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The science of sex: 4 harsh truths about dating and mating


               
2014 Sep 16, 2:48pm   5,855 views  125 comments

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http://theweek.com/article/index/266665/the-science-of-sex-4-harsh-truths-about-dating-and-mating

Pretty much what everyone knows is true but few people will admit.

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79   MolotovCocktail   2025 Aug 27, 9:07am  

Booger says






Yep. Men think that way. And even though this video is staged, there's some good acting here because women don't like being forced to realize the truth like this. They all would rather be breeding with Chad.

They both delivered their roles well.




82   clambo   2025 Sep 6, 6:38am  

Herewith two anecdotes which may be either amusing or annoying to the reader.

About three years ago I moved in with a girl in La Paz who is 25 years younger than I and we had a good time, but she had picked up the bad habit of drinking beer from a previous German drunk boyfriend (now deceased). I paid all bills, fixed up a Jeep ($3500), dental work, and paid her a typical month's wage.
Eventually we didn't get along, so I left, was up in Florida. When I returned she offered to rent me her house so she had income. She wanted me to buy it but I refused. She moved back with her parents while I lived in the house.
The other night at 1am I see texts coming in WhatsApp from her; she had a car accident.
Because she was at fault and had no insurance, she had to pay the other guy $6000 which wiped out her savings (from my rent).
Because she didn't import her car with California plates, they impounded it and she's lost her car.
Everyone tells me she is going to be extremely friendly to me when I go back down to Baja in a month.

Another girl in Florida from Haiti gave me a ride from the hospital last year after hip surgery. I noticed her tires were bad so I gave her my ATM card and said "Buy some tires, those are unsafe, spend about $400."
She previously had not abused my card so I trusted her again; this time she stole from me.
I figured out she took out a bunch of cash and said "you should pay me back." She paid me back about 1/2 before I left for Baja last time.
The other day I texted her about my cool AirBnb. I didn't mention money she owed me.
She said she would like to see the AirBnb and will come up Tuesday.
She's going to fuck because she would rather fuck than pay me money. I think I'm just 30 years older than she.

See how it works? Money talks, bullshit walks. It's fuck or walk honey.
Girls are simply not smart, motivated, or disciplined enough to hold onto money. This is my secret weapon over them.
83   Glock-n-Load   2025 Sep 6, 8:21am  

You like drama with skanks.
84   clambo   2025 Sep 6, 8:35am  

I dislike drama, which is why I'm not hanging around a girl who drinks too much.

If skank connotes ugly, they're not.

I'm seeing a couple others in La Paz who don't have any vices; they aren't drinkers, smokers, and are not gluttons (fat).
85   WookieMan   2025 Sep 6, 9:25am  

clambo says

I'm seeing a couple others in La Paz who don't have any vices; they aren't drinkers, smokers, and are not gluttons (fat).

I don't think women having drinks is a bad thing. Smoking is stupid and admit I did it. It's the chicks that go out to the bar all the time. I call them Pub sluts. I'd rather hang out at home and have a fire with some friends and the wife. Way cheaper too. Plus we generally have a sober person, no babysitter needed. Kid falls down the stairs and breaks their face, someone can get them to an ER and we're not going to jail.

Being fat would be a biggie if I was in the game. Obese women are gross and usually sluts. But so are attractive women that will jump to another man at a moments notice. No benefits to either. The fatties fuck and run because they know they're not marriage potential. Short term benefits.
88   Patrick   2025 Sep 14, 11:47am  

Someone should make a book of Charlie's insights. It should be required reading in public schools.
89   mell   2025 Sep 14, 12:53pm  

Patrick says

Someone should make a book of Charlie's insights. It should be required reading in public schools.

Agreed. There are always socially dumb womyn, who, encouragesd by the govt man rape, will divorce anyways (despite a poor social outlook as an aging cat harridan), but many if not most still have the dominant genetic smart code imprint in them telling them not to leave their successful/determined provider.
90   clambo   2025 Sep 15, 6:03am  

I don't wish ill will on Kirk, and he's entitled to his opinion but what the fuck is he going on about?

I have had an unusual career and did exactly the opposite of what this guy says.

I did what was interesting and sometimes lucrative; I didn't do anything thinking about how to "protect and provide" for some woman and her (or my) kids.

I told girls on dates what I was doing if they asked me, but I didn't tell them I had grandiose ideas about protecting them.

Now they are seeking my company; I still do the same things.

Friday I was scuba diving and surrounded by (harmless) sharks near Jupiter Florida, not far from Tiger Wood's house.

Soon I'll be exploring back roads in Baja with a 4x4 truck; girls probably won't be coming along at first. I will see them after I get back to town and will buy them lunch or dinner somewhere.

Women want a protector; men want pussy. I guess Charlie forgot that part of human nature.
91   Glock-n-Load   2025 Sep 15, 6:54am  

He’s coming from the angle of what’s good for society, children and morality. Not juding you but, I get the sense those things aren’t that important to you.
92   clambo   2025 Sep 15, 7:45am  

Evidently it's "good for society" to live one's life to reproduce and hang around a fat wife after you've lost interest in her sexually, while paying richly for the experience.

Morality has absolutely nothing to do with what he spoke about; I'm not immoral, I just don't take my orders from others unless a judge or a cop.
93   zzyzzx   2025 Sep 15, 7:53am  

The my GF has different political beliefs is a good one.
94   mell   2025 Sep 15, 10:51am  

clambo says

Evidently it's "good for society" to live one's life to reproduce and hang around a fat wife after you've lost interest in her sexually, while paying richly for the experience.

Morality has absolutely nothing to do with what he spoke about; I'm not immoral, I just don't take my orders from others unless a judge or a cop.

It is good for society otherwise mankind would go extinct, but not everybody needs to have kids. Also generally childless men do better in life / are happier than childless womyn.
95   Glock-n-Load   2025 Sep 15, 10:54am  

clambo says

Evidently it's "good for society" to live one's life to reproduce and hang around a fat wife after you've lost interest in her sexually, while paying richly for the experience.

Morality has absolutely nothing to do with what he spoke about; I'm not immoral, I just don't take my orders from others unless a judge or a cop.

Would you say you’re living the Christian lifestyle? Again, not judging you. Charlie is coming from the Christian perspective which, btw, has created arguably the greatest society on earth. It is now deteriorating because satanic forces are being put forth and being accepted.
96   Ceffer   2025 Sep 15, 11:05am  

Charlie wasn't old enough to be an arbiter of either politics, psychology, morality, behavior or human nature. He was a scripted agent. By whom and for what, I have no idea because I haven't seen the deep dive. He just wasn't old enough to have wisdom. Of course, he looked a lot older than what they claim, so maybe the agent was older playing younger.

Nobody gets these enormously expensive media vehicles if they are not an agent. Same is true of Fuentes. He is probably just another disguised bloodline lawn ornament being given his multimillion dollar training wheels forum by Mumsy and Dadsy to launch him into the public perception.

You see a few of these type jugend spawns of shadow elites on Gateway Pundit, too, getting their training wheels in media. Most of them are assholes out of the gate because their parents are assholes. They are like the 22 year old script writers in Hollywood whose work product are recycled garbage devoid of depth. They are inexperienced and often just plain stupid. They HAVE to be given their crap from corporate with the support vehicles.

Publicity and maintained public image are expensive and calculated. The overnight sensations are crafted. Maybe many are seeded, but the ones that catch hold are given more funding until they have an audience and a polity.
97   Glock-n-Load   2025 Sep 15, 7:32pm  

Could be true. Anything is possible now.
103   Ceffer   2025 Oct 27, 3:14pm  

She was trying to cue the soap opera lines. The wary prey saw an excuse for the exits.

Never cue the soap opera lines before their time.
zzyzzx says





106   MolotovCocktail   2025 Nov 14, 9:48am  

Booger says





I can't tell if she's serious or parodizing.
107   stereotomy   2025 Nov 14, 10:27am  

MolotovCocktail says

Booger says






I can't tell if she's serious or parodizing.

Oh, she's serious - look at the 2 inch long fake nails. She's a spigger, rolled with the Tyrones, got 3 kids by probably by three baby daddies.
108   HeadSet   2025 Nov 14, 12:52pm  

stereotomy says

Oh, she's serious - look at the 2 inch long fake nails.

Part of the act. She seems to be parodying by painting herself in the worst way yet having outrageous expectations. Not even the oft stated "$100k income" but raised to $130k.
109   Booger   2025 Nov 18, 2:59pm  

Most girls expect you to pay for all the dates. They expect you to give them gifts, preferably expensive ones, like a new iPhone.
In essence, most women want to be treated like children in a relationship, cared for and pampered, and if something goes wrong, it's obviously your fault.
We have the concept of a “real man” and the phrase “a man should,” which girls always use if you don't do what she wants you to do. But in reality, it boils down to you giving her as much money as she wants, not interfering with her living the way she wants, and then she'll allow you to have sex with her.
110   Ceffer   2025 Nov 18, 3:55pm  

I refer back to an older guy who perfected the bait. He had enough money and used the dating services. He said he ALWAYS paid, whether the woman was old or young, and told me there was never any suggestion of the females picking up any kind of check EVER.

It was not cheap, but he would get laid but then squeeze played. I suppose the question is after the money spent on the fishing expeditions, was it cheaper or more expensive than standard prostitutes without the relationship pretense?

There are the men who become 'companions' for wealthy women (have one a few doors down in Tri Valley) but I could never imagine doing such a thing, even though I had a few rich girls who wanted me and whose daddies would have paid the way. Parents always really liked me for some reason, although girls never thought I gave them enough of the soap opera line treatments.

I was condemned by temperament to be poor or get stuff on my own. I just always thought I would rather be poor than carry a rich woman's luggage.
111   Patrick   2025 Nov 18, 4:53pm  

Booger says

it boils down to you giving her as much money as she wants, not interfering with her living the way she wants, and then she'll allow you to have sex with her.


This was not a thing back before the pill and feminism, except for prostitutes.
112   Glock-n-Load   2025 Nov 18, 5:11pm  

Patrick says


Booger says


it boils down to you giving her as much money as she wants, not interfering with her living the way she wants, and then she'll allow you to have sex with her.


This was not a thing back before the pill and feminism, except for prostitutes.


Seems almost everything is corrupted now. I keep being told things will correct. Sure, sure it will. If so, it’ll be a looooong time imo.
113   HeadSet   2025 Nov 18, 6:27pm  

Booger says

But in reality, it boils down to you giving her as much money as she wants, not interfering with her living the way she wants, and then she'll allow you to have sex with her.

??? Woman will have sex if they are attracted to you. Some will even cook you a dinner first.
114   mell   2025 Nov 18, 6:38pm  

HeadSet says


Booger says


But in reality, it boils down to you giving her as much money as she wants, not interfering with her living the way she wants, and then she'll allow you to have sex with her.

??? Woman will have sex if they are attracted to you. Some will even cook you a dinner first.


Maybe GenX and before, since then no. There is a resurging trend of trad wives in gen alpha but TBD. There is currently a total lack of hot women since feminism and woke culture destroyed them. Takes a while to replenish. In the meantime the few decent looking womyn will milk you dry, financially, cooking skillz? Get outta here
115   DemoralizerOfPanicans   2025 Nov 18, 7:00pm  

Most nuevo-Tradwives are just burntout partyhoes, sadly.

Single Moms and/or approaching 30 and "reform" themselves, or rather their appearance.
116   mell   2025 Nov 18, 7:07pm  

DemoralizerOfPanicans says

Most nuevo-Tradwives are just burntout partyhoes, sadly.

Single Moms and/or approaching 30 and "reform" themselves, or rather their appearance.

Yeah they have to be younger when making that decision. I'm hoping the lack of affordable alcohol and trend of not drinking (as long as you don't replace it with weed) among gen alpha/z will actually bring forth some real trade wives, or at least as good as they get. The boys would appreciate it and I could stop sounding off on marriage, really want to promote it.
117   DemoralizerOfPanicans   2025 Nov 18, 7:10pm  

mell says


Yeah they have to be younger when making that decision. I'm hoping the lack of affordable alcohol and trend of not drinking (as long as you don't replace it with weed) among gen alpha/z will actually bring forth some real trade wives, or at least as good as they get. The boys would appreciate it and I could stop sounding off on marriage, really want to promote it.

I hope so. BUT, like the tattoo thing, the not drinking is seemingly a guy thing. Women are actually increasing their drinking, men are way down!

I came across the data a year or so ago, I'm sure it's on here but Rollo was talking about it.

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