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Have you ever forgiven someone? If so, who needs God to forgive a second time?


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2013 Jan 2, 9:07am   21,568 views  136 comments

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Have you ever forgiven someone? If so, who needs God to forgive a second time?

It is to the one sinned against to have the first right of forgiving when forgiving is possible. That would be most sins and crimes save murder.

I have had the pleasure to forgive on a few occasions. I will assume here that you have also forgiven someone at some point in your life. I have had that pleasure after the pain and hope you have as well. I have stepped up to ask for forgiveness as well after sinning against someone and am thankful that people can and do forgive. This benefit I also hope you have enjoyed.

Our consciousness and ego are what we use to judge what should be forgiven. If we lose that ability to judge or if it is usurped, damage is done to our consciousness and ego. It would negate intelligent use of our freedom of choice. It would negate our free will and deny us closure.

The Government has taken our freedom of the body from us with various restrictions. Everything from what we consume to our right to die with dignity. God has taken our freedom of choice after death from us with his judgement. Jesus has taken our freedom to face our accuser from us by saying --- only through me --- as our only judge.

These usurping of your free will to forgive means that you could never get closure from offence and hurt.
That would make Jesus as big of a disgrace as his father in ignoring our free willed choices. People judge constantly. We cannot help but to do so. To have our judgements usurped or ignored shows a flaw in the justice system you follow, be it secular or religious.

The God of the Jews who evolved to be the Christian God had a different view of forgiveness than Jesus had even though Jesus was a Jewish Rabbi. Jesus as God would be from the Christian perspective. Not the Jewish one that has the majority of Jews as never accepting Jesus as their messiah. The claims to judging and Jesus’ status, or not, --- as a messiah--- needs not be discussed in this O P.

“Jewish belief states that G-d doesn't forgive our sins against others until we ask and receive forgiveness directly from the person we wronged.”

“In Judaism, the acts of repentance and forgiveness are inextricably linked, and we must never let our anger toward others cause us to lose sight of self-reflection and cleansing.”

http://www.thepowerofforgiveness.com/pdf/A_Jewish_Perspective_on_Forgiveness.pdf

Did Christianity and their version of the Jewish God usurp your power and benefits of forgiving?
Does that negate your free will, and your right to forgive?

Regards
DL

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1   Raw   2013 Jan 2, 9:09am  

I have forgiven others and always will, but I will never forgive God for letting a billion babies starve to death.

2   Peter P   2013 Jan 2, 10:22am  

So you rather have overpopulation?

3   Raw   2013 Jan 2, 10:45am  

I'd rather have those babies not be born in the first place.
If God decides life and and gives them life, it is his responsibility to make sure they have the means to live.
If a human gives birth to a child and does not take care of it by letting it starve, the parent would go to jail.
God is so cruel!

4   Peter P   2013 Jan 2, 11:20am  

God does not give life. People do. God gave people free will.

Parents should not have children if they cannot provide.

5   Moderate Infidel   2013 Jan 2, 12:40pm  

There is no God. Unless there is. Damn this agnosticism!

6   MsBennet   2013 Jan 2, 12:57pm  

Raw says

If God decides life and and gives them life, it is his responsibility to make sure they have the means to live.

So now you are telling God what to do?

7   Raw   2013 Jan 2, 1:12pm  

MsBennet says

Raw says

If God decides life and and gives them life, it is his responsibility to make sure they have the means to live.

So now you are telling God what to do?

I am merely reminding God of his responsibilities. If you create babies you better take care of them, or don't create them in the first place.
If I was God I would not let a single baby starve. Even I, a totally imperfect human, would make a better God.

8   Peter P   2013 Jan 2, 3:11pm  

God has no responsibilities. Anything that is bound by anything isn't quite omnipotent, is it?

God does not make babies. Humans who fail to use contraceptives do.

Raw says

Even I, a totally imperfect human, would make a better God.

That is precisely why you are no god.

9   Greatest I am   2013 Jan 2, 10:53pm  

Raw says

I have forgiven others and always will, but I will never forgive God for letting a billion babies starve to death.

Good view.

Regards
DL

10   Greatest I am   2013 Jan 2, 11:05pm  

Raw says

I'd rather have those babies not be born in the first place.

If God decides life and and gives them life, it is his responsibility to make sure they have the means to live.

If a human gives birth to a child and does not take care of it by letting it starve, the parent would go to jail.

God is so cruel!

No argument but if we did jail the parents, it would cost us more to do as you suggest than to just put our resources and funding to feeding the poor and showing them how to feed themselves.

Demographics show that we are well on that road but it will take two more generations for us to gain the upper hand on child mortality.

Regards
DL

11   Greatest I am   2013 Jan 2, 11:12pm  

Peter P says

God does not give life. People do. God gave people free will.

Parents should not have children if they cannot provide.

I agree with your last but your first goes against what the bible says.

It says that God creates all things and thus FMPOV, he is responsible for all and free will is not free at all and you are using it to get God off the hook.

Let me give you something to ponder.

It was God's plan from the beginning to have Adam and Eve eat the forbidden fruit. This can be demonstrated by the fact that the bible says that Jesus "was crucified from the foundations of the Earth," that is to say, God planned to crucify Jesus as atonement for sin before he even created human beings or God damned sin.

1Peter 1:20 0 He was chosen before the creation of the world, but was revealed in these last times for your sake.

This indicates that Jesus had no choice.

If God had not intended humans to sin from the beginning, why did he build into the Creation this "solution" for sin? Why create a solution for a problem you do not anticipate?

God knew that the moment he said "don't eat from that tree," the die was cast. The eating was inevitable. Eve was merely following the plan.

This then begs the question.

What kind of God would plan and execute the murder of his own son when there was absolutely no need to?

Only an insane God. That’s who.

The cornerstone of Christianity is human sacrifice, thus showing it‘s immorality.

One of Christianity's highest form of immorality is what they have done to women.
They have denied them equality and subjugated them to men.

http://www.youtube.com/embed/jqN8EYIIR3g&feature=related

http://www.youtube.com/embed/9dspWh9g3hU&feature=related

http://www.youtube.com/embed/9c0RFxXrYzg&feature=related

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Christians are always trying to absolve God of moral culpability in the fall by whipping out their favorite "free will!", or “ it’s all man’s fault”.

That is "God gave us free will and it was our free willed choices that caused our fall. Hence God is not blameworthy."

But this simply avoids God's culpability as the author of Human Nature. Free will is only the ability to choose. It is not an explanation why anyone would want to choose "A" or "B" (bad or good action). An explanation for why Eve would even have the nature of "being vulnerable to being easily swayed by a serpent" and "desiring to eat a forbidden fruit" must lie in the nature God gave Eve in the first place. Hence God is culpable for deliberately making humans with a nature-inclined-to-fall, and "free will" means nothing as a response to this problem.

If all sin by nature then, the sin nature is dominant. If not, we would have at least some who would not sin.

Having said the above for the God that I do not believe in, I am a Gnostic Christian naturalist, let me tell you that evil is all human generated. Evil is our responsibility.

Much has been written to explain what I see as a natural part of evolution.

Consider.
First, let us eliminate what some see as evil. Natural disasters. These are unthinking occurrences and are neither good nor evil. There is no intent to do evil even as victims are created.

Evil then is only human to human.
As evolving creatures, all we ever do, and ever can do, is compete or cooperate.
Cooperation we would see as good as there are no victims created. Competition would be seen as evil as it creates a victim. We all are either cooperating, doing good, or competing, doing evil at all times.

Without us doing some of both, we would likely go extinct.

This, to me, explains why there is evil in the world quite well.

Be you a believer in nature, evolution or God, we should all see that what Christians see as something to blame, evil, we should see that what we have, competition, deserves a huge thanks for being available to us.

There is no conflict between nature and God on this issue. This is how things are and should be. We all must do what some will think is evil as we compete and create losers to this competition.

I even have Christian backing on this view with their views on Theistic evolution.

http://www.youtube.com/embed/XXOvYn1OAL0&list=UUDXjzOeZRqLxhYaaEhWLb_A&index=9

Regards
DL

12   Greatest I am   2013 Jan 2, 11:17pm  

Peter P says

God has no responsibilities. Anything that is bound by anything isn't quite omnipotent, is it?

God does not make babies. Humans who fail to use contraceptives do.

Raw says

Even I, a totally imperfect human, would make a better God.

That is precisely why you are no god.

And that is also why people reject an immoral God. Because human morality is superior to his.

For instance, No noble and gracious human would demand the sacrifice of a so called son just to prove his benevolence yet your genocidal son murdering God did just that.

Regards
DL

13   Raw   2013 Jan 3, 1:14am  

Peter P says

God has no responsibilities. Anything that is bound by anything isn't quite omnipotent, is it?

God does not make babies. Humans who fail to use contraceptives do.

Raw says

Even I, a totally imperfect human, would make a better God.

That is precisely why you are no god.

Take this example:
A 14 year old illeterate, in a developing country marries a 15 year old. They are poor, have very little food, and no money for contaceptives. They are also religious, and as commanded by their God, they will not use contraceptives.
They cannot be stopped from bringing a baby into this world, and they cannot take care of it. If God exists it is his responsibility to prevent this human rights abuse.
God does not give a damn.

14   Peter P   2013 Jan 3, 1:35am  

No, they are not commanded by their God. Rather, a manmade religion.

Why should God care about human rights? It is a human concept.

15   Moderate Infidel   2013 Jan 3, 2:30am  

God only cares about the human rights of unborn fetuses and fat middle aged white guys from USA.

16   MisdemeanorRebel   2013 Jan 3, 7:01am  

God is Cthulhu. Mystery Solved.

17   Moderate Infidel   2013 Jan 3, 7:07am  

gracer says

I am talking about the spiritual realm, not in a judicial sense.

No, your talking in the fantasy, made up nonsense sense.

18   Dan8267   2013 Jan 3, 7:11am  

Peter P says

So you rather have overpopulation?

Let's say I'm god. So then I'm omnipotent. The stupid humans are breeding faster than their food supply. I snap my fingers and make food no longer necessary. Humans now can extract all the energy they need from false vacuum energy. They can get all the materials they need from the air. They can convert the nitrogen, etc. into other elements as necessary in little bio-fusion chambers I've added. Fuck, I'm god, so this is easy shit.

As a result, the humans can breed all they want and no babies will starve. Problem solved.

Alternative solution, I dial down the fertility of females or make female fertility an inverse function of the number of offspring she bares. Again, problem solved. Worked for the Salarians when the Krogans got out of control.

While I'm at it, let's get rid of predation. Totally unnecessary in a universe created by an omnipotent god, and obviously predation is a great source of evil as any omniscient god would know.

This is exactly why I should be god instead of that dumbass slacker Yahweh/Jesus. Both of them are smelly hippies.

19   Greatest I am   2013 Jan 3, 8:44am  

gracer says

Mankind is already forgiven by God, except for unbelief. Jesus' cross cancelled the law of sin and death. Now the only requirement is to be born again of the Spirit because we are all born spiritually dead. Without Christ's cross which forgave sins, we would still be under the exacting requirements of the old covenant law to please God, but Christ set us free from that. Now we just place our faith in Christ to please God, and not worry about the forgiveness issue.

I am talking about the spiritual realm, not in a judicial sense.

So all we need do then is embrace the notion of human sacrifice and also that it is good justice to punish the innocent instead of the guilty.

IOW, we have to sell our souls to the devil to get to heaven.

You have sure come up with a good theology. Not.

Check your morals. Do you really thing God will let you into heaven with such a compromised morality?

Regards
DL

20   RealEstateIsBetterThanStocks   2013 Jan 3, 8:56am  

only delusional people would believe in such a stupid thing as a "God."

21   Peter P   2013 Jan 3, 8:58am  

And only irrational people will deny the existence of God. See Pascal's Wager.

22   Moderate Infidel   2013 Jan 3, 9:12am  

Peter P says

And only irrational people will deny the existence of God. See Pascal's Wager.

He was a christian so by definition he was irrational therefore his wager is irrational.
See, it's easy being a philosopher!

23   Dan8267   2013 Jan 3, 9:50am  

Peter P says

And only irrational people will deny the existence of God. See Pascal's Wager.

We disproved that conjecture on this site several times already. See the old threads.

Oh, and if Pascal's Wager were correct, then your god would be evil.

24   Peter P   2013 Jan 3, 10:09am  

You did not disprove the conjecture. You simply invalidated parts of one proof of the conjecture.

25   Moderate Infidel   2013 Jan 3, 10:56am  

Peter P says

You did not disprove the conjecture. You simply invalidated parts of one proof of the conjecture.

You cannot disprove or prove conjecture.

26   Peter P   2013 Jan 3, 11:56am  

Hence invalid.

27   Moderate Infidel   2013 Jan 3, 12:07pm  

Peter P says

Hence invalid.

Yes, God is invalid.
thank you.

28   Bap33   2013 Jan 3, 12:12pm  

Greatest I am says

We cannot help but to do so.

you grasp excuses, and shun personal accountability, in one sentence.

29   Bap33   2013 Jan 3, 12:13pm  

Dan8267 says

While I'm at it, let's get rid of predation. Totally unnecessary in a
universe created by an omnipotent god, and obviously predation is a great source
of evil as any omniscient god would know.

see there, humor, right when we need it.

30   Dan8267   2013 Jan 3, 1:38pm  

Moderate Infidel says

You cannot disprove or prove conjecture.

Sure you can. Example...

Conjecture: There are no even prime numbers.
Disproof: Two is even and a prime.

31   Dan8267   2013 Jan 3, 1:41pm  

Peter P says

You did not disprove the conjecture.

Pascal's Wager is based on the assumption that there is zero cost to belief in god, something that the Middle East has repeatedly demonstrated is not true. Hell, this assumption is even explicitly stated in the wager.

Given the enormous toll on life inflicted by belief in god throughout history, it is perfectly rational to disbelieve in the entity.

32   Moderate Infidel   2013 Jan 3, 1:43pm  

Dan8267 says

Moderate Infidel says

You cannot disprove or prove conjecture.

Sure you can. Example...

Conjecture: There are no even prime numbers.

Disproof: Two is even and a prime.

Prove "two".

33   Peter P   2013 Jan 3, 1:44pm  

According to wikipedia...

A conjecture is a proposition that is unproven.

But I guess it is not necessarily unprovable. (See Gödel's incompleteness theorems.)

34   Peter P   2013 Jan 3, 1:45pm  

Moderate Infidel says

Prove "two".

Read Principia Mathematica.

35   Peter P   2013 Jan 3, 1:46pm  

What do you guys think of the the axiom of choice?

It is a bizarre truth with counter-intuitive consequences.

36   Moderate Infidel   2013 Jan 3, 1:48pm  

Peter P says

Moderate Infidel says

Prove "two".

Read Principia Mathematica.

No. I won't.

37   Dan8267   2013 Jan 3, 1:54pm  

Moderate Infidel says

Dan8267 says

Moderate Infidel says

You cannot disprove or prove conjecture.

Sure you can. Example...

Conjecture: There are no even prime numbers.

Disproof: Two is even and a prime.

Prove "two".

What the fuck does that even mean?

38   Dan8267   2013 Jan 3, 1:55pm  

Peter P says

According to wikipedia...

Plato was taught by Barney the Purple Dinosaur.

39   Peter P   2013 Jan 3, 1:55pm  

Dan8267 says

What the fuck does that even mean?

He wants to know what the fuck "even" means.

40   Peter P   2013 Jan 3, 1:56pm  

Dan8267 says

Plato was taught by Barney the Purple Dinosaur.

I love you, you love me...

Anyone remembers Microsoft Barney?

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