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2006 Apr 18, 4:29am   19,340 views  329 comments

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We are all proud Californians. Let's talk about things that we ought to be very proud of.

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208   Peter P   2006 Apr 19, 9:12am  

I believe parents who strongly value education are the best thing for schools.

Very true. Good school districts have good schools mostly because the parents are willing (or able) to pay a premium.

Didn’t Bill Cosby receive a lot of grief for complaining about a culture where a woman would buy her kids $200 sneakers but wouldn’t spend the money on Hooked on Phonics?

The answer: school uniforms. Everyone will buy uniform from one single source, which allows no customization whatsoever.

209   Peter P   2006 Apr 19, 9:15am  

But whoever designed the human knee and lower back owes me an explanation.

Perhaps that part of the design was outsourced. Mine was hurting all day yesterday.

210   astrid   2006 Apr 19, 9:22am  

Peter P,

Kids will screw around regardless. We're talking about the same population whose parents play craps with their life's biggest purchase. Abstinance programs just don't work.

With condoms and birth control, there's at least the chance of delaying pregnancies until they know better.

211   requiem   2006 Apr 19, 9:29am  

But whoever designed the human knee and lower back owes me an explanation.

I believe the Gospel suggests this is because the Flying Spaghetti Monster was drunk at the time.

The answer: school uniforms. Everyone will buy uniform from one single source, which allows no customization whatsoever.

Is this enforced now? Seems like a recipe for monopoly. Back when I was in grade school we had uniforms, but it was not specified down to the manufacturer. Of course, this meant that status was based on who had the alligator on their shirt, or something similarly trivial.

212   Peter P   2006 Apr 19, 9:29am  

With condoms and birth control, there’s at least the chance of delaying pregnancies until they know better.

True. But these programs are also giving the impression that it is okay to do it. Besides, there needs to be punitive measures against those teens who do get pregnant.

I think religion can lend a hand.

213   Peter P   2006 Apr 19, 9:32am  

Of course, this meant that status was based on who had the alligator on their shirt, or something similarly trivial.

The school should sell standardized uniforms.

214   surfer-x   2006 Apr 19, 9:33am  

Besides, there needs to be punitive measures against those teens who do get pregnant.

I think religion can lend a hand.

Huh? I thought those pesky Catholics have been getting much bad press for lending hands, and other assorted body parts.

215   astrid   2006 Apr 19, 9:33am  

As for school uniforms. Absolutely agree. As far as I'm concerned, every kid should have 7 sets of uniform from age 7 to when they graduate college. At that time, they can transition into bland business/business casual wear.

At some point, the advertising companies have convinced billions of people that they are what they consume, and what is produced by the millions can make them unique and special (shudder).

216   Peter P   2006 Apr 19, 9:35am  

Huh? I thought those pesky Catholics have been getting much bad press for lending hands, and other assorted body parts.

LOL.

217   Peter P   2006 Apr 19, 9:36am  

and what is produced by the millions can make them unique and special

I think what you eat can make you unique and special.

218   astrid   2006 Apr 19, 9:39am  

Peter P,

First of all, I'm an atheist, so religion is not really an option. 2ndly, I think being stuck with a baby or two when you're 16 is punishment enough. The problem is that kids are impulsive and quick to come under to pressure by their peer group. As often as not, they're just not mature enough to think through the consequences and control themselves. It's better just to give them a chance to save them from themselves.

Punishing young people for having sex is awfully judgmental.

219   LILLL   2006 Apr 19, 9:42am  

Standardize the shoes too!

That'll never happen!!

220   astrid   2006 Apr 19, 9:43am  

"Don’t be silly. You are unique and special because you can afford to lease a new car every year, expensive tennis shoes and a fancy cell phone."

LOL! And I must have a 3 carat tiffany cut diamond ring! And a $200,000 wedding! And a 5,000 sq. ft. McMansion on the hill! And drapes!

221   Peter P   2006 Apr 19, 9:43am  

Punishing young people for having sex is awfully judgmental.

Perhaps. But they should at least have precautions.

222   astrid   2006 Apr 19, 9:44am  

Peter P,

But that's what Condom Thursday is all about!

223   astrid   2006 Apr 19, 9:46am  

Well, how bizarrely nerdy is it that my biggest discretionary expenditure this spring is on plants destined for other people's yard. Now that really sets me apart!

224   HARM   2006 Apr 19, 9:46am  

Punishing young people for having sex is awfully judgmental.

I blame the Creator (a.k.a., "Not So-Intelligent Designer").
If She/He/It/Whatever would simply delay puberty until people were older and more emotionally mature (25 maybe?) we would'nt have so many teen pregnancies. Cultural/religious values wouldn't even be a factor, biological imperative trumps all.

225   astrid   2006 Apr 19, 9:48am  

HARM,

I blame the Creator (a.k.a., “Not So-Intelligent Designer”).

LOL, I was gonna blame college. If people just got married out of middle school (puberty), then there would be no out of wedlock births.

226   HARM   2006 Apr 19, 10:00am  

@skibum,

That's a very good point. Late-onset puberty would have meant the end of the species in pre-modern times. Perhaps we can delay it today through drugs or genetic engineering. SFWoman -ideas?

227   Peter P   2006 Apr 19, 10:02am  

Perhaps we can delay it today through drugs or genetic engineering.

We don't have to. Mind over body.

228   requiem   2006 Apr 19, 10:03am  

A long time ago* people did get married that early. Of course, back then you were expect to perform a given function, and you didn't need to handle any complex thinking. I have relatives who have gotten married young, but they have also settled mostly into their careers.

I think people would mature far faster if there wasn't a feeling that kids need to be protected from harsh realities until far too late. Religion doesn't seem to help, mostly since people with strong faith grounded in poor logic seem most vulnerable to the law of unintended consequences. (That's not a knock against religion, since belief should be based on faith, and logical proofs are anathema to faith. It's a knock against people who attempt to justify faith through inevitably flawed logic.)

*I'm restricting this to post-fall-of-Rome times, since before then things were much more similar to modern times.

229   astrid   2006 Apr 19, 10:06am  

Maybe just send all kids to single sex boarding school. More gays (as FAB mentioned) and less babies.

230   astrid   2006 Apr 19, 10:08am  

All these problem would have all been avoided if the Creator made us into highly spiritual and intellectual energy beings...

231   LILLL   2006 Apr 19, 10:13am  

Instead we are hot-blooded flesh.

232   LILLL   2006 Apr 19, 10:15am  

Peter P Mind over body.

Have you forgotten the passions of youth? They think they are indestructable. Also, puberty begins much earlier now...often at 9 years old for girls. Yikes!

233   astrid   2006 Apr 19, 10:17am  

Linda,

Peter was driving below the speed limit when he was 16! He comes from us but he is not us. :P

234   astrid   2006 Apr 19, 10:17am  

Linda,

Yuck, those soy additives really mess with young kids.

235   Peter P   2006 Apr 19, 10:37am  

Excellent! Maybe a line for desperate specuvestors and realtors.

That would be: should I do 7 or 13?

236   Jimbo   2006 Apr 19, 10:47am  

nomatoon, I really don't know where you get your crazy ideas, but you seem to be filled with an irrational hatred and envy of California. Where do you live that you have grown to have such stange ideas about this state?

California has been growing in population, steadily for the last 50 years, at 4-5M a decade and shows no signs of slowing down.

UCLA does population projections every decade and they have been spot on since the 60s. They have California population continuing to grow until it hits 50M in 2030 and then perhaps levelling off.

No amount of media hype could possible make people want to live in North Dakota. I grew up in Wyoming and there is no reason to live there, outside of the hunting and fishing. Seven month long winters with blowing snow and below zero temperatures are just misable. North Dakota is even worse, since it has less natural beauty.

Someone was saying that Bay Area incomes were decreasing. Here are the family income stats for San Francisco County:http://patrick.net/wp/?p=208#comments

1970 - $10503
1980 - $20911
1990 - $40561
2000 - $63545
2004 - $68557

In 2004 dollars that would be:

1970 - $47958
1980 - $47961
1990 - $68515
2000 - $69676
2004 - $68557

Which does show that family incomes have been stagnant since 1990, a finding that surprised me. Per capita incomes show a similar trend.

237   Peter P   2006 Apr 19, 11:04am  

I thought it was the chicken — they feed estrogen to the chicken so they get larger breasts…

I do not eat chicken breasts. I prefer my grilled half-chicken to have two legs.

238   Jimbo   2006 Apr 19, 11:09am  

SFWoman San Francisco has the best urban public school system in the state. Perhaps that speaks more to the poor quality of education statewide than to the high quality of San Francisco schools, but there are many very good schools at every level in San Francisco.

For elementry schools, you rank 7 schools and there is about a 90% chance you get one of them. There are 7 10/10 rated public grade schools here, but almost all of them are on the West Side, which can be quite a trek if you live in Noe Valley.

There are two middle schools that get 10/10 rating and 3 that get 9/10. The perfect scoring schools are Presidio Middle School and Yu Elementry School. I don't know the exact way that get entry into middle schools, but it has to be similar to the grade and high school ranking methods.

I can certainly understand the "snob appeal" of sending you children to private school, but in fact there are many very good public schools in San Francisco and they are available to every San Francisco resident. Most of them are on the West side though, so it can be time consuming to do the commute. In some ways this is better than making them only available to the weathly though, since a motivated Mom from Bay View could still get her kid a good education, if she was willing to spend the time doing it.

239   LILLL   2006 Apr 19, 11:19am  

Jimbo
It's interesting but, the whole snob appeal thing just doesn't appeal to me at all. My son went to a public elementary school where there were more snooty people than at his private middle school. We were looking for a wholesome peer group and good values. Some private schools in LA are known for their snob appeal because of their celebrity clientelle and their superior attitudes. We intentionally chose not to apply there.

240   Randy H   2006 Apr 19, 11:57am  

Jimbo

Which does show that family incomes have been stagnant since 1990, a finding that surprised me. Per capita incomes show a similar trend.

The 1990 stagnation is a combination of inflation history, the onset of widespread outsourcing, and an acceleration of wealth concentration. It is during this period that the shape of the income distribution curve started shifting to a more bi-modal distribution, and it shifted more in the Coastal states, CA being probably the most extreme. Thus the roaring-90s, during which many people experienced dramatic wage increases and wealth increases, but the stagnant median family income stat.

241   Jimbo   2006 Apr 19, 12:03pm  

I am pretty sure all the High Schools in San Francisco offer AP classes, though the offering at Mission is reportedly very meagre.

The class sizes are small across the board, with the average class size being 20.

Can you tell I have been arguing with my wife about San Francisco schools?

She wants to move to the suburbs when our daughter is old enough to go and I want to stay here. Luckily that decision is still five years away.

242   surfer-x   2006 Apr 19, 12:12pm  

--insert sarcasm filter

I love California because real estate only goes up, everyone is rich and beautiful, and each and every day I ride a rainbow to work, where I fill chocolate bunnies with marshmellow dreams. Money is cheap, the economy is booming, what's not to like.

--remove sarcasm filter

243   Jimbo   2006 Apr 19, 12:13pm  

There is a very good reason that the schools in Bayview are not very good and there is nothing that the San Francsico school system can do about it.

No amount of resources can take a child from an acadmically impoverished environment and turn him into a scholar. Well maybe a few children, but not the bulk of them.

If people were allowed to send their kids to the neighborhood schools, you would just see everyone sort themselves out by income level, just like they did before the schools were integrated. This would be great of Pac Heights parents, but it would give the Bayview Mom no chance at all to send her kid to a good school.

Sure it is burdensome for her now, but at least she has that chance. Under your system, she would have none.

Unless you magically think of a way to make all the children above average and turn children from high risk households into super achievers, something no one anywhere has been able to do.

Having said that, if my daughter ends up entered into a bottom half public school, I would certainly make the same decision you would, and either send her to private school, or move to another school district.

I am curious, did you fill out the school pick form with all the choices when entered your daughter into grade school? Right now you have to list seven schools, but I know that number has changed.

244   LILLL   2006 Apr 19, 12:14pm  

Jimbo
I wish you and your wife much luck with that decision. I'm sure you two will make the right choices. I have found that school choice dictates much of your lifestyle thereafter. We moved into a school district when our son was 5 so that he could go to the same neighborhood public school until he graduated to middle school. He thrived and became president of that school in the 5th grade. It was a real good choice for us and our little family. :)

245   LILLL   2006 Apr 19, 12:14pm  

mmmm...marshmellow dreams.....

246   astrid   2006 Apr 19, 12:16pm  

Jimbo,

"I am pretty sure all the High Schools in San Francisco offer AP classes, though the offering at Mission is reportedly very meagre."

Thanks for confirming this. Any school district that does not offer AP classes is shooting itself in the foot.

I don't think snob appeal is driving parents to private schools, it's the stupid rules and bureaucracy associated with even the best public schools. Also, for the most part, they can't do much against bad seeds in a class. My excellent public school teachers often complained about the restrictions that the county placed on their curriculum and dealing with disruptive students in their non-magnet classes.

247   surfer-x   2006 Apr 19, 12:26pm  

I think schools in SF should offers courses that are applicable to the City's youth and their environs, for instance "budget wardrobes for the Metrosexual youth", "offered E at a Rave, what do to when your best friend is Rollin", "out of money, need to buy something, have you considered panhandling on Haight". Why not prepare our youth properly? AP? Why bother? The crown jewel of the educational system, The UC's, are being gutted or fees raised to the point where no one but the affulent can afford to go. The asspounding nature of california real estate coupled with the the following statement put on all faculty postings I've seen "women and minorities are especially encouraged to apply" have made filling University slots a crap-shoot. Why come here and do research at UCLA when Purdue offers you basically the same money and you can buy a house and have a family. After all, everyone in California is rich, everyone.

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