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Moving from San Diego to Phoenix - Buy a house?


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2017 Aug 17, 6:09pm   26,767 views  108 comments

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Well, my family and I are considering leaving San Diego area and moving to Phoenix. We've never owned a home and I have always felt CA is just way too expensive to buy even though I make an executive salary. Now that I'm considering a job in Phoenix making even more money than in San Diego, we're looking at finally buying a big, fine-ass house with a pool for around $800K with 20% down.

Questions:
- Do you think I'm stupid for buying because a recession could be coming? Should I rent instead? Seems like Phoenix house prices haven't come close to recovering from the 2006 peak.
- If I buy a house, what lender should I use? I've considered SoFi because it's easy and online, but is that a mistake?
- Should I get a buyer agent? What if I find the house I want on my own through Redfin?
- Any other tips for a first-time homebuyer?

Thanks everyone.

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21   Strategist   2017 Aug 18, 8:08am  

SpecialSnowflake says

Ask for several solar quotes and decide for yourself. (Ownership, not solar lease or PPA).

I have been getting quotes for a solar system. San Diego has some of the most rip off electricity prices in the nation. I am literally saving 75%.
Phoenix electricity may not be as expensive, therefore savings with solar may not be very high.

22   anonymous   2017 Aug 18, 8:41am  

WookieMan says

I disagree, to some extent. Don't know the cost in the southwest.

hot sun evaporates the water fairly quickly and then you need to refill it often.

23   anonymous   2017 Aug 18, 8:41am  

BayArea says

Bwahahahaha

why?

24   RWSGFY   2017 Aug 18, 8:45am  

Strategist says

SpecialSnowflake says

Ask for several solar quotes and decide for yourself. (Ownership, not solar lease or PPA).

I have been getting quotes for a solar system. San Diego has some of the most rip off electricity prices in the nation. I am literally saving 75%.

Phoenix electricity may not be as expensive, therefore savings with solar may not be very high.

You're not saving anything unless you stay long enough to reach break-even point. Which is currently between 6 and 7 years for a typical 90-110% system. (In SFBA which is probably on par or even more expensive than SD).

25   NDrLoR   2017 Aug 18, 8:53am  

just any guy says

It's easy to get caught up in buying a mini mansion

Why not buy half of what you can afford? It would still be very nice, I'm sure.

26   WookieMan   2017 Aug 18, 9:11am  

landtof says

hot sun evaporates the water fairly quickly and then you need to refill it often.

Yeah, I know that's an issue out there. Just wasn't sure how pricey water is there. I assume high, desert and all. Where I'm at in the midwest I figure I have to top off about 2 feet of water a year, maybe about 5-7k gallons max. Water bill only jumps about $30-40 during the summer for me, if even that much. Have a lot of garden to water as well, so hard to tell what % is pool.

Pool cover would help too with evaporation. Contrary to popular belief, pool covers just maintain the temperature. If you remove the cover at night, it will help to cool the water and you won't lose water to evaporation (as much) like you would during the day. Obviously a pain, but at $800k you might find a house that has a auto pool cover and you can get a timer for it. And if water is expensive, a cover like that might pay for itself rather quickly.

Sorry OP, this has been totally off topic. Pools are expensive of course, but there are definitely ways to make the maintenance cheaper. You didn't say this (or anyone in this post), but it seems like a lot of people are afraid of homes with pools due to the cost. Obviously there are other safety concerns, especially with kids, but pools are rather fun with kids at a certain age if you make it safe and set rules.

27   anonymous   2017 Aug 19, 10:56am  

Thanks everyone. My wife is nervous about the weather, but I told her that most places in the US outside of CA have several months where you're just indoors. I'm just sick of the taxes here and the cost of buying a house. I feel like I should be living a better lifestyle given where I'm at in my career, but CA just squashes that.

28   RWSGFY   2017 Aug 19, 12:15pm  

ThreeBays says

my understanding is solar adds good re-sale value to your house.

Not a fact.

29   bob2356   2017 Aug 19, 1:17pm  

just any guy says

- Any other tips for a first-time homebuyer?

Sit down and seriously look at the rental to price ratio. Actually crunch the numbers. Hotpads is a great tool for this. If rents are really undervalued say 120 months+ then consider renting if you aren't all hung up on having "a home" vs a big wooden box you live in. Invest the difference between renting and buying (which includes banking what you would have paid in property taxes and insurance) along with investing the down payment. This is a very active hands on strategy that requires a lot of time and discipline. There are markets out there where for your 160k down payment you can buy 2 good rental houses in good areas netting over 9% after paying a management company. No appreciation, but very nice cash flow.

If you decide buying is for you then as people have said already, rent for at least 6 months preferably a year first. It's a pain in the ass to move twice in a year,but living a year somewhere gives you a whole different perspective on where you want to live in an area. You don't really know the in's and out's until you have your feet on the ground. I've regretted buying directly into an area the 3 times I've done it. Go month to month after the first year and you can shop at your leisure, preferably in the slow selling season, giving you a lot of leverage on the sellers.. I have had much, much better house buying experience when I did it that way. Everything is on your terms and the pressure is all on the seller.

I personally would (and always have) find a somewhat less expensive house and go for a 10 or 15 year mortgage. I have a 10 year 2.75% and the equity builds fast. The difference in what you pay the bank in interest vs a 30 year is astounding

Don't get all hung up on what the market will do. If you are living in it long term then it doesn't matter what the market does short term.

When I was in the UAE they had refrigerated pools in the resorts. Very odd feeling getting into a refrigerated pool. Had a salt water pool in my house in Oz . Much better than a chlorinated pool. I'm not sure why salt water pools are so rare in the US.

30   anonymous   2017 Aug 19, 1:46pm  

@bob - thanks for the tips. My wife and I have 2 kids (5th and 6th grades), so she's afraid of renting and then moving again if we're not at the same school. I agree that renting first would make the most sense, but moving twice does suck. On the price of home, we've noticed that to get the kitchen and backyard we want, you gotta pay $700-$800K minimum. I suppose we could go cheaper and then do the landscaping ourselves.

31   Patrick   2017 Aug 19, 2:07pm  

just any guy says

she's afraid of renting and then moving again if we're not at the same school.

Consider trying to get a long-term lease, like 5 years. Landlords like stability too.

That would give you some breathing room, and the lease could simply have a payment option to break it, like paying an extra month.

32   RWSGFY   2017 Aug 19, 4:07pm  

ThreeBays says

SpecialSnowflake says

ThreeBays says

my understanding is solar adds good re-sale value to your house.

Not a fact.

I've seen plenty of studies claiming the contrary. Can you point to any data to back your claim?

You first. With "plenty of studies" it should be easy to link 3 or 4...

34   joshuatrio   2017 Aug 23, 3:02am  

P N Dr Lo R says
Why not buy half of what you can afford? It would still be very nice, I'm sure.


Exactly what I was thinking. For $400k you can probably get a really nice place, without the headaches and expense of the other.
35   bob2356   2017 Aug 23, 6:48am  

just any guy says
My wife and I have 2 kids (5th and 6th grades), so she's afraid of renting and then moving again if we're not at the same school. I agree that renting first would make the most sense, but moving twice does suck. On the price of home, we've noticed that to get the kitchen and backyard we want, you gotta pay $700-$800K minimum. I suppose we could go cheaper and then do the landscaping ourselves.


A happy wife is a happy life. Whatever floats your boat go for it. I consider houses big wooden boxes. As long as it keeps the rain out and has enough room it's ok with me. Time is money. I prefer a very modest house with less hours working and more time for having fun.
36   socal2   2017 Aug 23, 9:41am  

just any guy says

@bob - thanks for the tips. My wife and I have 2 kids (5th and 6th grades), so she's afraid of renting and then moving again if we're not at the same school. I agree that renting first would make the most sense, but moving twice does suck. On the price of home, we've noticed that to get the kitchen and backyard we want, you gotta pay $700-$800K minimum. I suppose we could go cheaper and then do the landscaping ourselves.

Dude - if you are willing to plunk down $800K, can't you find something reasonable in San Diego County? Nice houses with 2,500 square feet are still going for that in my neighborhood in Carlsbad.

I totally get how you can be frustrated with the retards in government that are running California into the ground and wanting to get into something stable with a good school district, but there are still some pockets of sanity here and there - especially in San Diego, Carlsbad being one of them. I think prices are going to soften significantly in the coming year.

I am so happy we bought in Carlsbad in 2011 when the market bottomed out. We got a totally affordable 30 year fixed mortgage at low interest rate, have great public schools, ocean views and cool ocean breezes. I'm never leaving.

Then again, I was born in Chicago and lived a big chunk of my life in the Midwest, so I know how shitty the weather is for 6 months of the year. Life is too short to suffer indoors all the time.

37   Patrick   2017 Aug 23, 9:46am  

socal2 says

I was born in Chicago and lived a big chunk of my life in the Midwest, so I know how shitty the weather is for 6 months of the year. Life is too short to suffer indoors all the time.

Amen, me too.

38   bob2356   2017 Aug 23, 10:13am  

socal2 says

Life is too short to suffer indoors all the time.

There is an amazing new invention out there that solves this problem. It's called a coat.

39   Strategist   2017 Aug 23, 10:18am  

bob2356 says

socal2 says

Life is too short to suffer indoors all the time.

There is an amazing new invention out there that solves this problem. It's called a coat.

Some of us prefer living with shorts, t-shirts, and sandals all year round.

40   socal2   2017 Aug 23, 10:21am  

Strategist says

Some of us prefer living with shorts, t-shirts, and sandals all year round.

And surf.

There is no surf in Chicago.

41   Strategist   2017 Aug 23, 10:28am  

socal2 says

Strategist says

Some of us prefer living with shorts, t-shirts, and sandals all year round.

And surf.

There is no surf in Chicago.

We have everything they have, plus everything they don't have.

42   Ceffer   2017 Aug 23, 10:29am  

Actually, there is surfing on areas of Lake Michigan depending on weather.

43   Ceffer   2017 Aug 23, 10:37am  

Don't forget, in Phoenix you have to wear oven gloves to drive, and lizards jump in your ass crack for moisture.

44   socal2   2017 Aug 23, 11:11am  

I can see making the jump to Phoenix if a person lived inland like Fresno, Bakersfield, Inland Empire or even Sacramento. Why deal with the California dysfunction and high taxes if you don't get the nice weather and proximity to the beach? But seems really hard to make the leap if you are leaving San Diego. Especially if a person is willing to spend $800K on a house?

45   WookieMan   2017 Aug 23, 11:31am  

Patrick says

I was born in Chicago and lived a big chunk of my life in the Midwest, so I know how shitty the weather is for 6 months of the year. Life is too short to suffer indoors all the time.

Amen, me too.

December through February are bad. You're not going to be swimming during those shoulder months (Oct, Nov & March, April), but it's not that bad. I'd call it 3-4 months of shitty weather. $800k will get you a lot in IL, but then your taxes are fucking $20k.

I was in Phoenix 2 years ago in late August and it absolutely sucked to be outside. Also did a visit in mid May one year and I think we caught a hot spell, but it was 115-120 if I recall correctly. Don't care if it's dry heat or not. That's just awful to be in. So AZ has it's limitations weather wise as well during the hot months if you enjoy outdoor activities at all. At least in the midwest you could always cross country ski or even ski/snowboard at your local hill. Hiking in 120 degree temps does not sound pleasant. And I'm not sure what else you'd do besides swim in that weather.

You're just not going to be Socal weather.

46   socal2   2017 Aug 23, 12:26pm  

WookieMan says

December through February are bad. You're not going to be swimming during those shoulder months (Oct, Nov & March, April), but it's not that bad. I'd call it 3-4 months of shitty weather. $800k will get you a lot in IL, but then your taxes are fucking $20k.

I was in Phoenix 2 years ago in late August and it absolutely sucked to be outside. Also did a visit in mid May one year and I think we caught a hot spell, but it was 115-120 if I recall correctly. Don't care if it's dry heat or not. That's just awful to be in. So AZ has it's limitations weather wise as well during the hot months if you enjoy outdoor activities at all. At least in the midwest you could always cross country ski or even ski/snowboard at your local hill. Hiking in 120 degree temps does not sound pleasant. And I'm not sure what else you'd do besides swim in that weather.

You're just not going to be Socal weather.

Spring and Summer is no picnic in the Midwest either. It's hot, humid, buggy and stormy. Always a good chance it will rain on your parade if you have any outdoor plans. I was just back in Indianapolis for 10 days visiting family in July and it rained 5 of the days. Came back with a gazillion bug bites too. Also most of the Midwest is flat as pancake. Very few hills or mountains to enjoy.

I was in Phoenix last month for work and it was terribly hot and HUMID thanks to the Monsoon storms. Thankfully it was just a day trip.

I don't even have an air conditioner at my house. Don't need it.

47   WookieMan   2017 Aug 23, 2:02pm  

socal2 says

Spring and Summer is no picnic in the Midwest either. It's hot, humid, buggy and stormy. Always a good chance it will rain on your parade if you have any outdoor plans. I was just back in Indianapolis for 10 days visiting family in July and it rained 5 of the days. Came back with a gazillion bug bites too. Also most of the Midwest is flat as pancake. Very few hills or mountains to enjoy.

I was in Phoenix last month for work and it was terribly hot and HUMID thanks to the Monsoon storms. Thankfully it was just a day trip.

I don't even have an air conditioner at my house. Don't need it.

And that's the thing, if weather is a top 3 concern, I don't really see why you would move out of SoCal once there if you can afford it (I don't know if the OP stated weather was that big a concern). Phoenix schools are likely equal. Phoenix has it's pricey spots as well, although it's substantially cheaper overall. At $800k purchase price though, I'd stay in SoCal.

Monsoon storms are lovely. That August trip I mentioned involved one. We were at Alice Cooper'stown bar. Sign got blown off the front of the building into the street. Couldn't exit the building for a good 20-30 minutes after the rain stopped because there was a foot of water surrounding it. Had to wait until it drained down.

I've actually wondered about the mountain vs flat land perspective. I've always lived in flat land and visited mountainous areas across the country. Is there a chance people that grew up always in mountainous areas are fascinated in a different way about flat areas? There are certain drives I take where I'm even kind of shocked how flat it is. It's a different feeling I guess. Not sure how to explain it. I definitely prefer to see and/or be near mountains. Beaches and blue water are a favorite as well.

48   BayArea   2017 Aug 23, 3:01pm  

I travel to Phoenix for business. I love the city but 5-6mo out of the year is pure hell on earth.

The oven mitt comment above when driving is 100% true.

As someone that's lived on the coast his entire life, that would be a very tough transition for me.

49   anonymous   2017 Aug 23, 6:40pm  

We are worried about living in the Phoenix heat, but I'm sick of not having a nice house and paying so much in taxes. $800K does not buy you a nice house in a nice area in San Diego...sorry. I just don't see it when I'm on Redfin.

CA politics and taxes blow chunks, and I'm worried about building long term wealth with how much CA wants to tax me. It's a hard decision

50   anonymous   2017 Sep 17, 2:27pm  

Well, we ended up staying in San Diego. We're going to continue renting and amassing cash for when the next crash happens.
51   anonymous   2017 Sep 17, 2:27pm  

That was my comment above, but forgot to log in.
52   Shaman   2017 Sep 17, 2:33pm  

San Diego is a pretty choice place to live. Especially if you have a house already. Otherwise, renting at least comes with the perk of not having to fix stuff that breaks on the house, or spend money on upgrades. Tile grout black? No scrubbing for you! It's a feature!
53   Strategist   2017 Sep 17, 5:04pm  

anonymous says

Well, we ended up staying in San Diego. We're going to continue renting and amassing cash for when the next crash happens.


You will be renting for a long long time.
54   lostand confused   2017 Sep 17, 5:33pm  

San Diego was lovely-stayed there for a few years. It was cheap back then-just past the crash. Phoenix is tough. A couple of my friends there and I call and I guess even night stay at 95 during summer.

Where I live-oh well.Someday I will move again-got a very nice gig going and low cost of living. Just take nice vacations in winter!
55   Blurtman   2017 Sep 18, 4:21am  

Would you surf the waters of San Diego? Pollution keeps getting worse. And then there is hep, hep, hep-a-ti-tis.
56   anonymous   2017 Sep 18, 6:00am  

Since 1991, I've been telling myself I will accumulate cash and buy at the next crash. Yet none of the crashes were ever enough to cause me to pull the trigger. Recently, after 28 years I quit lying to myself, and knowledged I will be renting for life.
57   BayArea   2017 Sep 18, 6:50am  

anonymous says
Well, we ended up staying in San Diego. We're going to continue renting and amassing cash for when the next crash happens.


Famous life-long renter words.
58   Strategist   2017 Sep 18, 8:50am  

Blurtman says

Would you surf the waters of San Diego? Pollution keeps getting worse. And then there is hep, hep, hep-a-ti-tis.


This is why we should round up all the homeless and send them to Detroit. They will fit right in.
59   fdhfoiehfeoi   2017 Sep 18, 9:43am  

Best deal is if you can find a seller you can work with directly, use a lawyer and cut out the bullshit. Personally $800k sounds really pricey for a place in the desert.
60   FortWayne   2017 Sep 18, 10:11am  

They'll just return to collect welfare in CA

Strategist says
Blurtman says

Would you surf the waters of San Diego? Pollution keeps getting worse. And then there is hep, hep, hep-a-ti-tis.


This is why we should round up all the homeless and send them to Detroit. They will fit right in.

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