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Young females are often depressed, herewith some anecdotes.
They involve distinct demographic types.

Easter Sunday I was with some people who work in medical care and hospital administration or medical care sales. Everyone had a great income.

There were 5 30-something females, and they were hot.
4 of the 5 had no boyfriend and were bummed out (The mother of one gossiped to me)
2 of the 5 drink too much.

Another 2 are hot sisters who grew up in a large family, one is in her 20’s and is smoking hot, she’s got a pretty good job.
The hotter one gets drunk and picks up guys and later is upset that he’s not going to commit to her.
She cried to her sister “I can get any man I want, but I don’t have a boyfriend!”
I was surprised to hear that she was an alley cat, getting screwed by random guys every weekend; she looks like the more conservative of the two sisters. Appearance is deceiving.
“Wow, I’m surprised that your sister is a wild pig!”

clambo says

The hotter one gets drunk and picks up guys and later is upset that he’s not going to commit to her.
She cried to her sister “I can get any man I want, but I don’t have a boyfriend!”

It's sad that feminism has ruined the lives of so many women.

Feminism teaches that women are men and therefore should act like men, ie being promiscuous.

But women are not men, and the innate response to a promiscuous partner is inherently very different between the two sexes.

Women like men who sleep with a lot of women, because they have to prove high value to get a lot of women. They don't want them to sleep around after committing, but they are quietly proud of getting a man lots of other women wanted.

Men will sleep with hot slutty women, but will not commit to them because they innately know that would be a paternity disaster.

"The key that opens all locks is a valuable key, but the lock that opens for all keys is a worthless lock."

Sorry I repeat myself on this one, but the lesson is so basic and simple I can't believe so many women do not understand it. The probably just don't want to understand it because it interferes with their short-term pleasure.

Living in lies sooner or later catches up with one. Reality wins at the end.

Addendum
My 32 year old friend is on Bumble.
He showed me the girls on there.
They were model hot!
They posted pics of themselves at the Louvre, China Great Wall, skiing, etc.
They had impressive jobs.
BUT: they listed loser rappers and Cardi B as their preferred "music" (it's not music)
I said "Why are they on Bumble? All day long guys are throwing their business cards at them!"
"Oh my God, look at this one, she's red hot!"
He started laughing as did others who were nearby and heard my ranting.
I bet all the guys they meet are "losers", and the successful guys just hit and quit them.
Of course, they probably have a loud mouth like Rosey O'donnell or Oprah.

Patrick says

It's sad that feminism has ruined the lives of so many women.

https://www.nber.org/system/files/working_papers/w14969/w14969.pdf

By many objective measures the lives of women in the United States have improved over the past
35 years, yet we show that measures of subjective well-being indicate that women’s happiness has
declined both absolutely and relative to men. The paradox of women’s declining relative well-being
is found across various datasets, measures of subjective well-being, and is pervasive across demographic
groups and industrialized countries. Relative declines in female happiness have eroded a gender gap
in happiness in which women in the 1970s typically reported higher subjective well-being than did
men. These declines have continued and a new gender gap is emerging—one with higher subjective
well-being for men.

clambo says

the successful guys just hit and quit them

Lol, "hit and quit" is an excellent term I never heard before.

clambo says

the successful guys just hit and quit them.

Women who know they are desirable "hit and quit" on guys as well.

That's called "being slutty".

Patrick says

That's called "being slutty".

I am not talking about the girls that get picked up every Friday night at the club. I am talking about the hot babe computer programmer or Doctor/Nurse who has been without a boyfriend and sex for months. She meets a guy she thinks looks good, then has a two week dating affair that progresses to sex at the end. After that one night of sex, she dumps him. The two weeks of phone calls, cuddling, fun at dinner, dancing, and hanging out - just an act. I believe that any guy who has dated throughout his 20s has come across this.

The feminist conundrum is they have to go out with clitoris hard ons and pretend they can fuck like men. So, they go out once in a while and have a greasy fuck to prove they are enlightened, independent women. Is this good news for the 'zipless' fuck? They've been masquerading this shit for decades, but there is no 'zipless' fuck, either emotionally, physically, or in terms of health, disease, and personal welfare.

Men always pay, and women are always subsidized, it's too ancient and genetic to change.

Ceffer says

Men always pay, and women are always subsidized, it's too ancient and genetic to change.

I wouldn't trade. I prefer to pay and subsidize women during the courting phase, as opposed to the monthly bleeding, pregnancy, childbirth, and nursing women have to go through.

HeadSet says

hot babe computer programmer

20+ years in the industry and I'm yet to see one of these.

FuckCCP89 says

HeadSet says

hot babe computer programmer

20+ years in the industry and I'm yet to see one of these.

I have seen a few at NASA Langley, plus I knew two I can remember at Wright Patterson in Ohio. There were also a few rather attractive female AF officers who were not programmers per se, but did pretty good codework in the simulation packages.

FuckCCP89 says

HeadSet says

hot babe computer programmer

20+ years in the industry and I'm yet to see one of these.

I agree. Have not seen such a thing myself. Perhaps they exist.

Patrick says

FuckCCP89 says

HeadSet says

hot babe computer programmer

20+ years in the industry and I'm yet to see one of these.

I agree. Have not seen such a thing myself. Perhaps they exist.

Wow, I though there would be a few of them in California.

HeadSet says

Wow, I though there would be a few of them in California.

LOL, the bay area has some of the ugliest women you'll ever see. Unless you're into Asians there are some good looking Asians there. SoCal is where the hot women live. Decent number if you get outside the bay area into Sacramento area as well.

It was definitely true in the olden days that SoCal had most of the pretty women, due to the migrations for the film industry hopefuls. For some reason, as you move north along the coast into the colder, windier, and rainier climates, the women become uglier, fatter, less fashion conscious, and surlier. LOL A lot of the women starting at Oregon along the coast dress like men in dungarees, puffy coats etc. and don't shave their legs or arms. Look at all the hefters in Portland, lots of lezzos like Santa Cruz.

SoCal people in general DO have the reputation for shallow materialism, opportunism and Dude-ish personal fakery and complete lack of loyalty, but they generally have a good sense of humor and enjoy entertainment, characteristics which also seems to diminish as you travel up the coast to the colder, windier rainier etc. LA also seems disproportionately full of sociopathic personality types i.e. charmers with the tails of scorpions.

FuckCCP89 says

HeadSet says

hot babe computer programmer

20+ years in the industry and I'm yet to see one of these.

@Headset those be trannies.

just_passing_through says

the bay area has some of the ugliest women you'll ever see. Unless you're into Asians

My, have times changed. I lived in Sacramento in the 80's and there was no shortage of babes, and I do not remember many Asians. I did note that although the girls had great figures many looked older than they were from sun damaged skin.

Yeah, Sacramento has some hotties. I dunno if there are lots of Asians there yet. I was throwing the SF Bay area under the bus. Asians raised the level of hotness in the bay area.

HeadSet says

I believe that any guy who has dated throughout his 20s has come across this.

Never happened to me. I always had to dump these types. Maybe they only dump if the sex is disappointing?

HeadSet says

I did note that although the girls had great figures many looked older than they were from sun damaged skin.

So typical of SoCal white girls. They have crows feet by 28. I just got mine and they’re faint, but I’m 44.

Shaman says

Never happened to me.

Never happened to me either.

https://twitter.com/ScottAdamsSays/status/1383728539959136260#m

Female liberalism are broken nesting fantasies in ridiculous scenarios. It used to be female fantasy scripts didn't matter so much because women were sheltered and provendered by men in their hen claques. They could afford to be fluffy and fuzzy.
Most of their plotting was local socialization and competition with other women and their families.

It was charming as long as they kept things up with artistic tendencies and took care of the rug rats. Unleashed into the world of larger affairs, with only a few exceptions, it tends to result in Darwinian extinction and lots of eggs on the expired shelf.

Repeal the 19th or become a failed country.

RWSGFY says

HeadSet says
hot babe computer programmer

20+ years in the industry and I'm yet to see one of these.

Old comment. Wrong industry is all I'll say. There are plenty of hot and smart women and I'm not going full woke. They exist. Most of you guys live in the wrong place for it. You get bimbos that fuck anything that walks and leftoid gays that are fat and hairy. Go to Wisconsin or Iowa. Hell even non-Chicago IL.

If you're in the dating field I have a feeling some of you are in a shit location. I could find you 9's and 10's that make six figures. Most are already married though. Generally loyal. I'd never try to hook up with a CA, CO, etc type chick if they weren't native to the state.

just_passing_through says

HeadSet says

Wow, I though there would be a few of them in California.

LOL, the bay area has some of the ugliest women you'll ever see. Unless you're into Asians there are some good looking Asians there. SoCal is where the hot women live. Decent number if you get outside the bay area into Sacramento area as well.

There were plenty of hot babes in the bay area outside of programming, during the dot com boom and up until the housing bust in 2008 (SFs south beach amlnd Marina district were quite golden for many years, also menlo park/palo alto around university) with a small revival during the Trump years. However many businesses moved out of SF and many out of CA, and womyn follow the money. Covid, blm and wokeness put the final nail in the coffin for norcal urban areas. Socal still has more. AZ Scottsdale area and Utah salt lake city area are probably the best, Midwest rural areas are still ok as well.

SoCal has lots of hot women (film industries) but they are generally vipers if they are native born (born of the narcissistic bitch hordes who were looking for screen fame). They'll run you right up the money and status scale and then figure out how to divorce you for profit. Profit divorce is a real thing, and the monied men are apparently easy prey. Where people should be happy in the sunshine, it is an unremittingly soul scorching, shallow, grasping ethic.

A ob doctor I know retired to Orange County with his wife (where she's from). Their daughter went to college in Colorado, and the culture was so attractive to her by comparison, she refused to move back to SoCal to be with her parents because she loathed the materialistic crap afterward, even though they tried to bribe her every which way they could. I talked with her a bit and she was horrified at the thought of going back 'to that'.

RC2006 says

Repeal the 19th or become a failed country.

Yep, and Civilization. It's really killing Western Civ.

The correlation between expansion of the Gov Spending/Size and Female Voting is tight. All over the West.

Interesting thing in CHYna, is that the CCP is reducing the numbers of women in leadership and esp. in media. They see what promoting wokeness and equity in the West is doing, and their own collapsing birthrate.

Here's a fun thing to do with FauxTrads:

"The boys, they only wanna play video games 8 hours a day."

Well, it's usually said by old guys who spend 8 hours a day watching TV, but try this:

"Now tell me about the gals, they're on their smartphones and social media 8 hours a day, and you're lucky if they can go half an hour without checking dey foans at work."

clambo says

I was surprised to hear that she was an alley cat, getting screwed by random guys every weekend; she looks like the more conservative of the two sisters. Appearance is deceiving.

YEP!

One thing I learned by burning my finger (or dong) a few times:

The innocent, more gal-next-door ones are often as bad if not worse than the Gov. Gretchen Whitmer "Resting Ho Face" ones. Some of the worst slores are 6s and 7s with the cute and innocent appeal.

Of course, once they hit the late 20s, the eyes almost never lie.

Each rank of gals has their own issues. Some of the 4s and 5s think they have magic Quirky Power that will eventually land a Chad for them, he will just be attracted to their inner Je Nais Se Quis. Like that movie with the blond chick and the British guy is a popular media version of this secret delulu many average gals have.

ALL girls rank their real value, at a minimum, is the hottest guy they banged - even though they never get a guy anywhere near that rank in Daytime Game.

Let's be fair and call out some guy bullshit, which I think is helpful for guys to be aware of:

When a dude has been married a few years and starts saying "Sex isn't Everything", she's got him on the rationing scheme, and however Trad and Mighty he might act in public, or brag about how idyllic his married life is, he's doing simp tricks for old pussy in his house.

AmericanKulak says

When a dude has been married a few years and starts saying "Sex isn't Everything", she's got him on the rationing scheme

OR
He gets sex whenever he pleases so it is not a big deal.

Think of the Lefties we could treat for this with the money we waste on wars/NATO:

That is just nuts…no ability to cope with anything. Can you imagine having to deal with a coworker who was that mentally I’ll?

FuckTheMainstreamMedia says

That is just nuts…no ability to cope with anything. Can you imagine having to deal with a coworker who was that mentally I’ll?

I did. He wasn't nearly that bad, tho. TDS city!

He got help and turned around 180. I was amazed. Best part is this was great for him.

He should not have walked away. He should have stayed there and just said nothing. Otherwise, people around will think he was the "cause."
When women try and pull that bullshit with me I calmly just don't back down. Let them get crazy. If you get lucky they hit you - then you have a real case.