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2021 May 19, 4:35am   9,087 views  63 comments

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There are many astute patrick netters. So, seeking your recommendations for a high school student getting ready to apply for colleges.
The student in Ohio
1. Perfect ACT score
2. Excellent GPA
3. Likes STEM, loves math, chemistry, programming.
4. Has 9 months of research work experience at a university. Volunteer experience
5. One technical publication in a national journal
6. Hoping to keep undergraduate costs to 100k since student is likely to pursue graduate school.
Thank you.

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1   richwicks   2021 May 19, 6:12am  

gabbar says
There are many astute patrick netters. So, seeking your recommendations for a high school student getting ready to apply for colleges.
The student in Ohio
1. Perfect ACT score
2. Excellent GPA
3. Likes STEM, loves math, chemistry, programming.
4. Has 9 months of research work experience at a university. Volunteer experience
5. One technical publication in a national journal
6. Hoping to keep undergraduate costs to 100k since student is likely to pursue graduate school.
Thank you.


Smarter than me. He (or she) ought to get a full scholarship somewhere unless their SAT was crap. I thought the ACT was a lot easier than the SAT back in the day.
2   clambo   2021 May 19, 6:49am  

I wasn’t born there, but I tell young people to go to California.

Maybe later get out to avoid taxes, but I loved living out there.
3   RC2006   2021 May 19, 6:50am  

Looks like a smart kid so you just need to focus on the basics.

1. Take it easy on the booze.
2. Don't fall in love and keep it rapped up.
3. Make as many connections as possible in field of choosing.
4   PeopleUnited   2021 May 19, 6:52am  

Do something you are passionate about and do it better (work harder) than anyone else. A degree is fine but it is more about who you know and what you can do, so networking and actual skills are much more useful than a diploma.
5   Onvacation   2021 May 19, 7:21am  

Go to community college to learn a good trade and start a shop.

With this kids ambition he could own a chain by the time he is 30.
6   Onvacation   2021 May 19, 7:23am  

Skill and experience trump education, but if you don't go the entrepreneurial way you'll hit a glass ceiling without the right degree.

Look what happened to Trump because he did not go to Yale or Harvard.
7   Tenpoundbass   2021 May 19, 7:32am  

Learn Business skills and become an entrepreneur. Especially if he's white. There's going to come a day, when companies will be taxed more for hiring white people. Or will get breaks for hiring nonwhite people.

My brother used to call me every month, when my daughters were 13 to 17, telling me to start having my daughters look for Colleges. He even said he would write a recommendation letter, he has high rank in the Military and a Federal law enforcement agency. I told him, that I wasn't going to push college on them right out of highschool. I wanted them to work a few years and know what it's like to earn a living. Also I didn't want them corrupted by the Commie institutions, that I saw colleges were becoming even back then. I figured if my daughters worked in the real world first, they would have a conservative mind by time they went to college.
After several years, they finally settled on getting a Software Engineering degree.
He now relents that I did the right thing. I raised two fine young ladies that everyone admires. His daughters were fine, until they went to college, now they are spoiled blue and green hair Socialist. That despise anyone that has a free thought, and can't find any gainful employment with their degrees.
8   Tenpoundbass   2021 May 19, 7:40am  

To add to what I wrote above, my daughters both earned scholarships and grants. They were still valid even after their 2 to 5 year hiatus.
My wife and I didn't have to pay a penny out of pocket for their education. Since they both worked while going to school. They paid for all of the incidentals themselves, what ever their scholarships didn't cover.
9   Onvacation   2021 May 19, 7:44am  

Tenpoundbass says
There's going to come a day, when companies will be taxed more for hiring white people. Or will get breaks for hiring nonwhite people.

That day started before the day I started working many decades ago.
10   zzyzzx   2021 May 19, 8:02am  

Identify as a lesbian black woman for the purposes of college admissions and employment.
11   WookieMan   2021 May 19, 8:42am  

richwicks says
He (or she)

Actually he/she does matter. Specifically for women. Degrees matter much less besides getting into the building/employer so to speak because you have a piece of paper.

My wife works with public works engineers. The ones that don't know her think she's an engineer. She got a marketing degree and is smart, but STEM isn't her jam.

If it is a daughter student, looks matter as well. College could be the downfall if they're attractive. The attention they'll get can be a huge problem or even a baby. So there's that.

Young men, I'm indifferent about with the college route. Most of the wealthiest men, if that's the goal, that I know didn't complete college. My own uncle can barely read and is worth 8 figures and likely approaching 9 with inflation.

Life is sales, at least in America. The paper degree can get you in the door, but networking and selling yourself is what it's all about. Pretty much any field.

I'd also say just let a kid be a kid. Not saying you're micromanaging. Your kid also needs to learn from mistakes though. Let them make them. If that includes picking a college or major not to your liking, let them. If they're ambitious they can succeed in any field. If they're not, they'll fail and learn. As long as they don't dabble in heavy drugs and keep the booze to social drinking, they'll do just fine based off of the parameters you've set forth.
12   Bd6r   2021 May 19, 9:32am  

As a faculty at a large school I can say the following...

1. Education these days is worth what you pay for it only in specific fields, and even there payoff gets smaller. It is worth going to university only if you are very interested in few specific subjects - engineering or few hard sciences. Some premed tracks are OK also, if student is interested in this type of career. Not pharmacy any more though. Even with med schools situation is rapidly becoming such that only few disciplines are financially OK. A family practitioner will not earn much and will be in debt to gills. Other than that, university is a place where young people form their business/political etc networks, which is important, but then student needs to go to the best public university in state (OSU in this case) or an elite private university.

2. Graduate studies in fields that matter (most engineering disciplines, chemistry, biochemistry, etc) are not only free, they pay you a small stipend of about 25-30K/year. I would pick discipline where outsourcing to China is difficult.

3. Accumulating 100K debt at any university is preposterous and absolutely not worth it. Make calculations how much you will owe, how much you will earn after your studies, and if your debt is more than a realistic one years' salary after graduation, do something else.
13   AmericanKulak   2021 May 19, 9:57am  

Accounting is worth it as well. No need to spend a fortune on it though.

Accounting is a great major for people who don't know what to do with themselves. It's 6th grade math and some financial, tax, and inventory valuaton terms. You can work in any field you like. Banking? AP at Midstate Office Supply? The ASPCA? Home office of a Chain of Liquor Stores? Or work for the IRS or a Tax Prep office for a few years, esp. for small business/wealthier clients and go off on your own and do income tax prep. The latter is a business you can start as a hobby with a half dozen clients and grow into 100s and move to full time.
14   PeopleUnited   2021 May 19, 9:59am  

PeopleUnited says
Do something you are passionate about and do it better (work harder) than anyone else. A degree is fine but it is more about who you know and what you can do, so networking and actual skills are much more useful than a diploma.


Wow, dislike on this post? How about a counter argument?
15   gabbar   2021 May 19, 10:10am  

Rb6d says
As a faculty at a large school I can say the following...

1. Education these days is worth what you pay for it only in specific fields, and even there payoff gets smaller. It is worth going to university only if you are very interested in few specific subjects - engineering or few hard sciences. Some premed tracks are OK also, if student is interested in this type of career. Not pharmacy any more though. Even with med schools situation is rapidly becoming such that only few disciplines are financially OK. A family practitioner will not earn much and will be in debt to gills. Other than that, university is a place where young people form their business/political etc networks, which is important, but then student needs to go to the best public university in state (OSU in this case) or an elite private university.

2. Graduate studies in fields that matter (most engineering disciplines, chemistry, biochemistry, etc) are not only free, they pay you a small stipend of about 25...


Which engineering branches, hard sciences and premed tracks are worth it? Which branch of computer science, electronics or communication engineering are worth it in the long run? Will try our best to avoid debt.
16   Zak   2021 May 19, 10:12am  

100% agree that 100k is too much. I highly recommend the community college + transfer + work during, even though GPA will likely suffer. I've never had a job interviewer ask me my GPA. And although California is nice, remember the in-state vs out of state tuition rates are quite different. I was too poor to do it, but if a parent can help, it sure seems like a semester abroad would also be an amazing experience.

Drinking/partying is also a huge part of the college experience. Rather than trying to shelter your kids from all forms of underage drinking, I'd actually encourage you to have some home (family only) parties where drinking is allowed. You can teach and monitor on how to pace yourself, how to recognize when you're too drunk (and may be getting drunker despite stopping drinking), how to recognize when a friend is getting too drunk, etc. Also, maybe a fun, but instructive way of experiencing how judgement can be impaired.

Basically, my hope for my kids is not that they will never have a drink when in college, but that they will be responsible and have fun while staying safe. To me, that's a skill, and one best learned under safe supervision. It's actually kind of too bad that colleges don't have a partying 101 class.
17   Ceffer   2021 May 19, 10:21am  

There is always the temptation when mentoring to go all fake sanctimonious about hard work and merit.

Sociologists did a study, and they found that young people didn't listen to OldFucks, they took their cues from their often idiotically short sighted, hyperactive, and misguided peers, so anything an OldFuck tells a YoungFuck will have limited effect.

Unfortunately, my advice would be find a way to work a good con exploiting the insane, hypocritical bureaucratic idiocies and inconsistencies of the system. Learn to ride the wave.

It may be amoral, but more realistic and politic as a path to some sort of ragged success and self perpetuation.
18   Bd6r   2021 May 19, 10:29am  

gabbar says
Which engineering branches, hard sciences and premed tracks are worth it? Which branch of computer science, electronics or communication engineering are worth it in the long run? Will try our best to avoid debt.

I know very little about computer sciences and electronics. Perhaps some other Patnetter might have more information.

About engineering - chemical, civil, electrical, industrial, mechanical, and petroleum have been goods bets so far. Downside: attrition rate is really high (in our school, only ca. 10% of ChemE students graduate with a degree, which is good as you don't want refineries exploding), and nearly all disciplines are extremely heavy in math. Chem and petroleum are somewhat cyclical, but petroleum has the highest staring salaries AFAIK. MS in engineering typically gives salaries that you get with a PhD in exact sciences.

Medical track - I am less familiar, but physicians assistants are in vogue now. Relatively little schooling and high salaries, and jobs are portable. For med school, some specialties are fine, some not. Surgeons will be doing great, family practitioners not so much. Downside - very long schooling, med school + residency, and you will be in middle 30's when you start earning big bucks, and in 40's when you are school debt free (if you are lucky). Pharmacy is out - salaries are dropping.

Exact sciences - worse prospects than in engineering so should be done only if you really like the field. Chemistry, computer sciences, geosciences are fine. There are subfields in each discipline which are better or worse.

Bottom line: check how much it costs and check what you get paid after graduation, and don't be afraid to ask questions to schools where you apply such as: what % of graduates get jobs in specialty, what are their average salaries, etc.

Edit: a few of my engineering students, after graduating and getting a job, were sent back to university for a Masters degree evening program, fully paid for by company. One even got a business MS paid for by company...nice bonus if company thinks you are productive.
19   fdhfoiehfeoi   2021 May 19, 11:09am  

You can never go wrong pursuing what you love. Beyond that think about decentralization, and where that will lead us in the future. Stay away from anything that's tied to an inflating economy(frivolous business's and services). Focus on things that have lasting value(takes something out of the ground and produces value from it). I think it's been too long since we've had meaningful innovations that are sustainable, economically and environmentally responsible.
20   Shaman   2021 May 19, 11:27am  

I don’t think the value of an engineering degree can be overstated. No matter what the future brings, people who understand how technology works are going to be valuable and usually in short supply.
21   Onvacation   2021 May 19, 11:35am  

PeopleUnited says

Wow, dislike on this post? How about a counter argument?

It's not about you, it's just monkeys throwing shit.

I know, I've been the monkey.
22   Bd6r   2021 May 19, 11:51am  

Zak says
I highly recommend the community college + transfer + work during, even though GPA will likely suffer.


Community college should be taken only in subjects unrelated to major. In my classes, 60-80% of students who took prerequisites at community colleges fail as they pass anyone with a pulse, no learning required.
23   gabbar   2021 May 19, 12:07pm  

Ceffer says
There is always the temptation when mentoring to go all fake sanctimonious about hard work and merit.

Sociologists did a study, and they found that young people didn't listen to OldFucks, they took their cues from their often idiotically short sighted, hyperactive, and misguided peers, so anything an OldFuck tells a YoungFuck will have limited effect.

Unfortunately, my advice would be find a way to work a good con exploiting the insane, hypocritical bureaucratic idiocies and inconsistencies of the system. Learn to ride the wave.

It may be amoral, but more realistic and politic as a path to some sort of ragged success and self perpetuation.


If you know the title and/or author's name of this study, please let us know.
24   gabbar   2021 May 19, 12:08pm  

Shaman says
I don’t think the value of an engineering degree can be overstated. No matter what the future brings, people who understand how technology works are going to be valuable and usually in short supply.


Prof Cal Newport says that the major should be rare and valuable.
25   WookieMan   2021 May 19, 2:36pm  

Rb6d says
Zak says
I highly recommend the community college + transfer + work during, even though GPA will likely suffer.


Community college should be taken only in subjects unrelated to major. In my classes, 60-80% of students who took prerequisites at community colleges fail as they pass anyone with a pulse, no learning required.

Neighbors and friends are both CC professors. I'd agree with your sentiment. Put it this way, I wouldn't want them teaching my kids even though I respect them. Both are English professors which is a completely fungible subject, so my view is biased to some extent as English really shouldn't even be a subject at the collegiate level. You should be reading and writing by 10-12, or at least putting ideas down. No need when you're 18-20 to be taking English classes.
26   EBGuy   2021 May 19, 2:41pm  

gabbar says
The student in Ohio

Step 1: Get the jab
Ohio will give away $1 million prizes to five adults, plus another five full-ride public college scholarships to teens who get vaccinated against COVID-19, Gov. Mike DeWine announced on Wednesday
27   Bd6r   2021 May 19, 3:02pm  

WookieMan says
Neighbors and friends are both CC professors. I'd agree with your sentiment. Put it this way, I wouldn't want them teaching my kids even though I respect them. Both are English professors which is a completely fungible subject, so my view is biased to some extent as English really shouldn't even be a subject at the collegiate level.

Community college profs are evaluated on basis of student evaluations. Students are happy if they are passed without having to learn, and administration is happy if students are happy...it is easy to conclude what are the results.
28   AmericanKulak   2021 May 19, 3:24pm  

#1 Stay away from Anime.
29   rocketjoe79   2021 May 19, 3:28pm  

Go to work for Elon Musk. Musk thinks experiential learning is more important than most book learning. If you're an autodidact, SpaceX could be the right place now. And who knows? You might get on one of the first trips to Mars! What an adventure!!
30   gabbar   2021 May 19, 3:55pm  

EBGuy says
gabbar says
The student in Ohio

Step 1: Get the jab
Ohio will give away $1 million prizes to five adults, plus another five full-ride public college scholarships to teens who get vaccinated against COVID-19, Gov. Mike DeWine announced on Wednesday


Registered the student for the public college scholarship lottery
31   gabbar   2021 May 19, 3:56pm  

Ceffer says
There is always the temptation when mentoring to go all fake sanctimonious about hard work and merit.

Sociologists did a study, and they found that young people didn't listen to OldFucks, they took their cues from their often idiotically short sighted, hyperactive, and misguided peers, so anything an OldFuck tells a YoungFuck will have limited effect.

Unfortunately, my advice would be find a way to work a good con exploiting the insane, hypocritical bureaucratic idiocies and inconsistencies of the system. Learn to ride the wave.

It may be amoral, but more realistic and politic as a path to some sort of ragged success and self perpetuation.


Are you referring to The Nurture Assumption by Judith Rich Harris?
32   gabbar   2021 May 19, 3:59pm  

Zak says
100% agree that 100k is too much. I highly recommend the community college + transfer + work during, even though GPA will likely suffer. I've never had a job interviewer ask me my GPA. And although California is nice, remember the in-state vs out of state tuition rates are quite different. I was too poor to do it, but if a parent can help, it sure seems like a semester abroad would also be an amazing experience.

Drinking/partying is also a huge part of the college experience. Rather than trying to shelter your kids from all forms of underage drinking, I'd actually encourage you to have some home (family only) parties where drinking is allowed. You can teach and monitor on how to pace yourself, how to recognize when you're too drunk (and may be getting drunker despite stopping drinking), how to recognize when a friend is getting too drunk, etc. Also, maybe a fun, but instructive way of experiencing how judgement can be impaired.

Basically, my hope for my kids is not that ...


Yeah, I remember a few crazy things I did as a student in Louisiana
33   Zak   2021 May 19, 6:25pm  

NuttBoxer says
You can never go wrong pursuing what you love.


Oh how wrong you are. You can absolutely go wrong pursuing what you love. Especially if what you love is economically stupid. This is why hobbies are a thing, and there are a ton of actors and actresses who happen to have. aside barista job(or worse).
34   Zak   2021 May 19, 6:29pm  

WookieMan says
You should be reading and writing by 10-12, or at least putting ideas down. No need when you're 18-20 to be taking English classes.


I agree here 100%. Non-major curriculum only at community college. This can be a bit hard when there is a linear dependency for a lot of the math classes for physics and engineering for example. Community college might not be the best place to try to learn differential equations or linear algebra.
35   richwicks   2021 May 19, 6:38pm  

WookieMan says
richwicks says
He (or she)

Actually he/she does matter. Specifically for women. Degrees matter much less besides getting into the building/employer so to speak because you have a piece of paper.


I disagree.

Women can use a lot of things to their advantage, but when they do, they use it to their long term detriment.

You know what I've spent my life doing? What I enjoy. I happen to make a lot of money doing it, but I've also at times done stuff I hate - to such a degree I've woken up wishing I was dead rather than return to a job. I've taken paycuts to do things I enjoy, and I've quit jobs over principle. I certainly do not regret that at all.

The worst times in my life, were when I was making more money than I ever expected making, doing a job I was deeply conflicted about doing.

Better do a job you can like, but if the kid is a female, you have to marry up with. I understand that as well. From a strictly male perspective, I strongly suggest doing something you don't hate. Sure you might be making a shit ton of money, but I hated everything about my life except small aspects of it when I did it. There's companies I never want to work for again because the job was either too worthless, or the company was just too unethical. It's just misery to spend more than a 1/3rd of your time doing something you hate - when the other 1/3rd of your time is sleeping.
36   richwicks   2021 May 19, 6:42pm  

Zak says
WookieMan says
You should be reading and writing by 10-12, or at least putting ideas down. No need when you're 18-20 to be taking English classes.


I agree here 100%. Non-major curriculum only at community college. This can be a bit hard when there is a linear dependency for a lot of the math classes for physics and engineering for example. Community college might not be the best place to try to learn differential equations or linear algebra.


This is true. Do what you love as a hobby, unless it makes money and it likely does not.

I really enjoy studying propaganda and history. Sure glad I didn't major in either of those, either I'd be a psychologist making propaganda to lie to the public, or working at Starbucks serving you coffee.
37   richwicks   2021 May 19, 6:45pm  

Zak says
Community college might not be the best place to try to learn differential equations or linear algebra.


Both of those are pretty easy to learn online.

I loved linear algebra. It's just matrices.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ggWYkes-n6E
38   mostly reader   2021 May 19, 9:15pm  

gabbar says
Which engineering branches, hard sciences and premed tracks are worth it? Which branch of computer science, electronics or communication engineering are worth it in the long run? Will try our best to avoid debt.
As far as Computer Science, it almost doesn't matter which branch it is because everything changes so fast.

Math, however, is apparently making a comeback in CS. In addition to Boolean Algebra and Logic, which is kinda obvious, there's now much greater emphasis on Linear Algebra and Statistics because both are foundation for Machine Learning. Even Category Theory, which is a bit on the abstract side, is no longer unheard of in CS culture due to it's influence on Functional Programming.

Edit: I know some very high profile people who are quite sceptical about Machine Learning. Even in the areas in which it actually produces decent results. That's today though. We are talking about some years from now, plus entire career if that career is in CS. It seems obvious to me that ML will be biting off bigger and bigger pieces of the figurative pie, so getting proper background in that area seems like a reasonable bet.
39   gabbar   2021 May 20, 12:34am  

mostly reader says
gabbar says
Which engineering branches, hard sciences and premed tracks are worth it? Which branch of computer science, electronics or communication engineering are worth it in the long run? Will try our best to avoid debt.
As far as Computer Science, it almost doesn't matter which branch it is because everything changes so fast.

Math, however, is apparently making a comeback in CS. In addition to Boolean Algebra and Logic, which is kinda obvious, there's now much greater emphasis on Linear Algebra and Statistics because both are foundation for Machine Learning. Even Category Theory, which is a bit on the abstract side, is no longer unheard of in CS culture due to it's influence on Functional Programming.

Edit: I know some very high profile people who are quite sceptical about Machine Learning. Even in the areas in which it actually produces decent results. That's today though. We are tal...


Good news is student received an award in Math yesterday. What concerns me about computer science is the export of jobs to other countries and import of IT workers through work visa. But this is where all the growth seems to be. Any thoughts about Systems Architecture or becoming a Chief Technology Officer for a major corporation or Network engineering? There is a new major called Healthcare Engineering too.
40   GNL   2021 May 20, 5:29am  

Personally, I believe America is in dire need of entrepreneurs. Choose a field that will help achieve self employment. One of America's biggest problems is centralized industry. With fewer choices, Americans are more easily herded. If the 2 grocery conglomerates in my area (Giant and Safeway) decide to mask their customers forever, I have little other choices.

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