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If you love me, you'll give me all your shit then die or get lost. A couple of BJs and faked orgasms entitle me!

Takes a while to get past the feminist tripe to realize that assets always flow down hill to the female, and the transfers are a one way street.

My wife wanted lots of life insurance on me. When I suggested that I get life insurance on her, too, she acted like I had just strangled the Pomeranian to even suggest this.

However, she isn't a feminist, and believes in the traditional roles. It's the so-called feminists who reflexively shape shift back to female prerogative when the shit hits the fan that are especially hypocritical and infuriating.

One of her friends was so incensed that she had to pay alimony during her divorce to her lower earning husband, she actually gave up assets not to do it. The alimony would have been cheaper in the long run.

One thing I suspect in this story is that the "Evil Man" probably paid for her now early 20s children's college, easily $100k for both or even more. Her ex-husband and father of the kids might have paid some or most, but I suspect her "contribution" really came from Mr. Evil Spouse.

Now she's thinking about bailing, but is only constrained by the idea that she might not inherit the paid-for home in BOSTON (or Brookline/burbs) which is easily worth north of $500k.

Since she says he has only been married to her, she's also collect his military pension plus her own Soc Sec. I suspect all those credit cards she likes to count in his wallet are also paying her Beamer Lease, Car Insurance, new iPhone, etc.

LOL! The 'Mr Evil Spouse' mantle requires copious amounts of extorted monies and female bribery to revert back to 'Mr Tolerable Spouse, But Barely'.

Reminds me of a joke:

Two old men are talking...
#1: Nobody wants to marry me because I'm too old.
#2: No. The problem is you aren't old enough!

An old man invites his young business associate to dinner with his elderly wife. At the dinner the young guy notices that the old guy refers his wife only with terms of endearment like honey and sweetie and darling. When the old bird is in the restroom, the younger man turns to his mentor and says, “I notice how in love you are with your wife. I think that’s great! How did you keep it going so long?”
“Why do you think that, son?”
“Well, all the nice pet names you have for her.”
The old guy leans over and lowers his voice, “I’ll tell you a secret, bucko! I forgot her name ten years ago!”

You know your girlfriend is becoming fat when she suddenly starts fitting into your wife's clothes.

NoCoupForYou says

What's happening is she is getting tired of working and thinking about divorce #2, when she realized he has everything locked up and is in Mass, which is a single property state.

Never heard about this. Doesn't seem to make a lot of difference though:

By law, Massachusetts is not a “community property” state, but in practice, even after litigation, most property settlements end up very similar to what they would be in community property states. In community property states, premarital property is defined to be “separate property” belonging to one person, and all property accumulated during the marriage (with the possible exception of inheritances) is defined as “community property,” belonging equally to both spouses. In community property states, couples are obliged to follow an exact 50-50 split of community property.

https://www.amherstdivorce.com/division-of-marital-property-in-ma-html

Used to work with a woman programmer who dumped her husband exactly as Red Pill theory would predict, because she made quite a bit more money as a programmer than he did as a mechanic. No kids.

When the divorce was settled, she was insanely angry that she was obligated to pay HIM alimony by California law. Hilarious!

Right, but what the Lady seems most pissed about is him leaving his paid off house, easily half a million in the Boston Area, to his favorite Sister.

Pretty clear she likes the house and is trying to find a way to get it from under her husband's sister. Divorce now or wait till he's dead? Oh crap, I snooped and found the will.
She checked out of the marriage a long time ago, which is why she had to snoop instead of ask. She knows he ain't leaving it to her.

I've been married for over a decade and only snooped for my wife's wallet - which is never just laying around - twice. Once to get money to run across the street for diapers, another time because the pizza guy didn't have change.

I would never marry again, UNLESS it was in South America. Laws are pretty fair here.

Patrick says

When the divorce was settled, she was insanely angry that she was obligated to pay HIM alimony by California law. Hilarious!

It's so funny how it's only unjust when the women pay. I should go find some lesbian divorce stories.

I bet the higher earning, butchier lesbian is to the moon with rage finding out she has to pay her unemployed ex-spouse who suddenly developed Fibromyalgia before filing, X dollars a month.

There are two guys I have heard in Santa Cruz who did the 'feminist' enablement thing of letting her work while they were stay at home Dad's who did all the cooking, cleaning, shopping and child care.

Both of them got dumped for lesbian relationships. Santa Cruz is to lesbians like SF is to gay men, they are all over the place.

One guy wailed and whined about it, like, he just didn't understand! I guess he never got the Red Pill newsletter.

I personally would be somewhat embarrassed to admit my wife left me for another woman, but whatever.

Hope he got alimony and primary custody and child support! But if he was pussy enough to be a Mr. Mom... he probably pussed out in Court, too.

The good news is, if your spouse DOES leave you for a woman, that's considered adultery and in some still 'moral turpitude', disqualifying them from alimony. Cohabitating with the lover is grounds to get alimony reduced or eliminated in many states even where it doesn't.

Tends to be where men and women differ, too. Women will dig in for the kill, whereas the men I know typically just cave, give up and go.

NoCoupForYou says

It's so funny how it's only unjust when the women pay.

Happened to my sister. Her fault for marrying a loser. She finally had enough when she caught him sexting with a dance partner. She has 50% custody but still has to pay child support. She learned from that and got hitched to an oil company executive for the second go around.

I have seen enough to fear any financial entanglement with a female.
The double standard today is too unfair.
Tip: never have life insurance that exceeds your net worth, you’ll be worth more dead than alive.
A guy’s money is his freedom, he must keep it for himself and only dole it out in bits, never half.
I can still remember the Little Rascals “Women haters club.”
Even young people know what is up.

Women are natural Socialists.

A woman's ideal society transfers from the productive to themselves. The Greeks figured this out 2500 years ago:
https://patrick.net/post/1329287/2019-12-23-eureka-the-play-about-matriarchy

BUT, there is a caveat. Under a monogamous Patriarchal system where divorce is difficult, women can be recruited to fight against Socialism. Why? Because they don't want other women taking shit that's theirs (ie their husband's and eventually all theirs) by redistributing it to other women (divorced and single mothers).

That explains the huge dichotomy between how single women and married women vote.

If Social Conservatives could explain this to the better off single women, it would garner more votes I think - "Don't let those useless bitches steal your hard earned money".

By presenting all wealth distribution as coming from single/married well off men to all women, the Left has a head start but it can be mitigated or even reversed.

NoCoupForYou says

finding out she has to pay her unemployed ex-spouse who suddenly developed Fibromyalgia before filing

Lol, that is exactly what happened to a friend from high school. He married a Bulgarian woman with a kid from a previous marriage (warning sign) but it worked out for 15 years. Then she "developed fibromyalgia" and "couldn't work". Then she divorced him and moved back to Bulgaria. Not sure how much she got, but my friend basically raised her kid and paid college tuition too. They had no kids together.

Another warning sign: when he first flew to Bulgaria to meet her, he got a blow job from her within the first hour. Sounds good, but that blow job was the most expensive sex imaginable in the long run.

She was pretty smart actually, even if kinda evil.

I've actually slept with 4 Bulgarian women, two here and two there (only European Country I've been to, actually), but those were just hook ups, and when I was in my early 20s. Neither side looking for romantic entanglements, they were cool but could drink me under the table, I gotta admit. Shocked that I paid for some drinks, this was just a few years after Communism in the mid 90s.

On the other hand, they weren't internet or random meetups, they were friends of a girl friend (nothing between us) of mine from high school which is how I met them.

It's amazing how when you get one good report, it spreads like wildfire in the Chick Circle. One thing I am sure of is that chick locker room talk is definitely a thing, may be more intense than guys. Chick Circles are like Credit Cards, once you get one, and pay it down in full, the rest of them send you offers.

Another thing I noticed - and maybe you all can tell me if this is an Eastern Europe thing - women do all the work and run the house to boot, the men are just around for dick service, yet since all men are kinda macho and they have few soyboys, the women have little choice but to accept it. Our problem is weak, thirsty men.

Shte te yam marulkata - I'm gonna eat the lettuce. The Bulgarian Jay and Silent Bob taught me that at a bar in Sevapol. Works like a charm if a gal is happy drunk.

Strange. I was such a dweeb and a nerd in college, my worldly roommates made fun of me and would erupt in gales of laughter about what a stud I was (NOT) and gave me nicknames to mock me. However, people heard about the nicknames and the joke, but thought it was serious. Some girls thought they had to find out what this was all about, and I got laid a couple of times because of it.

God has a sense of humor.

What a b*tch.

NoCoupForYou says

Shte te yam marulkata - I'm gonna eat the lettuce.

Please explain!

Patrick says

Please explain!

It means you're offering a gal head. One of my all time great tricks is to offer head, or say something like "I don't wanna have sex, let's do everything else."

Gets Girls aghast yet competitive. "How dare that NoCoupForYou not want to screw me like all the other dudes. I'll show that asshole who is the Great Screw!"

Also, once you're going downtown, they get excited and demand to be shagged, baby, yeah. It wasn't much of a thing before I got married, but that's Active Consent to CYA to boot. Always be recording.

Gals are literally the opposite of what society claims. They are visual, ruled strongly by emotion not "Standards", are MORE amoral than men, and most are DTF if they are having fun/emotions excited.

NoCoupForYou says

Another thing I noticed - and maybe you all can tell me if this is an Eastern Europe thing - women do all the work and run the house to boot, the men are just around for dick service, yet since all men are kinda macho and they have few soyboys, the women have little choice but to accept it. Our problem is weak, thirsty men.

Very true in most Slavic countries...and to some extent in most Eastern Europe.

NoCoupForYou says

Gets Girls aghast yet competitive. "How dare that NoCoupForYou not want to screw me like all the other dudes. I'll show that asshole who is the Great Screw!"

Richard Feynman had a pickup technique where he would get a girl to buy HIM a drink. Apparently, the psychologic effect of getting a woman to invest in you even in a trivial way triggers an emotion that she doesn't want to waste her investment. He said when the girl bought the drink, he scored.