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Bubble-Wrapped Americans: How the U.S. Became Obsessed with Physical and Emotional Safety


               
2020 Oct 6, 5:40pm   2,604 views  55 comments

by Patrick   follow (60)  

A perfectly safe life is no life at all. Safetyism makes life not worth living.

https://ammo.com/articles/bubble-wrapped-americans-how-us-became-obsessed-with-physical-emotional-safety

“In America we say if anyone gets hurt, we will ban it for everyone everywhere for all time. And before we know it, everything is banned.”
Professor Jonathan Haidt

It’s a common refrain: We have bubble-wrapped the world. Americans in particular are obsessed with “safety.” The simplest way to get any law passed in America, be it a zoning law or a sweeping reform of the intelligence community, is to invoke a simple sentence: “A kid might get hurt.”

Almost no one is opposed to reasonable efforts at making the world a safer place. But the operating word here is “reasonable.” Banning lawn darts, for example, rather than just telling people that they can be dangerous when used by unsupervised children, is a perfect example of a craving for safety gone too far.

Beyond the realm of legislation, this has begun to infect our very culture. Think of things like “trigger warnings” and “safe spaces.” These are part of broader cultural trends in search of a kind of “emotional safety” – a purported right to never be disturbed or offended by anything. This is by no means confined to the sphere of academia, but is also in our popular culture, both in “extremely online” and more mainstream variants.

Why are Americans so obsessed with safety? What is the endgame of those who would bubble wrap the world, both physically and emotionally? Perhaps most importantly, what can we do to turn back the tide and reclaim our culture of self-reliance, mental toughness, and giving one another the benefit of the doubt so that we don’t “bankrupt ourselves in the vain search for absolute security,” as President Dwight D. Eisenhower warned us about?
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However, during the Spanish flu pandemic, life did not shut down quite so completely as it has during the Coronavirus pandemic. The methods used during the Spanish flu were isolation of the sick, mask wearing in public, and cancellation of large events. In places where these were practiced rigorously, there was a significant decline in the number of infections and death. St. Louis in particular is known as an exemplar of what to do during an easily transmissible epidemic.

“The economy” has been cited as a reason the total shutdown of life during the Coronavirus pandemic was a poor idea. This might sound frivolous, but the mass unemployment not only leads to destitution for those when the economy is so paralyzed that there are no other jobs forthcoming. It also leads to a spike in the suicide rate. There is a certain calculus that must be done – how much unemployment is worth how much death from Wuhan Coronavirus?

The reaction to this virus is noteworthy, because it is the first major pandemic of this new, insulated and coddled age. Rather than reasonable measures to mitigate death, the choice made was to do anything and everything possible to prevent death entirely. Not only might this be an unwise decision, it might be a fool’s errand: The virus seems to be much more contagious than was previously thought, as well as much less lethal.

More than one reasonable person has asked what would happen if we all just went about our lives making reasonable precautions, such as hand washing, mask wearing, social distancing, and the cancellation of large events like sports and concerts. This is effectively what Sweden has done and it appears to work, especially when contrasted with their neighbors in Finland who have done basically the same as America. How much sense does it make to have the entire community converge upon its grocery stores while not allowing anyone to go into an office, ever? Compare this with what has passed for reasonable reaction: Closing down every school, every dine-in restaurant, and the government dictating which businesses are essential and which aren’t.

A big motivator of this is a compulsion to not lose a single life to the Wuhan Coronavirus, which is a totally unreasonable goal. People are going to die. The question isn’t “how tightly do we have to lock the country down to ensure no one dies,” but rather “what are reasonable measures we can take to balance public safety against personal choice and social cohesion?”

The splintering and division of America in practice has meant that the establishment conservative media was largely in denial over the virus for weeks. It is not a liberal smear to say that the amount of denialism from establishment conservative media, pundits, think tanks, bureaucrats and elected officials has in practice meant that America responded much more slowly and conservatively than it might have with a more unified America body politic.

At the beginning of spring 2020, the virus seemed poised to devastate the American South, which largely stuck with the early conservative media denialism, eschewing social distancing, shuttering of certain public places and mask wearing. Again, a more united body politic and the media and trust in the media that goes along with that might have prevented a lot of illness and death.

Imagine the impact of Walter Cronkite or Edward Murrow going on television and telling the American public to mask up and maintain distance versus the impact of Rachel Maddow and Tucker Carlson doing it.

What Is Vindictive Protectiveness?

“Vindictive protectiveness” was a term coined by Haidt and Lukianoff to describe the environment on America’s college campuses with regard to speech codes and similar. However, it can refer more broadly to the cultural atmosphere in the United States and the West today. From the college campus to the corporate boardroom to the office, Americans have to watch what they say and maybe even what they think lest they fall afoul of extra-legal speech and thought codes.

Perhaps worst of all, an entire generation is being raised to see this not only as normal, but as beneficial. This means that as this generation comes of age and grows into leadership positions, that there is a significant chance that these codes will be enforced more rigorously, not less. And while there may be ebbs and flows (political correctness went into hibernation for pretty much the entire administration of George W. Bush – though to be fair, there was an imperfect replacement in the form of post-9/11 jingoism), the current outrage factory is much more concerning than the one that sort of just hung around in the background in the 1990s.

Put plainly: the next wave will be worse. We may not have Maoist-style Red Guards in America quite yet, but we’re not far off and the emphasis should be on “yet.”



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18   DemoralizerOfPanicans   2024 Jan 13, 4:37pm  

Patrick says





My Grandfather lost an eye as a toddler, going into an alleyway where the older kids were using makeshift bows on a target. He still drove trucks for a living and then forklifts in a warehouse.
20   komputodo   2024 Dec 29, 6:55pm  

Patrick says





I remember a kid that went flying off one of those..
21   komputodo   2024 Dec 29, 7:15pm  

Microplastics, aluminum cookware, teflon, seed oils, faucet water. All are life threatening.
22   63323r6u3r111a   2024 Dec 30, 3:12pm  

The Eighties! Ha! 🤣
24   Misc   2025 Jan 19, 8:29pm  

The French also used the guillotine until 1977. - Boy did things go downhill.
27   FortWayneHatesRealtors   2025 May 16, 7:53pm  

because it became profitable to business to make americans that way
28   mell   2025 May 17, 8:54am  

Patrick says





Grew up drinking wine with water as early as 12 years with Italian relatives. By teenager years just one glass regular wine with lunch and/or dinner. It's insane to think people can't choose what to drink in the US until 25-30% of their life has already passed.
30   stereotomy   2025 May 19, 2:44pm  

Does anyone remember continual skinned knees and elbows. FAFO used to be a game everyone played, even if it took "double dog daring" them.

I will admit that putting kids in the old style fridges with physical latches was uncool. Ditto for a spin in the tumble dryer.

Ditto - and then there were the ditto machines . . . It was so refreshing to see black ink on white paper as opposed to smudgy purplish type.
31   HeadSet   2025 May 19, 6:13pm  

stereotomy says

It was so refreshing to see black ink on white paper as opposed to smudgy purplish type.

Yes, but the mimeograph had a cool smell.
32   komputodo   2025 May 19, 8:07pm  

stereotomy says

Does anyone remember continual skinned knees and elbows. FAFO used to be a game everyone played, even if it took "double dog daring" them.

I will admit that putting kids in the old style fridges with physical latches was uncool. Ditto for a spin in the tumble dryer.

Ditto - and then there were the ditto machines . . . It was so refreshing to see black ink on white paper as opposed to smudgy purplish type.

and getting hit on your funnybone which sent a shock thru your forearm. And getting the win knocked out of you. Also getting a finger jammed.
33   komputodo   2025 May 19, 8:09pm  

stereotomy says

and then there were the ditto machines . . . It was so refreshing to see black ink on white paper as opposed to smudgy purplish type.

Was a ditto machine capable of making a decent print if done with care?
34   Patrick   2025 Jun 9, 1:51pm  




Gonna use this as the image for the OP above.
36   Patrick   2025 Jun 10, 2:54pm  

https://www.palladiummag.com/2022/06/13/stanfords-war-on-social-life/


Stanford’s motto is Die Luft der Freiheit weht—“the winds of freedom blow.” But Stanford has become a case study of how overzealous bureaucrats can crush natural social expression, and how the urge to excise danger can quickly devolve into a campaign to whitewash away anything remotely interesting. In the aftermath, all that is left is the generic: empty walls, names scrubbed off buildings, and kids safely, or not so safely, alone in their rooms. ...

Lonely, frustrated students are less safe than happy ones. Within four weeks of school starting, ten students had to be taken off-campus to get their stomachs pumped, a Stanford record for alcohol-related “transports” in such a short period of time. Occasionally, my Row house is rented for parties which are always overrun with freshman and sophomores. They’re not particularly good ones; still, I see freshmen in the corner of the events, drinking until they pass out. Despite the safety rhetoric, the new atomized campus culture isn’t even safer. ...

An empty house is safe. A blank slate is fair. In the name of safety and fairness, Stanford destroyed everything that makes people enjoy college and life.
38   Glock-n-Load   2025 Jun 17, 11:26am  

Patrick says





Is freedom more important than $$$?
39   Maga_Chaos_Monkey   2025 Jun 18, 12:01am  

Patrick says






I had a place I could get about that much air easily. There was a ditch at the bottom of a hill so I'll build up speed, drop down the ditch and catch lots of air on the other side.

Then one day the bike got away from me and I landed right on my tailbone. Hurt like hell and I walked my bike home after that.

Most people break their tailbone before they are 3, learning how to walk. I'm pretty sure I broke it that day too. I don't remember any sort of long recovery though, I was probably mostly feeling fine the next day
42   HeadSet   2025 Jun 23, 2:49pm  

Patrick says





I have a home video of me doing that "high up in the sky" with my daughter.
43   MolotovCocktail   2025 Jul 12, 10:45pm  

Had a playground similar to this at my elementary school in the late 1970s.

Was only about 1/2 as high. But when you fell...you FELL.

Nobody broke their necks, tho.


44   RC2006   2025 Jul 13, 7:23am  

My elementary school had a 8-10' dome jungle gym and a Merry-Go-Round that could throw kids five feet, good times. Want to say during my whole time there i think one kid broke an arm on the jungle gym. Maybe 2 or 3 fat kids out of 400.
45   RC2006   2025 Jul 13, 7:33am  

MolotovCocktail says






This is 100% I remember coming home filthy after 10-12hrs of just roaming around exploring. My son's have no idea, we have fundamentally changed a generation for the worse, there is no way their brains are wired the same. They have basically removed the early laws of the jungle humans are supposed to learn as kids.
46   FuckTheMainstreamMedia   2025 Jul 13, 12:57pm  

Last summer we stayed in Kalispell Montana and the year before in Red Lodge Montana.

Red Lodge is surrounded by mountains. In Kalispell we were staying just a few blocks from the commercial district with a river running through the property, just 40 feet or so from the front door, and one night arrived back to 3 deer feasting on the lawn.

Childhood there has to be wonderous. While growing up in an education first household, my brother and I would most definitely be out hiking, fishing, maybe hunting with slingshots. I can’t even begin to imagine what growing up in a place like that involved. My mom was overprotective but in an environment like that, even she would cut the apron strings.

Back in the suburbs, she used to lock us out of the house in the summertime. Pee in the garden, drink from the hose. Come back at dinner and then out on the block again in the evening for tag and hide n go seek. It’s really sad what’s the status quo nowdays for city kids. Even the “safe” neighborhood I live in, there’s only kids from 3 houses in the area that play outside unsupervised
47   Maga_Chaos_Monkey   2025 Jul 13, 1:19pm  

I probably should have put this comment in this post instead: https://patrick.net/post/1385037/?start=3
49   MolotovCocktail   2025 Aug 12, 9:47pm  

Canadians are even worse now.
53   Patrick   2025 Dec 2, 9:12am  

Hysterical restrictions on freedom in the name of safety are the inevitable result of giving women political power. We now live in a world run by HR ladies.
54   SharkyP   2025 Dec 2, 9:52am  

Last summer we stayed in Kalispell Montana and the year before in Red Lodge Montana…

I spent the 4th of July in Red Lodge a few years ago. Wonderful place! Unfortunately, I went to Yellowstone that day and couldn’t get to see old faithful because Obama was there and they had the area blocked off!

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