0
0

Tiered of getting overbid in all my offers


 invite response                
2012 Jul 23, 2:56pm   50,203 views  130 comments

by peninsulabuyer   ➕follow (0)   💰tip   ignore  

I put $25,000 over the asking price for this one, still got overbid!!!
http://www.redfin.com/CA/Foster-City/679-Beach-Park-Blvd-94404/home/2041496

So out of sheer frustration, considering going for the new constructions (Fusion or 37 degrees north new Town homes in Sunnyvale). Any pros and cons for Fusion or 37 deg n?

I am totally frustrated and broken. Many months of open houses and offers and getting my a** kicked by some uber-frustrated buyers putting their offers way over asking price.

I know I should wait. But how long? When will my time come? If I wait and find out that houses will cost even more than what it is now, what then? This low inventory situation in bay area is killing me. Piece of garbage houses are selling for insane prices.

To make the matters worse my ***hole apartment complex (Lakeshore Landing, San Mateo, ***k you!) just increased my 2 bedroom piece of s*** condo to $2100 per month (with 1 year lease).

With $2100 rent, buying sure looks like a great option but I cannot overbid these other more desperate buyers. What's leftover of my sanity does NOT permit to put more than $25,000 over CMA (or fair market value).

Sorry for the rant. I am out of my wit. I have lost 1 whole year of my weekends house hunting and still in a crappy apt paying insane rent.

« First        Comments 51 - 90 of 130       Last »     Search these comments

51   bmwman91   2012 Jul 26, 11:59am  

B.A.C.A.H. says

bmwman91 says

There are MUCH cooler places to live

Cooler? - In the winter maybe, but not in the summer.

Heyooooooo! Got me!

For some reason, most of my trips there are between June and August...HOT HOT HOT! Still, once the sun goes down, it kicks ass bar hopping in shorts, a tee shirt and sandals. You might get 3-4 weekends where you can do THAT in SF each year. Overall though, I suppose that cold & breezy is a little easier to deal with year-round than hot & humid.

52   bmwman91   2012 Jul 26, 12:06pm  

Goran_K says

Granted last time I was in Hong Kong was in 1996 on business as an analyst for Goldman Sachs. The skyline looked totally different than the pictures bmwman is posting.

HK Island skyline at night.
The camera's field of view only really captures about 35% of it. The biggest/tallest building isn't even in the shots. There is a LOT of money there.

Anyway sorry to hijack the thread with my travel pics lol, although it is probably more fun than making fun of Foster City. Maybe I'll start a thread in the misc section with pics from various vacations. Even "the boonies" of HK have a skyline & amenities that make SF look like some small town. Having in-laws there kicks ass since I get access to the "real" HK that way.

53   Peter P   2012 Jul 26, 12:48pm  

Nice. That beats buying a Foster home.

54   lostand confused   2012 Jul 26, 1:20pm  

Hong Kong weather is nothing to crow about and it is an island . S.F. isn't just S.f. A few hours drive from S.F you hit the Sierra Nevadas , the high desert, lakes, spectacular coastline, world class wineries and redwood groves. A few more hours and you hit a live volcano(Lassen Peak), volcanic caves(N.E CA) and of course the same distance down south and you hit L.A.
S.F itself has the Golden Gate bridge and it has character-unlike L.A.-which I agree is a concrete jungle. I love the varying terrain here, as well as the micro climates. Nothing like taking a romp down I280

Now I am no fan of the real estate prices-which are insane-especially after my employment journey through the midwest and looking at what you get for a 100/200k there.

But nothing to knock here and I have travelled all over the world.

55   leo9   2012 Jul 26, 2:13pm  

I am also looking in Foster City and going through same frustration. You won't believe but market turnaround in just past 6 months. I honestly smell something fishy. I do not understand how come some many buyers with so much money suddenly flooded the market and it is not just Foster City, it is all over bay area and other states. Please be patient and do not make any emotional decision. Fundamentals for USA are not getting better and buying a costly house could be a financial suicide.

56   bmwman91   2012 Jul 26, 2:49pm  

lostand confused says

Hong Kong weather is nothing to crow about and it is an island . S.F. isn't just S.f. A few hours drive from S.F you hit the Sierra Nevadas , the high desert, lakes, spectacular coastline, world class wineries and redwood groves. A few more hours and you hit a live volcano(Lassen Peak), volcanic caves(N.E CA) and of course the same distance down south and you hit L.A.
S.F itself has the Golden Gate bridge and it has character-unlike L.A.-which I agree is a concrete jungle. I love the varying terrain here, as well as the micro climates. Nothing like taking a romp down I280

Now I am no fan of the real estate prices-which are insane-especially after my employment journey through the midwest and looking at what you get for a 100/200k there.

But nothing to knock here and I have travelled all over the world.

I am 100% with you on this. If you are interested in actual, unique natural value rather than "the culture" then living in the SFBA kicks ass. You can go trail running after a 30 minute drive any day of the year, or you can make for the Sierras and spend the weekend climbing some of the best rock in the nation. Aside from having most of my family here, it is hard to plan to leave when I can get my outdoors fix any day of the year.

57   B.A.C.A.H.   2012 Jul 26, 2:52pm  

lostand confused says

S.F. isn't just S.f. A few hours drive from S.F you hit the Sierra Nevadas , the high desert, lakes, spectacular coastline, world class wineries and redwood groves.

Yep. And we can enjoy those things during our time off from our neighborhoods that the SF Hipsters sneer at.

58   Peter P   2012 Jul 26, 3:00pm  

B.A.C.A.H. says

Yep. And we can enjoy those things during our time off from our neighborhoods that the SF Hipsters sneer at.

SF is a city you can identify by smell alone. Why do they crave the scent of urine? Are they felines?

59   B.A.C.A.H.   2012 Jul 26, 3:03pm  

Might as well be, the aloofness and all.

60   Serpentor   2012 Jul 26, 3:36pm  

I've never had issues with my rent getting raised outrageously.
Of course I've always rented duplexes or SFHs. those large apt complexes suck ass: they all smell like curry (no offense to Indians and I love Indian food, I just don't like to smell it where I live everyday) and will raise your rent whenever they get a chance.

61   EBGuy   2012 Jul 26, 5:42pm  

Why do they crave the scent of urine?
That isn't urine you're smellin'
Human waste shuts down BART escalators

62   JodyChunder   2012 Jul 26, 6:14pm  

edvard2 says

So we bid around 40k over.

This sort of thing right here folks, is all you need to know.

63   JodyChunder   2012 Jul 26, 9:33pm  

B.A.C.A.H. says

Hipsters

Ha! What year is it?? You must be an old fart like me.

64   DukeLaw   2012 Jul 27, 3:30am  

Have you ever lived in NYC? Central Park is nice but it's absolutely necessary for Manhatten. SF has the Marin Headlands just across the GGB and frankly Golden Gate Park is almost as nice.

NYC reeks of urine (mostly dog) during the summer due to the oppressive heat. That's actually mitigated in SF.

Sheesh, have you ever really lived in NYC or are you just pulling @$@@ out of your arse??

65   Peter P   2012 Jul 27, 3:35am  

I still think "beautiful city" is an oxymoron.

66   edvard2   2012 Jul 27, 4:16am  

JodyChunder says

So we bid around 40k over.

This sort of thing right here folks, is all you need to know.

Yes? Well its not all "You need to know" because for starters, the price was pretty low for the house and secondly, and as mentioned by myself several times, I rented for 17 years prior. In that time, and continuing on into today, we scrimped and saved. Drove and still drive 15+ year old beater cars with 200k+ on each, seldom eat out, don't buy fancy new gadgets, and invested heavily into retirement funds.

I see a lot of people complaining they have been saving for a year or something and then can't buy a house. We saved for 12+ years. All the while watching the housing bubble inflate and deflate. So what that we paid 40k over? We have the cash and the payments aren't a big deal because again- we saved.

If most people were to suck it up and save money for 10 years or so, they too would be in just fine condition.

67   FriendlyJaffa   2012 Jul 27, 10:09am  

some pennies of thoughs

- As OP makes it clear, and the edvard2 confirms above, the house price that you're willing to pay depends on your personal demand for it. OP's "months" of waiting are worth 25K, edvard2's "12+ years" = 40K. You can see how 40K can be much much smaller than 25K. Even though the asking price, as was mentioned correctly before, has nothing to do with market price, it is an important data point, because it is the number that is perceived by those searching for a house to be in relative vicinity of the correct price.

- There does appear a bit of mini-bubble going on just now, largely due to very limited inventory. I suspect part of it was (and maybe still is) driven by expectations of Facebook millions, some of which failed to materialize, causing sellers waiting to put the houses on the market to withhold till some other millions show up :)

- Now, multiple bids are taking place on both 400K and 4M houses. It is not clear yet whether we are witnessing the change in how price discovery and market will operate in Bay area from now on (intentionally low listing price to increase foot traffic and solicit multiple bids), or it is a temporary phenomenon. Just keep in mind that traded price is the only true market price.

68   thomaswong.1986   2012 Jul 27, 3:29pm  

freak80 says

Peter P says

Not saying house prices will go up, but SF prices are quite low compared to the rest of the world.

Maybe compared to London, Tokyo, Paris and other major cultural centers.

If so why were'nt prices sky high back in the 1970s, 80s 90s.. why NOW!

SFBA has been around for a very long time!

69   Peter P   2012 Jul 27, 4:10pm  

thomaswong.1986 says

freak80 says

Peter P says

Not saying house prices will go up, but SF prices are quite low compared to the rest of the world.

Maybe compared to London, Tokyo, Paris and other major cultural centers.

If so why were'nt prices sky high back in the 1970s, 80s 90s.. why NOW!

SFBA has been around for a very long time!

Very good point! If anything SF has just become smellier over time.

But then the bubble has little to do with affordability. The market will correct itself when the next financial crisis hit. Looking at continental Europe things aren't pretty.

70   thomaswong.1986   2012 Jul 27, 4:16pm  

Peter P says

Very good point! If anything SF has just become smellier over time.

But then the bubble has little to do with affordability. The market will correct itself when the next financial crisis hit. Looking at continental Europe things aren't pretty.

Hype.. thats the difference between then and now. You have very very good reasons that prices SHOULD have skyrocketed back decades ago the the nose bleed levels we saw .. industrial growth was double digit...

Now compare that today.. UGH! not any good reasons at all..

71   B.A.C.A.H.   2012 Jul 27, 4:18pm  

thomaswong.1986 says

why were'nt prices sky high back in the 1970s, 80s 90s.. why NOW!

SFBA has been around for a very long time!

Because those times were before the purchasing power of wealthy immigrants could muscle in here.

72   thomaswong.1986   2012 Jul 27, 4:21pm  

FriendlyJaffa says

- There does appear a bit of mini-bubble going on just now, largely due to very limited inventory. I suspect part of it was (and maybe still is) driven by expectations of Facebook millions, some of which failed to materialize, causing sellers waiting to put the houses on the market to withhold till some other millions show up :)

What was your expectations on the IPO.. it went out at 40 or so!

So were you expecting it to do what $400..$500...$600 per share!
even at 40 it was over 100 x next years earnings...

So how could anyone even justify 40 ? of course it was going to go down!

73   Peter P   2012 Jul 27, 4:22pm  

It is a liquidity bubble.

74   thomaswong.1986   2012 Jul 27, 4:28pm  

B.A.C.A.H. says

Because those times were before the purchasing power of wealthy immigrants could muscle in here.

wont be wealthy immigrants for long since they spent it...

and the $64M question.. wealth from what, where, when and how ?

unless they are from Columbia or Bolivia!

75   Peter P   2012 Jul 27, 4:31pm  

It was from money newly created by the global ZIRP.

76   JodyChunder   2012 Jul 28, 5:38pm  

DukeLaw says

Sheesh, have you ever really lived in NYC or are you just pulling @$@@ out of your arse??

I visit NY often enough, though not as much in the last five years with my hip dysplasia. I married a girl from Flatbush in '73. I know NY. San Francisco is not even in the running when compared to New York. Are you even form this planet>??

77   JodyChunder   2012 Jul 28, 5:41pm  

edvard2 says

Yes? Well its not all "You need to know" because for starters, the price was pretty low for the house

Ha. That is a quite the qualifier. Low for the house??? I think the idea that you of all people would overbid on a property is telltale. We are in recession as I type this. I have bought and sold many houses ed - but then, I have never been laid off from a job in my entire life and I am self employed. I also have over 700K in cash and easily that much in non-liquid. What you done is said, hey...I give up. Rape me.

You shoulda rented from me for another 17 years and retired a filthy rich man.

78   JodyChunder   2012 Jul 28, 5:43pm  

Peter P says

It was from money newly created by the global ZIRP.

Getting closer everyday to NIRP.

79   jasonring   2012 Jul 29, 4:19am  

edvard2 says

I see a lot of people complaining they have been saving for a year or something and then can't buy a house. We saved for 12+ years. All the while watching the housing bubble inflate and deflate.

I came to Bay Area in 2001 and save for 6 years before I start looking for house. I almost bought a house in San Jose Cambrian area and I called it off because the house was not in my desire school district.

Then the housing market crashed and it was artificially jacked up First time home buyer credit. I waited for the credit to expired 2 times before I settle in Campbell. In other words, I save up for 9 1/2 years and the house hunting process is as long as 5 years.

It is funny to see people complaining about saving for 1 year and then crying that they are outbid by someone else.

80   freak80   2012 Jul 29, 11:53pm  

JodyChunder says

Getting closer everyday to NIRP.

If you look at REAL interest rates, a.k.a interest rates minus inflation, we already have NIRP.

81   edvard2   2012 Jul 30, 1:40am  

JodyChunder says

Ha. That is a quite the qualifier. Low for the house??? I think the idea that you of all people would overbid on a property is telltale. We are in recession as I type this. I have bought and sold many houses ed - but then, I have never been laid off from a job in my entire life and I am self employed. I also have over 700K in cash and easily that much in non-liquid.

Not really getting your point. Yes- it was a good price for the house- or shall I say- area. Yes- I know we're in a recession. I was laid-off three years ago in fact and now have a good job. But regardless of whether we're in a recession or not, people are laid off all the time despite whatever shape the economy might be in. Good for you for having cash. I too have a sizable sum of cash even after making a 25% down payment, not including retirement funds.

So we can pat each other on the back because I too can happily make the same forward statements as you, having become successful and well situated financially.

The bottom line is that whenever people ask about finance or financial decisions, the decision is going to be different for everyone. There aren't rules stating you have to buy in XXX timeframe or that a decision has to be made only under certain market conditions. Each choice will carry risks.

82   Mobi   2012 Jul 30, 2:47am  

edvard2 says

So we bid around 40k over. In the long term that's not really adding much to the monthly payment because ( at least for us) got a very low interest rate. Even at that bid we barely won it. Only reason we did is because we offered a sizable down-payment in addition.

$40k over is no biggy. Last time I won a bid, I had to DOUBLE the asking price, yes, DOUBLE. And I submited a CASH offer.

But, haha, the asking price was a mere $13k. I do not live in CA or Phoenix so ignore me if you do not care. But the market I have here is an investor's market (~50%.) Nobody bids if your price is not low enough.

83   edvard2   2012 Jul 30, 2:53am  

Mobi says

But, haha, the asking price was a mere $13k. I do not live in CA or Phoenix so ignore me if you do not care. But the market I have here is an investor's market (~50%.) Nobody bids if your price is not low enough.

Its all about perspective and the word " Affordable" has different meanings to everyone. The house we bought was very affordable for us but of course not for others. Likewise, to some people 13k is also unaffordable.

84   KILLERJANE   2012 Jul 30, 2:56am  

Mobi, where are you?

and that 40,000 over was really 80,000 over the long haul.

85   Mobi   2012 Jul 30, 11:37pm  

KILLERJANE says

Mobi, where are you?


and that 40,000 over was really 80,000 over the long haul.


Thinking saying and doing need to line up.

In the middle of nowhere in OH. It is affordable here. Just not too many jobs. The price/rent ratio here definitely favors owning houses. However, you have no chance with REOs except cash offers so that is why it is an investor's market.

86   FunTime   2012 Jul 31, 4:56am  

Peter P says

I still think "beautiful city" is an oxymoron.

I don't understand why people who enjoy the country want to trash it by living there. Leave the wild wild. Move to the city where we embrace trash and piss.

87   freak80   2012 Jul 31, 6:27am  

FunTime says

I don't understand why people who enjoy the country want to trash it by living there. Leave the wild wild. Move to the city where we embrace trash and piss.

Wow.

88   DukeLaw   2012 Jul 31, 6:42am  

I lived on the Upper East Side for a few years. I know a lot of folks that tire of life in Manhatten and move to SF. If you like 24-7 nightlife, NY is much better than SF. If you like the outdoors, I think SF is a much better choice.

You were the one commenting on Central Park. I'm just pointing out I'd rather have Yosemite/Tahoe within driving distance than the Gunks. I'd rather ski in Tahoe than haul up to Stowe/Killington/Okemo.

And it's great that you're able to remember NYC from 40 years ago.....I'm just going to say that your lenses are fairly rose colored and you're not quite getting the mindset of 20/30 somethings.

89   hrhjuliet   2012 Jul 31, 7:15am  

If you can get out of the Bay Area, get out. All the sane people are leaving, which can only make this area worse. We can't, but if we could we'd be flying out tomorrow. That's my heart felt advice.

90   FunTime   2012 Jul 31, 7:21am  

hrhjuliet says

If you can get out of the Bay Area, get out. All the sane people are leaving

Yikes, well at least I know where I stand. I moved south to get here. I'll never live in the Northwest again. I thought I dealt well with the darkness while living in Portland, but after moving to San Francisco realized I was probably in some kind of state of depression during the winters. Invest in light treatment if you move up there! Especially if you grew up in a sunny place like me.

I agree that a lot of people leave the Bay Area and move to the Northwest. That's been happening with my friends since I moved in 1999. Saw another family off to Portland last Saturday.

« First        Comments 51 - 90 of 130       Last »     Search these comments

Please register to comment:

api   best comments   contact   latest images   memes   one year ago   random   suggestions   gaiste