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Dating is not like Pomegranates


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2017 Feb 9, 6:40am   15,670 views  67 comments

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The problem is that most ppl don't understand the difference between what's intrinsically organic and what's artificial/man made.

Dating is artificial. It's about the pretense of potential soulmate-hood and other touchy feely "Wow! We share so much in common" emotional a/o hormonal horseshit. In reality, that stuff should have ended by one's 20s and then, one realizes that it's just a bunch of slop, just to stick one's cock inside someone else.

On the other hand, when I was a kid, I'd discovered Pomegranates. They were delicious back then.

Decades later, they're still delicious and even scientists have determined that it's a potential superfood with great nutritional value.

Thus, I will never outgrow Pomegranates, however, I'd stopped dating, nearly 6 years ago.

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28   missing   2017 Feb 10, 2:08pm  

Are you going to import married Americans there? That may work.

29   missing   2017 Feb 10, 2:32pm  

It's off the charts you mean?
Where are their preferred destinations - Thailand, the Philippines?

30   missing   2017 Feb 10, 2:51pm  

I have been to Russia and Ukraine, have Russian friends there and quite like them, but have heard bad things about Russian wives - very pushy and demanding.

I have good impressions from the Baltic countries and the other eastern Europian countries. Polish women are notorious.

31   missing   2017 Feb 10, 2:52pm  

For Chinese women I was told that as soon as you start a relationship they assume it is serious and expect a marriage eventually.

32   missing   2017 Feb 10, 2:54pm  

I like Taiwanese.

33   missing   2017 Feb 10, 3:02pm  

"I think the word for that is "female". "

It varies a lot though. I have cousins in Europe who live happily with their partners and children without being married and it doesn't seem to be an issue. There's very little pressure or expectation to marry there.

34   Patrick   2017 Feb 10, 3:39pm  

We have German friends in Germany who are not married but have 3 kids and a house. They seemed happy when we visited them, but apparently the relationship was not so stable. The mother just took off one day, leaving the father with the kids, and has not come back. I think such a thing might have been less likely if they were formally married.

35   missing   2017 Feb 10, 4:58pm  

rando says

We have German friends in Germany who are not married but have 3 kids and a house. They seemed happy when we visited them, but apparently the relationship was not so stable. The mother just took off one day, leaving the father with the kids, and has not come back. I think such a thing might have been less likely if they were formally married.

True, but is it a good or a bad thing? I am not sure. In principle, I am against marriage. I only married because the laws in the US make life this way easier.

36   missing   2017 Feb 10, 5:00pm  

"These people are in Thailand at the best foreign husband competition"

Hideous

37   Patrick   2017 Feb 10, 5:15pm  

FP says

True, but is it a good or a bad thing? I am not sure. In principle, I am against marriage. I only married because the laws in the US make life this way easier.

I think traditional marriage is a purely good thing for the children, and for the society. The husband and wife each give up something, but get something.

The husband gives up sex with all other women. He gets paternity assurance, childcare, and cooking, and availability of a stable sex partner.

The wife gives up her own career, at least until the kids are pretty grown, but gets financial support, protection, and time to raise the children.

The children get a stable upbringing which helps to make them stable people.
The society gets men who are willing to put up with a lot of shit at work because they have a family to feed and a mortgage to pay.

38   Dan8267   2017 Feb 10, 5:44pm  

rando says

The wife gives up her own career, at least until the kids are pretty grown

Even this isn't necessary with modern daycare or having grandparents who live close by.

Still, there is not good reason all the other things couldn't still happen even in a dual income family. It still does happen, but it's rare because everything has shifted towards short-term mating. Too much greed, mistrust, and zero-sum games.

39   missing   2017 Feb 10, 6:08pm  

rando says

I think traditional marriage is a purely good thing for the children, and for the society. The husband and wife each give up something, but get something.

The husband gives up sex with all other women. He gets paternity assurance, childcare, and cooking, and availability of a stable sex partner.

The wife gives up her own career, at least until the kids are pretty grown, but gets financial support, protection, and time to raise the children.

The children get a stable upbringing which helps to make them stable people.

The society gets men who are willing to put up with a lot of shit at work because they have a family to feed and a mortgage to pay.

You don't need a formal marriage to have all this. It only serves to make the union harder to dissolve. As a result many people end up living in misery.

40   zzyzzx   2017 Feb 10, 6:41pm  

FP says

I only married because the laws in the US make life this way easier.

Huh????? I'm pretty sure it works the other way around.

41   missing   2017 Feb 10, 7:06pm  

zzyzzx says

FP says

I only married because the laws in the US make life this way easier.

Huh????? I'm pretty sure it works the other way around.

as a family

42   MMR   2017 Feb 10, 8:25pm  

Rin says

started the Allicin supplementation, some 4 years back, meaning the real stabilized Allicin (not some cheap Garlic in a pill), every dental visit had basically minimal sore (a/o bleeding) gums,

Cool. What is good brand in your opinion?

43   MMR   2017 Feb 10, 8:27pm  

Dan8267 says

modern daycare or having grandparents who live close by

This is the dual income h1-b strategy and lot of the kids are little shits.

Raising ones own kids has gone out of style in many circles

44   MMR   2017 Feb 10, 9:48pm  

lostand confused says

My friend who is married and has two kids goes there twice a year. Apparently there are all inclusive sex resorts where there is an included buffet of women an

Does the wife know about it?

45   lostand confused   2017 Feb 11, 5:36am  

MMR says

Does the wife know about it?

Nah she is the bitchy shrewy type who used to be good looking once. But not good with finances-just spending. he travels a lot -so it works.

46   missing   2017 Feb 11, 5:57pm  

lostand confused says

His frigid wife has not had sex with him for almost 15 years .

lostand confused says

MMR says

Does the wife know about it?

Nah

She did not fuck her husband for 15 years and she doesn't think he is fucking around? Are some women really that delusional?

47   Rin   2017 Feb 11, 9:57pm  

MMR says

Rin says

started the Allicin supplementation, some 4 years back, meaning the real stabilized Allicin (not some cheap Garlic in a pill), every dental visit had basically minimal sore (a/o bleeding) gums,

Cool. What is good brand in your opinion?

As of now, Allisure has the best conversion and stabilized Allicin extract.

48   MMR   2017 Feb 11, 10:14pm  

lostand confused says

Nah she is the bitchy shrewy type wh

Ahh the worst...

49   Rin   2017 Feb 13, 6:22am  

lostand confused says

Nah she is the bitchy shrewy type who used to be good looking once. But not good with finances-just spending.

Usually, these are the types of persons who advocate for relationships.

I guess misery loves company.

50   missing   2017 Feb 13, 6:36am  

good relationship > no relationship > misearble in relationship

51   Dan8267   2017 Feb 13, 9:56am  

FP says

good relationship > no relationship > misearble in relationship

good relationships with many women > good relationship with one > no relationship > miserable in relationship > dead > married

52   Rin   2017 Feb 13, 1:25pm  

Dan8267 says

Having countless hoes to boink, on any given night (along with good food, booze, Penthouse suite, etc) > good relationships with many women > good relationship with one > no relationship > miserable in relationship > dead > married

53   missing   2017 Feb 13, 1:57pm  

Dan8267 says

good relationships with many women

Muslim?

54   missing   2017 Feb 13, 1:59pm  

Aging old and single - irreversible phase transition.

55   Dan8267   2017 Feb 13, 2:35pm  

FP says

Dan8267 says

good relationships with many women

Muslim?

No, fornicator. I'm not married to any of them. A Muslim would be married to all of them, and then having an affair with a goat on the side.

56   missing   2017 Feb 13, 2:49pm  

Dan8267 says

FP says

Dan8267 says

good relationships with many women

Muslim?

No, fornicator. I'm not married to any of them. A Muslim would be married to all of them, and then having an affair with a goat on the side.

Why would you end a relationship if it's good? You are contradicting yourself.

Muslims fuck goats? I didn't know about that.

57   Dan8267   2017 Feb 13, 2:53pm  

Islamic Harem

58   Dan8267   2017 Feb 13, 2:54pm  

FP says

Why would you end a relationship if it's good? You are contradicting yourself.

Where do you get that from the diagram below?

Dan8267 says

good relationships with many women > good relationship with one > no relationship > miserable in relationship > dead > married

59   missing   2017 Feb 13, 3:41pm  

Dan8267 says

Where do you get that from the diagram below?

From that diagram I concluded that you are advocating polygamy. From your subsequent reply I concluded that you are contradicting yourself.

60   Rin   2017 Feb 13, 4:29pm  

You guys are making life too complicated. It's as simple as this ...

"When you say relationships ... I say 'No Way' "!

"When you say hoes, I say Yes!"

61   Dan8267   2017 Feb 13, 5:15pm  

FP says

From that diagram I concluded that you are advocating polygamy. From your subsequent reply I concluded that you are contradicting yourself.

Your conclusion is wrong, but it's not worth specifying precise mathematical statements for what was obviously a lighthearted joke rather than a serious philosophical thesis.

62   Rin   2017 Feb 13, 5:59pm  

In the future, men will simply fuck robots ...

https://patrick.net/1301582/2017-01-18-the-end-according-to-rin

63   Dan8267   2017 Feb 13, 6:57pm  

Robot goats for Call It Crazy.

64   Dan8267   2017 Feb 13, 6:58pm  

Shit, it's already here!

66   anonymous   2017 Feb 14, 6:18am  

I think you guys are exaggerating this point a bit, and it's likely because we often see what we want to see.

My friends are mostly in our 30's and most have good women, although most our women are some degree of Spanish/P.R./south american, permanently tanned broads. The pool of good white women wrt longterm partners does seem slim here in the states. Still, I have sisters and cousins all very White, all either married or in longterm relationships, and none are the Rins sister type bitches.

I think that you exaggerate your point, or at least, wrongly put all the blame on the females. The pool of good, strong, productive, successful men may also be part of the issue

I don't think there's a right or wrong answer, people are best served doing what makes them happy. Not what someone else tells them makes them happy

67   Rin   2017 Feb 14, 2:19pm  

Until you guys actually experience a 5+ year period without dating and relationships, and only fucking hoes, you won't know how good it feels, especially as you near the 6 year anniversary.

www.youtube.com/embed/2OITxdCJg2Y

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