patrick.net

They just want women for sex, not legal servitude.

The notion that men are getting a less-than-fair shake is one held by many, including women. Helen Smith, a forensic psychologist, libertarian/conservative blogger and author of Men on Strike, Why Men Are Boycotting Marriage, Fatherhood, and the American Dream — and Why It Matters, writes in her book’s introduction, “I used to consider myself a feminist but mistakenly thought feminism meant equality between the sexes. In today’s culture, it means female privilege, and I believe discrimination against men is every bit as bad as discrimination against women. Now men are the ones in need of justice and focus.”

One place Smith — and many, many, many others — points to as evidence is family court. ... Nearly all the attorneys (94 percent of the men and 84 percent of the women) felt that all judges exhibited prejudice against fathers at least some of the time.

When concerns over unfair favoritism like this are perceived to be falling on deaf ears, according to Smith, “people tune out and start to do their own thing.”

It is clearly true that concerns over unfair favoritism are falling on deaf ears, and that we cannot trust universities, HR departments, or even the government to treat men fairly anymore.

Men are the new niggers.

Rin-Wah Law!

I saw and article about 'sex supply', that men think that marriage means a steady sex supply. The article noted that after women had children, that a large percentage just 'retired' from sex and didn't even touch their husbands any more, but still became rage machines if there were any suggestion that he was being unfaithful and did not continue to support them financially. The men were angry that they had to become 'sex beggars' if they wanted any at all or that the wife actually believed that their husbands should happily become sexless monks after the wife's agenda had been fulfilled.

Interesting read.

The one below it is a fat SJW "Leftist Prepper" from the SFBA which was a hoot.

Apparently she thinks a band aid and topical ointment supply are the keys to surviving mass unrest when the White Supremacist Dictatorship takes over.

I know of a marriage where the wife 1. is nice 2. works and cooks 3. has not gotten chubby 4. shows her husband respect.

Let me qualify this statement; I know of ONE marriage like this.

Most men are observant enough to see what is around them; men who have more money or fame or appear on track to one of those can attract females and have no need to make a legal agreement with the govt. and a frivolous female which marriage is.

"Why buy the cow when you get the milk for free?"

What bargaining power does the man have after marriage? A lot less than if his female companion was concerned with other females stealing him.

Women are taught they are the prize, but it's actually (financially stable) men who are.

Rin Wah Law is definitely going mainstream!

This thread brings me a smile!

I'm going to enjoy some Oysters ...



Have a Martini ...



And listen to some Metallica ...

www.youtube.com/embed/Qq9PxuAsiR4

clambo says

I know of a marriage where the wife 1. is nice 2. works and cooks 3. has not gotten chubby 4. shows her husband respect.

Let me qualify this statement; I know of ONE marriage like this.

You just described my marriage.

clambo says

What bargaining power does the man have after marriage?

And that's why so many marriages fail. If you need "bargaining power" in a relationship, then it's already doomed to fail. Why does it have to be a competition?

clambo says

Women are taught they are the prize,

If these are the women you're hanging out with, good luck finding a permanent mate. It sounds like it's more of a high school track competition instead of long term relationship material.

clambo says

Most men are observant enough to see what is around them;

I disagree. Too many men think with the wrong head when starting relationships, and end up not being observant, and make bad choices.

I'm glad Mrmagic, has found a pearl among the female oyster population.

Women think they are the prize because if they are hot many men hit on them every day. I was hanging around my female friend's pretty sister and the guys working at the Habit asked me if they could ask for her number, and the guy at Dunkin donuts slipped his number and a note into the bag with our donuts another time. She later told me this happens to her all of the time.

Yet, she had a hard time meeting men because she worked at a grammar school and her coworkers were 1. women 2. gay men. She hung around little kids most of the time.

Her sister was very jealous of her hanging around me because they both realized that I also was a "prize". It didn't occur to me until a little bit later.

I see random hot females here and there in all kinds of places and jobs; some towns are much better than others of course. If you live in North Bend, Oregon, you won't see any girls and you can't find one. In my location in S. Florida they are all around you.

There are lots of cute females out there but maybe not a million guys who 1. have no health problems 2. no addictions 3. not overweight 4. financially secure 5. educated 6. no alimony payments nor child support payments.

For whatever reason I have met a pretty high number of females in 4 years here and the divorced ones all asked me rather soon if I were interested in marriage. They were not the youngsters so they wanted a stability of a new marriage. I clearly saw in their case who was the "prize"; I was because I had the dough.

It's called the battle of the sexes for a reason.

clambo says

It's called the battle of the sexes for a reason

Yup, Mr Magic's experience was very common decades ago, now it is rare as a unicorn. At least from what I see around me. I think the environment affects the behavior of any species and so too the divorce/alimony/excessive child support/fake rape/metoo farce under threat of jail has started to affect men.

My friend is a case in point. Worker mule , in his late 50s has been married to the same woman for 25 years, has two small kids-just barely in the teens. His wife and him started at the same job level-she in the government. When she got pregnant witht he first one she quit-despite the excellent benefits and pension-he begged her not to -but would not listen. Slwoly she morphed into this hideous walrus like figure. Her ugliness on the outside matched the ugliness on the inside. She throws temper tanstrums waves her arms and screams-it is a sight to see all those rolls wave when she gets agitated. For some strange reason she dresses in short shorts and to look at those fat legs -dear lord.

He finally lost his job. He is not looking for another. I asked him-he said he is tired of life, does not want to keep getting yelled at the office and at home and thinks the layoff is a great gift that will help him get a divorce from the tub of lard. She yells and berates him and any of his friends who come by and so nobody goes over anymore. he has had it and we all keep thinking of the kids-but he is like-she is an adult too-maybe elt her take care of the kids. He already had mild depression-so now wants to go on disability if he manages to qualify, go live with his aged parents who are declining in health in Missouri-which is where he is from. He has already given up on custody fights-because he knows she will drum up every known abuse story in the world.

Sad all the way around. Being in IL, the house is worth some-but if you don't pay the humongouse property axes every year-you are screwed.


I think this culture where the woman is always right has really affected a lot of men. Every married man I know is complaining-good looking ones, fat ones, rich ones, poor ones. The alw/environment has gotten to one extreme. If a man could just walk away and be done with it-with say basic transitory allowance and child support is based on what goes to child and if mom can't afford-then stays with dad-our society would be much much better and stronger.

Patrick says

It is clearly true that concerns over unfair favoritism are falling on deaf ears, and that we cannot trust universities, HR departments, or even the government to treat men fairly anymore.

Men are the new niggers.

You are among friends.

clambo says

Women are taught they are the prize, but it's actually (financially stable) men who are.

Truer words have never been spoken. All one has to do is pay attention to who the star is during any wedding. Can we say narcissistic behavior?

I won't be happy until I get a Telekinetic Seed Ray that impregnates women remotely by mind control alone. I'll be able to see them from a distance in a thong and, oops, pregnant!

Ceffer says

I won't be happy until I get a Telekinetic Seed Ray that impregnates women remotely by mind control alone. I'll be able to see them from a distance in a thong and, oops, pregnant!

Then some women would have a "seed extractor" ray to aim at you, steal some sperm and "Boom" - child support from you.

HeadSet says

Then some women would have a "seed extractor" ray to aim at you, steal some sperm and "Boom" - child support from you.

Ha, Ha! Won't work, my seed are encrypted.

Ceffer says

HeadSet says

Then some women would have a "seed extractor" ray to aim at you, steal some sperm and "Boom" - child support from you.

Ha, Ha! Won't work, my seed are encrypted.

Gives a new meaning now for when a lady asks you for your "private key"

In the old days they may have done it right; "I divorce you, I divorce you, I divorce you." Adios amigo.

The gold chains etc around her neck represented her "severance pay" or "lump sum alimony" and off she went.

In other cultures fathers paid a dowry to the man to marry his daughter and take her off his hands.

I infrequently see a girl who is younger than I am and she asked me to help fix her car, replace a flat tire, etc. Now after a couple of years she is working at a better job for better pay but she still thinks of me as a great potential provider. She's not asked me for "help" for anything major for half of a year.

I actually think my connection to her in this way may outlast her other relationships because sometimes she confesses she dislikes dating a guy who "does nothing for me." She knows she's hot and wants guys to at least put something on the table. She is not seeking riches, just a guy who would notice her flat tire or empty gas tank or blown out sneakers and want to do something about it.

It's actually pretty interesting; she's pretty and yet guys her age are stubborn and not caving in which is admirable on their part I guess.

I didn't mind fixing her car if she used it to come visit me and I didn't mind taking her to buy some clothes at Marshalls or other inexpensive store because she has never requested to go eat at The Woods or other expensive joint. I much prefer paying for something tangible to something that will flush down a toilet the next day anyway.

She sees me as something of a prize. She has an older sister who provides for a loser boyfriend and she's amazed that her sister settles to hang around a guy who is so broke.

She also told me that she appreciates how I solve problems for her and know what she should do because evidently nobody else cared to tell her or they don't know.

Brings back again the William S. Burroughs adage: "Beware of the whore who says she doesn't want money. It means she wants MORE money, a LOT more!"

It's like the spider and the fly tango, who is honey trapping who, and who finally gets done. Odds are on the spider.

Hahaha

SJW's have gotten reddit's The Red Pill quarantined. Just went there to check it out.

"Omurgawd I can't believe redpill, ugh."
"It's cute that you think you can censor the internet."

Let them know they can always post on patrick.net!

Unless they get to my ISP as well, but I can move the site pretty quickly.

clambo says

she's amazed that her sister settles to hang around a guy who is so broke

@clambo The guy is probably an asshole, which is exactly why the sister loves him. The Red Pill explains this kind of behavior in women very clearly, and this is why feminists are trying to have it banned. They really don't want you to know their algorithm, because that's not in their interest for men to know, but it's pretty simple once you get it.

Bonus: the female algorithm follows exactly as predicted from evolutionary biology and what it took for women to reproduce. Theory and reality fit perfectly.

Aw, no more pick up tips for promiscuous bar hopping? How does that work again? Sex devalues women, so they have to be paid, but it upgrades men, so they owe and owe?