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Reasons why people want to believe in God.


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2012 Oct 22, 10:35am   59,129 views  143 comments

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I'm teaching a religion class in a Sunday school.

Last Sunday I tried to give my pupils (10-12 y.o)an assignment to find out why some people want to believe in God. I asked them to write about it from both perspective: of those who think they do believe and those who think they don't.

Their reaction was:

--but how will we find out?
me--Ask your friends.
--Where?
me--Ask other kids at your school, i'm sure you'll find some atheist there.
They shouting (5 or six at once)
--IT IS FORBIDDEN TO TALK ABOUT RELIGION IN SCHOOL!!!!

The rest of the conversation is not very important, but it boils down to the fact that there is no way to openly talk about this in American society.

So, I want to ask you here to tell what are possible reasons people want to believe in God. Any opinion would be very valuable. Religious atheists are more than welcome!

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33   curious2   2012 Oct 23, 11:46am  

upisdown says

Anybody have an answer why the believers drop off when IQ levels go up?

The inverse correlation between intelligence and religiosity points to another reason, i.e. if you feel a need to understand something about the world, but you aren't willing or able to figure it out, it's much easier just to say "God did it." Why are there mountains and valleys? Genesis tells us these are God's footprints, which is weird because Genesis also tells us man was created in God's image and the valley's don't look like the footprints of any man I've ever met. Nevermind, on to the next answer, why do earthquakes/lightning/other events happen? All same answer. It's much easier to believe everything results from one benevolent dictator than to figure out a seemingly endless series of interacting but partially independent forces and causal connections.

34   Dan8267   2012 Oct 23, 12:15pm  

I feel sorry for the person who "disliked" the Mel Brooks video.

35   marcus   2012 Oct 23, 2:01pm  

CaptainShuddup says

Both sides of the argument are over baring Zealots in their own right.

BOth sides of what argument ?

Science is science and has little or nothing to do with spiritual beliefs or religion.

36   Dan8267   2012 Oct 23, 2:08pm  

marcus says

Science is science and has little or nothing to do with spiritual beliefs or religion.

Other than utterly disproving them all, which is why the religious are so often against science such as evolution and the Big Bang Theory.

37   marcus   2012 Oct 23, 2:15pm  

Why do people want to believe in god ?

I used to agree with some of these reasons, especially in my adolescence.

michaelsch says

1. and 2. Because people are affraid of death; Here I would add another aspect: people do not want to agree to an absolute and final disappearance of things good and beautiful they love.

3. because of conformism;

4. because they feel they need an absolute source of the absolute morality.

Anything else?

How about: because they want a reward they think they deserve but can't get in earthly live? (A variation: because they want their enemies/neighbors punished)

And the classic anti-religious argument: because they are affraid of things they do not understand?

Now I don't see it that way at all.

It might be about programming or indoctrination in youth. But if not indoctrinated as children, many are going to be "seekers" later for reasons that are beyond explanation.

There are people who for reasons mostly other than those you list, simply believe. They just do.

IT may have to do with the way having conscious existence makes them feel. Or maybe it's just where they end up after a long period of coming to terms with the fact that they (their ego, their consciousness, their "intelligence") exist.

It isn't logical. But then it isn't easy to logically explain why you exist (not your body, but your mind - your self) people use terms such as "soul" because it honestly feels like their existence is more than simply that of an intelligent animal.

I'm not arguing that they are or they are not, more than an animal. But then again even the consciousness of an intelligent animal is an amazing thing.

This isn't the argument that it is beyond our comprehension or that believing in God is a short cut to understanding EVERYTHING.

It's about how existing feels to some people.

That's all.

38   curious2   2012 Oct 23, 3:26pm  

marcus says

it honestly feels like their existence is more than simply that of an intelligent animal.

In a word, ego. Thanks Marcus for completing the circle of the thread by bringing it back to the first word of the first comment. You are the Alpha and Omega. I should have guessed, it was all about you and your feelings, all along. Yet apparently the word ego by itself, even with a paragraph of example, was not clear enough; perhaps "self-indulgence," putting one's own feelings ahead of objective reality, "I feel that 2+2=5 so that answer must be valid." As I recall, Marcus pretends to be a math teacher; evidently, it is a species of "new math" with a lot of validation and chanting (not to be confused with old fashioned prayer, Marcus hates it when people confuse his modern chants with prayers - and remember, it's all about Marcus, because he is the Alpha and Omega).

39   HEY YOU   2012 Oct 23, 4:52pm  

Naive gullibility & the inability to think critically?

40   Tenpoundbass   2012 Oct 23, 11:27pm  

Dan8267 says

There's also been studies showing that religious tendencies are genetic.

I studied the weather this morning.
I stuck my head outside and saw it was raining.
Therefore I concluded that the Planet earth is a rain soaked drenched planet, why it must be raining all over the world.

41   marcus   2012 Oct 23, 11:56pm  

HEY YOU says

Naive gullibility & the inability to think critically?

For fundamentalism, yes.

But there are people who are very intelligent and neither naive nor gullible, who have some form of spiritual beliefs. But that belief would not likely be anything like a belief in an old dude with a beard who lives in the clouds that they have a personal relationship with.

Then again, truth be known, most Catholic Priests or Protestant ministers don't believe that either, if you really pin them down.

42   marcus   2012 Oct 24, 12:10am  

There are some people who are never going to be able to believe in something that by definition (at least for an adult and intelligent interpretation) is beyond comprehension or description.

But science is not incompatible with this. For most areas of real life endeavor, I agree with the point of view that accepts as real only what can be understood.

It's not hard to see why holding both views is difficult or impossible for some people.

43   Shaman   2012 Oct 24, 12:12am  

Captainshuddup says, "I studied the weather this morning.
I stuck my head outside and saw it was raining.
Therefore I concluded that the Planet earth is a rain soaked drenched planet, why it must be raining all over the world."

A little knowledge is a dangerous thing. Emphasis on little. When people only know a little, yet believe they see the entire picture ...

44   marcus   2012 Oct 24, 12:20am  

AS for what people REALLY want to believe, here is some interesting food for thought.

Between highly religious types versus atheist and agnostic types, which group on average would be more likely to appreciate the movie (trilogy) "The Matrix ?"

OBviously it's just highly imaginative fiction. But I'm guessing a lot of those who like it are atheists or agnostics. If you've given much thought to the movie(s), then you may understand why that's kind of interesting.

45   MisdemeanorRebel   2012 Oct 24, 12:40am  

#1. To gain a sense of identity.

Everything else is secondary.

That's why religious people target the lost and lonely. Those people are most in need of groups to join and are the easiest targets.

46   upisdown   2012 Oct 24, 1:01am  

#1. To gain a sense of identity.

That's called preying upon weak and/or vulnerable people. Any organized and beaurocratic group that does that should sound some alarms in people.

Then again, religious participation and blind adhereance to it's dogma is greatest among the lower IQ's and poorer folks(the people that can least afford it), also the false claims by religious followers of their 100% devoted participation and finacial support. There's not enough seats in the churches and most churches are running short on money, so is it lying or just exageration?

47   Dan8267   2012 Oct 24, 5:03am  

CaptainShuddup says

Dan8267 says

There's also been studies showing that religious tendencies are genetic.

I studied the weather this morning.

I stuck my head outside and saw it was raining.

Therefore I concluded that the Planet earth is a rain soaked drenched planet, why it must be raining all over the world.

And that is why you are not a scientist. It's a good thing that real scientists know how to do real science. Just because you can't do something right, doesn't mean that others can't. There are hundreds of millions of scientists making significant discoveries and performing repeatable experiments. I fail to see how your analogy discredits that.

48   Dan8267   2012 Oct 24, 5:05am  

marcus says

For fundamentalism, yes.

Definition of fundamentalism: Whatever I don't like is "fundamentalism", and whatever I do like is not.

When was the last time a radical fundamentalist referred to himself as a radical fundamentalist?

49   curious2   2012 Oct 24, 5:28am  

Dan8267 says

When was the last time a radical fundamentalist referred to himself as a radical fundamentalist?

Self-proclaimed Christian fundamentalists believe in Biblical inerrancy, a young earth (7k years old as per the Bible), etc. Actually a majority of Americans believe man & earth were created less than 10k years ago as described in Genesis, but the self-described fundamentalists are a subset. These tend to include recovering addicts looking for a life raft, and others who simply can't navigate in a complicated world. GW Bush was a drunken failure as a mainline Protestant, then he was "born again," got that Texas religion, quit the sauce, and became a two-term POTUS. Worst in American history, but more than 20% of voters supported him all the way through.

50   MisdemeanorRebel   2012 Oct 24, 5:36am  

curious2 says

These tend to include recovering addicts looking for a life raft, and others who simply can't navigate in a complicated world. GW Bush

I've heard the term "Dry Drunk" used. Certain kinds of addictions destroy certain types of brain functionality, often involving the capacity for nuanced judgement. People with low IQs also fall into "Black/White" thinking.

51   Tenpoundbass   2012 Oct 24, 5:41am  

Dan8267 says

It's a good thing that real scientists know how to do real science.

And I'm sure there's sound scientific reasoning behind...
"There's also been studies showing that religious tendencies are genetic."

Because every Preacher's sons(every damn one of them) I ever knew were the biggest Hell raisers in the town. The towns meanest Bad Ass where I grew up, his Dad was a preacher. The town Cop wouldn't even go to his house if he were called out. But hey! There's a study that says otherwise.
I had a room mate when I first moved here in South Florida he was born Jewish his father was a rabbi, and he was persona non gratis at his families house, because he was not an ideal Jew. Ate pork dated non Jewish women, never went to temple ect.

Come to think of it, religious family dynasties are quite rare in America anyway.

52   curious2   2012 Oct 24, 5:44am  

CaptainShuddup says

Preacher's sons

You are conflating religious profiteering with religious belief. See the first post in the thread: as Sinead O'Connor observed, the problem with the Vatican is it's run by atheists. The OP was why do people want to believe; reasons for pretending to believe are pretty obvious, with Ratzinger's billions and Robertson's private jet.

53   michaelsch   2012 Oct 25, 9:59am  

marcus says

But if not indoctrinated as children, many are going to be "seekers" later for reasons that are beyond explanation.

OK, but I don't think the reasons are beyond explanation. In what you describe there is quite an obvious explanation: they want their life to have a meaning. Obviously you don't get it in atheism. Many really want a goal in their life, which will not disappear with the end of their physical life or shortly after.

marcus says

There are people who for reasons mostly other than those you list, simply believe. They just do.

May be, but I usually met people, who want to believe, and they usually have a reason for this.

marcus says

IT may have to do with the way having conscious existence makes them feel. Or maybe it's just where they end up after a long period of coming to terms with the fact that they (their ego, their consciousness, their "intelligence") exist.

Chrisians usually call it their Person. BTW, that's another very important reason, why people want to believe in God. Remember that God's name means "existance" in Old Hebrew. People want to have a real existance, rather than just that of a picture on your computer screen built out of a configuration of pixels. It's easy to see that an existential being of those pictures are within their creator rather than the pixels themselves. That (pixels by themselves) is the atheist ontology.

Personally every time I doubt my faith and try to build another ontology I find this lack of real existence completely unacceptable and go back to God the Creator.

54   curious2   2012 Oct 25, 10:08am  

michaelsch says

they want their life to have a meaning. Obviously you don't get it in atheism.

That's just silly. Einstein found meaning in learning to understand the universe. Thomas Jefferson found meaning in replacing the evils of kings and priests with a new republic based on natural law. Bill Gates finds meaning in achieving his potential and helping others around the world achieve theirs. To the extent that people buy a religion as a substitute for meaning, it reflects a lack of courage and persistence.

michaelsch says

Personally every time I doubt my faith and try to build another ontology I find this lack of real existence completely unacceptable and go back to God the Creator.

Interesting insight, but very sad result. It reminds me of the childhood story of the choo-choo train, "I think I can." How sad if the train tried to climb the hill, failed, and said "I guess I can't."

I appreciate the politeness of your posts, so please don't take what I'm about to say personally, but Marcus' mental masturbation is no substitute for applied ontology.

55   michaelsch   2012 Oct 25, 10:19am  

Dan8267 says

Definition of fundamentalism: Whatever I don't like is "fundamentalism", and whatever I do like is not.

When was the last time a radical fundamentalist referred to himself as a radical fundamentalist?

Why, fundamentalism is well defind phenomenon. Fundamentalist
A. Have a well defined and finite corpus of texts they consider sacred.
B. Understand every norm in these texts literally.
C. Stricktly follow these norms

Of course, in reality the texts are way too big and if one understand them literally they have too many contradictions. That's why ant organized fundamentalist group selects there own smaller subset of principles and ignore the rest.

All these are equally applicable to any major fundamentalist groups like orthodox Jews (their major text is Shulchan Aruch, rather than Tora, which is more a sacred item);
various Protestant movements with their custom taylored Bible translations;
fundamentalist Muslims, who treat Koran as such a text, while in fact it was a collection of religious poetry.

In addition, there are basicly fundamentalist cults, who add strong mind controlling technics to their fundamentalism, Mormonism seams to be one of these.

56   CL   2012 Oct 25, 10:32am  

michaelsch says

Remember that God's name means "existance" in Old Hebrew

I think it's conventionally considered "I AM". If you take the psychoanalytical approach, it could be the Superego asserting it has a place in your psyche, despite your ego attempting to avoid the moralizing of the Superego.

In other words, "I AM", and you better recognize!

57   marcus   2012 Oct 25, 3:03pm  

michaelsch says

In what you describe there is quite an obvious explanation: they want their life to have a meaning. Obviously you don't get it in atheism.

I guess maybe. I think an atheist would say their reality is more true and that there is a meaning to their lives but just a different one. I personally don't judge atheists to be "doing it wrong." It works for them. Unfortunately some atheists or maybe many, are very arrogant about it and can't hold their insecure beliefs together without judging believers to be "doing it wrong."

I guess I'm arrogant too though, right ? for feeling superior for not judging them at all for their non belief in God, but only for their judgmental attitude about believers.

How insecure does someone have to be about their non belief, that they can't even do it with out putting down all believers (not just fundamentalists) ? It's like they aren't satisfied without what they think is proof that any and all spiritual belief is wrong, and worthy of being proselytized about.

It's obvious to me that this is an expression of conflict.

THe true atheist has no such judgement about religion. It's like "hey i can't relate to it, but I don't need to judge it." "who am I to judge it ? I just concern myself with my beliefs (or non belief) regarding god."

Back to the question,...I only know my experience. I believe that even when I get to where I do not believe in an after life, and have nothing to benefit from believing, I still choose to see some kind of higher intelligence, some mystery, something beyond description or words, that fits in the 'god place' in my mind. If that place is some sort of residual vestige of where my child beliefs were 50 years ago, that's fine. I don't understand the why of it. It's just sort of in the background of how I interface with the world and how I take in this awesome experience we call human life.

I don't have all that much interest in understanding the reason.

I can't even understand how it's possible that Romney might be elected President. These bigger ontological questions are too much for me .

58   curious2   2012 Oct 25, 3:24pm  

marcus says

I can't even understand how it's possible that Romney might be elected President.

Romnesia might be elected because he appeals to people on the basis of their religions, even though privately he calls their religions "abomination". He tries to project a reassuring conventional persona, so they will vote their feelings. If they considered evidence, they would vote against him, but many (for example Marcus) don't.

Objective facts don't matter to Marcus, only his own feelings. In his case at least, his religious belief(s) are symptoms arising from that deeper self-indulgence. Marcus pretends to be a math teacher. If one of his imaginary students says she feels that 2+2=5, Marcus is constrained by his "logic" to validate her answer, it must be the right answer for her.

Many voters are the same way. That is why Romnesia might win. They find it much more comfortable to chant along with someone who claims to share their beliefs.

59   Tenpoundbass   2012 Oct 25, 11:38pm  

curious2 says

Romnesia might be elected because he appeals to people on the basis of their religions, even though privately he calls their religions "abomination".

Baahhh bahhh the President who is acting more like a Lunchroom class ass clown, than an adult much less the leader of the free world, called his opponent "Romneisa", bahh baaah. I'm a brainless sheep, so I like to throw that name around too... Bahhh bahhh.

I don't think I'm the only one that sees what he did there. It's cool when you're Lumpy from "My three sons" but really cheesy coming from the president.

Has this guy every actually addressed the American public with out asking them to pull his finger?

60   michaelsch   2012 Oct 26, 4:39am  

CL says

I think it's conventionally considered "I AM"

Well, it is sometimes translated like this, but one needs to remember that Old Hebrew had no verbs. So it was more like "he with the existence". The form often is called "imperfect", even though it is much different from the impefect of indoeuropean languages. It is more like a quality not limited by a particular situation, like a location in place or time.

61   curious2   2012 Oct 26, 4:55am  

CaptainShuddup says

Romneisa", bahh baaah. I'm a brainless sheep....

You are neither brainless nor a sheep. Romnesia sticks because it fits, he campaigned promising to be left of Ted Kennedy, then says he governed as a "severe conservative," he signed ObamneyCare then he promised to repeal it now he promises to keep parts of it after all. I blame both executives who signed ObamneyCare and am not going to vote for either of them. Nevertheless, back to the topic of the thread, millions say they will vote for Romnesia because publicly he pretends to share their religious beliefs, even though privately he calls their religions abominations. His job is not to worry about those people, only to fool them on the basis of religion, so he can conquer the world on behalf of his cult.

62   michaelsch   2012 Oct 26, 6:58am  

curious2 says

Einstein found meaning in learning to understand the universe. Thomas Jefferson found meaning in replacing the evils of kings and priests with a new republic based on natural law.

Irregardless (that's the right word here) of the fact that Albert Einstein was not an atheist; the fact that one finds meaning in finding or refining scientific truth IMO indicates that there is such a Truth and a Meaning, which exists regardless of the finite and temporary state of a finite creature. That's precisely because I believe such meaning is real and deserves ethernal existence.

Similar would apply to Thomas Jefferson. His example is even better, because the fruit of his effort is completely gone now. That "New Republic" turned to an arrogant aggresive empire and as we speak turns to the "evil empire" of our time, much worse than what was British Empire at the end of 18th / begining of 19th century. However, his intelectual/social/political work still exists. Where and why? Because of his personal accievement that deserves an ethernal existence.

Please allow me not to comment on Bill Gates.

63   curious2   2012 Oct 26, 7:14am  

michaelsch says

Albert Einstein was not an atheist;

I'm curious why you say that? Would you instead call him a deist or agnostic, or a free thinker, or would you call him Jewish based solely on ethnicity? Is it identity, ethnicity, or ideas?

You seem to imply that eternal (note spelling) truth and meaning are somehow connected to religion, even though in fact religions rise and fall away. Most of the currently popular religions in America are quite recent in human history. There is no evidence to suggest that Jahweh will last longer than, for example, Thor or Zeus.

64   Dan8267   2012 Oct 26, 9:29am  

CaptainShuddup says

And I'm sure there's sound scientific reasoning behind...
"There's also been studies showing that religious tendencies are genetic."

If I bother to do the Google search and prove you wrong yet again, will you be man enough to admit you are wrong? Come on, captain, I need some incentive to do the research you're too damn lazy to do.

65   marcus   2012 Oct 27, 2:49am  

What kind of weasel dislikes my every comment in a thread where all I am doing is talking about my own personal experience or beliefs or speculating about others, that is, their reasons for belief in god ?

My guess is that it's my own personal troll, curious2, who I have on ignore.

What a sad little person he is. ALthough I am still kind of flattered by his obsession with me.

66   MisdemeanorRebel   2012 Oct 27, 6:58am  

I don't know, there is a kind of dude who put ME on ignore because they got personally offended that I don't think their anecdotal experience is evidence for an omnipotent deity.

Even though they say they say they agree with many of my posts on most everything else.

Actually, there are two of these dudes.

Go figure.

67   marcus   2012 Oct 27, 12:55pm  

Re: "put ME on ignore because they got personally offended that I don't think their anecdotal experience is evidence for an omnipotent deity."

I hope you don't mean me. I certainly don't claim to have any evidence of gods existence or non-existence.

I have you on ignore for a reason that isn't personal. It's because I have a tendency to get trolled (maybe my issues) by people who for whatever reason incessantly ridicule or put down believers. I find it annoying when people see an an equivalence between asserting their non belief in god, with mocking, deriding or otherwise poking fun of believers.

It's not personal. I just don't want to get sucked in to the discussion only because I'm annoyed that you haven't grown past that.

As I said above:

marcus says

How insecure does someone have to be about their non belief, that they can't even do it with out putting down all believers (not just fundamentalists) ? It's like they aren't satisfied without what they think is proof that any and all spiritual belief is wrong, and worthy of being proselytized about.

It's obvious to me that this is an expression of conflict.

THe true atheist has no such judgement about religion. It's like "hey i can't relate to it, but I don't need to judge it." "who am I to judge it ? I just concern myself with my beliefs (or non belief) regarding god."

MAybe I'm just wrong, and I'm the one with issues. Even if so, by ignoring you, I don't waste my time reacting to what I find annoying.

I was going to cite threads of yours, but I only see threads from the last week or so. Not sure what going on with that.

In any case, I'm sure you're a nice guy thunderlips, and I like you, and think you are intelligent, it's just...well I think I've already explained as best I can.

68   curious2   2012 Oct 27, 1:22pm  

marcus says

MAybe I'm just wrong, and I'm the one with issues.

Yes, you are. Besides, in your mind, everything is always all about you anyway.

marcus says

What kind of weasel dislikes my every comment in a thread where all I am doing is talking about my own personal experience or beliefs or speculating about others, that is, their reasons for belief in god ?

My guess is that it's my own personal troll, curious2,

Your guess is incorrect, and so is your statement. You've been insulting people, and falsely accusing them of things they didn't say or do, as usual.

And it's funny how you seem to follow at least two people you claim to Ignore. Evidently it's part of your pattern.

thunderlips11 says

there are two of these dudes.

It might be Marcus using two accounts. I noticed when he said he had started to "Ignore" me that immediately there were two accounts ignoring me, when there had been zero before then. He also uses a separate browser to follow me, and apparently he follows you also because he replied to your comment above.

Marcus also started another thread complaining about the "ridiculous trouble" he has opening Firefox so that he can follow the people he's pretending to Ignore.

Marcus must have some reason for these delusions of being persecuted. Part of it is the religion thing, i.e. wanting to believe (and therefore believing) that he is God, because delusions of grandeur typically go along with paranoia about persecution. Other religious people aren't always so paranoid though. Another possibility:

http://www.youtube.com/embed/Z79KWUCLd0A

Because Marcus believes that he is God, the Christian tradition compels him to believe that he is also the Messiah. That means he must be singled out for persecution, even when he isn't, so that he can become a martyr to his own self-aggrandizement. After all, it's all about Marcus.

69   EastCoastBubbleBoy   2012 Oct 27, 1:38pm  

We want to understand who we are and where we came from. Its part of what we call human nature. Just like a three year old can ask “but why?” ad nauseum, each explanation we derive from science begets more questions.

Belief in God, for some (myself included) is a natural progression out of thus seemingly innate inquisitiveness.

I’m curious how you are tying atheism into a Sunday school class.

70   Tenpoundbass   2012 Oct 27, 2:14pm  

marcus says

What kind of weasel dislikes my every comment in a thread where all I am doing is talking about my own personal experience or beliefs or speculating about others, that is, their reasons for belief in god ?

I'll never understand the pettiness of SOME people on this board.
FWIW I threw you a bone.

71   michaelsch   2012 Oct 27, 10:55pm  

EastCoastBubbleBoy says

I’m curious how you are tying atheism into a Sunday school class.

I don't think it's tying atheism into it. I just want kids understanding atheist positions.

72   michaelsch   2012 Oct 27, 11:01pm  

curious2 says

You seem to imply that eternal (note spelling) truth and meaning are somehow connected to religion, even though in fact religions rise and fall away.

No, (and thanks for the right spelling) of course it is not connected to religion, it is connected to the existence of God.

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