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PockyClipsNow says

I prefer my idea

Funny -- I preface nearly every other sentence with those very words...

Quigley says

When my wife makes the mistake of belittling me or talking down to me, even if she has a point about something, I get mad! If she nags at me like I'm a child that needs to be told again and again, I get mad, and nothing productive is accomplished.
On the other hand I think that women are set off more by the presence of or lack of shown love. If I refuse to help my wife with something, that to her, shows lack of love and she gets upset. If I don't compliment or dote on her and make her feel like I want to be with her, again lack of love = meltdown. If I, heaven forbid, make a disparaging comment about her person, that is just asking for an estrogen bomb! Forgetting birthdays, anniversaries, v-day etc are all manifestations of a lack of love.
Guys might feel love for their sweetheart all the time, but she needs us to show it for it to be any good for her.

http://www.youtube.com/embed/hPIxrzmatq0

RealisticOptimist1 says

I wish this could go mainstream, but unlikely. Just this weekend I was out with friends and talk about the house next door (I rent) being up for sale for 350k with 10k in taxes was viewed as a "good price." I was trying to make a joke about it being a "bargain," but to my disappointment, they took it seriously. Keep in mind this house sold for 195k in 2001, and taxes have more than doubled since then.

This could go mainstream!

Just loan your copy to them for a while.

They'd never read it, which is why I don't even bother engaging in discussion. :/

Elliemae told me that she paid the $25 to createspace.com to have "expanded distribution" through stores and other online sellers, but all they did was undercut her price, bringing her profit to $0, so she doesn't recommend that that.

Anyone can be an online seller - so if you pay for the "expanded distribution," that means not only can bookstores order it but also the Amazon online booksellers can too - only they receive all the profit.

So, when you pull up a book on Amazon and there are a bunch of options (a few of which undercut Amazon by less than a buck and one that sells it for $60 (!), most of the time these sellers are ordering from Amazon the same way as if you ordered directly from Amazon - only they're reping the profits. Does that make sense?

I put my book up for $16.95 plus s&h; and believe me - it's a bargain considering people pay thousands out of pocket when they qualify for Medicaid, or they hire a case manager to assist with placement when they still have to make the decisions anyway - but some asshole listed it immediately for $16.19.

I learned alot about the publishing angle. Let's get real - if my book sells enough that a publisher is interested in it, I can deal with it at that time.

RealisticOptimist1 says

hey'd never read it, which is why I don't even bother engaging in discussion. :/

10K in TAXES!!!...you must be TEXAS!

elliemae says

I put my book up for $16.95 plus s&h; and believe me - it's a bargain considering people pay thousands out of pocket when they qualify for Medicaid, or they hire a case manager to assist with placement when they still have to make the decisions anyway

I agree your book is really valuable to the right crowd (people in need of good nursing home advice), but that crowd is rather sparsely dispersed through the general population. So general advertising is probably not going to be very effective, and maybe even word of mouth will be difficult because the people who need it probably don't even know each other.

Somehow you have to advertise right to the audience that is in need of nursing home info. Maybe people here have ideas on how to do that?

I'm still waiting for my own copies! I have not seen a physical copy of the final book yet.

But several people wrote me that they got their copies, so it's coming.

I got the book on 17th and finished reading the book on 17th night itself. One thing I did not like is about the spouse pressure, it is little exaggerated. My wife got mad by reading that page (btw she always tells her friends to read patrick.net before going with a realestate agent to see homes).

Overall its a great book, but a small one.

crazydesi says

the spouse pressure, it is little exaggerated

Is it better to just delete or neuter that part of the sake of political correctness and inter-gender harmony, or to keep it for the discussion and controversy value?

I believe there is truth in it, but I can also see how it can be perceived as offensive.

crazydesi says

Overall its a great book, but a small one.

Thanks. Part of the idea is not to waste any words.

crazydesi says

the spouse pressure, it is little exaggerated

Agreed. On the other hand, we live in a society where house, translated, "home" is an emotionally charged concept that has been around for a long time. That is a tough one to get past. Especially, when so much of our society promotes the concept as part of "the American dream". Personally, this bubble has created a new way of thinking for me in regards to that American dream, that perhaps I may not have been open to before.

Sheesh. Sales tax is the first tax that should be eliminated in favor of a land value tax. It would be the same amount of revenue, but the paperwork and harm to commerce would be far less.

But it also means less government control of individuals. We can't have that.

Patrick,

Placed Amazon order on the 14th for your book, eagerly awaiting arrival. BTW: . Had another line item to qualify for free economy shipping with HT order, place PayPal, etc.

I was notified SIX DAYS LATER on the 20th that the 'order shipped' with est delivery date of Sept 25.

Good God. Beware of 'Free Shipping' delays. . .

Congrats on the Book. If I ever receive it I look fwd to commenting !

ps: even though CA mail-order sales tax took effect on the 16th, Amazon, the company with a heart still charged sales tax on the order placed on the 14th. . .

Hmmm, another article seeming to show that women want that house about twice as much as men do:

http://money.cnn.com/2012/02/14/real_estate/dating_homeownership/index.htm

This also supports my point in the book that women prefer men who own houses in general -- but the study failed to examine women's preferences between men who own houses vs. men who have large amounts of cash and no debt, but are renting.

This also supports my point in the book that women prefer men who own houses in general -- but the study failed to examine women's preferences between men who own houses vs. men who have large amounts of cash and no debt, but are renting.

What about men who own small, crappy houses? ;-)

That's my "game plan" to avoid long-term serfdom.

You can call it sexist, but I think it's likely that once a woman moves into that small crappy house, it will probably get spruced up and no longer be crappy.

And if you own it outright, I'd expect that's a big plus too.

You can call it sexist, but I think it's likely that once a woman moves into that small crappy house, it will probably get spruced up and no longer be crappy.
And if you own it outright, I'd expect that's a big plus too.

Hmmm...good point. Of course if it's TOO small and TOO crappy, she might want to move to a much bigger/nicer house. Then I get stuck with 6% realtor fees and other transaction costs, PLUS I end up with a bigger/nicer place than I can really afford. Sort of the worst of both worlds.

I don't think it's sexist. For whatever reason women tend to be more status-conscious with houses, and men tend to be more status-conscious with things like sports cars. ;-)

crazydesi says

the spouse pressure, it is little exaggerated

Is it better to just delete or neuter that part of the sake of political correctness and inter-gender harmony, or to keep it for the discussion and controversy value?

I believe there is truth in it, but I can also see how it can be perceived as offensive.

I have not read it yet, so I can't really speak to whether or not it is too sexist.

I don't think that you should delete or neuter the section just for political correctness and inter-gender harmony.

However, even if the wife pressure page is correct 75% of the time for women and only 25% of the time for men, then you are making people feel unjustly pigeon holed a good deal of the time.

I don't think that it would "neuter" the chapter if it was make less of an absolute judgement on the psyches of women. But then again having not read it yet, I have no idea what the fuck I am talking about.

;)

Just downloaded the Kindle version of The Housing Trap. Thanks Patrick.

Thanks! I can see the extra Kindle sale here:

https://kdp.amazon.com/self-publishing/reports

There were three earlier today, and now there are 4:

Paper books are now at 111 sold!

Paper books are now at 111 sold!

So are you going to buy a house with your new found wealth?

Not unless it's a really good deal!

Not unless it's a really good deal!

Here is a good one for you. Half an acre of land, walking distance to the Elementary School, just down the road from the club house and golf course.

http://www.zillow.com/homedetails/7203-Saddle-Side-Boerne-TX-78015/26166175_zpid/

It's been on the market for a while as the property backs to a busy road. I've seen worse here in the Bay Area. Owner would be willing to make a deal I'd bet.

Bought and read it on Kindle. Happy to be renting for $425/month!

Thanks for your book, and your site.

Any advice for improvement?

Enjoying a quick bite to eat while reading my Kindle version of The Housing Trap. :-)

(Millbrae, CA)

Test alternate subtitles:

"Avoid a lifetime of debt and live free"

"A mortgage is no way to live"

"Why everyone in housing wants you broke"

"Finding economic freedom in today's market"

Etc.

Brainstorm more, then rotate them into Adwords a la Tim Ferriss. Find the most clickable subtitle. Sell more books.

I'd absolutely trash the "wife" title and go with "spouse". I am actually a little surprised you included the term. I for one did not take into consideration whether or not my husband had a "house" for me when I decided to marry him. That is a sweeping generalization About women and I believe you are vastly limiting your market if you make this a gender issue.

My best friend's husband pushed them into a house twice in the last ten years- one they short sold and they now own a house they are heavily underwater in and behind on their mortgage. It is not always the women. Men are also pressured to be "homeowners" and having ownership of a house show them as being a "good provider".

You can now see the first few pages with the "Click to LOOK INSIDE!" link on the Amazon page for "The Housing Trap":

http://www.amazon.com/Housing-Trap-Buyers-Captured-Yourself/dp/1479156213/?tag=patricknet-20

skinnyninja says

Happy to be renting for $425/month!

Do you live in Erie, PA? There, a decent 1 br can be had for that price. I know because I used to live there.

The local joke was, "you know you're from Erie when your winter heating bill is higher than your rent."

freak80 says

The local joke was, "you know you're from Erie when your winter heating bill is higher than your rent."

I had a cousin in Erie, actually very nice people around that area. Real salt of the Earth hardworking people.

You know that phrase applies to many already, or will apply to many areas soon.

leo707 says

I don't think that you should delete or neuter the section just for political correctness and inter-gender harmony.

NO WAY

I agree. PC lunacy is SO 2000.

What I appreciate most about Patrick's book are two essential ingrediants to a classic: genius, and courage. Patrick is a true hero and, although I do not know him personally in any manner whatsoever, I respectfully urge everyone to post reviews on Amazon amid so many authors who have never sacrificed as much for their audience of readers and buyers of books as Patrick has done for all of us. Thanks again Patrick, and thanks to anyone else for listening.

Reader says

I had a cousin in Erie, actually very nice people around that area. Real salt of the Earth hardworking people.

The kind of people the modern Democrat party has abandoned.

Luckily they have their guns and religion to cling to.

The wife/woman thing doesn't bother me at all - we need Patrick's help with this book to survive the nightmare; and I don't have time for the niceties when Truth at the core, and those with the courage to put it out there (like Patrick and elliemae) is what really matters.

I finished The Housing Trap this afternoon, on my flight from SAT to SFO. Good work Patrick.

Thanks! Suggestions for improvement?

I also finished your book this weekend Patrick. What sticks with me most is that little book is really my only friend when it comes to buying a property. 'Paranoia has never failed me' is one of my mottos.

Improvements? Nothing striking that comes to mind, not all situations fit all people. I intend on reading it again and could probably come up with blog like discussion as in this board if interested.

It's your second book! You should be damn proud.

I have two copies and fully intend on sharing.

152 paper copies and 42 Kindle copies sold so far!

I've started writing radio stations hoping to get interviewed. One good national interview and I think sales could really take off.

Again, I think you have something here.

Most people don't know really how the Real Estate Industry works and your book is easy enough to read for most.

As you are probably aware, there are people out there who don't want you to get the information out.

Paranoia, it works.

Best of luck with the marketing, say a 100,000 sales goal to start would bring some liquidity. I hope, to start.

Patrick, I think your cause is just, but how are you going to battle the FED gangsters who have made it their mission to create a false bottom in the market?

I think the bears have lost. The good guys lost this battle.

David9 says

Best of luck with the marketing, say a 100,000 sales goal to start would bring some liquidity. I hope, to start.

At $5 royalty per book, 100,000 would do nicely!

Goran_K says

Patrick, I think your cause is just, but how are you going to battle the FED gangsters who have made it their mission to create a false bottom in the market?

One secret is that the bond market is far more powerful than the Fed. When the bond market demands higher interest rates, rates will go higher no matter what the Fed wants.