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Tipping is out of control.


               
2024 Jun 19, 7:34pm   2,459 views  80 comments

by TheAntiPanicanLearingCenter   follow (9)  

Pretty obvious that corps, esp. service/hospitality business, are trying to throw costs back on the exhausted consumer.

This actually started years ago, when a few decades after breaking janitor unions, hotels began "Recommending" $5/night for room service instead of $5-10 for a week's stay. Back then the millie chicks hadn't fully taken over Media yet so there was pushback in the news.

Now, Restaurants are trying to normalize 20% tips, and tipping for takeou/counter staff at all. Nope!

They already hiked their prices big league before the 20% tip push, so wait staff are already getting proportionally more.

Remember: 15% meh, 18% Good, 20%+ excellent, amazing, beyond the call of duty

And this push started before the $15-18/hr minimum wage hikes in some states.

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22   Tenpoundbass   @   2024 Dec 24, 9:03am  

I don't tip indifferent, inattentive, aloof, entitled service.

I wish good eateries would go back to way they used to create institution.

Either paid them very well or gave them a small stake in the business.

I would rather go to a place that charges $20 to $25 for a Lunch sandwich and fries. Knowing the staff there take care over the fare, service and customer's take away of the operation. Places that even if the cook slipped up and sent out inferior fare, would reject at the window and tell them to make again. Each of them could manage the place alone. They have just enough staff to do the tasks at hand. Not too many and not short of help. Too much help in the back makes for a bad place. Because they end up assuming someone else is doing something, and it never gets done. Or they impede the flow of the speed to get food out cooked right and at optimal temps, by talking, flexing they Boss skills on the lowly help. Places that don't have a bunch of bosses, bossing around useless help that shouldn't be in food industry anyway. And those Boss' are the ones that trying to make a career in the food industry. Yet they refuse to roll up their sleeves and kneed the damn dough. But everyone wants to be a boss.

Nothing worse than paying premium price for crap service and mediocre food service grade food, that still fucked up by uncaring low wage tax refund recipients, and they still demand a tip.
23   Booger   @   2025 Jan 24, 3:10pm  



25   zzyzzx   @   2025 Jul 7, 11:53am  

https://www.reddit.com/r/tipping/comments/1lqyuzt/big_beautiful_bill_has_passed_im_going_to_tip_10/

Big Beautiful Bill has passed! I’m going to tip 10% now and only for good service.
26   Patrick   @   2025 Jul 7, 6:26pm  

10% used to be normal.
27   HeadSet   @   2025 Jul 7, 6:45pm  

Patrick says

10% used to be normal.

And even then, only for good service.
28   FortWayneHatesRealtors   @   2025 Jul 7, 6:47pm  

HeadSet says

Patrick says


10% used to be normal.

And even then, only for good service.


not for barista with 10 nose rings who handed you a cup of coffee, flipped ipad around and stares you down as you choose an option?
29   HeadSet   @   2025 Jul 7, 6:53pm  

Fortwaye says

not for barista with 10 nose rings who handed you a cup of coffee, flipped ipad around and stares you down as you choose an option?

She can stare all she wants. I will hit "no tip" unless it was delivered to my table.
30   FuckTheMainstreamMedia   @   2025 Jul 7, 6:58pm  

Same as Wookie,

I tip at restaurants, barber, taxi, luggage guy at hotels….rarely I’ll tip at a sandwich place if they go above and beyond or otherwise make a fantastic sandwich. Never tip at coffee places, ice cream, takeout, etc.
31   RWSGFY   @   2025 Jul 7, 7:28pm  

Fortwaye says

HeadSet says


Patrick says



10% used to be normal.

And even then, only for good service.



not for barista with 10 nose rings who handed you a cup of coffee, flipped ipad around and stares you down as you choose an option?


Does she have a chance to spit in your coffee then? If not - no tip.
32   zzyzzx   @   2025 Jul 31, 11:54am  

Pictures That Reveal Just How Out of Hand Tipping Culture Has Become
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vC9VutYt-6Y
33   WookieMan   @   2025 Jul 31, 2:00pm  

HeadSet says

Fortwaye says
not for barista with 10 nose rings who handed you a cup of coffee, flipped ipad around and stares you down as you choose an option?

She can stare all she wants. I will hit "no tip" unless it was delivered to my table.

Service matters. I take my son to pole vault every Sunday. Eat breakfast when he's doing boring drills not worth watching. I do watch at the end when he's jumping. Get the same waitress she's learned my name and mine hers and brings what I want before I ask.

I'm in an out in 30 min. Frees a table up for her for more customers and I get to watch the kid jump and then criticize him...lol. Pound 2 mimosas with an hour to chill out and be safe driving.

I'll never tip a coffee person, although I don't drink regular coffee. Been doing the mushroom coffee with minimal caffeine at home. I turn into a full Parkinson's patient if I go full caffeine. A coke is about the max I'll go and that's once a month best case.

Either way I'd never pay someone extra to pour something already made with no effort involved. You can give out 50 cups of coffee in 2-3 min. My god that challenge is so difficult. They'll get a dime if lucky.
34   Patrick   @   2025 Jul 31, 2:22pm  

Fortwaye says

not for barista with 10 nose rings who handed you a cup of coffee, flipped ipad around and stares you down as you choose an option?


Another good reason to pay cash.

Much easier to simply not tip. And no one should ever be tipping for anything ordered while standing at a cash register.
35   stereotomy   @   2025 Jul 31, 2:27pm  

Patrick says

Much easier to simply not tip. And no one should ever be tipping for anything ordered while standing at a cash register.

When I was in Italy back in the day (Europe - no tips), counter service was 1/2 to 1/3 the price of sit-down service. Every bar (liquor + coffee) I was about to enter had a waiter try to get me to sit down before I reached the bar counter.
36   Booger   @   2025 Aug 12, 2:55am  



38   zzyzzx   @   2025 Oct 3, 8:33am  



39   zzyzzx   @   2026 Jan 5, 11:43am  



40   Booger   @   2026 Jan 6, 3:18am  

Restaurant automatic tip at drive thru:

https://youtube.com/shorts/mPnbMSKOKxY?si=7JdRlsbi43b2ZCNH
41   Glock-n-Load   @   2026 Jan 6, 10:55am  

Holy shit. I just came out of the Computer Cave. Located in the Richmond Virginia area.

I bought a new charger and the credit card point of sale put 3 different tip amounts on the screen.

I will never go back.
42   HeadSet   @   2026 Jan 6, 12:29pm  

Glock-n-Load says

I bought a new charger and the credit card point of sale put 3 different tip amounts on the screen.

I see that everywhere from Subway sandwich shops to bowling alleys. I wonder if the POS software is somewhat generic and uses that tip display on all devices.
43   GNL   @   2026 Jan 6, 1:15pm  

HeadSet says

Glock-n-Load says


I bought a new charger and the credit card point of sale put 3 different tip amounts on the screen.

I see that everywhere from Subway sandwich shops to bowling alleys. I wonder if the POS software is somewhat generic and uses that tip display on all devices.

So tipping is now customary anywhere you swipe your card, it seems. Grocery store, gas station etc. I wonder when we'll start seeing it on Amazon.
44   HeadSet   @   2026 Jan 6, 1:28pm  

GNL says

So tipping is now customary anywhere you swipe your card, it seems. Grocery store, gas station etc. I wonder when we'll start seeing it on Amazon.

We even had it on Patnet once!
45   GNL   @   2026 Jan 6, 1:54pm  

HeadSet says

GNL says


So tipping is now customary anywhere you swipe your card, it seems. Grocery store, gas station etc. I wonder when we'll start seeing it on Amazon.

We even had it on Patnet once!

What?
46   Booger   @   2026 Jan 6, 4:23pm  

HeadSet says

Glock-n-Load says


I bought a new charger and the credit card point of sale put 3 different tip amounts on the screen.

I see that everywhere from Subway sandwich shops to bowling alleys. I wonder if the POS software is somewhat generic and uses that tip display on all devices.

It is, and there should be no doubt in your mind
47   FortWayneHatesRealtors   @   2026 Jan 6, 5:37pm  

Booger says


HeadSet says


Glock-n-Load says


I bought a new charger and the credit card point of sale put 3 different tip amounts on the screen.

I see that everywhere from Subway sandwich shops to bowling alleys. I wonder if the POS software is somewhat generic and uses that tip display on all devices.


It is, and there should be no doubt in your mind



Somewhere in the future everyone will walk around with barcode on their outer piece of closing for easy tipping.

I already saw this abomination on a car, had some kind of QR code for donations. Some people feel absolutely no shame begging.
48   HeadSet   @   2026 Jan 6, 6:04pm  

FortWayneHatesRealtors says


Some people feel absolutely no shame in begging.

I wonder if beggars will put a tip jar next to their begging cup.
49   zzyzzx   @   2026 Jan 20, 8:22am  




Note how they calculate the tip on the tax as well.
50   RWSGFY   @   2026 Jan 20, 8:45am  

GNL says


HeadSet says


GNL says


So tipping is now customary anywhere you swipe your card, it seems. Grocery store, gas station etc. I wonder when we'll start seeing it on Amazon.

We even had it on Patnet once!


What?



You must be new here.
51   FortWayneHatesRealtors   @   2026 Jan 20, 9:31am  

RWSGFY says

Fortwaye says


HeadSet says



Patrick says




10% used to be normal.

And even then, only for good service.




not for barista with 10 nose rings who handed you a cup of coffee, flipped ipad around and stares you down as you choose an option?



Does she have a chance to spit in your coffee then? If not - no tip.


This sounds like a hostage situation where you are trying to negotiate a release.
52   zzyzzx   @   2026 Jan 20, 10:38am  

Tip option at a used bookstore that is fully self check out:


55   zzyzzx   @   2026 Jan 20, 11:41am  

Automatic 30% tip added:


56   Patrick   @   2026 Jan 20, 1:21pm  

Glock-n-Load says

Holy shit. I just came out of the Computer Cave. Located in the Richmond Virginia area.

I bought a new charger and the credit card point of sale put 3 different tip amounts on the screen.

I will never go back.


Please also let them know why.
57   Patrick   @   2026 Jan 20, 1:22pm  

GNL says

So tipping is now customary anywhere you swipe your card


Another excellent reason to pay with cash!
58   GNL   @   2026 Jan 20, 2:52pm  

Patrick says


Glock-n-Load says


Holy shit. I just came out of the Computer Cave. Located in the Richmond Virginia area.

I bought a new charger and the credit card point of sale put 3 different tip amounts on the screen.

I will never go back.


Please also let them know why.


I did. They're a new company. I decided to contact them through their website. I was contacted within 30 minutes via email. I can't remember what they offered me and asked me for feedback.

I thanked them for their offer (I think some kind of discount on something) but told them they already lost me as a customer. The feedback I gave them was to get that tip suggestion off of their point of sale as fast as possible.
59   Patrick   @   2026 Jan 24, 10:23pm  

zzyzzx says

Automatic 30% tip added:





And then they want a tip on that new total! Holy shit.

NEVER go to Las Vegas.
60   TheAntiPanicanLearingCenter   @   2026 Jan 24, 11:12pm  

zzyzzx says






Tipping the doorman and maybe the porter is normal in NYC, has been for many decades, but the Resident Manager?

The Resident Manager/Supers "tip" comes from a bonus given by the Owners or Management, and those cheap fucks trying to slide it on the residents.

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