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Marriage is simply not the natural arrangement between males and females. The present legal arrangement violates mans nature.I agree with much of what you're saying, but there is one thing that LTRs or marriage give you if done right...love. I don't mean to sound sappy, but superficial relationships with many women (albeit hella fun) wouldn't cut it for me especially as I grow old, which I'm not yet. There's something unique and special about being with someone for decades, sharing memories and a family together, making it through the ups and downs, etc. If you've never tasted that, I understand why you'd go the route you choose. But for me, it's priceless.
Today the male is severely punished for having a sexual partner in addition to the aging, enlarging, and controlling one he is married to.
Men who are older can still attract younger females, but the converse is not true; older females generally can not attract males of any age.
Having someone to have conversations with, spend time with, go out to eat with, etc. doesn't require marriage. I do these with my widow neighbor.
As far as sexual relations go, I have younger ones for this activity. Everyone likes the arrangement as far as I can tell.
wouldn't cut it for me especially as I grow old, which I'm not yet.
porkchopexpress saysI was young...23. I certainly understand the risks you'd be taking by getting married, which I wouldn't do if I waited later in life for the reasons you cite, unless I was 100% sure. The laws are far too discriminatory against men and breadwinners.wouldn't cut it for me especially as I grow old, which I'm not yet.
How old were you when you married?
just_dregalicious saysCritique all you like. You're delusional though if you think I give a shit about what you think.
And yet you keep responding to my posts. Clearly evidence that your don't care what I think!
really does take 2 parents to raise children.
Don' t get married too young. Party and get it out of your system in your 20s and early 30s.
Family law in the west is fucked (THANK YOU BOOMERS) and even worse in the UK. I wouldn't even date a single mom in the NW US. Judges are sticking guys with child support for kids that aren't even their kid in that area.
I'm not sure how many out of wedlock kids there are running around these days but I'd guess it's over 50%. (
See, that's a big part of the issue, if you go INTO a relationship thinking about family law and divorce, you're already setting yourself up for failure.
In the black community, it's closer to 75%. Want to guess why the crime is the way it is in that population?
MrMagic saysIn the black community, it's closer to 75%. Want to guess why the crime is the way it is in that population?
There's something unique and special about being with someone for decades, sharing memories and a family together, making it through the ups and downs, etc. If you've never tasted that, I understand why you'd go the route you choose. But for me, it's priceless.
How old were you when you married? As I mentioned above I think if you marry somewhat young there are great opportunities.
I've been telling my nephew that if he's interested in marriage at 30 he needs to be targeting an early 20s woman. Not long after that the good ones get scooped up.
This I agree with and I never said anything about not committing to that or that I was against living together. My best friend from high school lived with his girlfriend for 20 years and they were one of the happiest couples I've ever known.
I think in the 70s it was around 40% for black families and 5% for white families. White families now eclipse 1970s black families. It's been awhile since I read about that but that's ball park accurate.
MrMagic saysSee, that's a big part of the issue, if you go INTO a relationship thinking about family law and divorce, you're already setting yourself up for failure.
Only a moron wouldn't be thinking about that in today's anti-male 3rd wave feminist climate.
Maybe it's time to try Christian Mingle?
https://www.christianmingle.com/en-us
These days though you're marrying the government. Fuck that.
I can see for myself that the guys I know are not getting married. They are well aware that feminists have turned it from the traditional bad deal for men into a godawful scam enforced by the government.
Different world vs. the one you married into eh? This trend is because Daddy is the state. If it were otherwise it wouldn't be happening.
I see that in my oldest son's marriage. They lived together for like 5 years, with the "my money" - "your money" - "our money" system. When they finally got married, that mentality carried over. It now causes issues in their relationship when talking about expenses for the kids, the house, cars, etc.
Leftism is spreading though. I couldn't believe how many Beto stickers I saw in San Antonio over the holidays.
Probably going to retire in Costa Rica. They're conservative and the state doesn't mess with people. It's the closest thing I know of to what the US used to be.
But, in reality, that chart isn't because of the "daddy State", but because moral values, responsibility, honesty and things like that have left the country. Committment to anything doesn't exist anymore: jobs, kids, relationships, families, etc. Hardly anyone follows through with promises.
It's easy to blame the "Daddy State" instead of looking into the mirror and seeing the real problem.
He might not have a say in the matter.
That's pretty much what everyone I've dated said they wanted over the past 20 years.
Rin was always right. Why fuck a wife when it's cheaper to fuck a whore.
Probably going to retire in Costa Rica.
My expat friend in CR tells me that not only does the food suck, it is also expensive. They live on Gallo Pinto (beans and rice) and a dish called casado.
Since I have 1. no children 2. no ex wife 3. no financial obligations to 1&2, I am seen as more desirable than average for my age group.
I almost got the impression that Mrmagic is calling me a "failed loser"?
I don't feel like one at all. In fact, it's a funny feeling; a few people have gossiped to others about me and I have "viral marketing".
Since I have 1. no children 2. no ex wife 3. no financial obligations to 1&2, I am seen as more desirable than average for my age group.
Of course if I met someone who was a lot of fun to be with and was good company I would not mind a long term arrangement.
It’s doubly unfortunate because the only women you’ll be able to love long term are going to be smart women. And not only are they rare, they’re hard to keep. Smart women are prone to calling you out on your bullshit. They’re going to disagree with you. They’re going to get pissed with you. They can’t help it. Their evolutionary perogatives digress from your own.
But if you can take it, smart women will give you unrivaled companionship, uncommonly smart children, and financial rewards instead of costing you money.
I’m married to one. It ain’t been easy, but it’s been worth it!
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Watch the video if you’re interested in these issues. I’m interested to see what @Rin thinks as well.
www.youtube.com/embed/rlvMAS_20K4