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Our House Buying Experience


               
2012 Dec 11, 9:39am   32,550 views  86 comments

by varmint   follow (0)  

I saw the thread: http://patrick.net/?p=1219707 asking users to chronicle their house buying experiences and figured I would give it a go.

My girlfriend and I live in a small community in the east bay. I've rented here for about 6 years and really like it. She grew up here and her folks still live here so we really don't want to leave. We are first time buyers and are looking for a 2 bedroom. I'm not interested in condos, so the search is for a single family residence.

We have been frustrated with the lack of inventory. At any time there are may be only 2 or 3 houses available in our price range. Usually half of these need extensive foundation or other work that makes it not workable. We've been looking for 6 months and our price range has expanded from 350 to 400 to now 450+. Most of these houses are around 1000 square feet.

As the summer went on it seemed like prices were inching higher and we decided to wait it out until the fall when the market traditionally cools down. But it hasn't. Prices have continued to rise quite dramatically. Selling agents have been accepting offers on a set date to try to get bidding wars and it's working. We've put in a few offers but I don't think we've been very close to actually getting a place. The last one I bid 22k (5%) over asking and weren't even selected as a backup.

I really don't want to move away and don't see why we should have to leave a town that I enjoy and my girlfriend has grown up in. I'm not looking for anything fancy, even a fixer upper is ok as long as it doesn't have major structural problems. We're just not finding it. It sucks. I don't know where all these people with all this money are coming from. It's not like we want to buy in some super ritzy place, we do better than the average income for mortgage payers in our town (mostly single family houses here) according to citydata. If we have to go any higher we'll be eating ramen every day and that is just not worth it.

#housing

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1   Patrick   @   2012 Dec 11, 9:52am  

Thanks! Please keep us updated on how things go.

2   everything   @   2012 Dec 11, 9:52am  

I feel your pain, I sold my house because the property taxes were nearing 4k, and I only make about 60k pre tax. I'm single, but for one, nothing is really all that affordable anymore, and I even live in the midwest. Instead I rent for a couple thousand more than that with all utilities included. Yes, I decided food was more important. Still, my wages stagnated, and I'm in my 40's, my best earning years are behind me, and I did not even have a decent job until I was 30 anyways. Go live with her folks, save lots of money. Hard to believe how much more everything cost than it did back in the 70's before we had our initial bout with inflation soon after going off the gold standard, I would say, get ready for the ride of your life but I can't tell the future.

3   RealEstateIsBetterThanStocks   @   2012 Dec 11, 10:27am  

varmint says

The last one I bid 22k (5%) over asking and weren't even selected as a backup.

this has been the normal for the past few months.

some of new constructions have a 1 year occupancy requirement meaning investors can't touch them. so that eliminates half of your competitions. it's best to ask them about this before make the offer.

4   MAGA   @   2012 Dec 11, 10:29am  

Why would you buy a house with your girl friend? Isn't this something to do after you are married?

5   varmint   @   2012 Dec 11, 10:44am  

everything says

Go live with her folks, save lots of money.

No way, that's awful. I like her folks and all but I've been on my own since I left for college 15 years ago. Doubt they would want us there either.

If that is what people feel like they have to do, it's really sad. I'd like to own a house to have more space, be able to modify my living quarters as I want, have a yard I can do what I want in/to, etc. I'm willing to pay more (within reason) than rental prices to do it and take on the financial risk of the mortgage loan etc. Sacrifices past that are crap and make you wonder what kind system we're running here.

6   turtledove   @   2012 Dec 11, 11:01am  

I'm sorry you are going through all this. But the fact is, you are trying to purchase a home in the midst of a very dysfunctional market. Between underwater values, artificially low interest rates, manipulated supply-side economics, Wall Street deciding to become landlords, foreign investors with more money than sense, and desperate realtors... things are pretty messed up to say the least. The question is... Is this temporary? It's hard to imagine that it could last forever.

7   anonymous   2012 Dec 11, 11:02am  

Land in sfba is in short supply and lots of people want to live there, I mean, its so effing cool and all. It is what it is, there's zero chance of that, or any other highly demanded city for that matter, of having a return to reasonable prices. You pay a premium to own things that everyone else wants that can't be produced en masse.

My advice is either rent, or leave the area. This is a big country and a bigger planet, there's plenty of other opportunity to be had, without sacrificing a quality of life just to hold a mortgage while the bank holds the deed and the local government raises their protection fees into perpetuity.

Get over it and move on with your life

8   woppa   @   2012 Dec 11, 11:14am  

Get a house in Florida for 60k or 70k. Mint. Nice weather. You'll save so much money you can take flights to see the folks as often as you want.

9   anotheraccount   @   2012 Dec 11, 11:17am  

In the east bay, I don't see prices dropping much for houses under 500K as rates are staying so low. By spring time, if rates are this low, year over year change will give buyers perceived buying power. Houses over 750K have peaked at this point. Houses over 1M might actually correct as people realize that higher taxes are here to stay.

This market sucks. I don't think what's going is right, but little good can happen to change what's going on. If something bad happens to drop the prices lower, then we are probably even in bigger trouble in economy.

10   anotheraccount   @   2012 Dec 11, 11:25am  

In 2005 -2006 when I posting on here, I was pretty sure that the market would right itself. At this point my understanding of the "market" has changed. I am no longer sure that the market will do what's :right".

11   David Losh   @   2012 Dec 11, 11:37am  

Great!

I'm glad you stepped up.

If it were me, and I wanted only two bedrooms, I would drive neighborhoods I want, and look for houses that looked like they have been lived in a good long while, like ten years.

Second I would look for six bicycles, or tricycles in the yard of that house. I would be looking for a couple who has out grown the current house, and may want to move up. Then I would knock on the door, or send them a letter.

You can also blanket a form letter to any house that looks like it might be worth taking a run at.

It's hard in a multiple offer situation to find anything, and I would recommend you wait out the hysteria, but it doesn't mean you can't look on your own.

Move up sellers may want flexibility, and you can offer that, as well as the incentive of the 6% commission that they will save.

12   bmwman91   @   2012 Dec 11, 12:04pm  

I hear you, varmint. I grew up here and have 31 family members within a 30 minute radius here in the South Bay. I would really like to stick around to be close to all of them, and being avidly into the outdoors, the complete lack of weather here is a giant plus. Yet, the housing market is beyond dysfunctional at this point. Honestly, my outlook for RE in the SFBA is worse than it was in 2005. At least at that point there was hope of a crash. Now, our own government has mandated that housing shall remain expensive, that debt shall reign supreme and that fiscal prudence is for fools.

My wife and I are in the 96th income percentile (nationally) and there is literally nothing for sale that doesn't involve us putting all of our disposable income into it. Thanks, FHA, for doling out $730k loans to anyone with $25k in cash and a credit score of 580. Thanks, Fed, for fucking with treasuries so that Wall Street steams full-speed into equities and real estate.

Complaining is fun! But at the end of the day, you have to see that you can't fight the system. The best chance you have is to get a RE agent license, join the CAr and see if you can scoop a deal before it hits the "fair market." I am in the process of doing that myself.

13   EastCoastBubbleBoy   @   2012 Dec 11, 12:38pm  

I’m not sure if it still works (the rules of the game keep changing) but you may want to try contacting some of the smaller local banks in your area, see if they have any inventory that hasn't hit the market yet.

Better yet, if you have access to the ownership records. (In my area all of that is online) you can search for a specific bank, target a few homes they have in their backlog that may meet your needs, and fax offers direct (make the offer subject to satisfactory inspection of course).

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