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mell saysI agree that the goal should be finding a traditional wife and have a life long union and kids. But since there are very few out there making good wives and mothers the players are just a symptom. Currently there is an big overhang of good guys vs good womyn so some will naturally resort to playing.
Yes, it's always the woman's fault. There's never any quality women out there! I'm a perfect guy, I'm a total catch, the ladies should be bending over backwards to be my slave.
Said every single loser on this site.
I find it hilarious when fundie Reps whinge about the deterioration of the 'traditional' nuclear family and then follow it up with this:
I've been happily married for 15 years, in one of those 'traditional' unions. You guys should be applauding me, I'm one of the guys propping up our collapsing society!
I'm 46 and still pull early 30s hotties. Much younger than that and I find them boring and annoying usually. Strike that. I find them boring and annoying immediately rather than after a while.
Yes, it's always the woman's fault. There's never any quality women out there! I'm a perfect guy, I'm a total catch, the ladies should be bending over backwards to be my slave.
Said every single loser on this site.
It's easy to cast people as losers but the statistics are backing my assertion. Men are dragging their feet while 3/4 of divorces are initiated by women. Plus I know many that claim to be happily married when in fact they are being cucked by a less than desirable woman.
I am suspicious of people who claim to have the perfect wives esp. here as the general hostility towards men rubs off even on the most traditional unicorn hottie.
I'm on 38 years....
It's easy to cast people as losers but the statistics are backing my assertion. Men are dragging their feet while 3/4 of divorces are initiated by women.
Evan F. saysIs this speaking from experience?
No
mell saysI am suspicious of people who claim to have the perfect wives esp. here as the general hostility towards men rubs off even on the most traditional unicorn hottie.
I'll never claim to have the perfect wife, but after 38 years, it's the best it's ever been. That's not to say it hasn't been extremely hard work, some big battles, and other crap. But the key is to work through all that stuff, and come out the other end, with the bandages. What I see in many cases are the couples not willing to work it out, and instead, take the easier route, and just bail through divorce. That's typical with how people handle every other issue in their lives, bail out instead of fix.
mell saysIt's easy to cast people as losers but the statistics are backing my assertion. Men are dragging their feet while 3/4 of divorces are initiated by women.
It's easy to cast people as losers, when, in fact, they are losers. Our man Trump does it all the time! And if 3/4 of divorces are initiated by women, what does that say about the men they're attached to?
Then why would you say something like 'I recommend having a kid out of wedlock'?
Because I do recommend it for those who want kids. No costs out weigh the benefits these days.
Evan F. saysYes, it's always the woman's fault. There's never any quality women out there! I'm a perfect guy, I'm a total catch, the ladies should be bending over backwards to be my slave.
Said every single loser on this site.
Ha.... that was a good one.
mell saysIt's easy to cast people as losers but the statistics are backing my assertion. Men are dragging their feet while 3/4 of divorces are initiated by women. Plus I know many that claim to be happily married when in fact they are being cucked by a less than desirable woman.
I'll tell you why that's happening. In EVERY instant that I've seen divorces, the guy went into the relationship thinking with the wrong head (the lower one). Getting married based on a PHYSICAL attraction very rarely works out. It's the COMPLETE package that makes...
MrMagic saysI'm on 38 years....
Congrats, man! That's awesome.
mell saysIt's easy to cast people as losers but the statistics are backing my assertion. Men are dragging their feet while 3/4 of divorces are initiated by women.
It's easy to cast people as losers, when, in fact, they are losers. Our man Trump does it all the time! And if 3/4 of divorces are initiated by women, what does that say about the men they're attached to?
just_dregalicious saysEvan F. saysIs this speaking from experience?
No
Then why would you say something like 'I recommend having a kid out of wedlock'?
The women make bad choices too, like in the case of picking the "bad boy" for the fun of it, only to find out he really was a loser, after all.
MrMagic saysThe women make bad choices too, like in the case of picking the "bad boy" for the fun of it, only to find out he really was a loser, after all.
Absolutely. But there's so much of the notion that 'women are all a bunch of useless bitches' going around here it's comical.
Two way street.
No it means that the majority of women initiating those divorces were unfit for marriage and got baited by the advantageous divorce laws.
Evan F. saysSo do you have kids?
No, I already answered that.
mell saysNo it means that the majority of women initiating those divorces were unfit for marriage and got baited by the advantageous divorce laws.
Says who. Says you? Can you say with certainty that that's what why majority of those women are initiating divorces?
Abuse by the husband is relatively rare. Give it 10% which is generous so yeah the rest are unfit. Why else would you break a sworn lifelong bond and potentially wreck kids.
Then why in the Christ would anyone take anything you say about child rearing and/or marriage seriously? Are you fucking kidding me?
Plus I know many that claim to be happily married when in fact they are being cucked by a less than desirable woman. Especially in the bay area where hotties are pretty rare. Some are being bossed around so.badly that I'd rather see them free as much as I root for the family.
I don't care what you think. No, I'm not kidding you.
I can't count how many times I've heard married guys I work with wish they were in my shoes. Complain about the slavery they're in.
Sounds like they have the pussy in the relationship. Why don't they take off their skirts, get their balls back, and take control of their situation. It's easy to blame the wife when they have no balls. Do they act that same way at work, let others boss them around and not take responsibility and step up?
You posted it on this site, so it's fair game for criticism. And news flash: it's retarded advice. You don't know what you're talking about, you've never had kids, you're apparently not married because you're still bedding '30's hotties', whatever that means.
I'm sorry I hurt your feewings! But yeah, keep dropping those pearls of wisdom about having kids out of wedlock, especially for the dudes.
Marriage is simply not the natural arrangement between males and females. The present legal arrangement violates mans nature.
As far as sexual relations go, I have younger ones for this activity. Everyone likes the arrangement as far as I can tell.
I'm on 38 years....
Critique all you like. You're delusional though if you think I give a shit about what you think.
And yet you keep responding to my posts. Clearly evidence that your don't care what I think!
You're so gay with your, "I know you are but what am I", type posts. That's what I think.
Marriage is simply not the natural arrangement between males and females. The present legal arrangement violates mans nature.I agree with much of what you're saying, but there is one thing that LTRs or marriage give you if done right...love. I don't mean to sound sappy, but superficial relationships with many women (albeit hella fun) wouldn't cut it for me especially as I grow old, which I'm not yet. There's something unique and special about being with someone for decades, sharing memories and a family together, making it through the ups and downs, etc. If you've never tasted that, I understand why you'd go the route you choose. But for me, it's priceless.
Today the male is severely punished for having a sexual partner in addition to the aging, enlarging, and controlling one he is married to.
Men who are older can still attract younger females, but the converse is not true; older females generally can not attract males of any age.
Having someone to have conversations with, spend time with, go out to eat with, etc. doesn't require marriage. I do these with my widow neighbor.
As far as sexual relations go, I have younger ones for this activity. Everyone likes the arrangement as far as I can tell.
wouldn't cut it for me especially as I grow old, which I'm not yet.
porkchopexpress saysI was young...23. I certainly understand the risks you'd be taking by getting married, which I wouldn't do if I waited later in life for the reasons you cite, unless I was 100% sure. The laws are far too discriminatory against men and breadwinners.wouldn't cut it for me especially as I grow old, which I'm not yet.
How old were you when you married?
just_dregalicious saysCritique all you like. You're delusional though if you think I give a shit about what you think.
And yet you keep responding to my posts. Clearly evidence that your don't care what I think!
really does take 2 parents to raise children.
Don' t get married too young. Party and get it out of your system in your 20s and early 30s.
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