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Under no circumstances allow her to see a shrink or a psychologist nor social worker nor any doctor.
almost 29000 detransioners on reddit---- many of them had mental issues and were pushed by therapists, doctors and educators
https://www.reddit.com/r/detrans/?source=patrick.net
We have friends whose daughter also caught that particular mental illness.
I thought my generation (millennials) was fucked up until it got worse and worse.
I'm just a "homophobe" because I disagree with your world view on gender and sexuality
Is it like this in other parts of the country?
Look I'd your 30 something, fine, you do you. But a teenager? Or even a 20 something? They are still trying to figure out who they are, and for a range of reasons, kids these days feel compelled to choose a tribe.. that is to say a gender identity, complete with its own language (pronouns) and flag... its crazy. And the "in" thing to do right now. I try to come from a place of love and understanding, but it's still an uphill battle to point put the patent absurdity of some of it... I'm just a "homophobe" because I disagree with your world view on gender and sexuality... or so I've been told.
GreaterNYCDude saysHas liberalism moved so far to the left that almost anything goes?
Yes, it has.
Recessions must clean up some of the gender bs created out of free time and money.
Recessions must clean up some of the gender bs created out of free time and money.
F*** everyone who let this happen.“
F*** everyone who let this happen.“
Shaman says
F*** everyone who let this happen.“
Says the man who would have sued anyone trying to stop him from getting his "gender affirming care."
Trans explosion. I wish.
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She had never heard of trans, and had no signs of gender dysphoria, until she was moved to a new, cool trans-friendly school by her unsuspecting, politically liberal parents. There she met a group of geeky (or dare I say nerdy?), smart, slightly (but not very) gender nonconforming, artsy kids. As I understand it, they all discovered “trans” together. The old “cis” friends were swiftly discarded in favour of this exciting new peer group.
Exploring “trans stuff” online with friends is a source of great interest and excitement—a real social event. What’s not to love about 245 gender identities, complete with their own unique flags? Then there are those cool neo-pronouns. Forcing your out-of-touch old parents to refer to you as “ze” or “ey” (how do you pronounce that again??) in the name of “inclusivity” is just too delicious to resist. The manga, the cute avatars in computer games, the blue or pink hair—all part of the fun as well. Mocking the outgroup (in this case so-called “cis” people in general and the dreaded TERFs in particular) is also good for a laugh—especially if they happen to be your parents as well.
There is even a special vocabulary with lots of new terms—deadnaming, misgendering, sex assigned at birth, and much more. If these concepts need to be explained to your uncool parents (accompanied by eye rolls of course), so much the better.
Bonding with friends, searching for their identity and place in life, working out their sexuality, separating from family—these are all normal developmental tasks for teens. For many, youth subcultures can be a natural part of that. Some are harmless. Some, like drug use and extreme dieting, not so much. But in the case of the latter, sensible adults usually intervene to help steer the young people in the right direction. Not in the case of trans. Here we have adults steering kids down a dangerous path, which involves permanent, life altering drugs and surgeries for which there is no good evidence base.
For many of these kids, LGBTQ+ is a youth subculture. It really is as simple as that. Recent surveys have been identifying skyrocketing rates of “trans” or “queer” identification in young people. One found that an astonishing 39% of young adults in the US aged between 18-24 identified with the label LGBT—the figure for teens <18 may well be even higher. Of course this figure includes gay and lesbian people as well as those identifying as trans. Another poll, which looked only at gender, found that nearly 10% of US high schoolers identified as “gender diverse”. Yet another survey gives a lower figure of 1.8%. Whichever figure is correct, this is a huge explosion in numbers over a very short period of time. As endocrinologist Dr Will Malone asks; “How do we reconcile these numbers with 2013 data reporting the prevalence of adult gender dysphoria to be a rare 2-14 in 100,000?”
Social contagion and the development of a new youth subculture, that’s how.
Clinicians are speaking out in increasing numbers, sounding the alarm about the viral spread of trans identification. As far back as 2019, psychiatrists had begun to sound the alarm. Dr Lisa Littman’s much maligned study, published in 2018, documented parent reports of the phenomenon. Even gender clinicians are now beginning to become alarmed and are speaking out about the epidemic of trans identification among youth.
Canadian sexologist Debra Soh has bluntly (but accurately in my view) opined that the increase in LGB identification among youth is at least partly due to trendiness. To be fair, for kids who were previously struggling to fit in, suddenly being part of the latest trend must be intoxicating.
https://pitt.substack.com/p/trans-a-dangerous-youth-subculture?r=hi01k&s=r&source=patrick.net