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The science of sex: 4 harsh truths about dating and mating


               
2014 Sep 16, 2:48pm   7,255 views  144 comments

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http://theweek.com/article/index/266665/the-science-of-sex-4-harsh-truths-about-dating-and-mating

Pretty much what everyone knows is true but few people will admit.

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106   MolotovCocktail   2025 Nov 14, 9:48am  

Booger says





I can't tell if she's serious or parodizing.
107   stereotomy   2025 Nov 14, 10:27am  

MolotovCocktail says

Booger says






I can't tell if she's serious or parodizing.

Oh, she's serious - look at the 2 inch long fake nails. She's a spigger, rolled with the Tyrones, got 3 kids by probably by three baby daddies.
108   HeadSet   2025 Nov 14, 12:52pm  

stereotomy says

Oh, she's serious - look at the 2 inch long fake nails.

Part of the act. She seems to be parodying by painting herself in the worst way yet having outrageous expectations. Not even the oft stated "$100k income" but raised to $130k.
109   Booger   2025 Nov 18, 2:59pm  

Most girls expect you to pay for all the dates. They expect you to give them gifts, preferably expensive ones, like a new iPhone.
In essence, most women want to be treated like children in a relationship, cared for and pampered, and if something goes wrong, it's obviously your fault.
We have the concept of a “real man” and the phrase “a man should,” which girls always use if you don't do what she wants you to do. But in reality, it boils down to you giving her as much money as she wants, not interfering with her living the way she wants, and then she'll allow you to have sex with her.
110   Ceffer   2025 Nov 18, 3:55pm  

I refer back to an older guy who perfected the bait. He had enough money and used the dating services. He said he ALWAYS paid, whether the woman was old or young, and told me there was never any suggestion of the females picking up any kind of check EVER.

It was not cheap, but he would get laid but then squeeze played. I suppose the question is after the money spent on the fishing expeditions, was it cheaper or more expensive than standard prostitutes without the relationship pretense?

There are the men who become 'companions' for wealthy women (have one a few doors down in Tri Valley) but I could never imagine doing such a thing, even though I had a few rich girls who wanted me and whose daddies would have paid the way. Parents always really liked me for some reason, although girls never thought I gave them enough of the soap opera line treatments.

I was condemned by temperament to be poor or get stuff on my own. I just always thought I would rather be poor than carry a rich woman's luggage.
111   Patrick   2025 Nov 18, 4:53pm  

Booger says

it boils down to you giving her as much money as she wants, not interfering with her living the way she wants, and then she'll allow you to have sex with her.


This was not a thing back before the pill and feminism, except for prostitutes.
112   Glock-n-Load   2025 Nov 18, 5:11pm  

Patrick says


Booger says


it boils down to you giving her as much money as she wants, not interfering with her living the way she wants, and then she'll allow you to have sex with her.


This was not a thing back before the pill and feminism, except for prostitutes.


Seems almost everything is corrupted now. I keep being told things will correct. Sure, sure it will. If so, it’ll be a looooong time imo.
113   HeadSet   2025 Nov 18, 6:27pm  

Booger says

But in reality, it boils down to you giving her as much money as she wants, not interfering with her living the way she wants, and then she'll allow you to have sex with her.

??? Woman will have sex if they are attracted to you. Some will even cook you a dinner first.
114   mell   2025 Nov 18, 6:38pm  

HeadSet says


Booger says


But in reality, it boils down to you giving her as much money as she wants, not interfering with her living the way she wants, and then she'll allow you to have sex with her.

??? Woman will have sex if they are attracted to you. Some will even cook you a dinner first.


Maybe GenX and before, since then no. There is a resurging trend of trad wives in gen alpha but TBD. There is currently a total lack of hot women since feminism and woke culture destroyed them. Takes a while to replenish. In the meantime the few decent looking womyn will milk you dry, financially, cooking skillz? Get outta here
115   AmenCorner_AntiPanican   2025 Nov 18, 7:00pm  

Most nuevo-Tradwives are just burntout partyhoes, sadly.

Single Moms and/or approaching 30 and "reform" themselves, or rather their appearance.
116   mell   2025 Nov 18, 7:07pm  

DemoralizerOfPanicans says

Most nuevo-Tradwives are just burntout partyhoes, sadly.

Single Moms and/or approaching 30 and "reform" themselves, or rather their appearance.

Yeah they have to be younger when making that decision. I'm hoping the lack of affordable alcohol and trend of not drinking (as long as you don't replace it with weed) among gen alpha/z will actually bring forth some real trade wives, or at least as good as they get. The boys would appreciate it and I could stop sounding off on marriage, really want to promote it.
117   AmenCorner_AntiPanican   2025 Nov 18, 7:10pm  

mell says


Yeah they have to be younger when making that decision. I'm hoping the lack of affordable alcohol and trend of not drinking (as long as you don't replace it with weed) among gen alpha/z will actually bring forth some real trade wives, or at least as good as they get. The boys would appreciate it and I could stop sounding off on marriage, really want to promote it.

I hope so. BUT, like the tattoo thing, the not drinking is seemingly a guy thing. Women are actually increasing their drinking, men are way down!

I came across the data a year or so ago, I'm sure it's on here but Rollo was talking about it.
119   HeadSet   2025 Nov 19, 9:05am  

Booger says

https://youtube.com/shorts/MxX1LEY2AYQ?si=FP9429AOkJExygeU

Nice fable. No woman who was doing a "practice husband" would have signed a pre-nup. Even so, a judge will throw out any provision that overclassifies his salary as separate property or a clause that denies alimony if it leaves the wife destitute.
120   mell   2025 Nov 19, 11:14am  

HeadSet says

Booger says


https://youtube.com/shorts/MxX1LEY2AYQ?si=FP9429AOkJExygeU

Nice fable. No woman who was doing a "practice husband" would have signed a pre-nup. Even so, a judge will throw out any provision that overclassifies his salary as separate property or a clause that denies alimony if it leaves the wife destitute.

If there are no kids the prenup could hold although this may well be made up
121   Glock-n-Load   2025 Nov 19, 11:23am  

HeadSet says

Booger says


https://youtube.com/shorts/MxX1LEY2AYQ?si=FP9429AOkJExygeU

Nice fable. No woman who was doing a "practice husband" would have signed a pre-nup. Even so, a judge will throw out any provision that overclassifies his salary as separate property or a clause that denies alimony if it leaves the wife destitute.

Replace salary with trust fund. Now what?
122   Maga_Chaos_Monkey   2025 Nov 19, 7:04pm  

HeadSet says

Nice fable. No woman who was doing a "practice husband" would have signed a pre-nup. Even so, a judge will throw out any provision that overclassifies his salary as separate property or a clause that denies alimony if it leaves the wife destitute.


There are a ton of these made up stories in the tube with AI voice narration. Sometimes the title doesn't even match the story when you watch it. Mostly the same shit with slight variation. One the guy puts superglue in his cheating wife's lube. In another it's vibrant green dye.

Great stories though. I guy can dream the feminized family courts aren't all stacked up against us.
124   Glock-n-Load   2025 Dec 1, 8:18pm  

Booger says


https://youtube.com/shorts/8h4Lmn0jNyk?si=XlZHxGjnn8irJldv

Women were the beginning of all sin. Never forget that.
125   clambo   2025 Dec 1, 10:18pm  

I saw a guy asking girls in Tokyo what was more important to them in a man; 1. fidelity 2. having money.

Can you guess which they chose? It was his having money.

And there you have it; sometimes I feel sorry for guys who think their charm will get them pussy; it will work randomly but not consistently.

Some guys don't like the uncertainty of the hunting game and get married.

My mother said something which surprised me because she was never rude nor impolite: "Why buy the cow when you've got the milk for free?"

She wasn't exactly accurate because that milk isn't ever really free after your thirties.
128   clambo   2025 Dec 11, 4:38pm  

In La Paz I have a friend who gets "lucky" pretty often. It's fascinating.
He has a little business renting out 3 tiny swimming pools for $50 for 6 hours; he makes $150 per day tax free for 9 months.
The low cost attracts young girls who throw little parties; some of them get friendly with the guy.
He tells them he can't take them out and about because he's "married"; dates have to be at his house.
He's lying.
Evidently he has the Rasputin gift of gab or something; he's extremely short, balding so he wears a cap always, and doesn't have the slightest "European" appearance as some Mexicans do.
Evidently the girls are confused and think he's a "prosperous businessman".
I'm constantly amazed at his success.
He told me that I should always be aggressive with any girl I date, and after any success just block her afterwards and move on.
129   Glock-n-Load   2025 Dec 11, 8:06pm  

Booger says

https://youtube.com/shorts/mVPbqk961-s?si=YCoOn4iPtTHC9dgL

They broke up shortly after...

If not, he’d deserve everything that comes after that.
134   Patrick   2025 Dec 18, 12:50pm  

clambo says

Evidently the girls are confused and think he's a "prosperous businessman".
I'm constantly amazed at his success.
He told me that I should always be aggressive with any girl I date, and after any success just block her afterwards and move on.


One of those girls is going to sneak up and cut his throat one day.

His strategy might work for a traveling salesman, but for a guy who stays in the same city, it could be bad.
135   Ceffer   2025 Dec 18, 2:24pm  

Patrick says

One of those girls is going to sneak up and cut his throat one day.

This. In real life, you don't just fling them off and they disappear, like a James Bond movie. In instances, you have sired a stalker who will close some kind of net of revenge on you eventually. Most women already have other men in their orbit who will jump to their 'defense' as well.
138   stereotomy   2025 Dec 21, 7:41pm  

Booger says




$400 to look like that? Jesus Christ . . .

Who's driving? Otherwise, why are these bitches always pontificating from the passenger seat?
139   Misc   2025 Dec 21, 7:55pm  

stereotomy says

$400 to look like that? Jesus Christ . . .

Who's driving? Otherwise, why are these bitches always pontificating from the passenger seat?


$400 for the massive amounts of drugs to get that look. The pimps driving -- whodda thought ???
140   clambo   2025 Dec 21, 9:44pm  

Herewith a few anecdotes which are maybe interesting or maybe boring or worse.

A girl in Florida who's younger than I by many years wanted to quit her crappy life routine and fly down to Baja with me. She's just 31 but has had enough of the rat race.

She sends me videos of herself in the shower or just posing nude, shaking her ass, touching her boobs, etc.

Oddly enough, a young girl in Cuba found me on Facebook somehow; I have no idea how. She and I have chatted for several months using WhatsApp.

Guess what kind of video she sent to me recently? Herself in the shower, soaping up her slippery seal hot body.

I guess sending sexy videos to men is in the "female seduction playbook" which made its way over to Cuba somehow.

A Mexican guy I recently met had a young girl come up from Cabo to visit him. He said it's harder lately for him to see her because she now has a boyfriend.

Moral: Even if they have a boyfriend, they still want to be a part time sugar baby I guess.

"There's no trust among thieves."
141   PeopleUnited   2025 Dec 22, 6:02am  

clambo says

There's no trust among thieves."


Isn’t it “there’s no honor among thieves”?

The moral you shared was elaborated many eons ago:

Proverbs 9:13 “A foolish woman is clamorous: she is simple, and knoweth nothing.

14 For she sitteth at the door of her house, on a seat in the high places of the city,

15 To call passengers who go right on their ways:

16 Whoso is simple, let him turn in hither: and as for him that wanteth understanding, she saith to him,

17 Stolen waters are sweet, and bread eaten in secret is pleasant.

18 But he knoweth not that the dead are there; and that her guests are in the depths of hell.”
142   zzyzzx   2025 Dec 22, 7:17am  

clambo says

Herewith a few anecdotes which are maybe interesting or maybe boring or worse.

A girl in Florida who's younger than I by many years wanted to quit her crappy life routine and fly down to Baja with me. She's just 31 but has had enough of the rat race.

She sends me videos of herself in the shower or just posing nude, shaking her ass, touching her boobs, etc.

Oddly enough, a young girl in Cuba found me on Facebook somehow; I have no idea how. She and I have chatted for several months using WhatsApp.

Guess what kind of video she sent to me recently? Herself in the shower, soaping up her slippery seal hot body.

I guess sending sexy videos to men is in the "female seduction playbook" which made its way over to Cuba somehow.

A Mexican guy I recently met had a young girl come up from Cabo to visit him. He said it's harder lately for him to see her because she now has a boyfriend.

Moral: Even if they have a boyfriend, they still want to be a part time sugar baby I guess.

"There's no trust among thieves."


It's more of a matter of them trying to monkey branch to the highest bidder.
143   HeadSet   2025 Dec 22, 4:31pm  

clambo says


I guess sending sexy videos to men is in the "female seduction playbook" which made its way over to Cuba somehow.

Or the standard catfishing.

clambo says


A girl in Florida who's younger than I by many years wanted to quit her crappy life routine and fly down to Baja with me. She's just 31 but has had enough of the rat race.

Did meet this girl previously, or does she want you to send her travel money?
144   clambo   2025 Dec 22, 10:00pm  

Re: Highest bidder; the girl in Florida has known me for 8 years already. She was introduced to me by a coworker and I don't think she meets men like me very frequently. She can't seem to figure out how to make enough money to have any kind of fun, but that's not surprising because rents have risen extremely rapidly in South Florida. She refuses to live with a roommate so she's in a financial pickle.

The Florida girl previously dated guys who worked at McJobs and had no money to take her out anywhere.
Or, she's dating them now but wants to "ex cape" her dreary existence.

She's not a cat fish. Nor do I think the Cuban girl is, but time will tell I guess.

I think the Cuban feels lucky because the chances of meeting an American who is bilingual (Spanish) may have been slim for her.

Off the subject, Cuba is completely fucked. I sent the girl some money to buy Christmas dinner and she spent a couple days searching for ingredients to buy, including standing in line. Cuba has a real food shortage and the electricity goes off for 8 or more hours almost daily.

It's really amazing to me that the girls in La Paz seem to get by somehow, but they work a real lot just to live.

One girl I met works as a chambermaid in the day, then goes and cleans AirBnbs until evening. On her day off, she's a caregiver for her brother who has a mental disability. What amazes me is she's cheerful and nice to be around; I would not be if I were in her shoes.

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