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He might not have a say in the matter.
That's pretty much what everyone I've dated said they wanted over the past 20 years.
Rin was always right. Why fuck a wife when it's cheaper to fuck a whore.
Probably going to retire in Costa Rica.
My expat friend in CR tells me that not only does the food suck, it is also expensive. They live on Gallo Pinto (beans and rice) and a dish called casado.
Since I have 1. no children 2. no ex wife 3. no financial obligations to 1&2, I am seen as more desirable than average for my age group.
I almost got the impression that Mrmagic is calling me a "failed loser"?
I don't feel like one at all. In fact, it's a funny feeling; a few people have gossiped to others about me and I have "viral marketing".
Since I have 1. no children 2. no ex wife 3. no financial obligations to 1&2, I am seen as more desirable than average for my age group.
Of course if I met someone who was a lot of fun to be with and was good company I would not mind a long term arrangement.
It’s doubly unfortunate because the only women you’ll be able to love long term are going to be smart women. And not only are they rare, they’re hard to keep. Smart women are prone to calling you out on your bullshit. They’re going to disagree with you. They’re going to get pissed with you. They can’t help it. Their evolutionary perogatives digress from your own.
But if you can take it, smart women will give you unrivaled companionship, uncommonly smart children, and financial rewards instead of costing you money.
I’m married to one. It ain’t been easy, but it’s been worth it!
Got the idea from my pilot cousin who flies there a lot. Retirement is a long way off but if this is still true then I will have to make other plans!
I could go on but really if you have found someone who submits to your will and screws you upon demand, you are lucky.
Christian Mingles.... I bet you'd have better results. It certainly couldn't be worse.
He still loves her, but he is pussy whipped and has Stockholm Syndrome.
didn't because of money; just in the last two years did some find out I had it. What was universal was that they could not manage theirs with a few exceptions.
Mrmagic won the female
I've noticed guys like that with the gift of gab do a pretty good job getting good women. I think part of the reason though is it's a bit of a female trait.
Some women never grow out of looking for sugar daddy all their life, while offering nothing in return.
all about the lack of aging, the "package" that you're carrying, and your checkbook.
Furthermore when you picked your wife she either wasn't allowed to own a credit card or had only been granted that right recently.
just_dregalicious saysFurthermore when you picked your wife she either wasn't allowed to own a credit card or had only been granted that right recently.
See, this is why you guys are having the "success" that you're having with women, you just don't get it. You treat woman like second class citizens.
My wife and I are equals in everything we do, there's no "your money, my money, our money" - we combine what we have from day one, it's only "our money". There were years that I made more money than her, there were years when she made more than me. It didn't matter, it all went into one pot, and we planned our budget, spending, and savings just based on one pool of income. It's a equal partnership, no matter what.
This is why you guys keep failing. You're putting up barriers and walls early in a relationship, and that undertone carries through everything you do with them. Then you wond...
You've got it half right. The fact is, 50% of all marriages fail. It IS somewhat of a crapshoot. You can NEVER tell what is in someone else's heart.
I agree that society is best with marriages such as yours and I root for couples like you every day. I hope you have many many many like minded children.
WineHorror1 saysI agree that society is best with marriages such as yours and I root for couples like you every day. I hope you have many many many like minded children.
We have 3 kids, two are married and have their own kids. So far, both relationships are solid. Our third kid is still single and working up the career ladder and he's searching for a woman. Our kids aren't the type to complain about their bosses or work, or complain that a task is too hard. They just jump in and "git er done". I believe they learned that from us. Kids are a victim of their environment. If the parents are losers and serial divorcees, or alcoholics, or druggies, or lazy, etc. the odds are, they will be too.
Here's the deal. Marriage is TOUGH work, and probably the toughest job anyone can have (raising kids is second tough). Marriage has tons of ups and downs, highs and lows, and if the two people haven't s...
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Watch the video if you’re interested in these issues. I’m interested to see what @Rin thinks as well.
www.youtube.com/embed/rlvMAS_20K4