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"Benevolently Sexist" means "Sucker with a fat bank account"?

There are lots of studies that show that what women find most attractive in men is confidence and dominance, because those are the traits of men who were able to protect women and children, and for women, protection comes before all else, even money.

Money is significant, but not essential. Mass murderers get love letters in jail, which makes sense. Mass murderers are confident and dominant enough to kill people, and that's what she's looking for.

A lot of this stuff makes much more sense in evolutionary terms. What traits in a mate are most likely ensure that your genes get passed on to future generations? Attraction to those traits (beauty for women, dominance for men) gets selected for, and all the whining in the world won't change it.

Patrick says

There are lots of studies that show that what women find most attractive in men is confidence and dominance, because those are the traits of men who were able to protect women and children, and for women, protection comes before all else, even money.

Money is significant, but not essential. Mass murderers get love letters in jail, which makes sense. Mass murderers are confident and dominant enough to kill people, and that's what she's looking for.

A lot of this stuff makes much more sense in evolutionary terms. What traits in a mate are most likely ensure that your genes get passed on to future generations? Attraction to those traits (beauty for women, dominance for men) gets selected for, and all the whining in the world won't change it.

This also explains the rapefugee paradox - most if not all those open border feminists have secret rape fantasies with those raw animals who want to subjugate each and everyone, esp. women. In Sweden and partly Germany many older female social rapefugee workers with mostly low sexual market value have (had) documented long-running affairs with some of the refugees. So they welcome barbaric hordes while at the same time castrating and castigating their beta white men for man-spreading (and apologizing for it).

They all want a strong man who can protect them and provide for them. Feminists are just confused bunch rebelling against their own human instincts. It's like retarded, but not full retard like trannies.

Booger says

Is because she swallowed. The "Spitters" get jail time.

This also explains the rapefugee paradox - most if not all those open border feminists have secret rape fantasies with those raw animals who want to subjugate each and everyone, esp. women. In Sweden and partly Germany many older female social rapefugee workers with mostly low sexual market value have (had) documented long-running affairs with some of the refugees.
And then there is this- "A Norwegian man who was raped by a migrant has said he felt “guilt” after his attacker was deported.
Karsten Nordal Hauken, who describes himself as feminist and anti-racist, was sexually attacked five years ago.
He said that although the incident caused a spiral of depression and substance abuse, he felt bad about the fact the man had been deported to Somalia when he had already served his prison sentence.
I suspect Karsten Nordal Hauken had secret rape fantasies.

The best thing is how the Democrats are putting shrieking Harpies front and center, just weeks before an election, on this issue.

It's wonderful.

It's reminding everyone about Left Wing Harridans like Hillary.

Patrick says

Women are, in general, not happy that they are women.

They have been lied to about Male privilege.

Try the same meetup group w race. If I could be black, I'd do it in a heartbeat. Then show up to google with one trimester of computer science and get my diversity hire salary.

They have been lied to about Male privilege.

The biggest male privilege is biological - and real. It is all about pregnancy. Men never have to worry about periods or knock ups.. And when a couple desires a baby, it is the woman whose body goes through the stress and changes of childbirth and nursing, while the man gets just as much genetic input into the child as the lady doing all the work. If you break down the arguments, this is the real essence of those who disdain men and their "privilege."

Ripped off from this thread:
/post/1319144/2018-09-26-top-seven-reasons-to-lie-about-kavanaugh-sexual-assaults

https://www.cnn.com/2018/08/20/entertainment/asia-argento-alleged-assault-settlement/index.html
Wow. So not only did this lucky bastard get sex with a hot older woman, but he collected $380,000 for the privileged? I would crown this kid as the new Sultan of Slit.

HeadSet says

The biggest male privilege is biological - and real. It is all about pregnancy. Men never have to worry about periods or knock ups.. And when a couple desires a baby, it is the woman whose body goes through the stress and changes of childbirth and nursing, while the man gets just as much genetic input into the child as the lady doing all the work. If you break down the arguments, this is the real essence of those who disdain men and their "privilege."

Women go through life with 2 big advantages over men in the form of things men want from them: sex and reproduction.
As a result most men have to grovel to get a date, pay for everything, and spend their lives toiling in an effort to keep a woman happy. Many women just marry, don't have jobs and spend their lives shopping.
Women on average are clearly more pampered, protected and spoiled than men.

So yeah, female bear the burden of motherhood.
Just different burdens.
Doesn't have to be fair.

Had to add this post from another thread that I made earler:

I was listening to 810 this afternoon and they were discussing how "far" the "me too" movement would go when a men's rights male got on the phone to calmly discuss. The lady host (Nikki?) went ballistic. But, facts are facts:
1) Women are better educated in general (more go to college)
2) Serve less time for similar criminal convictions - particularly those of a sexual nature
3) Get paid the same as men when you take into account child rearing time
4) Women will never starve: They just have a baby and the government will force the male to support them even if the man did not want the child.
5) Women live far longer (6-8 years).
6) Women have far more methods of birth control.
7) And now, more pro-female affirmative action w/ CA forcing corporate boards to have at least one woman.


This is such a joke and reminds me of those "fake" courts on college campuses where some dude is dragged up and expelled for a sexual act for which the woman doesn't want to go to the police, etc... She just regrets she slept with him and all her friends found out. :)
Really, I hope there is a back lash as women realize their son/husband/dad can be accused at any time for any thing. It would be better to drive over some person by accident and get a manslaughter conviction then fall on top of a woman fully clothed and have your life ruined forever - the horror of it all. :)

They are no longer called feminist updates due to the violating, rapist suggestiveness of 'up'. They are now called pending- non-cisdates.

Booger says

Worth it.

Booger says

This is why marriage is on the decline.

Strategist says

Booger says

This is why marriage is on the decline.

Yep.

I'm in a healthy and stable relationship of many years, we live together and share our lives. I adore her and trust her and don't want for anything more or different from a partner.

However, I am not going to ask for marriage. Because..... why even take the risk? The stakes are way too high and the consequences are life-destroying. Statistically speaking, and especially in this state, if anything did go sour, the male is likely to get seriously boned.

cmdrdataleak says

Yep.

I'm in a healthy and stable relationship of many years, we live together and share our lives. I adore her and trust her and don't want for anything more or different from a partner.

However, I am not going to ask for marriage. Because..... why even take the risk? The stakes are way too high and the consequences are life-destroying. Statistically speaking, and especially in this state, if anything did go sour, the male is likely to get seriously boned.

Feminism is a scourge on society for sure. You don't trust your partner at all though. You can type that all you want, that you trust her, but you don't. "Why even take the risk?"

I don't care if dudes end up in a good marriage or not really. That's on them to pick the right person. If you have any inkling of a concern that your partner could EVER potentially fuck you over, I'd run now. Eliminate the risk completely. Hell, 50% of married people end up divorced, so you're in a coin flip situation out the gate, right?

As a side note, what is many years? Many years to one person could be 3 or it could be 12 to another. I see you're newish here, so not trying to railroad you or anything. Being harsh but sincere. This is coming from someone about to get after the same lady for 20 years now.

cmdrdataleak says

I'm in a healthy and stable relationship of many years, we live together and share our lives. I adore her and trust her and don't want for anything more or different from a partner.

However, I am not going to ask for marriage. Because..... why even take the risk? The stakes are way too high and the consequences are life-destroying. Statistically speaking, and especially in this state, if anything did go sour, the male is likely to get seriously boned.

Here is an anecdotal fact:
A couple, both lawyers, lived together for years. They get married, and the very next day they both filed for divorce. Go figure.
Marriage is just a piece of paper which can really screw things up. What matters is the commitment between a couple. You can be married with no real commitment, or be totally committed without being married.

WookieMan says

If you have any inkling of a concern that your partner could EVER potentially fuck you over, I'd run now.

There is always such an inkling. That much is inevitable, especially now that millions of men have found out that the old deal of getting rights in return for responsibilities has been abolished, in favor of responsibilities alone, no rights for men.

Marriage was always a marginal deal at best for men. They gave up the greater part of their working lives to support a wife and children. In return, they had the right to expect:

1. a virgin
2. cooking, cleaning, childcare
3. respect as the breadwinner

Nowadays, men may not even speak those expectations, much less expect them. Women are generally not virgins at marriage anymore, they resent even the suggestion that their traditional jobs should indeed still be their jobs, and they can make their own incomes.

What's in it for the man now? Nothing at all. Feminism has successfully killed marriage.

Patrick says

1. a virgin
2. cooking, cleaning, childcare
3. respect as the breadwinner

Nowadays, men may not even speak those expectations, much less expect them. Women are generally not virgins at marriage anymore, they resent even the suggestion that their traditional jobs should indeed still be their jobs, and they can make their own incomes.

What's in it for the man now? Nothing at all. Feminism has successfully killed marriage.

Islam. It's our only hope, Patrick. Just think....Four women clamoring for your attention. Divorce the disobedient one with three words, and all you have to do is support her for 90 days. Compare this to our rotten laws.

Strategist says

90 days.

130. Every feminist should know, Islam gives wives a right to 4 months and 10 days, which can range from 130 to 133 days total depending on which months are included. Nothing after that, of course. Really, every feminist should know what Islam says about women, including the part about needing four male witnesses to prove rape. Feminists should see importing Islam as treason against women especially, even a hate crime. All it might take is for some targets of feminism to embrace Islam, e.g. Brock Allen Turner converting and declaring that his conviction violates his religion, Harvey Weinstein converting and using that as a defense to both his divorce and his criminal charges, and Donald Trump tweeting about all the $$$ he could have saved on divorces. The rationale seems currently, "the enemy of my enemy is my friend," so feminists embrace the enemy and demand Islam; if the enemy joins Islam, then feminists might reconsider.

Khashoggi went to the Saudi embassy in order to get divorce papers, so he would only have to pay 120 days of support.