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RIP turtledove


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2016 Nov 15, 2:44pm   67,263 views  248 comments

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I just heard some extremely sad news that turtledove passed away recently, quite possibly over weekend. Had been in touch with her regarding a family issue and I got an email from her husband today indicating that she had passed away before I had a chance to reply . I am not privy to any other details.

Was very thoughtful of her husband to contact me, given his level of grief and work responsibilities in light of the bad news. She was a kind generous person who asked her husband to reach out to me on deathbed to meet up and discuss our case with us.

Personally, I'm in shock, as it seems to have happened this past Saturday or Sunday.

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57   Peter P   2016 Nov 15, 9:09pm  

Shocking. I hope this is not true.

Normally, I am very detached, but even my wife noticed that I was visibly sad. :-(

58   mell   2016 Nov 15, 9:14pm  

Wish I hadn't missed the last meetup when she was in town. She will truly be missed.

59   HEY YOU   2016 Nov 15, 9:23pm  

Life happens!
Live it while you have it.

60   Shaman   2016 Nov 15, 9:32pm  

Patnet won't be the same without her.
Big loss to the community.
I didn't correspond with her privately that much, but we did share a few emails back and forth. She was a very genuine and generous person.

61   Ceffer   2016 Nov 15, 9:34pm  

I remember Turtledove talking about the pleasure she had with her children. Her joy sent a healing energy, even over the internet. I always thought of her as a healer after that, even with the jousting.

She loved and she was and is loved, which is more than can be said for a lot of people.

62   Tenpoundbass   2016 Nov 15, 10:05pm  

God Damn It!!!

63   anonymous   2016 Nov 15, 10:08pm  

OMG, this is unbelievable. I just came home from my father-in-law's funeral this last weekend, and then this. Now I'm curious to know what "accident" happened at home. We love you, Turtledove.

64   Tenpoundbass   2016 Nov 15, 10:11pm  

I didn't cry when my Father died, damn I just had a good cry.

65   Philistine   2016 Nov 15, 10:12pm  

What? . . . What? Is it weird I'm tearing up and I never met her? I can't process this right now.

66   Heraclitusstudent   2016 Nov 15, 10:55pm  

Very sad.
It goes to show we never know when our number will come up, folks.
Especially with Trump's fat little fingers near the red button.
Enjoy life today.
Personally I'm hoping to stroke out before getting too senile. But we don't get to choose.

67   anonymous   2016 Nov 15, 10:56pm  

Damn how tragic

Anyone have an idea of something we could all chip together to do for her?

68   Peter P   2016 Nov 15, 11:12pm  

errc says

Anyone have an idea of something we could all chip together to do for her?

I second that. Perhaps a cause she is passionate about?

69   Rew   2016 Nov 15, 11:30pm  

Was really hoping this thread was just a 'vast right wing conspiracy', a hoax, and not true. Traded a few emails with her. Very nice lady, as all have already said.
Wishing you well in the beyond TDove. Wishing the best for those close to you.

70   HEY YOU   2016 Nov 15, 11:56pm  

turtledove is watching & saying: "You didn't see my titties.You didn't see my titties."

71   HEY YOU   2016 Nov 15, 11:58pm  

turtledove,
Trump won just to get a peak.

72   missing   2016 Nov 16, 1:36am  

Wow! Shocking. And sad.

I will miss her.

73   joshuatrio   2016 Nov 16, 2:51am  

Very sad news indeed. She was such a great contributor to the site, and had a wonderful attitude/personality.

74   OneTwo   2016 Nov 16, 2:54am  

Sad news. My condolences to her family.

75   mmmarvel   2016 Nov 16, 4:05am  

So sad, all I can do is to pray, and I am. Rest In Peace little one, Rest In Peace.

76   FuckTheMainstreamMedia   2016 Nov 16, 4:46am  

:(

I'll post this song because from her postings here it seems how she would have lived her life...

www.youtube.com/embed/vKQXVGF2M2s

77   zzyzzx   2016 Nov 16, 5:36am  

just any guy says

Now I'm curious to know what "accident" happened at home.

http://livingwithmyhome.com/diy-do-it-yourself/preventing.aspx
The 5 leading causes of death from home accidents are:

Falls
Poisonings
Fires
Suffocation and choking
Drowning

I'm pretty sure she would not accidentally poison herself, and I'd rule out fire as well since I bet they would have mentioned that. If we know if she had a pool or not we could maybe rule out drowning.

78   AllTruth   2016 Nov 16, 6:50am  

Major downer.

It's bad enough she was only in her 40s, but just as bad that she has young children.

She struck me as beautiful, intelligent, strong-willed, fiercely independent, yet forgiving.

I'm bummed.

79   indigenous   2016 Nov 16, 7:29am  

Shocking,
She will be missed.

80   NDrLoR   2016 Nov 16, 7:56am  

AllTruth says

but just as bad that she has young children

I feel sorriest for them, especially since it was sudden and she hadn't been expected to die. I lost my father when I was only 14 and for several years I was terrified my mother was going to die of a brain tumor as she had headaches all the time--as it was she lived to be 94.

just any guy says

Now I'm curious to know what "accident" happened at home

I guess I watch too much Information Discovery, but I hope this doesn't turn out to be something only disguised as an "accident", as tragic as it is already.

81   Tenpoundbass   2016 Nov 16, 8:04am  

I hope She's really alive and well, She's just ditching us because her social experiment to bring us altogether as one big huge homogeneous family failed.

82   Dan8267   2016 Nov 16, 8:09am  

Like a typical man, I deal with grief by trying to be useful. So in that spirit, Facebook does allow family members to close or memorize accounts of deceased users. A user can also specify what should happen to his account after his death. Here are the links.

Facebook rolls out feature for users when they die
Special Request for Deceased Person's Account

83   dublin hillz   2016 Nov 16, 8:47am  

My sincere condolences to the family. I will take a shot of hennessy for memory. RIP.

84   zzyzzx   2016 Nov 16, 8:54am  

Ironman says

Interested what this "home accident" was that ended up being fatal.

P N Dr Lo R says

I guess I watch too much Information Discovery, but I hope this doesn't turn out to be something only disguised as an "accident", as tragic as it is already.

Did she piss off Hillary?

85   HEY YOU   2016 Nov 16, 9:03am  

Tenpoundbass says

I hope She's really alive and well, She's just ditching us because her social experiment to bring us altogether as one big huge homogeneous family failed.

That will teach her!
This is patnet,we'll be having none of that.

86   HEY YOU   2016 Nov 16, 9:07am  

P N Dr Lo R says

this doesn't turn out to be something only disguised as an "accident",

Who would bother with wasting time with patnetters?
PN's are a threat to themselves! lol

87   HEY YOU   2016 Nov 16, 9:22am  

P N Dr Lo R says

I lost my father when I was only 14 and for several years I was terrified my mother was going to die of a brain tumor as she had headaches all the time--as it was she lived to be 94.

My mother left my abusive,drunk, trash father when I was 12.He died when I was 14.
Mama lived to be 92.
If he was alive today I would slap the stupid out of him. I'll do it when I meet him in HELL.

Time to major troll.
Anyone that has used or uses alcohol is weak minded fool.
Alcohol should be classified as a Schedule +1 drug calling for immediate execution for
anyone that has anything to do with it. Pick up a wine bottle,YOU DIE,NOW!

Time to roll one!

88   Patrick   2016 Nov 16, 9:47am  

Her husband told that she had chronic migraines which kept her up, and fell down the stairs early Sunday morning.

89   Strategist   2016 Nov 16, 9:50am  

rando says

Her husband told that she had chronic migraines which kept her up, and fell down the stairs early Sunday morning.

:(

90   junkmail   2016 Nov 16, 9:59am  

Wow. Sad news.
She was ballzy.
I liked her.

91   Blurtman   2016 Nov 16, 10:11am  

errc says

I wonder if maybe they didn't

92   Tenpoundbass   2016 Nov 16, 10:20am  

She was a damned fine Patriot and a Classy Woman. My deepest heart felt condolences to her Family. If she profoundly touched me as much as she did, by making me sob and weep like a baby upon this terrible news. I can't imagine what they must be going through, after having the privlege to live with such a fine person day in an day out. For that person to now be gone from their life.

93   anonymous   2016 Nov 16, 10:23am  

rando says

Her husband told that she had chronic migraines which kept her up, and fell down the stairs early Sunday morning.

That's terrible. Such a trivial thing that could end someone's life in seconds.

94   Strategist   2016 Nov 16, 10:23am  

I miss Turtledove. :(

95   anonymous   2016 Nov 16, 10:25am  

Amazing that she had such an impact on so many of us who didn't even meet her in person. It goes to show what kind of a person she was, and I can't imagine the suffering of those who were very close to her.

96   justme   2016 Nov 16, 10:38am  

rando says

Her husband told that she had chronic migraines which kept her up, and fell down the stairs early Sunday morning.

This is so sad. I feel very sorry for her. She deserved living a long life. I only met her that one time but I believe she was a righteous and very thoughtful woman. She cared. We had some long conversations by email and by phone, about all kinds of things.

My thoughts are with her husband and children, a boy and girl aged twelve. I think the children are a credit to Turtledove and her husband. They are well-mannered and good kids, just as one would expect. I hope you all know that many people are thinking about you today. You do not have to do anything, just know that we are.

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