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What lighting and photoshop/airbrushing does (This was taken in the same room/time as the OP pic - see the backdrop? - which was taken on a smartphone not "Processed"):


And she dyked up her hair, too (also fake freckles, now called the "Natural" look though it takes 2lb of foundation):


The Wall comes for them All.

AmericanKulak says

The Wall comes for them All.

No, not necessarily. There's many women who age gracefully. I think women who want to look 25 when they are 35, fair poorly.

You're going to age, don't fight it. You can't look 25 when you're 50, and you shouldn't even try. There's beautiful women in their 50's and even 70's. No plastic surgery, don't do face peals, don't cake on makeup, don't do all this crazy shit. Stay fit, and healthy, simple as that.

richwicks says

No, not necessarily. There's many women who age gracefully. I think women who want to look 25 when they are 35, fair poorly.

For them all. There are rare individuals who do age gracefully, and look 5-10 years younger than they are, but very few women make it past their mid 30s without looking visibly older.

No woman hits 50 and looks as good as she did at 30 or just 35. It might spare a body part, like legs, but you'll see it in the face.

AmericanKulak says

No woman hits 50 and still has the youthful appearance of 25 or even 30.

They shouldn't have it.

The point I'm making is that people who desperately cling to youth, never can do it. Facelifts, makeup, surgery, hair extensions, all that crap looks terrible.

I knew a good looking lesbian that refused to wear makeup. She looked great at 35. I swear to god that makeup destroys skin. People age, and it's not terrible that they do. Just look your age, the more you fight it the worse you get, especially for women. People go through these EXTREME rituals to appear younger than they are, it destroys them. It looks good for a few months, maybe even a year, but at the end of it, they look worse than they started.

There's good looking women at 50, but there are no good looking women at 50 who are trying to appear 25. Yeah, they're older, big deal.

I'm 51, I can appreciate a young woman, however, that's hands off for me - it may as well be pedophilia in my mindset. I can look, but don't touch. That's a child to me.

Leonard Cohen from 'First We Take Manhattan':
"I don't like your fashion business, mister
And I don't like these drugs that keep you thin
I don't like what happened to my sister"

richwicks says

You're going to age, don't fight it. You can't look 25 when you're 50, and you shouldn't even try. There's beautiful women in their 50's and even 70's. No plastic surgery, don't do face peals, don't cake on makeup, don't do all this crazy shit. Stay fit, and healthy, simple as that.

It's not that those women are so beautiful and hot, it's that those other once hot and beautiful women. Have made them selves so hideously ugly trying to look like a cartoon caricature of a 70's Penthouse Centerfold. That by default those plain Jane gals are the hottest bitches in town.

I'd say my wife at 52 still looks pretty damn good.

That's also the thin-thick paradox. While landwhales are fugly, most very thin women look poorly too, gaunt, you see every bone, flat chested, flat boobed and flat assed, like men. Best is still the good old rubenesque ideal. Just don't be fat that's all we ask lol

As my Jamaican friend used to say, it doesn't matter how they look, skinny or thick. They just have to have a good "Put Together".

Like I once told a friend, we were having lunch at a cafe. The Waitress has a huge fat ass, but a flat gut and didn't have a double chin. He said she's chunky, I said Yeah, but She's pulling it off.

I'll take a frumpy plain Jane in a loose fitting nighty, over a Lipstick Centerfold with fake tits, wearing Victoria Secret under britches, any day.

What I have found with women trying to over the top be sexy. They are looking for validation. Once you give it to them, they are off to find someone else to tell them how beautiful they are.

Tenpoundbass says

What I have found with women trying to over the top be sexy. They are looking for validation. Once you give it to them, they are off to find someone else to tell them how beautiful they are.

That’s what backhanded compliments are for. Gives them half the validation they crave and leaves all the doubt that they had to start with.

Yep, I'd rather fool around with JK Rowling, nice tits, probably a little on the ass, not super thin, than that gaunt weirdo with Neanderthal Eyebrows and Flat as a Board.

I mean, look at the Ribs on Millie Dream Girl. You don't need to press and count to find the Apical Pulse.