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WineHorror1 saysI agree that society is best with marriages such as yours and I root for couples like you every day. I hope you have many many many like minded children.
We have 3 kids, two are married and have their own kids. So far, both relationships are solid. Our third kid is still single and working up the career ladder and he's searching for a woman. Our kids aren't the type to complain about their bosses or work, or complain that a task is too hard. They just jump in and "git er done". I believe they learned that from us. Kids are a victim of their environment. If the parents are losers and serial divorcees, or alcoholics, or druggies, or lazy, etc. the odds are, they will be too.
Here's the deal. Marriage is TOUGH work, and probably the toughest job anyone can have (raising kids is second tough). Marriage has tons of ups and downs, highs and lows, and if the two people haven't s...
During my dating years, I was not seriously interested in divorcees or women with kids.
I would also avoid getting serious with any woman who was irresponsible with money, as I figured she would drag me down into poverty with her.
Until then, I was in the Air Force and dumped any girl I was dating when I got transferred).
Joke time!
What’s the most fattening food in the world?
(Feel free to insert punchline)
if you don't want kids, don't get married..
As it should be. If you impregnate a woman you should support the kid. If you do not want that, then wear a condom. Ans if the girl starts talking about maybe having a kid, put a padlock on your zipper and stop dating her.
krc saysif you don't want kids, don't get married..
Or just don't have kids. It's easy enough to do.
society has given women more power by saying that even outside of marriage if she gets pregnant the man has to support her and the child
As it should be. If you impregnate a woman you should support the kid. If you do not want that, then wear a condom. Ans if the girl starts talking about maybe having a kid, put a padlock on your zipper and stop dating her.
That's the part I don't get. Guys want to blame the woman for entrapment. Doesn't it take two to tango?
My wife and I argue. We disagree. We work to make it work. We've talked and both of us have admitted there were times we wanted to walk away. But neither of us are quitters and neither of us believe in the 'happily ever after myth'. Marriage takes effort.
My skeptical mind says that people are too lazy make the effort and work for their marital happiness.
You're not skeptical, that's the truth. That's where the real pussies are, too lazy to make it happen. They rather whine and complain that it's the woman's fault.
In most of the marriages I have seen the man submitted to the woman. Laws and society force him to. This is not the natural state of humans but today the converse is the rule.
Notice the vitriol towards me in some posts above? I hear the loud crack of the pussy whip and can read the envy between the lines.
I am not seeking a "partner" in life; I'm the leader and she either gets with the program or not. Who in hell thinks they will find anyone equal enough to them to be a "partner" anyway?
I'm going to pick my battles carefully; I am not entering into an arrangement where it's me against the govt., society and an angry female if things don't go her way.
Some of us are not interested in the struggle to "make something work".
But if you are a modern equalist, then they should share the financial burden.
The average female is so quaintly misinformed and clueless yet loves to lecture others, while regaling me with idiotic drama events with her friends.
This. Most women are boring. Even the smart ones will go on and on about stupid girl drama they encounter.
and was trying to shame me for my dating profile (I was 26 and said I’d be open to dating 18-30) on the first date. Like i was some kind of pedophile for being open to dating an 18 year old.
and you think guys are better?
So I come to Patnet to have adult conversation with people of higher intellect and more varied interests.
Life is sometimes strange; I feel comfortable and relaxed in her company even though never thought I could
Life is sometimes strange; I feel comfortable and relaxed in her company even though never thought I could.
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Watch the video if you’re interested in these issues. I’m interested to see what @Rin thinks as well.
www.youtube.com/embed/rlvMAS_20K4