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RIP turtledove


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2016 Nov 15, 2:44pm   67,175 views  248 comments

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I just heard some extremely sad news that turtledove passed away recently, quite possibly over weekend. Had been in touch with her regarding a family issue and I got an email from her husband today indicating that she had passed away before I had a chance to reply . I am not privy to any other details.

Was very thoughtful of her husband to contact me, given his level of grief and work responsibilities in light of the bad news. She was a kind generous person who asked her husband to reach out to me on deathbed to meet up and discuss our case with us.

Personally, I'm in shock, as it seems to have happened this past Saturday or Sunday.

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29   freespeechforever   2016 Nov 15, 4:52pm  

She posted on Friday about the patnet meetup.

30   Strategist   2016 Nov 15, 4:53pm  

landtof says

She had mentioned being cyber stalked before, and being a trump supporter... maybe her online self has passed?

Orange County is largely Republican. She wasn't sick or anything. Oh Boy.

31   BayArea   2016 Nov 15, 4:57pm  

how old was she, she looked very young

32   Dan8267   2016 Nov 15, 4:58pm  

Too shocked to say anything...

33   MisdemeanorRebel   2016 Nov 15, 5:08pm  

Could it be one of these Facebook Algo things/Hacks where Facebook is sending out condolence style alerts or what not?

She seemed 110%, talking about meetups and such.

34   freespeechforever   2016 Nov 15, 5:13pm  

"Could it be one of these Facebook Algo things/Hacks where Facebook is sending out condolence style alerts or what not?
She seemed 110%, talking about meetups and such."

That's my hunch.

I hope so, at least.

I think facebook has been reporting falsely about deaths in major league numbers for a while now, and people have had to literally reach out to heir friends and family to let them know that they are fine.

35   justme   2016 Nov 15, 5:22pm  

I cannot believe this. I have her phone number but I dare not call. I hope this is not true. I'm just going to sit tight and hope for the best.

There is ONE visible message of regret posted on her FB page. We are not FB friends so I cannot see anything more.

36   Ironworker   2016 Nov 15, 5:23pm  

Sad news. She really was the true gentle woman of this site. I'll really miss her intelligent contribution. Too bad for her kids. It's sad!

37   Strategist   2016 Nov 15, 5:25pm  

justme says

I cannot believe this. I have her phone number but I dare not call.

Call the number.
I can call, or anyone else you want can call too.

38   HEY YOU   2016 Nov 15, 5:40pm  

If I suddenly passed, you assholes would throw a party
& troll a dead man.

turtledove would say: "He was OK."
turtledove has/had class!

39   Booger   2016 Nov 15, 5:42pm  

Strategist says

Call the number.

I can call, or anyone else you want can call too.

I also say call since even if they don't answer, there might be a mention of this on their VM.

40   marcus   2016 Nov 15, 5:42pm  

landtof says

maybe her online self has passed?

I was also hoping it was something like that.

41   justme   2016 Nov 15, 5:43pm  

I don't want to call. If this is all true it just makes it worse for the family to have her phone go off every few minutes, and they may not turn it off because it could be someone important. If Quigley and MMR say it is so, I tend to believe it, but I can wait.

42   HEY YOU   2016 Nov 15, 5:51pm  

Patrick,
Tell us something.

43   RC2006   2016 Nov 15, 6:03pm  

What the hell she looked young and healthy, I find this hard to believe.

44   anonymous   2016 Nov 15, 6:10pm  

Strategist says

Orange County is largely Republican.

well, san clemente is, and up the coastline. irvine has turned to the dark side - too many immigrants and university twats.

45   anonymous   2016 Nov 15, 6:12pm  

marcus says

I was also hoping it was something like that.

we'll never know, the cover would be blown. maybe look for a "Dennis Baughn" type user on the horizon?

i'm gonna go change my pic.... marcus check this out...

46   Strategist   2016 Nov 15, 6:14pm  

HEY YOU says

If I suddenly passed, you assholes would throw a party

& troll a dead man.

turtledove would say: "He was OK."

turtledove has/had class!

Relax Hey You, i think you are OK.

47   anonymous   2016 Nov 15, 6:20pm  

Strategist says

Relax Hey You, i think you are OK.

HEY YOU is light years ahead of jazz music.

48   Strategist   2016 Nov 15, 6:26pm  

landtof says

Strategist says

Relax Hey You, i think you are OK.

HEY YOU is light years ahead of jazz music.

I think everyone is OK. Even Gary and Jazz. We all get weird at times.

49   lostand confused   2016 Nov 15, 6:40pm  

Quigley is sad says

Sadly, I have to confirm MMR's news. Her FB account wasn't much used, but her friend has a huge post from yesterday with the news. She leaves behind two 12 year old girls, a husband, and a lot friends who will miss her dearly.

She will also be missed by many on Patnet.

I know I will miss her. 😥

That is very sad. prayers for the family-just very, very sad. Those poor kids-12 years old. The ways of the universe are a mystery to us.

50   anonymous   2016 Nov 15, 6:49pm  

Strategist says

landtof says

Strategist says

Relax Hey You, i think you are OK.

HEY YOU is light years ahead of jazz music.

I think everyone is OK. Even Gary and Jazz. We all get weird at times.

Make America Weird Again!

51   NDrLoR   2016 Nov 15, 6:55pm  

Bless her heart and all the best to her family! So sorry!

52   AllTruth   2016 Nov 15, 7:09pm  

Wouldn't there be more than one condolence on her Facebook page if this were really true?

53   MMR   2016 Nov 15, 8:07pm  

AllTruth says

Wouldn't there be more than one condolence on her Facebook page if this were really true?

The basis isn't the single post on her page but rather her husband emailing me about my personal family issue. He then mentioned that his wife passed away, before I got a chance to reply back to her email

54   HEY YOU   2016 Nov 15, 8:20pm  

Strategist says

I think everyone is OK. Even Gary and Jazz. We all get weird at times.

Alright weirdos, Group hug!

HEY! Watch where you put your hands!

55   Patrick   2016 Nov 15, 8:45pm  

HEY YOU says

Patrick,

Tell us something.

I just texted, waiting for a reply.

56   Patrick   2016 Nov 15, 9:01pm  

No answer. Not good.

Facebook does have a condolence at https://www.facebook.com/susann.sills

57   Peter P   2016 Nov 15, 9:09pm  

Shocking. I hope this is not true.

Normally, I am very detached, but even my wife noticed that I was visibly sad. :-(

58   mell   2016 Nov 15, 9:14pm  

Wish I hadn't missed the last meetup when she was in town. She will truly be missed.

59   HEY YOU   2016 Nov 15, 9:23pm  

Life happens!
Live it while you have it.

60   Shaman   2016 Nov 15, 9:32pm  

Patnet won't be the same without her.
Big loss to the community.
I didn't correspond with her privately that much, but we did share a few emails back and forth. She was a very genuine and generous person.

61   Ceffer   2016 Nov 15, 9:34pm  

I remember Turtledove talking about the pleasure she had with her children. Her joy sent a healing energy, even over the internet. I always thought of her as a healer after that, even with the jousting.

She loved and she was and is loved, which is more than can be said for a lot of people.

62   Tenpoundbass   2016 Nov 15, 10:05pm  

God Damn It!!!

63   anonymous   2016 Nov 15, 10:08pm  

OMG, this is unbelievable. I just came home from my father-in-law's funeral this last weekend, and then this. Now I'm curious to know what "accident" happened at home. We love you, Turtledove.

64   Tenpoundbass   2016 Nov 15, 10:11pm  

I didn't cry when my Father died, damn I just had a good cry.

65   Philistine   2016 Nov 15, 10:12pm  

What? . . . What? Is it weird I'm tearing up and I never met her? I can't process this right now.

66   Heraclitusstudent   2016 Nov 15, 10:55pm  

Very sad.
It goes to show we never know when our number will come up, folks.
Especially with Trump's fat little fingers near the red button.
Enjoy life today.
Personally I'm hoping to stroke out before getting too senile. But we don't get to choose.

67   anonymous   2016 Nov 15, 10:56pm  

Damn how tragic

Anyone have an idea of something we could all chip together to do for her?

68   Peter P   2016 Nov 15, 11:12pm  

errc says

Anyone have an idea of something we could all chip together to do for her?

I second that. Perhaps a cause she is passionate about?

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