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Men are not marrying, why?


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2018 Oct 25, 2:34pm   20,626 views  190 comments

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So I was browsing YouTube and found this lady’s video. After five minutes or so or so-so content, it started to get interesting. She was talking about how men derive their identity and self respect from what they do, as opposed to women who derive it by what they are. When a man is free to compete and work with other men with men’s rules, work becomes meaningful. When women infiltrate and worse, demand changes to the culture of such a workplace, men lose meaning in their work, and might even come to regard it as an ongoing daily humiliation. Not to mention the whole thing with men and women where a man can have his self-defined role as father or husband taken away for no reason by a capricious wife, we begin to see marriage as a bear trap.
Watch the video if you’re interested in these issues. I’m interested to see what @Rin thinks as well.

www.youtube.com/embed/rlvMAS_20K4

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186   clambo   2019 Jan 8, 5:12am  

Hey I just read that Mr. Magic said I"m "trolling the sewers for dates". That's bullshit and quit insulting me just because I don't subscribe to "buying the cow".

One danger of telling my stories truthfully is someone may not like them and then insults me.

The younger hotter female was frequently broke because she was working part time and going to some type of nursing school and drove a shitty car. When she got a flat tire, or the car broke down, I paid to fix it because I had the dough. She of course also made some requests which were unreasonable. This is not uncommon to her generation. In her defense, she was working two jobs after she got her certificate. She now works about 55 hours per week to save up for another car, her old one blew up and I told her to take Uber to work.

The drunk/pampered pooch whom I haven't seen in a year has a job also; she just thinks she's still dating a zillionaire up in Hutchinson Island. She actually makes about $1400/week my friend told me, but she likes to be wined and dined and won't accept the premise of a free booty call and Netlflix with a guy after work. Her view is reasonable, her tastes were too expensive and she was not as hot as she imagined she was. The Jamaican I dated briefly was introduced to me by a female friend who visited her at her small business.

The less hot one birthday girl has a full time job but is a single mother working 6 days per week and saving up the down payment for a small house, so her social life is limited. She also is socially conservative and a homebody.

Alll of the females mentioned in my stories were introduced to me, I'm not trolling a sewer, I'm not going online, I'm not trolling Facebook, they all work jobs. The pretty one who is in her 20's is frustrated that I am able to fix her "problems" but will not spend my money to do it. She has the quaint notion that people should "help" each other, "give back" to society, etc. which is drummed into their little heads in schools I guess. I say sink or swim honey, and it builds character too.
187   HeadSet   2019 Jan 8, 7:04am  

She has the quaint notion that people should "help" each other, "give back" to society, etc.

Nothing wrong with helping those in need, but it seems here she is just using the "give back" as a guilt trip to get funds for herself. I always counter such logic with something like "What have you done to give back, and what are yo doing now so you will be in a position to give back in the future?"
190   MrMagic   2019 Jan 8, 1:12pm  

clambo says
Hey I just read that Mr. Magic said I"m "trolling the sewers for dates". That's bullshit and quit insulting me just because I don't subscribe to "buying the cow".

One danger of telling my stories truthfully is someone may not like them and then insults me.


Dude, they're not insults. You're "buying the cow" every time they call you, you take them out to dinner, then give them cash or pay for their problems or become their Knight in Shining Armor bailing them out of their own issues. You're just NOT getting all the other benefits of the relationship. You're going home by yourself.

You're insulting yourself, getting caught up in that drama, then paying the bill.

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