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PeopleUnited says

For wisdom will enter your heart,

I have come to believe that wisdom is knowing/understanding the correct algorithm to employ against a difficult situation. Past experience may inform your decision and help you eliminate choices, but choosing the right approach may not be intuitive. We make choices every day, always with incomplete knowledge, and these choices have profound effects on our lives and success. Knowing the best way to arrive at these choices is the foundation of wisdom, and it is better than mere intelligence. Intelligence is the ability to comprehend complex logic trees and operations. But these things are able to be easily done with a computer and computers are lousy at making their way through an unknown situation. Only wisdom can inform your choices as you navigate an unknown path. It is truly priceless, and improves with age in most people.

I second BayArea; I was 55 and was still doing OK in this department but I was more physically active than many maybe.

After 60 things change, but it isn't a problem, rather I don't feel as interested in a tryst at 2am. I now have a time preference but that's not a serious issue.

After crazed bonobo sex and howling, perspiring orgasms, she is supposed to get knocked up and your dick is supposed to fall off so that you can become a gelded row tilling mule servant to her unholy spawn.

You have upset the natural order, flung her off successfully, and become wealthy, wooly and wise to the female venus fly trap encumbrance. Nature is now playing final destination catch up! Be afraid, very afraid!

Quigley says

PeopleUnited says

For wisdom will enter your heart,

I have come to believe that wisdom is knowing/understanding the correct algorithm to employ against a difficult situation. Past experience may inform your decision and help you eliminate choices, but choosing the right approach may not be intuitive. We make choices every day, always with incomplete knowledge, and these choices have profound effects on our lives and success. Knowing the best way to arrive at these choices is the foundation of wisdom, and it is better than mere intelligence. Intelligence is the ability to comprehend complex logic trees and operations. But these things are able to be easily done with a computer and computers are lousy at making their way through an unknown situation. Only wisdom can inform your choices as you navigate an unknown path. It is truly priceless, and improves with age in most people.

If by "correct algorithm" you mean the choice to acknowledge and respect your creator (the master mathematician) then I applaud your wisdom.

Proverbs 9:10 10 The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom,
and knowledge of the Holy One is understanding.

@Quigly,

Very wise words above.

Your body is slowing down but you can reverse it. That’s the beauty. As I said above, it took years, if not decades, to accumulate the fat in our arteries, which slows our system down. If we can reverse a good chunk of it in 6-12 months, it’s a great deal IMO.

What’s the point of making all the money but doesn’t have the health to enjoy it? The sex can be great again. It will get to the point where you want it every night like when you’re young. My wife thought I had a mistress. ?

It takes time, effort and commitment. Hire a personal trainer for twice a week. At $50-$60/hour, that’s only $400-$500/mo. How much does your health worth? Do it for 6 months and watch the results. Of course, you have to put in the efforts the other 3-4 days out of the week to make it count. I guarantee it will worth the effort.

Learn about HIIT and/or work out in drop sets. This way, you keep going almost constantly and keep your heart rate high. Make every workout day count.

Diet is essential to get optimal results. However, you get to decide the pace. You don’t have to go extreme. Like anything in life, you get back what you put into it.

The guys at the tennis court asked for my advice, but they don’t take it when I share. I gave the same advice to my biz partner, but he doesn’t listen. He would prefer playing golf. We all make our choices and live with the consequences.

Good luck.

Not only is diet essential, it makes up the majority of the equation.

Ever heard the saying, “you can’t outrun a bad diet”

I also saw a guy with a shirt that said, “nothing tastes as good as skinny feels” lol. He was a skinny guy.

I just noticed that some asshole ignored me lol. Have I ever said anything worth an ignore, or can someone not stand an opinion that differs from theirs? ?

You asked, in the subject header: Excessive Objectification of Women. To the point of feeling awkward not having a Babe as a Dining Companion.

Anyone worth worrying about, doesn't Give A Sh*t who your dining companion is or what s/he looks like.

psshaw try being still being married and longing for all of that.

Great rabid sex is for Strangers. Never forget that. You don't have toe curling sex with someone you're familiar with. It's just one of God's many cruel jokes.

Everything that E-Man said, except: Get on a HIGH PROTEIN diet. Meat makes you jiggle like a stoat, Pilot. 2/3rd Vegetables for all the trace shit we barely understand other than we know it's good for you. When chosing between Carbs (not Fiber, but Sugar) and Fat, prefer the Fat. Carbs are largely empty calories. The only high Carb items with useful nutrients beyond the Sugar Calories is Fruit.

Bread and Pasta makes you limp as a noodle. Most middle aged fatsos eat Spaghetti, Pizza, Fries, Onion Rings, Chips, Cookies, Cake, and Bagels.

Tenpoundbass says

Great rabid sex is for Strangers. Never forget that. You don't have toe curling sex with someone you're familiar with. It's just one of God's many cruel jokes.

YUP. After you've been married for a year or so, the only super hot sex you're ever going to have is if you swing or bring in Guest Workers.

Tenpoundbass says

psshaw try being still being married and longing for all of that.

Great rabid sex is for Strangers. Never forget that. You don't have toe curling sex with someone you're familiar with. It's just one of God's many cruel jokes.

I just tell my wife she is like my favorite old pair of shoes, even though they are loose and I don't even tie the laces anymore I still like to slide them on and wear them every day.

Bareback is better all day than wearing a condom and worrying about some std or something.

I would rather have a familiar family and all that goes with it, than the once in a while great sex. That you have to spend a fortune of energy and resources to get. Not to mention the bad work performance the next day due to the hang over and lack of sleep that came with chasing it down.

Rin's philosophy would work great for an out of town working husband. Never find a girl friend on the side, it's not worth it.
The drama and bullshit and luggage that all of that entails. I've never been bothered to have a girl on the side and never will.
I would love to hit ho-house but I'm too chicken shit I would get busted.

I was toying with the possibility of finding a good Asian Rub and Tug, but after Kraft got busted in that sting operation. That option is off the table.

Rin says

Some 8 years ago, I'd broken up with this Canadian whack job, who looked almost like Alanis Morissette.

So she didn't have any makeup and couldn't walk in heels....nice...

HonkpilledMaster says

YUP. After you've been married for a year or so, the only super hot sex you're ever going to have is if you swing or bring in Guest Workers.

They'll do it for minimum wage?

So the truth is the Rin simply likes to fuck!

Isn't that much more meaningful than Al Gore's "An Inconvenient Truth"?

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BlueSardine says

If that ain't the gayest comment since maddow touted her aftershave...

Ah, the gaydar continues ...

Rin says

So the truth is the Rin simply likes to fuck!

Isn't that much more meaningful than Al Gore's "An Inconvenient Truth"?

You’re not the only one who likes to fuck. What’s the point Rin?

It seems like you’re missing a piece of the puzzle in your life. Spend sometime and figure it out rather than keep running around paying for stuff to buy yourself some short-term happiness. Hope you figure it out soon.

HonkpilledMaster says

Everything that E-Man said, except: Get on a HIGH PROTEIN diet. Meat makes you jiggle like a stoat, Pilot. 2/3rd Vegetables for all the trace shit we barely understand other than we know it's good for you. When chosing between Carbs (not Fiber, but Sugar) and Fat, prefer the Fat. Carbs are largely empty calories. The only high Carb items with useful nutrients beyond the Sugar Calories is Fruit.

Bread and Pasta makes you limp as a noodle. Most middle aged fatsos eat Spaghetti, Pizza, Fries, Onion Rings, Chips, Cookies, Cake, and Bagels.

Tenpoundbass says

Great rabid sex is for Strangers. Never forget that. You don't have toe curling sex with someone you're familiar with. It's just one of God's many cruel jokes.

YUP. After you've been married for a year or so, the only super hot sex you're ever going to have is if you swing or bring in Guest Workers.

Well, the truth is my home country food has too much carbs and not enough protein. I just have to reduce my carbs portion while increasing my carbs intake. Also, reducing the fat intake is another key to getting lean and shed body fat.

The main goal is to get Rin to incorporate exercise as part of his daily routine. Then the diet comes next when he starts to see some results.

I exercise twice a day. An hour in the morning in the gym and an hour in the afternoon playing tennis. I get cranky when I don’t get my morning exercise. I’m a 4.5 USTA ranked tennis player, and I’d rather miss tennis than going to the gym. It becomes a lifestyle choice while it doesn’t cost much money. We only have one body in this life. I do what I can to take care of it while looking good too.

E-man says

You’re not the only one who likes to fuck. What’s the point Rin?

Actually no, a lot of ppl think it's about 'romantic relationships', you know the ones which supposedly last.

E-man says

The main goal is to get Rin to incorporate exercise as part of his daily routine. Then the diet comes next when he starts to see some results.

I do exercise regularly, a mix of martial arts, cardio, weight lifting, etc. It's just that I can't get into the mental state which allowed my Canuck Ex and I go on that marathon banging marathon up in New Hampshire.

Sure thing fella...
Rin says

BlueSardine says

If that ain't the gayest comment since maddow touted her aftershave...

Ah, the gaydar continues ...

I would find it extremely difficult to feel in the mood in a cold dreary climate like the Northeast USA, except in the summer of course.

I really think a warm climate keeps the blood flowing and makes everyone more in the mood.

It's cold and damp still now in N. California and the combination of chubby feminist girls and cold is like a cold shower for me.

Of course in Boston 1. it's colder 2. girls are fatter on average.

Rin says

Without getting hooked on opioids, is there a solution for that?

Stop being a pussy.

Problem solved

FYI, I really miss ejaculating in her mouth ...



It felt so good!

Count your blessings. In the insect world, she would have been chewing your head off while you were having your orgasms.

Now, after they bag you for your male contribution and 'eternal' commitment, they chew your head off in court.

Rin. The precepts are the main things. The precept to think about is why place so much value on sex?

It doesn’t lead to a child being born, which is the main purpose.

Is sex the only element of a relationship in your eyes and so without it you feel disconnected from the world? Look here. The algorithm for dealing with this well and without the superficial answer of banging better again is to look at why bang and what am I not doing or avoiding by keeping a laser focus on banging?

Uncomfortabletruther says

and so without it you feel disconnected from the world?

Hold ... where did you make this leap?

Disconnection from the world means having no friends and associates out there. I have plenty of that.

And if you've been keeping up on my threads

http://patrick.net/post/1325863/2019-07-17-great-news-rin-bumped-into-an-old-acquaintance-at-the-shopping-center

"I haven't seen this fella for a decade and since then, he has been in a custody battle with his whack job ex-wife, since she was doped up on prescription meds (as well as illegal ones) and was clearly a danger to the kids.

Anyways, the decision to have full custody was only granted a year ago and now, she's stalking him online.

The last time I'd seen him, he was raving about his happy marriage & starting a new family. Oh well, I guess I'll have to be content simply banging hoes in Montreal and poking sex robots while in Boston."

So yeah, in contrast to the above drama, I prefer to focus on banging some more.

Rin says

And if you've been keeping up on my threads

A toxic relationship is a both more likely and larger life risk for a man.

If banging hoes keeps you happy, bang away buddy

CBOEtrader says

Rin says

And if you've been keeping up on my threads

A toxic relationship is a both more likely and larger life risk for a man.

If banging hoes keeps you happy, bang away buddy

Agreed.

georgeliberte says

Nowadays. they look like this ...

My hands will be on her boobs when I'm not cooking.

CBOEtrader says

A toxic relationship is a both more likely and larger life risk for a man.

Realize, someone named UncomfortableTruther, just created an account today on PatNet, to espouse some Puritanical motion. And while that's not trolling per se, he doesn't have a valid idea outside of some religious innuendo.

georgeliberte says

It's software, not hardware. Just go for the manufacturer's reset.

Check out patrice o neal wisdom on youtube. He has some great wisdom.

Get dog or something.

Dopamine at 18 is amazing. Bj at 18 is amazing, Same blowjob in 40s is mediocre.

I still miss few girlfriends from my 20s , that dopamine release is amazing makes you fall in love.

Yes covered never feels as good as natural. Even Bill Gates looking for condom that feels normal, not sure why, he has wife for long time :)

Uh oh Rin, you ruined her: https://www.foxnews.com/entertainment/alanis-morissette-sexual-harassment-music-industry

Strange. Sex is like a magic wand that young women wave to get whatever they want. As the wand loses its powers as they age, there is point when the batteries don't work any more, the woman waves the wand bitterly, and decide they never got enough while it was working, and suddenly the magic wand becomes harassment with a whole new set of batteries.