someone else to handle. They obviously kept their condo because they thought "twice the property, double the equity earnings", which was their only real plan for paying off their debts.

I've met many people (around here) like this couple, and it is nauseating how the more debt they accumulate, the more they feel inclined to brag about their "second" and "third" homes. They rock out the dual-income and stretch themselves in every way imaginable, while milking the provisions in the federal tax code to subsidize their selfish yuppy lifestyles.

The general belief is that because DC is an "immunozone" with low unemployment and high incomes, that RE in the area will appreciate considerably over the next decade and beyond. If it's hard to convince them that a reversion in housing prices could happen, then it's impossible to convey how a reversion in real income levels might occur after a decade of steroid-fueled federal govt expansions. Their tiny, greedy little minds cannot accept this since only the most overly optimistic situation can be their baseline for financial planning, excuse for spending, and justification for stretching themselves.

And yes, I've overheard the "oh shit" moment amongst associates and coworkers when they go to have a kid and realize that they can't quit one of their jobs or afford day care.

You never know the whole story. Magazines like to publish articles to make sensation, to attract readers like you! HAHA

chip_designer, you said, "You never know the whole story. Magazines like to publish articles to make sensation, to attract readers like you! HAHA"

-- Actually, I believe that magazine tried to position this story as a "regular / typical couple" and doesn't think there's anything sensational about their situation. THAT'S the problem! The couple is sensationally screwed financially, for a long, long time to come.

Imagine if this couple - no, all couples - and individuals - had to have 20% down before being able to finance a conventional mortgage. If that were the case, articles and stories like this would cease to exist.

What if you are white collar and can't save 20% for a down payment? Then it is one of two things:

1) You are trying to bite off much more than you can chew, financially speaking. Change your plans. You are not financially fit enough to "own" a mortgage.

2) Bubble prices are still ruling the marketplace where you are trying to buy.

Quant HF Mgr says

What if you are white collar and can't save 20% for a down payment? Then it is one of two things:

1) You are trying to bite off much more than you can chew, financially speaking. Change your plans. You are not financially fit enough to "own" a mortgage.

2) Bubble prices are still ruling the marketplace where you are trying to buy.

Exactly. The counterargument to this is usually "this means no one will be able to buy" (usually stated by realtorsused house salesman). Yes, and that's a good thing -- it means prices are too high and incomes aren't high enough to sustain them.

If the bank needs a government guarantee to make the loan, it is by definition not a market loan and is not economical to make. Banks would charge much higher interest rates if it wasn't for the government guarantee because risk would be far higher. As it is, you and I pay for deadbeats.

toothfairy says

Assuming its close to cash flow neutral

Cashflow neutral is for chumps. The property needs to have positive and adequate cashflow to be worth it. Otherwise, why bother taking the additional risk and hassle? Why not just invest your money in a real investment instead? If you had just one month of vacancy, and that pushes you over the edge, you're not doing it right.

It's nice to know people still like to give so much hard earned money to the banks. Could not believe, even up here in the midwest it's $250 a week for childcare, glad I decided to never get married, even with my 50k salary I'll be lucky to retire someday. I don't know how some people get by, must be entitlements.

corntrollio says

It makes sense for developers to be happy about the Olympics because presumably infrastructure will have to be built, but seems naive for a random homeowner in Chicago to be excited about a 15-day event. There seem to be a few options:

Much, if not most, of the Olympic development was to be targeted at long-term depressed neighborhoods. It makes some sense that the developments could lead to a permanent increase in values in those neighborhoods.

corntrollio says

realtorsused house salesman

Ahem,

corntrollio, it's Realtors®, - OK?

Absolutely not, Sybrib. My argument is that realtor has become a generic term to mean used house salesman and should lose trademark protection.

corntrollio says

Absolutely not, Sybrib. My argument is that realtor has become a generic term to mean used house salesman and should lose trademark protection.

Used house salesman would be a compliment. Realtors are a generic term for Housing Mafia.

Misstrial says

There are far too many young women that play "pecking order" with their girlfriends and engage in overspending in order to meet perceived group expectations.

This is how it goes:

"Homeowners" have greater status than renters, so the idea is to take out a large loan in order to make the grade for group approval - whether or not it makes financial sense.

The bigger the house and the more prestigious the zip code = greater status in the female herd, so taking out loans for cars to match the neighborhood makes sense to these sorts of people.

Well, I can tell you that in my experience this is changing in light of the recent bursting bubble. Several of my wife's friends who bought in 05/06 have told her (and in group settings) that they hate their house, they feel trapped, it was a mistake, etc. When they were buying and we weren't it caused some mighty fights between my wife and I but the repercussions of this housing bubble will reverberate for many years. A lot of people are scarred from this experience and that will affect their buying habits ling into the future.

GoldenPimp says

As a Quant HF Mgr,... Quant HF Mgr... lol

What is a Quant HF Mgr?

The couple in the article must have believed in the National Association of Realtors marketing propaganda that that real estate values would just keep going up and up in no relation to actual wages, cost to rent or any other economic factor. Smart people can and will do dumb things.

I lived in the east Bay Area of California from 1998 to 2009 and bought and sold 2 homes. In both cases we paid full asking because we didn't want to be out-bid/offered and then sunk $15-25K to make them decent (there really should be a law against mauve/salmon/pink carpet, tile and paint!). We sold in Aug 2006 due to divorce and missed the top of the market by about 50 days in my location. With the 1st house we almost doubled our money in 6 years (actual wage increase during that time was about 20%) and put that down on our next home. We were in that house (2500 sq ft nice semi custom in a nice area) for 3 years. It went up almost 50% in those 3 years and our income went up about 8%.

When we sold, the Ex and I walked away with about $225,000 each and no debt. We got very lucky with the timing but I will add that we lived within our means during this time, maxing our retirement accounts and didn't buy anything on credit that we could not pay off at the end of the month. Also we did not take any money out and even were making additional payments on principle. I did however keep track of the trends and subscribed to about 15 different housing sites and blogs during this time. This one included.

No way in the world was I going to buy in the Fall of 2006! The cost to rent was 1/2 the cost to buy the same house at this time. I rented until Oct 2009 while my Ex bought as soon as she could-closed April of 07. She is about $100k upside down in a very old small home that she put a ton of money down on. I ended up buying a bank owned home with 20% down that needed some work but in a very nice area. My house payment is 1/2 what I was paying in rent and 1/4 of what our house payment was on the 2500 sq ft home.

My fiancee was not so lucky-she divorced the same time I did-summer of 06 and being a single mom bought a home in the Fall of 2006. She lives in an average area but the home values have dropped by half since she has been there. She keeps making her mortgage payment but of course is not happy she is paying 2x as much as the couple who bought across the street this summer.

Moral to the story is that people can and will buy into the herd mentality/bubble when it comes to investments and real estate. I count myself in that group-no one held a gun to my head when I signed. I agree that the couple in the article should sell most everything and get out from under that huge debt. At their age and income they have enough time to start over and live within their means while still saving some money for college/baby/retirement.

Sybrib says

What is a Quant HF Mgr?

I think you meant:

What is a Quant HF Mgr®?

grywlfbg says

Well, I can tell you that in my experience this is changing in light of the recent bursting bubble. Several of my wife's friends who bought in 05/06 have told her (and in group settings) that they hate their house, they feel trapped, it was a mistake, etc. When they were buying and we weren't it caused some mighty fights between my wife and I but the repercussions of this housing bubble will reverberate for many years. A lot of people are scarred from this experience and that will affect their buying habits ling into the future.

Good to know and thank you for sharing :)

~Misstrial

grywlfbg says

When they were buying and we weren't it caused some mighty fights between my wife

I am in the same boat. In fact I still have a hard time convincing my wife that it is a no brainer NOT buying declining value real estate and the people who bought post 2005/2006 still comes up with inflation argument. Oh it will payoff in long run cuz interest rates are super low. Economics 101. Duh!

bubblesitter says

I am in the same boat. In fact I still have a hard time convincing my wife that it is a no brainer NOT buying declining value real estate and the people who bought post 2005/2006 still comes up with inflation argument. Oh it will payoff in long run cuz interest rates are super low. Economics 101. Duh!

and funny enough, economics 101 dictates that when rates are low it's the worst time to buy because low rates skew the prices higher.

I could see though how that gets ignored. Wifeys do get emotional about those kinds of things when they want to nest.

Houses, kids, diamond rings....this explains why I can't relate to the mainstream woman, lol!

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Dale says

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Dale says

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Quant HF Mgr says

What are you doing buying a $410,000 townhouse in Leesburg, Virginia?

Every time I think I might be better off in VA, I look at real estate prices there. I agree that's outrageous.