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My Rich Black Friend


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2018 Mar 21, 8:44pm   17,209 views  80 comments

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I have a rich black friend, about the same age as I am, but much richer than I am. Like me, he got a useful technical degree, but he invested in the stock market starting from an early age because of his father's good advice. My own father knew nothing about investing, so I didn't really catch on to what the stock market could do for me until I was 30 or so. My friend didn't get married or have a family, so he saved a boatload of money there too. His own financial success was pretty conventional: get a useful degree, invest in good companies, don't waste money.

He's kind of scary looking at first glance, like 6'5" and muscular, but that's just appearance. He's actually very pleasant to talk to, which you quickly figure out if you chat with him.

So I asked him if discrimination had been any significant impediment to his self-achieved success, and he doesn't seem to have an answer for that. Clearly it didn't stop him. My conclusion is that most of the hype about discrimination is bullshit. If you're motivated and stay on track, this country still works, no matter where you came from.

Dude, if you're reading this, very happy to get your perspective too.

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41   mell   2018 Mar 22, 6:13pm  

Feux Follets says
Quigley says
Equal opportunity is a laudable goal, but it’s unattainable.


Well said. There may be laws that state equal rights etc. however reality does not always play by the rules.

Yes and it has nothing to do with race.
42   CBOEtrader   2018 Mar 22, 10:30pm  

www.youtube.com/embed/cQNaT52QYYA

Blind pursuit of equality is tyranny
43   HappyGilmore   2018 Mar 23, 5:42am  

CBOEtrader says

www.youtube.com/embed/cQNaT52QYYA

Blind pursuit of equality is tyranny


Nobody is arguing for equal results. Why would you even post this?
44   MrMagic   2018 Mar 23, 7:11am  

HappyGilmore says
Nobody is arguing for equal results.


Really? Didn't you vote for Bernie?
45   HappyGilmore   2018 Mar 23, 7:13am  

Sniper says
Really? Didn't you vote for Bernie?


Yep. And he doesn't argue for equal results.

Sorry to burst your strawman bubble.
46   zzyzzx   2018 Mar 23, 7:33am  

Did this friend vote for Trump?
47   HowdyThere   2018 Mar 23, 7:42pm  

Racism is nonsense. Those who cling to it, whether they're white supremacists or BLM, are out of touch. Culture is what really matters. The most positive aspects of Western culture, the hard work, embracing scientific curiosity, flexible thinking, respect for individual rights, etc. tend to lead to success. There's no guarantee of success, faced with the corruption and abuse of power that reflects the worst of Western culture. Based on the limited info provided by Patrick, it sounds like his friend has done well embracing the positives.
48   Patrick   2018 Mar 23, 7:55pm  

zzyzzx says
Did this friend vote for Trump?


No, I'm sure he didn't.
49   WatermelonUniversity   2018 Mar 23, 10:03pm  

anyone working with blacks or living in a black neighborhood knows exactly why blacks are lagging behind everyone else.

they are dumb and lazy. but the worse part about blacks are their animal behaviors. they lack the mental capacity to control their primitive urges.

maybe they face more racism than other minority groups, but they should ask themselves WHY? maybe if they learned to behave like humans...

you think IQ is learned? how do you explain Eskimos living in the middle of nowhere having IQ of 90+ while some groups in Africa having IQ in the 60s?

blacks need to accept that they can only do low end work and be grateful to whites for they are not starving in Africa.
50   Booger   2018 Mar 24, 7:00pm  

Does he think that OJ is guilty?
51   CBOEtrader   2018 Mar 24, 7:15pm  

HappyGilmore says
Nobody is arguing for equal results.


Great, then you agree that unequal outcomes is perfectly acceptable. For example, I'm glad you agree the income variations between sexes and races is perfectly acceptable in a liberal society.

Since you agree w the above I'm sure you agree that affirmative action is terrible for everyone and should end, whether on our college campuses, or in any employment arena.
52   Patrick   2018 Mar 24, 9:11pm  

Booger says
Does he think that OJ is guilty?


I'll ask him.
53   HappyGilmore   2018 Mar 24, 9:22pm  

CBOEtrader says
Great, then you agree that unequal outcomes is perfectly acceptable


Of course. Like I said earlier--one's success should be determined by their abilities and effort.

CBOEtrader says
For example, I'm glad you agree the income variations between sexes and races is perfectly acceptable in a liberal society.


Possibly. It depends on the reason for the disparity.

CBOEtrader says
Since you agree w the above I'm sure you agree that affirmative action is terrible for everyone and should end, whether on our college campuses, or in any employment arena.


Maybe. Affirmative action exists to try to get the US closer to a country with equal opportunities. If it's shown that it is no longer needed and minorities are given the same opportunities as whites, then I'd say it should end.
54   anonymous   2018 Mar 24, 9:58pm  

Can you prove that equal rights do not exist? Affirmative Action should’ve been eliminated from the beginning.
55   CBOEtrader   2018 Mar 24, 10:15pm  

HappyGilmore says
If it's shown that it is no longer needed and minorities are given the same opportunities


You can't prove this. This is why you need to listen to doctor haidt.

You can however prove that all people have the same rights (except for whites, men, and conservatives who are currently fighting systemic oppression) and that less qualified women and minorities consistently take opportunities from more qualified candidates.

How about we try treating everyone the same? Ya know, embrace actual liberal values
56   anonymous   2018 Mar 25, 7:15am  

A great myth that the Left believes is that all races and genders have the same abilities and should have the same opportunity to be successful. Blacks, in general, may not be as built or tuned to have software engineer jobs for example, but they sure as hell dominate the NFL and NBA. The same goes for women and STEM...maybe they just don't have a desire to be in technical fields because their brains or personalities aren't drawn to it. Genders and races are NOT the same, so don't expect the same outcomes.
57   Shaman   2018 Mar 25, 7:26am  

I hardly see any black kids playing baseball in my son’s little league. Maybe one or two in five hundred. But I feel that’s because Baseball is a sport where you need a dad to practice with you so you get better. Again, it’s back to family culture.
58   HappyGilmore   2018 Mar 25, 8:36am  

CBOEtrader says
You can't prove this


Difficult to prove. But, I'd say someone coming to pat.net would leave pretty certain that racism is still alive and well in the US

CBOEtrader says
You can however prove that all people have the same rights (except for whites, men, and conservatives who are currently fighting systemic oppression) and that less qualified women and minorities consistently take opportunities from more qualified candidates.


Great--please prove it then.

CBOEtrader says
How about we try treating everyone the same? Ya know, embrace actual liberal values


Yes, how about it. Let's do it.
59   Patrick   2018 Mar 25, 11:45am  

HappyGilmore says
CBOEtrader says
How about we try treating everyone the same? Ya know, embrace actual liberal values


Yes, how about it. Let's do it.


So you mean we should get rid of preferential treatment for blacks and Hispanics? Currently they have much greater educational and employment opportunities than whites or Asians do, which is easily proven by looking at the test scores they need for admission to universities, or the qualifications they need to get a job.
60   MrMagic   2018 Mar 25, 12:53pm  

PrivilegedtobeWhite says
A great myth that the Left believes is that all races and genders have the same abilities and should have the same opportunity to be successful. Blacks, in general, may not be as built or tuned to have software engineer jobs for example, but they sure as hell dominate the NFL and NBA. The same goes for women and STEM...maybe they just don't have a desire to be in technical fields because their brains or personalities aren't drawn to it. Genders and races are NOT the same, so don't expect the same outcomes.


But Liberals believe they should receive the same pay and incomes.

They believe we should take from the 1% so these people, on the lower end of the race and gender scale, can have the same lifestyle as the evil 1%ers that actually WORKED for their money.
61   HappyGilmore   2018 Mar 25, 3:37pm  

Patrick says
So you mean we should get rid of preferential treatment for blacks and Hispanics? Currently they have much greater educational and employment opportunities than whites or Asians do, which is easily proven by looking at the test scores they need for admission to universities, or the qualifications they need to get a job.


Not really. Let's look at elementary school opportunities. Or High School opportunities.

The universities are trying to make up for the that preferential treatment.

I'd be curious to see the qualification for job proof that you can easily show though.
62   HappyGilmore   2018 Mar 25, 3:38pm  

Sniper says
But Liberals believe they should receive the same pay and incomes.


It's so amazing that Trump supporters are so well in tune with what Liberals believe.

lol--all they have is strawman arguments.

It would be so nice if they could start a post with anything besides talking about what Liberals, or leftifts, or Dems believe. How about just stating what you believe and why?
63   anonymous   2018 Mar 25, 3:51pm  

HappyGilmore says
Sniper says
But Liberals believe they should receive the same pay and incomes.


It's so amazing that Trump supporters are so well in tune with what Liberals believe.

lol--all they have is strawman arguments.

It would be so nice if they could start a post with anything besides talking about what Liberals, or leftifts, or Dems believe. How about just stating what you believe and why?


Don’t hold your breath
64   Patrick   2018 Mar 25, 10:06pm  

HappyGilmore says
I'd be curious to see the qualification for job proof that you can easily show though.


https://www.sfchronicle.com/business/article/Former-YouTube-worker-alleges-discrimination-12723004.php
65   HappyGilmore   2018 Mar 26, 7:06am  

An allegation isn't really proof.
66   anonymous   2018 Mar 26, 7:30am  

HappyGilmore says
It would be so nice if they could start a post with anything besides talking about what Liberals, or leftifts, or Dems believe. How about just stating what you believe and why?
Our philosophy is simple. No special rights for anyone. No Affirmative Action. No Protected Classes. Equal rights.
67   MrMagic   2018 Mar 26, 7:48am  

HappyGilmore says
Sniper says
But Liberals believe they should receive the same pay and incomes.


It's so amazing that Trump supporters are so well in tune with what Liberals believe


It's actually very easy, the Liberals post their delusional bullshit where everyone can read it.
68   MrMagic   2018 Mar 26, 7:49am  

HappyGilmore says
How about just stating what you believe and why?


I would love to do that, but it would specify the level of paid trolls here, and my post would get nuked.
69   MrMagic   2018 Mar 26, 7:52am  

HappyGilmore says
An allegation isn't really proof.


That's true, so why did you post this in the other thread?

HappyGilmore says
You're aware that Russian agents are BIG donators to the NRA, right?


That's an allegation too.

Oops...
70   HappyGilmore   2018 Mar 26, 7:54am  

PrivilegedtobeWhite says
Our philosophy is simple. No special rights for anyone. No Affirmative Action. No Protected Classes. Equal rights.


Great-see that wasn't so hard. And it's a reasonable philosophy.
71   HappyGilmore   2018 Mar 26, 7:54am  

Sniper says
That's an allegation too.

Oops...


Yep--but I didn't claim to have proof.
72   MrMagic   2018 Mar 26, 7:59am  

HappyGilmore says
Sniper says
That's an allegation too.

Oops...


Yep--but I didn't claim to have proof.


You posted links in the other thread asserting that it was proof or Russia involvement with the NRA. Having a tough time keeping the daily narratives organized?
73   HappyGilmore   2018 Mar 26, 8:01am  

Sniper says
You posted links in the other thread asserting that it was proof or Russia involvement with the NRA. Having a tough time keeping the daily narratives organized?


No, I posted links in the other thread. Please show where I asserted proof.
74   MrMagic   2018 Mar 26, 8:05am  

HappyGilmore says
Sniper says
You posted links in the other thread asserting that it was proof or Russia involvement with the NRA. Having a tough time keeping the daily narratives organized?


No, I posted links in the other thread. Please show where I asserted proof.


HappyGilmore says
You're aware that Russian agents are BIG donators to the NRA, right?


https://patrick.net/post/1314733?offset=0#comment-1493888

You insinuated the Russians influenced the NRA and posted links trying to provide proof, forget already?
75   HappyGilmore   2018 Mar 26, 8:18am  

Sniper says
You insinuated the Russians influenced the NRA and posted links trying to provide proof, forget already?


No, I remember. I didn't ever say I had proof like Patrick posted.

I said the Russians donate to the NRA and showed why I think that. Completely different.
76   NDrLoR   2018 Mar 26, 8:25am  

Patrick says
My Rich Black Friend
It seems like you really touched a raw nerve here.
77   anonymous   2018 Mar 27, 9:18pm  

HappyGilmore says
The universities are trying to make up for the that preferential treatment.
Didn't Happy Gilmore kill Chubbs?
78   HappyGilmore   2018 Mar 28, 3:53am  

PrivilegedtobeWhite says
HappyGilmore says
The universities are trying to make up for the that preferential treatment.
Didn't Happy Gilmore kill Chubbs?


But he dedicated the Tour Championship Win to him.
79   Y   2018 Mar 28, 4:37am  

A total waste of russian propaganda budget. Lets hope it's so!

errc says
Paid trolls....on a forum with about a dozen regular posters?
80   anonymous   2018 Mar 30, 7:39am  

HappyGilmore says
PrivilegedtobeWhite says
HappyGilmore says
The universities are trying to make up for the that preferential treatment.
Didn't Happy Gilmore kill Chubbs?


But he dedicated the Tour Championship Win to him.
Gold jacket, green jacket, who gives a shit

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